What are the consequences to sleeping around, in regards to self esteem, dignity and other consequences?
I like to think things through a lot. If a girl sleeps around with a lot of guys, could she be murdered by a jealous guy or be stalked or attacked? Does it have effects on your self esteem, dignity and confidence and does it give you a bad reputation? Do guys tell everyone they slept with you?
And do you have loss of dignity and self respect and when she wants to settle down with a nice guy, is it hard for her to find one and what would a nice guy think of a girl like this? Would he look twice at her?
If a girl sleeps with a group of guy friends, what would the consequences be.
Sorry for all the qs. There is a group of guy friends who I went out with, I was thinking it will be fun to sleep around with them, all 24 of them. What would the consequences of my actions be?
No Rockstar, my daddy never did show me any affection or even touch me or hug me.
24???
wow you’re a whore lol
You’d probably get a few STD’s and may get pregnant.
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July 25th, 2010 at 2:57 am
24???
wow you’re a whore lol
You’d probably get a few STD’s and may get pregnant.
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July 25th, 2010 at 3:26 am
The consequences would be (besides a complete loss of dignity, respect and all that comes with it) the probable and almost certain chance of catching an STD and/or getting yourself pregnant. Following that, there’s no question that your reputation would be tarnished; even if one guy doesn’t tell all of his friends what he got up to with you, there’s still 23 others who might. Not a smart move. :/
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July 25th, 2010 at 3:35 am
Make more money selling yourself . Same thing . everone will call you a whore . Reminds me of my female dog in heat and the 20 odd male dogs trying to get to her . Reason I call my dog a BIT_H. Maybe your mom would like to know about your ideal .
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July 25th, 2010 at 3:45 am
I’m hoping this is a joke but if it isnt….
Consequences:
STD’s
Risk of cervical cancer caused by STD’s
Lack of self respect
Lack of self esteem
Lack of respect by others
Not being taken seriously as a girlfriend, only as an object
the list goes on forever
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July 25th, 2010 at 4:19 am
please tell me you are kidding!!!! In addition to being known as a slut, you are putting yourself in a tremendous risk for STD’s, Pregnancy, and even rape..
what would be the benefit of sleeping with 24 different men, and all a group of friends at that?
please have more respect for your self than to settle for this..
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July 25th, 2010 at 4:58 am
For one, if you want to sleep with 24 guys, your an idiot. The consequences are getting AID, STD’s, and being a nasty slut. You’ll look back one day and regret doing it.
I’ve slept with like 10 guys but not 24. I regret the 10. You obviously need to think ALOT of things through if you want to do that. they can’t all be attractive you probly just want to do it because they’ll like you cuz you slept with them, but they won’t. they’ll just think it’s funny and your a slut since they will all be sleeping with you giving you a whole bunch of diseases. Have fun with that one.
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July 25th, 2010 at 5:41 am
Not good.You are very pretty and don’t need to go that route.Do not take yourself for granted.Your only going to look like a tramp if you do.Just chill and look for a guy that will treat you like you should be treated.With respect.
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July 25th, 2010 at 6:15 am
Cervical cancer.
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July 25th, 2010 at 6:28 am
Ok. Are you looking to get an STD? Seriously. That is digusting. First off.. nobody is going to want to ever sleep with you again. You ever think about getting married? Do you really think the man you love is going to want to marry you after hearing you have done that? Umm.. the answer is no. Unless you plan on being a prostitute, I wouldn’t recommend you making that decision. And yes, of course your dignity will go down!!! You will be know as a whore and it will be true!!! But.. if you do decide to fuck them all… good luck with having a itchy, smelly vagina for the rest of your life!!!
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July 25th, 2010 at 6:37 am
Well, I personally find that degrading to your spirit and body. To me, my body is connected to my feelings, and I tend to take sex personally and get attached. Secondly, it would be an awkward position to keep your ‘friends’ as friends after something like that happens. After crossing that line with someone, it’s just weird. And thirdly, there are many risks even when you use protection. My life is too important to me to have my soul and body ruined by having meaningless sex.
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July 25th, 2010 at 7:18 am
In this day if a person sleeps around it is too dangerous-and believe me guys love to brag. There are too many sexually transmitted diseases, you could get pregnant, and yes there are guys out there that would stalk you or even rape you. Girl wake up and watch tv and the news. I don’t know what state you live in but its is really bad in TN, girls are always being raped and killed. A guy will really respect you as a lady if you don’t have sex with him. If I were you I would have fun dating but you don’t need to have sex to enjoy a date. I’m 52 and when I was growing up I wasn’t allowed to date and now I’m thankful my parents were so strict; because alot of the girls I graduated with were already pregnant or some were married.
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July 25th, 2010 at 7:51 am
Everyone views things differently. Just the other day I answered a similar question about sex before marriage. I said if you want to be sure your mate loves you for you and you care about your virtue you should wait. Wouldn’t ya know I got several thumbs down. People will always talk no matter what you do, the question is what do you want for yourself, and what do you believe is right for you. Personally, I do think the way you conduct yourself influences your reputation, but I have discovered a LOT of people disrespect me for my old fashioned views. So whos to say.
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July 25th, 2010 at 8:32 am
Is that last part serious? I know some girls who have got around but least they don’t pre-plan it!
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July 25th, 2010 at 9:13 am
Either you really horny!! or your daddy didn’t hug you enough.
So you sleep with everyother guy you meet to meet those needs that you never got when you were a child
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My own exp
July 25th, 2010 at 9:34 am
I think it depends on the situation. Why do you want to sleep with multiple people? Especially a group of them who are all friends with each other? It doesn’t take a genius to see that it’s a bad idea. Yes, they will tell each other and you’ll have a reputation. I’m thinking that you are a teenager and you like the attention. Let me know if I’m wrong…..
I also want to clarify that I’m not one of those girls who thinks having multiple partners means that you deserve to be called certain names. I have very casual sexual relationships at time. It’s not because I have low self esteem, but for the same reason men have casual sexual partners. I’m focused on other things in my life, I don’t want to and I’m not ready to be in a relationship and I’m always honest with my partners and use protection. Is there consequences? Yes! Although most my girl friends think I’m the super hero of single women, at times I do wish I have someone who really mattered in my life and I can let myself be vulnerable for a few minutes and everything would be OK. Unfortunately, I haven’t met anyone who makes me want to let down my guard yet and I’m not willing to invest in a relationship unless it’s the right person. I’m in my late twenties with a couple of very long relationships under my belt, so I’m speaking from experience.
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July 25th, 2010 at 10:11 am
self esteem – degradation.
dignity – degradation.
consequences – STD.
tip. date them one by one, find out who’s got a love on you and scratch him on the list, then with the ones who merely like fun talk to them about getting together to have fun like drinking. when u finally get together, drink a little only and fake being drunk. this will naturally make the guy engage u into sexual activity.
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July 25th, 2010 at 10:33 am
The consequences are enumerable! Considering of course IF the person has even a miniscule amt of integrity & self-respect not to mention the risk of ANY/ALL of the STD’S going around these days. I’d not risk it unless of course you have a death wish & in that case plz seek immediate attention from a qualified licensed professional or someone.
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