How to get be MORE flirty around your boyfriend?!?

I’m 14, I have a boyfriend, We’ve been together a while about 4 months.
We spend every single minute together, But were not as like ‘touchy’ as we used to be, Like he used to put his arm round me when we were sat next to eachother, he doesn’t do that anymore? I don’t want to FORCE him to kiss me and that, Because that’s just awkward and wrong..
I feel like were not as close as we used to be? I don’t want to really talk to him about it, Because he’s very sensitive and will get a bit upset and think I want to dump him.
Is there anyway I can impress him more?

Extra question – Also, My bestfriend keeps saying to him, ‘Come over here jack, I need to talk to about something’ He’ll then follow, And she then snitches about me and that, And I KNOW for certain that they are talking about me. Should I have a chat with her something? Because its like she’s trying to take him away from me? Is she jealous? HELP! Thanks

Whats the best thing to do when your boyfriend comes over to your house for the first time?

OK so my boyfriend is coming over to my house for the first time and my house is pretty big so we going to have some alone time. I already have an idea of what we are going to do but here are some questions I was hoping you might have the answer too….
1. What is the best scary movie (like curl up in his arms and hide) that we should watch?
2. What are some fun flirty moves I can do… like flirty flirty?
3. What are some ideas of stuff that is good to do when your boyfriend is over?

Hopeful for helpful input on this. I’ll answer your questions too, just post link.?

Hopefully short and sweet..
- Boyfriend and I are 20 yrs old and have been going for for about a year and a half.
-However things have been sort of rocky lately, I cant tell how long I’m going to stay with him…
He’s gotten a DUI and has no car currently, his attitude has also changed a lot in the past year, he’s pretty negative and I feel like sometimes he’s not interested in what I say. I like him as a person, but I think I used to like the person he WAS….I’m not sure how to bring it up though and Im nervous because we share the same group of friends.

Now I am kind of interested in this other guy and we have mutual friends. weve been talking for a few days in a row now, only on facebook for now since im away but i know we will hang out when i get back and we dont too often.. and since im not positive that i really like him, I dont wanna lead him on or anything however sometimes i feel like our speaking manner is quite flirty, but since i dont know him well, i cant tell if it is. We have talked about his past and my current relationship…but im just really not sure about anything and im trying to avoid hurting people in the process..
they have noticed, and they all think that I should probably talk to him about it, but I feel like it will just up in our break up…right now I kind of feel like we have nothing left.

What do you think about my situation i don’t know what is going on. I will answer your questions!!! ?

There is this girl that i really like. I approached her and i sat beside her, she gave me the biggest smile ever, i stayed there introduced myself we talked for a while, we clicked really well she was really friendly and flirty too. I flirted with her she giggled. We said good bye properly and everything went well. I wouldn’t change anything from that moment.

However next day when i met her again, she was different. When she saw me she didn’t say hello or anything, as the matter of fact i think she was avoiding me at that moment. I said hello to her and right at that time she hid her face from me, she was talking quietly, she was acting shy and stuff like that, it was difficult to keep the conversation going. Then at one point she just stopped talking to me and then turned her back on me, so i stopped talking to her. I think she was waiting for some guy, because when he came, she hugged him tightly and then left with him. It wasn’t all bad though one of the few times that i talked to her, i told her i went to the gym and then she flirty smile at me and then turned back to ignore me.

Next time it was similar, but this time she was much more friendly, not as friendly as the first time i met her though. This time she kept the conversation going, even though she was acting very serious and kept looking behind me like waiting for somebody me, even though she would look at me sometimes. She would also flirty smile at me a few times though, but still like i said she was acting very serious. Then the same guy came again, he kind of hugged her around her waist and left with her. She didn’t smile at him or anything. She told me to wait after they stopped talking.

I noticed something interesting, I stopped talking to her (we don’t talk at anymore) and sitting beside her and she looks like she is mad at me. I have seen her giving me bitchy looks or look down to the floor and close her arms like she was mad when i look at her. The few times that i have tried to talk to her, she has talked to me like she is mad at me, sometimes she ignores me completely. I have also caught her looking at me and once she approached me out of nowhere even though she didn’t say anything to me and i have seen her a few times blushing or acting shy too when she has passed in front of me.

What i am wondering though is that, does she like me? Was she playing hard to get and making me jealous? Why does she act like this?. Or does she have a boyfriend and what does she want with me if she does.

Please answer!! Would you care if your boyfriend was texting other girls?

I have a bf who I love 100%. We have been together 9 months and have talked about the future and a life together. He is attenttive, funny, takes me on trips, engages with my friends and family and I think we are really happy. However, I found out he has been texting his ex girlfriend about once a month during our entire relationship. He has been trying to see her for sex and sends her flirty stuff. she never says yes and I dont think he has cheated on me with her.

My question is…is he just being a “guy” and looking for a little excitement via texts but not worth dumping over or is the intenet just as bad. I truly think he loves me. I know I need to talk to him about it but I am scared.

What would you guys think? can he love me and still do this?

My boyfriend doesn’t want me to go out with girlfriends to the bar?

I’ve gone out once without him with a few girlfriends and ever since then he doesn’t want me to. The thing is, I didn’t do anything! He said before hand that he wanted to pick me up, but I said no because we’re always together! I just wanted to hang out with my friends and get a ride home with another friend. It seemed fine to me…but no he surprised me and showed up waiting for me when the bar closed. I wasn’t happy. I just kinda wanted a night out with my friends which I never do, and second I told him no and he kinda surprised me. It started a huge fight, but it wasn’t even my fault.

Plus on my birthday, I wanted to chill have fun, it was my birthday! He stuck around me all night…and he still does whenever we go out! I love him, but it’s kinda annoying. So when my sister went up and tried to get him to dance with her, I went and was dancing with friends, and 30 seconds later…he’s back by my side. I just want a little bit of me time. Am I being unreasonable??

I’ve talked to him about it before and I really do think that he holds this grudge about going out on me from his past relationship…his ex used to always go out without him and she ended up cheating on him. He refuses that that’s why he does this and he doesn’t think that he’s in any way wrong. What should I do?

Pregnant and my boyfriend is always out with his friends..?

Im 10 weeks pregnant and this is my first and we are both 20. Since i found out i was pregnant, my boyfriend has been here for me and taken me to work everyday and stuff that showed he cares etc. We did have problems like this before i even fell pregnant, he would be out every day and night with friends coming home at 3am, he doesnt work, he’s ‘looking’ for a job but i see it as he’s looking for a job WHEN it suits HIM. And now I hardly see him, he’s phone is a bit dodgy and he always has a low battery so there are times where i cant even get hold of him, he comes home 3 – 4 in the morning and acts like its NOTHING!!!!!!
Ive told him so many times he just tells me to shut my mouth :S he dont even call me to see how im feeling or if i want or need anything and he said to me today that im not in the stage where i need him all the time and that i need to f off and not tell him what to do.
i cry all day every day, i work my ass off and suffering from really bad constant nausea and all he does is relaxes and does nothing. I cant go out with my friends because i feel sick and well who would want a pregnant friend around who complains of sickness all the time.
I dont know what to do i feel so helpless, he dont realise, his friends are more important to him than I am :’( He always says im dumb and ridiculous because i cry over nothing and complain about strecth marks on my thighs i dont know what to do help me somebody

Boyfriend always invites his friends with us. Help?

I just want to spend alone time with him, but every time I’m with him he invites his cousin with us because he doesn’t have a gf. I feel bad to say can we just hang out without your cousin because his cousin is always with him(they’re best friends) His cousin also is always telling me he misses me and wants to see me so that doesn’t help… I don’t want to hurt his cousin’s feelings or offend my boyfriend. Also he told me we’re going to go on a triple date when I go visit? I really don’t want to…how do I tell him?

Boyfriend Loves Female Friend More Than Me:(?

Me and my boyfriend are both 19 and been together for a year and known each other for 2. He’s a very sweet, genuine guy who’s almost the perfect boyfriend. BUT he has this one female friend who’s also his best friend whom he is VERY close too and I’m VERY jealous. She’s 27 and very pretty and he’s known her for 5 years. I’ve talked to him about her a long time ago and he was honest and said he had a huge crush on her for 3 years but she was married and he was under 18 so obviously he never told her. Fast forward to now, she’s divorced and has a year old daughter, says shes not looking for a man and they’re definitely BFF. They talk every day, hang out 2-3 times a week. He is very attached to her daughter, his Facebook pic is of him holding her and everyone is always asking if she’s his, and he babysits her whenever her mom goes out. He’s also really sensitive if I talk about her, when we first started dating I said something very rude about her divorce(my fault) and he flipped out and almost broke up with me, even though he’s usually calm and we don’t fight. I know he’s not cheating on me, he’s honest and never hides anything. But I don’t know what to do, although we spend more time together, he’s always happier when he’s with her. Don’t get me wrong he’s a great boyfriend but I feel like he’s an even better husband to her :’( What am I supposed to do!?

Boyfriend is always out with his friends!!!!!?

People I need help!!.. my Bf is 24 years old.. I have been with him for 2 yearss. those 2 years he hasn’t had a real job.. the only reason why I took him as a bf in the 1st place was because I thought that maybe once he was done with school he would get a real job as an Airplane technician.. well he works at clubs and partys playing.. he’s a musician.. but he’s always broke… anywayy.. the whole thing here is that almost every day he is out with his friends.. his friends are the same way as him a lil worse!!!!!… NO JOB, NO CAREER, NO SCHOOL no nothing.. there like a bunch of losers!!.. ugh.. that **** really annoyssssss meeeee.. cause all they do is go out, drink, do drugs im pretty sure , and probably just pick up bitches… and sometimes practice once in a whileee since there in a band.. well … I don’t know what to do anymoree.. should I try my best to understand him .. which I don’t this situation just upsets meeeeeee and alott!!.. or should I just dump him!!!!!!.. HELP.. !!!!

how can i make my girlfriend to stop caring about my stretch marks?

i lost a lot of weight because i was really big
and now i like to take my shirt of sometimes but my gf thinks its disgusting
and shes always comparing me with other boys stomachs
how do i get rid of them?

how can i stop caring what my ex-girlfriend thinks of me?

I broke up with her abit more than half a year ago now. We’re in the same sixth form meaning we spend alot of time in the common rom around each other. We haven’t spoken in so long and I sent her an e-mail just asking if I can speak to her. SHe didn’t reply so I’m leaving it.
I just want to get on with my life, but I can’t help thinking about what she thinks about me. Help?

How can I stop caring that my girlfriend isn’t a virgin?

This girl and I got together right before I was forced to move.
We didn’t break up, and we talk every day.
I care a lot about her, and she has really fallen for me (which I love).
I was going to go visit my old city soon, and see her. I’m a virgin, she isn’t. She had sex with 1 guy once. At first, this was bothering me for superficial reasons, but I’ve gotten over that. But, for some reason, I thought it’d help me to know what happened. It was driving me crazy imagining it, which I couldn’t help, so I thought I’d feel better knowing what happened, and she told me in detail. While it is driving me a lot less crazy, and it did help, it still pops into my head, except that now I know exactly what happened so I don’t go through a series of what could have happened. I don’t wanna think about it, it’s a destructive thought pattern that I can’t help. So, she told me.
She was going through a rough time, and was doing some stupid stuff. Anyway, it was with a guy that she didn’t really like, and she didn’t really want to do it. But he just went for it, and she didn’t stop him. She says that she is pissed at herself for doing it, and doesn’t like to think about it because then she just thinks about how much she hates herself for doing it.
Anyway, we have planned on havng sex the next time I visit. She says things like do whatever you want to me. And, while that is tantalizing, I can’t stop thinking about how she let him do what he wanted to her. And it’s just a turn off. I feel like if it was with a guy she liked or loved, even if she was a million miles from a virgin, I wouldn’t be dwelling on this. And for some reason I feel like that is holding me back from feeling a certain closeness to her. She has told me that she would do anything to take it back. I wish she had just lied to me honestly, and told me she was a virgin. Haha, I think I’d be a lot happier down that road.

The superficial side is that, in my mind, I want to be the first one to penetrate her. Like, to break that seal, to experience that virgin tightness, that can never be regained (right?). No one else, me. But I know that I can’t, so I’m kind of over that.

When she says things like I want you to do what you want to me (which isn’t that a dream?), I think like he did? And like I said, it is a turn off. But she is so loving and accepting of my flaws, well she thinks I’m perfect (which is also something I’d dream for), I feel like I have no room, no right to feel this way. To hold something against her, that she regrets, and that really doesn’t matter.

And I’m also pissed at myself for not getting to her first. If I hadn’t been fucking around, missing school and getting high, I would have met her sooner, before all this happened, and I would be able to feel so much closer to her.

And you see, I’ve already self-analyzed and realized that feeling this way is pointless, retroactive, and is anti-productive, but that doesn’t stop my mind from feeling this way. I’ve already opened up to her about how I feel, and it broke her heart. I am not going to ever bring it up with her again.

All I want is to not care about this. To love her for who she is and what she has done. We click so well, and we’re so much alike, I don’t want these feelings to poison our relationship.

I am not worried about how I’d compare to this other guy, or anything concerning me at all, so that isn’t the issue.
I would have no problem having sex with another girl who wasn’t a virgin, but with this girl I care.

Is there anything that anyone can tell me that would put my mind at ease, have me not care about this anymore, to not care about this when she so desprately wishes to forget it ever happened, and have me be able to feel that 100% closeness to her that I think I’d feel if it were not for this? (however misguided that may sound) And I’m also afraid that when we have sex for the first time, that it will be on my mind. I want to be as far away from her previous experience as possible, and do as much as I can to make everything different from what she told me. I’m afraid that it will be in the back of my head, and that it’d be like erection kryptonite because it is a turn off, and that I won’t be totally in the moment with her because it’d be in the back of my mind.
And I also realize that sex isn’t that important, and I’m not really stressing it as much as it may sound, but if there are any problems that I have with having sex with her, these are it, and I hope that someone can setlle them for me.

How can I stop caring about his ex girlfriend?

So my boyfriend had this girlfriend on and off for about five years. She was horrible to him throughout those five years but he was completely in love with her. They went out for the last time and broke up about a year ago, and then a couple months later he and I started dating. They stayed pretty good friends up until about November when their communication just started to slow down and then eventually they didn’t even talk anymore.

I know he doesn’t care about her I know, but I’ve seen him look at her Facebook sometimes and thru her pictures. I’m sure he’s curious but it’s just really hard for my mind not to wander to “He misses her I bet…” This girl gets around though and he knows that, but he told me last night that I don’t have to try and turn him against her. That was the first thing negatively I’d ever said about her to him because I really hate bringing her up at all.

This guy is my dream man. I would do absolutely anything for him and I’m completely in love with him. Maybe that contributes because my self-confidence is very low and I just feel like I don’t deserve somebody so amazing.

How can I get it thru my head that he is with me and for the time, this is what he wants? I just want to be comfortable…

We’re both 19 and have been together for about eight months.

How do I stop being such a controlling girlfriend?

I’m sooo controlling. My boyfriend’s controlling too, but I’m so needy. I need him to call me when I feel like talking, I need him to wake up early and text me while I’m at school even if he doesn’t go, I need him to constantly show me attention… It’s so pathetic and I have no idea how to stop.. Obviously I should just stop caring as much but how do I go about it? I’m scared I’m ruining our relationship :’(

boyfriend would rather hang out with friends?

does anyone else’s boyfriend do that?
and if so, does it bug you as much as it bugs me!?
i’m moving 40 miles away in two weeks and my boyfriend would rather help his friends mom move stuff around in her class room than help me move into my apartment for college!
im not a happy camper right now.
and boys, how do you handle your girlfriend vs your friends??

My boyfriend would rather hang out with his friends…??

I know this is rediculous and juvenile, but my boyfriend of four years and the father of my two children would lately rather hang out with his friends than with me and our kids. He is being less affectionate and somewhat withdrawing from me. I ask him to spend time with me, but he would rather go out drinking. Is he getting tired of me/our relationship? What do you think is going on? Help?

My boyfriend would rather hang out with his friends than me?

My boyfriend works 1 weekend night a week (usually Saturday nights). I work Sundays all day. We’re in high school so no weekdays. This makes it impossible for us to spend time together any other day except Friday nights. However, usually on Friday nights, my boyfriend would rather be with his friends. I’m not overly jealous- so I’m okay with that and I like when he gets to spend time with his friends. I like to see him happy. The only thing is- I love him a lot, and I feel that I never get to spend time with him. It’s hard because I’m very busy with school, sports, etc. And the occasional free time that I have- he is working or he is with friends. Suggestions?

Would you rather hang out with your friends or hangout with your boyfriend?

why? experiences?

Why would a guy rather hang out with his friends rather then his girl?

Please explain this to me! I asked my boyfriend to take me to the Nutcracker on Friday night and he said he can’t cause he has plans with his stupid friends that were on his football team but the only thing they are doing is playing cards and drinking beer at one of their houses. Which isn’t much and is also illegal since they are under age but i don’t get why he would rather do that then hang out with me? I told him that and he said I was just being whiny and we can hang out Saturday since it wasn’t a big deal but it is to me! I mean he is blowing me off for his friends! Why would any guy do that?!

Things that would sound cute over a text message?

Any romantic, cute, or flirty texts or questions to ask that are not sexual? (for a guy, from me a girl)

i know i have asked this question before, but am i wasting my time on him?

i know i have asked this question many times before. but i really like this guy, and i do not know how to get him to notice me more than a friend. so i am a senior in high school turning 17 at the end of this month. i like this guy who is a sophomore in college. he is turning 19 in march i believe. well we work together over the summer and the beginning of thanksgiving week. anyways over summer, i always felt that he was always sitting next to me, or asking my advice on how to teach a certain skill. oh by the way we are lifeguards/swim instructors. i also sometimes found him staring at me. during our breaks i would be playing with a ball and he would like tackle me trying to get the ball. he would want to race me in a stroke, he would always complement me on how good my lotion smelled when i was moisturizing. we could be waiting for a class to start and when the kids did not show up we could spend the entire time talking without any pauses or breaks. this other time we were in the small pool where we teach are lessons just screwing around. and we were trying to get this tennis ball into a small ring. and he got it through and i was like congrats you win nothing. and i went underwater and then he came up and he said that what he wins was that i was going to go to his apartment where i was going to be his slave…thats pretty flirty. right? so for halloween i invited him to this halloween party which was lame and we left for a little bit and went for a drive, there was other people in the car, and he invited us to his apartment whenever we wanted to hang out or get wasted. but then during turkey week i texted him and we talked and then i asked him if he wanted to hang out. and i never got a reply back. but i did not text him again, cause then i look desperate. so my question is am i wasting my time?

I like this guy, he’s a player and tells a lot of girls he likes them, and I’m one of them?

Please read I honestly need some help with this! I’ll answer your questions I PROMISE if you help me!

-I REALLY like this guy, and I have had a crush on him since last year and its gotten bigger and bigger
-He liked me for awhile over the summer, but since then he has told many other girls he likes them, but hasn’t had a serious gf.
-A couple times since then he has told me he likes me but it has only lasted like a week
-Last week he told me he still likes me… we’ve been good friends and I like him so we text a lot and he calls me his baby and I don’t know how he feels but when he hugs me and I look into his eyes I feel so comfortable with him and don’t want to be with anybody else.
-Sometimes when he texts me he sounds like he really likes me, calls me cute nicknames and tells me I’m cute, but then other times he will send one word answers like he doesnt want to talk to me…
-He’s really playful and fun and likes to give me random hugs and stuff when I see him in choir, but he does this with lots of girls.

-Valentines day is tuesday, I’m not going to do anything too special, but I want to say something to him cuter than simply “Happy valentines day”, what should I say?

-I want to ask him to go to turnabout with me, but idk if he will say yes… based on what I told you does it sounds like he likes me?

-What are some flirty things I can say to him? He loves cute stuff

Thanks so much if you help even just a little! If you post your question and you give me a helpful answer I will answer yours! Thanks so much it means a lot!

I want to text her but idk pleaseeeeeeee help me?

Well i’ve written endless amount of questions here and 99.9% of the people say she likes me alot ! And come to think of it i really think she likes me alot too but im just to scared to tell her i like her but we do all these boyfriend & girlfriend thinks that FRIENDS shouldn’t do.

So how do i text her ? and i don’t wanna say hey or something i want it to be something that she can interpret it as me being flirty

This is a question i posted ( this is just to help you guys help me a little more )

She put her two hands on my head ( over my ears & some of my cheeks ) she then made out with my cheek by ” Made out ” I mean she made that Mmmmmuaaaaah noise & was moving her head left to right and in a circle motion.. ( she did this twice )

I told her i was going to tell her a secret ( the secret was that i was gonna ask her out but i chickend out and said never mind by the way i was talking it was obvious what i was going to say ) she said if i didn’t tell her what it was she would bite my neck , she bit my neck once with some hesitation she did it slowly like not in slow mo but i hope you know what i mean , then she did it a second time and did it harder and longer and laughed while doing it

The age old question: Does he like me and should I tell him I like him?

I met this guy 2 months ago at a house party and I really like him but I’m not entirely sure if he likes me. He was the first to ask me out to coffee/drinks, and our first time out went really well considering we hung out for 8 hours. We hung out a few times after that, mostly just the two of us but a few times he would come out with me and my friends. The last two times we hung out we would be up the entire night watching stuff/talking.

So far he hasn’t really initiated any ‘moves’ like holding my hand when we walk or putting his arm around me when we watch movies. He does initiate hugs when we say bye and they usually last a while and aren’t “friend hugs”. He isn’t the shy type, but he does seem like someone who goes with the flow.

One night when we were hanging out, he was more flirty than usual, like he’d fix my hair if a strand was out of place, and poke my stomach when i’d stretch, and when we were both falling asleep he’d lay on top of me and would let me lean on him. I thought after that night things would pick up but when he came over to watch movies all night, there was no cuddling or touching. I let him sleep over and I asked him if it would be weird if we slept in the same bed but he was really tired and didn’t respond but just had a grin on his face. I was really nervous and tired so i just slept in another room but when we said goodnight he was holding me really tight and it was a really long hug.

Since then we’ve been texting a lot even though he is terrible with replying right away (sometimes he’d reply after a few hours or even the next day). However, recently after I texted him to hang out, I haven’t gotten a response in days. He’s only recently gotten a phone and I know he isn’t one to always check it but this is the longest he’s gone without replying so I’m figuring he’s either really busy or lost his phone. He’s a really nice guy so I don’t see why he’d just ignore me all of a sudden when all our texts have been positive and he’s shown no signs of being annoyed.

Also, he’s only been single since the end of August and he is living with his ex which he claims he doesn’t really have feelings for and will be moving out when the school year ends when I casually asked him. So given all this info does he like me and is just not the type to make the first move? Should I just tell him I like him next time I see him?

My boyfriend wants me to hang out with him and his friends and I don’t want ?

Well he’s annoyed with people asking why he never hangs out with me but we do all the time, just not too much in school because I don’t too much like his friends but I don’t want to tell him that. We have such a good time hanging out alone, he’s the best boyfriend I’ve ever had. I am kind of a loner sometimes, cause I keep to myself a lot but that is how I like it. What should I do about all of this? By the way, I have suggested we compromise and all, I hope it works but I doubt it will. Also in afraid of him using me as a trophy. We have been together for a long time now and people are starting to think its weird that we don’t chill in school, but I don’t care what they think, but he does.

How to get over being jealous when boyfriend hangs out with his friends?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years, and we both are insecure individuals.
One of my insecurities stems from the fact that I have very little, to no friends at all. I’m not anti-social, but I’m not the life of the party, either. I’m very self-conscious and always feel judged by other people.

As a result, I do virtually all my clothes shopping online to avoid going out and getting them, I don’t hang out with my boyfriend and his friends whenever I get invited because I know I’ll feel like a loser just sitting there while they drink and play pool…before my boyfriend met me he told me he was seeing his friends every weekend and even sometimes on weekdays. Now for the past year and a half, he’s essentially turned down all their invites because he knows I don’t feel comfortable going. He tells me that it’s not a problem— that his friends are still his friends and they’re not going anywhere, but I still feel terrible.

It’s only been recently that he’s started telling me and showing me all of the texts his friends send him asking him to come hang out; he says he never did before because he didn’t want me to get hurt. I’m glad that he’s showing me how his friends still care, but at the same time it hurts a lot.

We’ve been talking, and I’ve been telling him how I want him to start going out with his friends again. Though he understands where I’m coming from and recognizes the fact that it makes me uncomfortable to be around his friends, he tells me that he’s still hesitant to go because he doesn’t want me to become mad or upset. In the past I’ve been very jealous when he’s gone out without me, even though I know he can’t (and shouldn’t) spend every waking hour with me.

How can I start being more secure with myself and happy for my boyfriend when he goes out without me?

**As an aside, I’ve asked him how it makes him feel to picture me going out with girlfriends/friends without him and he told me he would feel “alright” about it depending on where we were and what we were doing. And when I asked him the same question pertaining to my family he said he’d be okay with it and wait for me to come home or going with me.

He’s very protective of me when I’m not with him.

if i break up with my boyfriend, can i still hang out with his friends?

before we started dating, i didn’t really have any friends, but when i started dating him he introduced me to all of his friends and they thought i was pretty cool. i think they’re pretty cool, too. however, i’ve lost feelings for my boyfriend and i don’t like him anymore. if i break up with him, i wouldn’t really have any friends anymore, and if i don’t, i’ll have friends but will be unhappy doing things i don’t want to do with someone i don’t like. i know this is a really stupid question, but any advice is appreciated. if i break up with my boyfriend, would i not be able to hang out with their social group anymore, at all?

Am I right to be angry with my boyfriend who still hangs out with his friend who hit on me?

A while ago, when my boyfriend, his friend and I were hanging out, his friend hit on me. It started out with compliments and winking at me when my boyfriend wasn’t looking and then he put his hand on my thigh and rubbed up against me. It made me really uncomfortable and at the end of the night I told my boyfriend and he said he hadn’t noticed. My boyfriend told me he asked his friend about it and his friend denied it and then after some time his friend finally said he was sorry about it. I think he is a creep and it makes me angry that he still hangs out with this guy who felt me up. I would think that a normal guy would want to tell a thing or two to someone who did that to their girlfriend. My boyfriend just says that it’s not a big deal. Any guys have any opinions about this? Should I be angry that my boyfriend still hangs out with his creep or should I let it go?

My boyfriend never invites me to hang out with his friends?

We’ve hung out with my friends many times, but now that’s its summer we are able to hang out by ourselves more often. However, we have hung out with ONE of his friends, once. He never invites me to hang out with his friends. it’s not that I don’t want to, because if he invited me I would in a heart beat. We have been going out for six months. Sometimes it makes me feel like he is embarrased of me even though he tells me all the time that I am beautiful. We don’t hang out with my friends as much as we did in the school year, but we still do sometimes. I’ve never asked him about this, though. Should I? How would I bring it up?

My boyfriend wants me t hang out with his friends sometimes do i have to?

I really don’t see the point even though there will be other people there as well. I am just so nervous. But still at the same time i do not want to hang out with his friends they never really met me. Because never tried to meet them in person.

Why is it so hard for me to let my boyfriend hang out with his friends ?

Ok, so I have this thing that every time my boyfriend goes to hangout with his friends, I get beyond pissed. Well now he just stopped hangout with him so he didn’t have to hear me yell. I hate being like this & in my heart I want him to be able to hangout with his friends, but I just can’t seem to let him. Help ?

My boyfriend’s birthday — he wants to hang out with his friends?

My boyfriend‘s birthday is tomorrow, and today at lunch, he was talking about having his (guy) friends over to his house for his birthday.
He never talked to me about us spending time together. I’m not mad that he wants to hang out with his friends, but shouldn’t his girlfriend get some time with him too? Am I just not important enough or what?

my boyfriend wants me to hang out with his friends but..?

my boyfriend wants me to hang out with his friends but i really don’t want to. in high school they were the popular kids and i used to get picked on for being overweight (not by my bf but some of his friends). well i went away to college for a year and lost 100 pounds. i ended up moving back home to go to college and started dating my boyfriend. well i live in a really small town and i literally had maybe 2 friends in high school and they both moved away for college. now i kind of just hang out by myself for the most part and my boyfriend sometimes. i don’t like hanging out with his friends. they’re nice to me now but still, they used to be jerks. they tell my bf that i’m hott now and all this stuff and one of them has hit on me. my boyfriend keeps trying to get me to hang out with them but i don’t like them and feel really uncomfortable. i don’t want to explain why to my boyfriend because i don’t want to sound petty. what should i do?

How am I supposed to act when we are with his friends?

I’ve been dating this guy a little over 4 months now and our relationship is great. He’s the sweetest guy I’ve ever met. He’s such a gentleman. However, this greatness comes with a But…He’s sweet and amazing BUT…when his friend(s) hang out with us, its like I’m not allowed to act normal with my boyfriend. When its just me and him, we goof around, kiss, hold each other, tickle each other, tackle each other with kisses and just are complete weirdos together. But when his friend hangs out with us, he doesn’t want to kiss me in front of him unless his friend is looking away, if i tickle him he gets annoyed or upset, its like i basically beg for attention when his friend is over. Then after the friend leaves, i get this whole lecture on how he doesn’t like to kiss me when his friend doesn’t have his girlfriend with him blah blah. So here’s another thing, I can’t act the way i normally act around my boyfriend when his friend is there, as in he won’t kiss me or goof around like usual and i beg for attention from him…BUT if I talk to the friend to much, it comes off as I’m ignoring my boyfriend the whole time and its like me and his friend are dating and my boyfriend is the “friend”. (those are his words). So i dont know if any of this makes sense but i don’t know what to do. Am i doing something wrong? What’s going on?

Is it normal to be jealous or dissapointed about your girlfriends past?

I was just wondering if it is ok? My girlfriend has told be everything and I cant help but being jealous or dissapointed about her past with other guys. I know its the past but is there anyway to get over this?

Why Are Guys So Concerned About Girlfriends Past?

But when it comes time to dish yourself you aren’t there or what to change the subject. When men are more whores then most women times 2 yet they get so jealous.

How do i get over my girlfriends past?

Me and my gf are happy together in almost every aspect. only, i cant get over her sexual past. shes had sex 3 times(2 times with one guy, 1 time with the other) before me all on hookups, and even though she regrets and has learned from it, it still drives me crazy. weve discussed it many times before but it seems nothing can help how i feel. shes only 15 and that makes it even worse, especially since i was a virgin before her. ive given it so much though, and i know i lvoe her and shouldnt be feeling this way, but i cant deny the way i feel, no matter how unjustified, i just wanna be able to A)not think bout it constantly, and B) not make me feel jealous, insecure, less attractive, less experienced, etc. Basically im at the point where i have a hard time even accepting it, i just want it out of my head and when it comes to my head on occasion, to not have it hurt me so much. the other two guys are “cool kids” i guess, not that i care about my rep or anything but it bothers me for some reason, she used to hang out with all the “cool kids” of our town, she hangs with me and all my friends now, but still, like since they got with her on a hook up and i actually had to go out with her just contributes to making me feel shitty-ishhh :/

I care my girlfriends past.?

My girlfriend is not a virgin,her first man is her previous boyfriend.She said she don’t want he unhappy so she agree with him.I care about that.I jealous,Anyone give me some advice.Thanks.

how to stop being jealous about my girlfriend’s past?

you know there past boyfriend’s its just getting me mad and i cant talk to her right