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Your Questions About I’m Jealous Of My Girlfriends Past
Maria asks…
i’m… jealous?… of my boyfriends sexual history?
well i’m a virgin
but my boyfriends not.
he’s had sex… alot, with past girlfriends/girls
& well… i’m not jealous but i can’t find the right word.
but like… i wish he didn’t have such a sexual history
cause i feel experienced & shit
what should i do?
Stop Being Jealous answers:
There may be nothing you can do about your feelings regarding his sexual history. You can talk about it and see if that helps with it. It might be a good idea to get it all out on the table so you know and you’re both open with each other about the past but then let it go. Don’t bring it up in fights and don’t use it against each other.
Just be you. Tell your boyfriend straight out your views. If you want to stay a virgin then let him know that. Don’t be intimidated by his past and don’t let that pressure you into doing anything. If you don’t care if you stay a virgin don’t let him rush you. Once again don’t be intimidated.
Sharon asks…
Do you think I’m in a love triangle?
My bf has a buddy (40 year old lady) whom he confides everything; whether a triumph, sadness or happiness. They are very inseparable. Whenever my Bf & I have a date, he also wants his buddy to go with us as he misses her so much. When he buys me things he also buys his buddy exact the same thing. He treats his buddy the same way as he treats me. One time I told him, I’m no different from his buddy, I don’t feel special. I have a hard time telling him I’m very jealous with his buddy because he defends his buddy too much. He told me before that he lost 2 girls (his past girlfriends) because they were jealous. Now I’m scared to tell him I’m jealous because he’ll surely save his buddy not me. Everytime I see his buddy, it pricks my heart because I know that there are 2 girls whom he gives his attention to. And, in that way. I don’t feel special. Sometimes they also act like lovers not just being close friends. How can I not get jealous if he shares his bed with her not only me (I don’t know if they’re doing something behind my back) when we watch movie, he wants to be in the middle so that both me & his buddy can hold him. He also allows his buddy sit on his lap, lets her rest her head on his chest. For me that’s too much of being a buddy. I feel so insulted when they do that infront of me & I also alwasy ending up pondering…(“if they can do this infront of me, what else can they do without me”?) I really am having a hardtime understanding this. Do you think I’m in a love triangle? Please help me.
Stop Being Jealous answers:
Sounds like your the buddy
Paul asks…
I’m a gold star lesbian, but I feel guilt about never having had sex with a man?
Guilt may not be the right word, but I’ve always been in lesbian relationships. It wasn’t because I refuse to date men, I just end liking the women more (despite having attempted dates with men).
I have some problems with this.
1) I get mildly upset at my girlfriends who’ve had sex with men. I’m not sure why, I just find it upsetting. I feel like their sullied or something. I’m thinking it has something to do with me never having had sex with men and might have some underlying mental thing. I have a feeling if I had sex with a man I wouldn’t care about my girlfriends pasts anymore.
2) I am curious and feel like I could be missing out on something. I love sex with women, it’s just that “ive never done it before” mentality.
3) I worry that if I never had sex with a man, I could be bi and just not know it. If I knew I could be satisfied sexually with a man, I might pursue men more. As it is I feel like I might pursue women more just because it’s what I’m accustomed too.
4) I’m in a long term committed relationship with a beautiful woman as well. I feel guilt about these feelings and knowing that if she is my life partner, I will never get these experiences. I don’t want to leave her, but at the same time I wonder if I’ll have problems later on with this curiosity. I would never cheat, but I might have a very wandering mind and possibly even be agitated by knowing I can never satisfy this curiosity.
I know some of this isn’t right. It’s not a moral or respectable feeling. It’s probably lowly, jealous, and a little crazy and I feel ashamed about it, so please don’t be nasty about the question. But I do want some advice on how to deal with these feelings and my situation.
Thanks!
Stop Being Jealous answers:
The whole “Gold star” gay/lesbian thing reeks of biphobia and heterophobia and is total BS.
Why does it seem as though some lesbians feel guilty about having sex or relationships with men in the past before they knew they were lesbian or when they were younger?
I know gay men who are clearly not sexually attracted to women at all yet they don’t have hang ups or guilt about their previous sexual experiences/relationships with women when they were younger before they knew they were gay or if they were gay and closeted and trying to be “straight”, or even if they were once married to a woman they don’t get mad or guilty about their past.
At least talk to your partner and see what she says.
Do you have any sort of sexual attraction/fantasies towards men at all? If you do then you’re bisexual and you should have sex with a man.
Nancy asks…
I’m intensely jealous of my x girlfriend because she has a new boyfriend. How do I get past this?
Stop Being Jealous answers:
It just takes time. It will pass. It will pass a lot faster if you start seeing someone.
Carol asks…
WHAT DOES THIS GIRL WANT? I’m really confused.?
This is kind of long….
So I’m a college senior, and last year, a friend and I had sex about five times at the end of the school year. I started having feelings for her, and this year, I started dropping hints that I wanted to be with her, but she never repsonded.
So we became roommates for this year and last night, we ended up having sex. Right afterward, she says she just wants to be friends and doesn’t want a sex anymore. I was hurt, but she said there’s nothing she can do about that. I’ll just have to accept it.
So later today, I start talking to my friends in the cafe, and she comes over and sits with us. I can’t explain it, but I get the feeling that now, a couple hours later, she wants me back. I was talking about a past girlfriend, and she seemed a little jealous. And then she hinted that I could watch a movie in her room with her tonight (which is how we ended up having sex last night!)
She’s confusing me and I don’t know what she wants….
Stop Being Jealous answers:
Look girls are like diz she want you, she have you, she doenst want you anymore, but she doesn they dont want to see you with somebody else, in reolution we want to know that that we have control over you and can do everyting we want at any moment .thats what she is doing so if you dont want to have that feeling stop saing yes to sex if not she is going to own you until you say no
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How To Control Sexual Jealousy
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With a little self-awareness, you can learn to tame your green-eyed monster.
To complete this How-To you will need:
An honest assessment of your relationship
The courage to change things
Visualization
Step 1: Realize jealousy is normal
Realize that some jealousy in a relationship is perfectly normal. It only becomes destructive when it is an ongoing point of contention.
Step 2: Assess your relationship
Figure out the driving force behind your jealousy. Are you afraid you might lose your partner to someone else? Or are you angry at being disrespected when they flirt with others?
Step 3: Figure out the real problem
If fear of losing your partner is the problem, ask yourself if you’re insecure because you have low self-esteem, or because you feel your partner is not as committed to the relationship as you are.
Tip: If your partner is a flirt, consider that this simply may be their nature. The tipoff? They flirt with everyone — young, old, skinny, fat, attractive, and homely.
Step 4: Work on yourself
If low self-esteem is the problem, work on building yours by using self-help books or working with a therapist.
Tip: Try this visualization technique: The next time you’re feeling jealous, therapists recommend conjuring up a pleasant scene in your mind or recall a happy memory.
Step 5: Reevaluate your relationship
If you come to the conclusion that your anger and jealousy are well founded and rooted in your partner’s disrespect and possible philandering, consider ending your relationship. You deserve a partner that makes you feel loved and treasured, not angry and mistrustful.
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Duration : 0:1:46
Tags: boyfriend, controling, dating, emotional, flirting, girlfriend, HotHowTos, jealousy, relationships, SEX, Sexual
The Truth About Relationships part 4
Father Peter teaching on what happens during the exchange of sexual energy,what to do and how to know if you are ready for a committed relationship.
Duration : 0:9:45
Tags: boyfriend, dating, depression, esteem, girlfriend, hook, jealousy, love, orgasm, self, SEX, STD, teenage, up
How do I not get jealous?
It’s a question I get asked all the time, being a swinger people find it hard to get their head around so here I share my thoughts on it 
Duration : 0:5:30
Tags: exploration, jealous, jealousy, love, marriage, relationship, relationships, SEX, sexuality, swinging
Maury: Stop My 47 y/o Dad From Marrying A Teen!
http://www.tonawanda-news.com/thetonawandas/local_story_028233421.html
CITY OF TONAWANDA: Locals appear on Maury Povich show
Published: January 28, 2009 11:33 pm
Staff Reports
The Tonawanda News
A City of Tonawanda teen, his sister, his 48-year-old father and his father’s 19-year-old girlfriend appeared on an episode of the Maury Povich show Wednesday entitled, “Stop my 47-year-old dad from marrying a teenager”.
“I’m embarrassed to admit I even fooled around with her,” Joseph E. Aleksandrowicz said of his dads girlfriend, Heather. “We would fool around and she would always stalk me and stuff.”
The series of interview clips began an hour of Maury involving several other groups of people in a similar situation: A parent was romantically involved with somebody a fraction of their age.
“If you loved us you wouldn’t pick her,” said a woman identified as Aleksandrowiczs sister.
Their father, Joe, seemed surprised it was suddenly an issue. He said his kids should stop lying to people, and that since he doesn’t tell them how to live their lives, they shouldn’t tell him.
Povich, in a relaxed tone, asked Joe why he couldn’t simply see someone his own age.
“We can never do father and son stuff,” his son interjected.
Aleksandrowicz, 17, 67 Elm St., was unable to watch the prerecorded show himself Wednesday after he was arrested on two outstanding warrants in the City of Tonawanda late Tuesday.
He is currently at the Erie County Holding Center awaiting court for a stolen vehicle charge from September, and a separate warrant alleging menacing, harassment and acting in a manner to injure a child less than 17.
The warrants were called in after Aleksandrowicz was picked up by police in the Town of Niagara.
Duration : 0:1:57
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The Truth About Relationships, part 3
Father Peter on the attraction between the sexes, the roles we take on and the work to do to come into balance.
Duration : 0:7:40
Tags: betrayal, boyfriend, dating, esteem, girlfriend, hook, jealousy, love, self, SEX, STD, up
The Truth about Relationships, part 1
Father Peter talking to the teen group about the attraction between the sexes and what is really happening in the search for realtionship.
Duration : 0:10:3
Tags: betrayal, body, boyfriend, depression, esteem, girlfriends, hook, jealousy, love, Pain, player, self, SEX, STD, teenage, up
What Sri Sri Said Jan 4th 2001- Canada Q and A Sessions
Sri Sri Ravi Shankar in a Satsang in Canada on Jan 4th, 2001. Answers questions on various topics and ends up speaking on a variety of topics such as Same Sex Marriages, Marriage and Divorces, Separations, Relationships, Soul, Secrets of Birth, Death, Devotion, Single Women in Art of Living, Match Making, Match Fixing Between, Present Moment, Destiny, Expectations, Visualization Techniques, Pain during Meditations, Wealth, Abundance, Yoga Asana, Golden Age, Satyuga, Kalyuga, Self Knowledge, Silence, Meditation, Weight Reduction, Self Esteem Issues, Emotional Blocks, Dealing With Negative Emotions such as greed, jealousy, anger.
Duration : 0:44:34
Tags: Abundance, Answer, Canada, Destiny, Devotion, Divorces, Emotional Blocks, Expectations, Golden Age, Homosexuality, Kalyuga, marriage, Match Making, Maya, Meditations, Pain, Present Moment, Q&A, Question, real, Satsang, Satyuga, Self Esteem Issues, Separation, SEX, Silence, Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, Unreal, Visualization Techniques, Weath, Weight Reduction, Yoga
210. How To Screw Up A Relationship — Stop Playing Bad Memories
Avoid jealousy in relationships. Stop tormenting yourself by playing imagined bad memories. Forgive the past and live in the present moment.
Duration : 0:7:12
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What BLACK Man: A Response to “BLACK WOMAN’S ATTITUDE Stems from Jealousy of WHITE WOMEN”???
This is only a response to the ignorant video posted entitled “A black woman’s attitude stems from the jealousy of the white woman”
I DO NOT feel that all black men are this way!
I DO NOT feel that all white women are out to “get” black men.
This merely represents some of my opinions.
Duration : 0:9:31
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