Why is my boyfriend jealous when i hang with friends?

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years and he is great in every way except one. I‘ve lost all my friends since we’ve been together and it makes me sad. When I used to hang out with them he would get jealous and mad that I‘m not with him instead. Right now there is only one other person that I really talk to and my boyfriend gets frustrated and mad when I talk to that person. It just really bothers me to not have any friends to go out and do things with. What should I do? I‘ve already told him how hes being but all he says is “I‘m sorry im so horrible” Sarcastically…
We are both 20 years old, and No i never cheated on him before or gave him any reason to not trust me.

Yepp he has friends that he hangs out with and its ok for him he thinks
my friends are girls and a few guys that all have girlfriends and i‘d never do anything with

Why does my boyfriend seem jealous over this?

We’ve been going out for over a year and i have a really close gay friend(I‘m a girl so its not like I‘d go for him anyways) but anyways, my boyfriend seems to get really jealous when me and the other guy text or hang out. My boyfriend hangs out with us too so he knows everything that’s going on. I know he’s not like anti-gay for a fact so why does he not seem to like this one particular guy?
No, I don’t text him on dates or when we’re talking about things but i suppose I do talk to him about some things more. Since he’s “like a girl” it’s just easer to talk to him about some things other than a guy or my boyfriend. I don’t spend too much time with him so I still don’t quite get when he gets jealous.

When it comes to my boyfriend I’m so jealous why?!?!?

With everyone apart from my boyfriend i am thee most laid back person in the world. I do get grumpy, but that is rare and my bark is usually worse than my bite.

But when it comes to my boyfriend i can’t help but be insanely on edge and jealous. We used to live together but due to financial difficulties we had to move back in with our parents. now he has been chucked out and is living in a homeless unit and when i phoned him today he was in a room with a girl alone. my heart tells me nothing happened but my head is going mad and i got really angry at him…totally off the head.

the thing is he has done everything to make me trust him. more than he’s needed to but i can’t! i am truly in love with him and yet i still can’t think he won’t cheat on me. My self confidence is NEVER this low, so why is it with him? anyone help me!!! please!!!!!
i feel this way because of things his ex said. however she was a nasty piece of work and he denied it, but that seed of doubt has just grew.

she said he cheated on all of his girlfriends and was a compulsive liar

Why do I get so jealous when I see a picture of my boyfriend with his female friends?

My boyfriend sometimes goes out with his group of friends and they all take pictures together. He sometimes takes some with his female friends and I get extremely jealous when I see the pictures. Why do I feel this way? How could I stop feeling jealous about this?

Why do I get so jealous when my friends and boyfriend hang out with other people?

I have a best friend who I have known for more than 10 years. I am 18 and she is 16, but people always think we are the same age or she is older than me, so the age difference isn’t a big deal with us at all. She is a little more ‘popular’ then me. she is more sociable and I am more of an introvert and awkward in big social settings. I don’t like partying and drinking but she does party sometimes so she tends to have more friends too. Even when pictures are posted on fb of her and other people having a good time, I get a little bit jealous. Im not obsessed with her anything, but for some reason I feel like those people are more fun to hang out with or something.

My boyfriend also has a lot more friends than I do. He is 19 and I am 18. He went out to a pub with two of his best female friends who are a few years older than him. I got a little jealous about that with the same reason..that he may have more fun with them than he ever does with me. He gets stoned sometimes with his buddies and even that makes me feel that he would rather get high instead of seeing me.

ahhh it bothers me so much that I feel like this. I don’t nag them to always hang out with me or anything annoying like that.

I’m starting to get jealous when my boyfriend hangs out with other girls?

Well me and my boyfriend have been going out 9 months last week, and Ive never been the jealous type. But lately I‘m starting to get jealous when I see him hangin out with other girls. Me and my boyfriend have two different lunches at school and he has a lot of friends that are girls so I know there’s about to be a girl hanging out with him. I really have no reason to feel jealous. He’s loyal and he’s just been the best these last 9 months. We’ve never had a serious argument and I know he wouldn’t cheat on me. So why am I so jealous. Sometimes when were together and one of his friends come up to us and they say something that’s an insider between them I get kind of jealous on how they laugh so hard and I‘m kinda left standing there waiting for her to leave.
I get jealous when I‘m walking to my class and I see him talking to a girl. When I see them I always decide to just turn around and find a different way to my class. Usually I get over it by the next 5 mins. Because I know he won’t do anything to me. So why am I so jealous? Does anyone have anything so I can calm down a little and won’t be as jealous?
When I‘m with him and his friends I always feel like I‘m an outsider even though he’s including me into there conversions. I don’t want to say alot because I feel like I‘m just in the way. And at other times I‘ll be secretly looking around so I can go talk to someone else while he talks to his friends. Why have I started getting jealous just now? Me and my boyfriend are really close and we talk about a future together after graduating. And I know I have nothing to worry about but berly a month or two ago I can’t help but get really jealous

Why does my boyfriend get jealous when I hang out?

Trust me, i don’t hang out often. i don’t have much friends so on our free days when we’re not working we usually hang together. But when I choose to hang out with a close friend of mine for a change he get jealous. He hangs out with his friends every once in a while also and i don’t complain, so why is it a problem when I hang out with anyone else but him?? HELP!

What should I do in this situation between my best friends and boyfriend?

I have two best friends and a boyfriend. My best friends also have boyfriends, but they don’t get to see their boyfriends as much as I get to see my boyfriend because my boyfriend is normally always at my house because he has a bad home life. Normally when he is over sometimes we won’t even be hanging out. I go do my own thing and he does his own thing.
Recently one of my best friends whom I have had since pre-school has been acting funny towards me. We use to text and have sleep overs all the time. We would even go over each others houses spur of the moment at like 11 p.m. I have been asking her to hang out a lot and she seems to always have an excuse. Her excuses are normally something like she is too tired, it’s too late, or she is with her boyfriend. Me and best friend since pre school have had a new best friend since we were in 7th grade (we are now in 10th). My first best friend and I have always been better friends. Now since she has started to act funny she started to do stuff with my other friend a lot more than usual. Normally we would be the two inviting her to come sleep over one of our houses. Now the two of them are the one’s asking me.
I confronted my first best friend about it one time when I finally got her to come to my house. She said that she feels as if I‘m with my boyfriend too much and that I have been neglecting her and my other best friend. I have never once not gone and hung out with them just because I wanted to stay with my boyfriend. I have left my boyfriend about 5 times just to go hang out with them and he completely understands so he will just chill out at my house. She said that since he is always here she feels like she can’t ask me to do stuff because she doesn’t want to feel like I am just itching to get home when we are hanging out just to go be with him. Which i am not. I explained how my boyfriend has a bad home life and that is why he is always at my house, which both of my friends already knew. While my first best friend and I were talking she said that she wanted to call my other best friend just so she can come to my house too to talk and get her point across too. Now she said basically the same stuff that my first best friend said. I found it kind of odd that my first best friend wanted to call my other best friend because this talk was basically between my first best friend and I. I think she just wanted her there to have two people against one. My first best friend also said that she doesn’t think that she will be able to get use to my boyfriend always being at my house. Now who the hell is she to say who can be at my house and not? I have never invited my best friends over and had my boyfriend there as well. The only time they hung out with my boyfriend was when all of us and our boyfriends all got together. When asked my first best friend why she always had an excuse as to why we couldn’t hang out she said that I would always leave hanging out with her to go be with boyfriend. The example she gave me was because I had left two sleepovers early at like 10 in the morning. One reason was because it was my boyfriends and mine anniversary so we were going out for sushi. ( I even explained that I would have to leave early for this reason). The second was for a family party which I explained.
Recently I have gone to a basketball game with my two best friends. We were sitting in the section and both of their boyfriends play basketball so we were watching them. They were talking about them non stop. So naturally I said “Wow, i wish that my boyfriend could be here too.” Later that night I had my best friends come over to sleepover. They had said that it made them feel bad when i said that because it made them feel like they weren’t good enough for the time being. I explained to them that I just missed him.
To me it just sounds like they are jealous because everyone knows that my boyfriend and I have a better relationship than them and their boyfriends and also that my boyfriend is better to me and we are a lot closer. Or that they want to become best friends and ditch me completely and are using my boyfriend as an excuse to justify their actions.
what do you think? Please help because I need advice.

Why do I have such trust issues?? Dating Question?

My boyfriend has a lot of friends who he hangs out with; but i always assume that when he goes off with someone else that he is atomically cheating on me. This is a really a bad trait that i have. Why do i always assume the worst when it comes to my boyfriend and his casual friends? Why do i get Jealous so easy??

Sometimes I get jealous when my boyfriend and I are hanging out with our friends.?

because I feel like he is showing them all the attention. However, I know this is not true and I know he is just trying to make sure that everyone is happy and having fun, and I HAATTEE when I get like that but I can’t help it. It makes me sad and quiet and ruins all the fun I could be having. I even sometimes get jealous of his family. Could someone PLEASE please please offer a suggestion for how to get over this or why I am like it? I don’t want to be like that anymore!

p.s. is there anything I can do besides talking to him? I already have and I want to change!

Why do i get jealous so easily?

Please help,whenever my girlfriend even talks and starts laughing with another guy in front of me i get jealous,she even does this with her ex’s and it just makes me feel weird! How can i stop acting so jealous when she talks to guys?or hangs out with them when im not around?

Quick question! Why do i get jealous so easily?

What causes someone to get jealous…im trying so hard to not be the jealous type with my girlfriend…but i cant help myself to think weird thoughts and be insecure! Sometimes i‘ll think she’s cheating on me when she says she’s studying, even though she is. Why do i get jealou so much and so easily?!?! How do i stop this? I know she loves me very much and wont cheat on me…but what causes me to be so jealous!?!?! i dont understand…why cant i just be a relaxed cool guy and not be so jealous. Sometimes because of my jealousy we get into fights. Please help!

Why do I throw up when I get sad/jealous?

Okay I‘m not going to go into huge detail about this, but I get very jealous, very easily. My girlfriend has this guy best friend that she texts 6 hours a day, and 2 months ago, we had a little argument about him (I got jealous and started asking a lot of questions) and she admitted she thought he was hot. Anyway, to sum all that up, I‘ll just say I get jealous very easily when it comes to guys and my girlfriend. Okay so when I think about that guy when my girlfriend tells me she’s texting him or anything else relating to him, it all of a sudden becomes embedded in my mind. I get into a bad mood, and I can’t stop thinking about all of the possibilities that could happen between him and her. He goes to her school, and at the beginning of this school year, her dad didn’t let her go to the school I go to (he doesn’t like it). So, that doesn’t help my jealously at all. Anyway, when I think about that guy for a while, I slowly start to feel a bit sick. Before I know it, it gets so bad I have to start muttering “please don’t throw up” over and over again. I don’t know why I‘m like this. I KNOW for a fact that my girlfriend loves me more than anything in the world. We are 15 and have been going out for 9 months, with a few arguments (mostly because of me asking questions out of jealousy..) but we love each other very, very much. We talk about our plans for the future (don’t say “Oh you don’t know what love is” or anything, I KNOW what love is. This girl taught me the meaning of the word”). So anyway, I know for a fact she loves me but for some reason, I still get so so so jealous.. and it bothers me a lot. Please give me advice. Guys, give me advice, girls, give me advice. I am sick and tired of me being like that. She assures me every single time I feel bad and start talking to her about it that she loves me and only me, and I know thats true, but I still get jealous. Before me having her as a girlfriend, I threw up maybe once every three years (that was only viruses, real sicknesses). Now I have thrown up maybe once or twice a month since the first guy she started becoming good friends with, and I want it to stop. No, I‘m not trying to get attention or sympathy from her by throwing up, it is a real problem that I can not help. You may think I want to throw up for sympathy, but I started getting sick after a basketball game where I chilled with her, and she was texting her guy best friend a lot. Because of her texting him at the basketball game, when my parents picked me up to go out to eat at Chic-Fil-A, I started getting a little sick, and it got bad so I quickly got up and went outside and threw up in the parking lot. In front of my family who was still inside. I can not help my jealousy, I can not help my throwing up. I need some advice please. I want to stop getting jealous of this guy who I believe is hotter than me (my girlfriend says I‘m way hotter, but guess what? I still get jealous for some reason..). Thanks in advance..
The guys a football player hahaha. Just adding that too.
To the two people so far who have given a nice, lengthy answer, thank you so much. You two helped me out a bit actually.
Thanks to all of the lengthy answers! You guys are helping me out a lot, I wasn’t expecting such quick and high-quality feedback. I‘m glad to know this is semi-normal, I thought I had a abnormal issue.

Why does my boyfriend jealous so easily?

We have dated for almost 10 months and this is online dating.
He doesn’t feel comfortable with me talking to other people because of an mistake I made by flirting with another boy. Ever since then he has been acting more strict about me and don’t tell me to break up with him because I still love him a lot, and when I tell him about how he acts makes me feel umcomfortable and annoyed he just gets really upset, and feels depressed.
I don’t know what to do I love him a lot and I think it probably because he is tryign to control me so I don’t do anything like cheating or flirting.
I‘m only 15 years old and he is 18 don’t say anything mean please be serious with your answers. I don’t want to break with him because it would hurt me so much and it would crush him since I‘m his first love, and girlfriend. Also for a few months we sometime agrue because how I get annoyed with the way he acts sometimes for an example If I want to learn a language and talk to someone on msn he gets scared that something will happen to me again like last time. A couple years ago I was raped by classmate so please don’t say any mean comments or jokes I want an honest serious answers please.
Also he doesn’t have a good relationship with his family, so I‘m the only person who really cares about him. He doesn’t like me going out without telling him and he doesnt like if I do anything without his permission. If I do anything He doesnt know about he starts thinking i‘m lying and hiding. before i get off sometimes he tells me not to talk to anyone

Why do I get so jealous so easily?

I have known this guy for 4 years now. We have dated off and on for the 2 or 3 years. But have recently stopped. Although we have stopped we never stopped acting like we were together I guess? I don’t know how to explain it. My point is, we may not of had the label as boyfriend and girlfriend but we were like a couple for all those 4 years.

Now. I know I always get jealous with him, it’s just something I am used to. But I feel like its going to far. I‘m curious if it’s wrong and how I can change it. Ever time he doesn’t reply to me or stops talking to me, I freak out. Any time I know he is talking to any one other than me, I freak. And just knowing that there are other people who like him, makes me want to die.
I think I need help.

Is my boyfriend jealous or am I just not seeing it?

People are saying he is jealous but I honestly don’t see it… he doesn’t tell me who to hang with or that I can’t do things.

I am in a relationship with my a Russian man. Things are OK. He likes to ask about my day and of course I will tell him. Last night he snuck away from work to call me and we were having an ok gentle conversation until he asked what I did today, and I said “I just got back. I went out for a bit.” he suddenly changes his voice to soft and gentle to this somewhat aggressive concerned voice, it was a dramatic change? he asked “With who?” I asked “what?” he said “with who? who did you go out with?” I told him I just spent time with my sisters shopping and eating. And then he said “Ok.”

He does this all the time. Any time I mention I was out or just got back he suddenly grows concerned and asks me who I was with and if men were there if so how Many and what were there names and if they had girlfriends or not. He asked me this especially when I went on a trip for 3 days. And when I got back he wanted to know if anyone flirted with me and what my response was to them. Can someone explain it? He doesn’t tell me what to do. So I don’t get why people are saying this is jealous behavior.

Why i am jealous of my sister’s boyfriend?

I am 20 years old guy.My sister and i am very close as we had only each other from start besided mom.She is 25 and she has got boyfriend and now i dont see her much.I am feeling very jealous and i sometime try to gain her attention.Like calling her too many times and she is really pissed off.
I dont know why i am acting like this.What should i do?

why am I so jealous of my sister?

my sisters boyfriend came to the house and asked my parents if he can marry my sister I don’t have a decent boyfriend what do I do to get over the jealousy that I am going through I am going through mixed emotions about my sister and everything that I have been going through.

why am i jealous of my sister?

ok so we went to turkey back in june and someone who worked in the hotel she got on well with. they kept in contact and things and she’s just got back from a trip to turkey to see him. yesterday he posted on Facebook “don’t leave me alone without you”

now i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 1 yr and almost a month. we are happy but he’s struggling with money and things and i have to sit down with him and go through things.

this doesn’t help me feel jealous of my sister and i don’t know why although at the time i thought he was cute i was taken and wouldn’t have done anything, besides he’s not my type

Why am I jealous of pregnant women?

I‘ve been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years and for the last 2 years every time i see a pregnant woman or a young baby i am so jealous, i get angry because they have a baby and i haven’t. In the first year of me being with my boyfriend his 2 sister in laws had babies but i wasn’t bothered but a year after my friend fell pregnant and i couldn’t talk to her and now we don’t speak but not just because of the baby and now my boyfriends sister in law is now pregnant and when he told me today i got angry again and now i am so jealous but i don’t understand why. I watch pregnancy, birth and baby programmes but i don’t get jealous over them but what ever i watch it doesn’t put me off having one. I just want one but my boyfriend doesn’t yet. Ever month i hope i dont come on my period. Is there something wrong with me? Please help!

how do you stop jealousy?

i get jealous over my ex’s i think look how happy they are then i see a girl who’s pretty and im instantly jealous of her how do i stop being this way ?x

how to stop jealousy?

I get really jelous so fast
even if i don’t like the person who is making me jealous (not purposely) i just find him attractive

why do i get so jealous?
how can i stop it?

dont answer this unless you actually know HOW to stop it

How do you stop being clingy and jealous?

Well, I can be very clingy over my boyfriend (we have been dating a year). He says it gets very annoying and I understand and have been trying to give him some slack. Every time he chooses to hang with his friends I tell him to have a great time but… I feel very upset, almost jealous :/ How can I stop the jealousy and clingyness?!

How does jealousy work?

When I have money to buy or to pay my bills that is where my friend becomes jealous and says “you still have money to pay for it.” To me that is a jealousy words. He should be saying ‘it is good that you still have money to pay your bills and buy things.’

How does his jealousy affect my brain and its thinking. How do I stop his jealousy and its affect on my brain?

How can you stop your jealousy with your perfect bestfriend?

I have this friend….bestfriend and she’s perfect.
She’s pretty,[developed]
Good at sports, singing, dancing, break dancing, acting, chello, piano, violin, drums, drawling, ceramics.
She a good speaker, not shy, friendly, always trying new things and ends up being good at it without really trying, determined, courageous, very cool, has a lot friends. And the worst part is she’s a good friend and doesn’t have a good family so when your jealous your also guilty…my old friends even like her more than me now. I’m never able to be myself because she’s good at everything I do and like. And she always steals the spotlight, what should do? and I feel like I can’t tell her, because i’ve kinda told her in a way but she just starts yelling and says that I could have her life because she says my life is better becasue I actually have a family that loves me.

How can I stop being jealous of my boyfriends ex?

I know its stupid and its partially to do with my low self esteem. And I already know he’s chosen to be with me. But I can‘t help comparing myself to her. She’s the cliche really pretty, “sweet” looking, bubbly girl. A month before he asked me out, he sent her a message saying he was only just getting over her and hopes they can be friends one day. Shes his first love and he’s mine. He may not be with her now but thats because she broke up with him, and broke his heart. He still finds it really hard to get close to me, despite us now being together for the same amount of time as he was with her. How can I get over my stupid jealousy!!

I’m so jealous of my boyfriends ex!?

I‘ve been extremely jealous of my boyfriends ex since we started dating.
She’s popular, and she’s so beautiful. She’s a model and there is nothing NOT perfect about her in my eyes.
It bothers me alot, because I feel like my boyfriend is secretly more attracted to her than me.
I feel ugly compared…

How can I stop being jealous?

How can I stop being so jealous of his ex!?

It’s driving me insane! My boyfriend has a lot of ex-girlfriends but one in particular gets on my nerves because she…
1.) was his last long-term relationship
2.) met his dad before he died
3.) is often mistaken for his girlfriend when they are together because they both love each other as friends and so they are very touchy-feely. (He told me about this and I was too nervous to tell him that that would make me EXTREMELY uncomfortable if I saw it happen.)
4.) is closer to my age than most of his exes
5.)…and…as pathetic as this sounds…she seems more interesting than me…he talks about her a lot and she’s got more in common with him than I probably do…and she got him to be more open sexually…
6.) she is very attractive

HOW DO I STOP OBSESSING OVER THIS!?!?!??!?!??!?!? I am fully aware of how insane I am being but it’s so hard for me to stop! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A few things I forgot to mention: They dated 3 years ago, it mainly ended because she is polyamourous and he is monogamous.

How Can I Stop Being Jealous Over My Ex?

I was dating this 13 year old girl for maybe a week (i am 15 years old) i felt attracted to her at first then i dont know something happened and i just wasn’t attracted to her anymore so i broke up with her.

recently however i considered asking her back out as i guess im sort of a lonely kid.

i find out that she has a new boyfriend who’s 16 which i think is wrong and to make matters worse this guy is a pot smoker and a stoner which i dont think is good for her but i cant really say anything.

recently i‘ve been feeling overly jealous and i normally don’t
how can i stop myself from feeling jealous when i see them at school?

How can I stop being jealous? Paranoid jealous?

Quick summary of the bits you need to know:

My boyfriend had a really bad bout of manic bipolar this past summer. The mania got really bad and he left me then hooked up with a girl from high school that he had started talking to a lot on FB. We got back together said he had changed his ways. I believed him and it was true. Don’t worry about details, just know where I‘m coming from.

Now we’ve been so busy with work and school and family that I feel we’ve grown apart since we haven’t been seeing each other lately. He’s moving into a new apartment, he heard it was available cause it was owned by this acquaintance of his on FB a couple weeks before.

He gets it, Moves in, now when he posts something about it she’s always got 2 cents to put. And is talking about how her ex boyfriend put the dents in the front door, and how he’s jealous of my boyfriend because he’s crazy and thinks they are cheating together.

1) I really don’t like them talking about this all over facebook.
2) I am very jealous and it was the end of me and my boyfriends date night tonight and he reads the newest comment from her and answers it. Then when I‘m telling him goodnight I see that just before he texted me he replied to another one of her comments.

I know he’s not cheating on me, because she moved 2000 miles away. But how can I get rid of this paranoia that he’s going to leave me or she’s trying to pry him away from me. I just find it so rude that they’re discussing cheating and shit all over facebook and I can‘t seem to look away. It’s really upsetting me, which I know is wrong and I want to know how to stop! Should I ask her to not talk about that stuff?
Also I can‘t really confront him about it, because I trust him and I see him trying to steer the convo away but she keeps bringing up details and stuff. And if i were to confront him he would see it as I don’t trust him. I really want to know how to either get rid of this ridiculous paranoid jealousy or how to stop this discussion of theirs if that’s what you feel is necessary.

i hate myself for being so jealous of others?

ugh! no matter what it is im jealous of someone else. im 14 and i guess i have a low self esteem. i hate that im always comparing myself to other people and being so jealous!! how can i stop this?

Do other females feel jealous or hate other women for being smart, nice, talented, funny and artistic?

seriously…i seem to draw a lot of hatred from girls whose boyfriends i dated like, ten years ago or their boyfriends thought well of me…i pull good grades, i have a load of friends, i play two instruments, i keep my friends laughing, and i draw, make ceramics, jewelry, paint and draw…i am loyal and accept compliments shyly. i give to charity. i open doors for people, pick things up for people, let others out in front of me in traffic…?

the only other thing i can figure is they are biased against the mentally ill. i have to take antidepressants, a mood stabilizer, anxiety meds, and sleeping meds…does that make me not like-able? i really do not understand this.
i read a few of the comments…and would like to add…i am very humble. i am very philosophical, very interested in helping society. i am recording what my other friends and loves say about me, what my family says. and the referring to women as females? and myself as a woman? because i am including those who are NOT a woman as of yet, or were then. even when i was younger i had problems with other members of my gender…i assure you, i am no egomaniac. i doubt myself a lot, thinking if i am so bad and all these girls don’t like me, what am i doing wrong?

Why do some people get jealous/hate other people?

What makes people hate get jealous of other people? Is it personality or human nature? Why do people get jealous of with their GF/BF?

why do people think that when others hate on celebs they actually are jealous?

i just dont get why people think if you hate on a celeb that you are jealous cuz i hate on miley cyrus and i wouldnt want to be her if my life depended on it
i just wanna know why everyone thinks that

Which female placements/aspects are more likely to be jealous of other females?

What signs/placements/aspects (female) would give them a tendency to be very jealous of and hate other females?

BQ: Truthfully, do you get jealous when you see someone that you think is better looking than you are?

Your sun, moon, mercury and mars?

Do you hate being a Jealous person?

lets say you are in a relationship where you are super jealous (regarding your partners previous infidelity issue you never really got over) you stay with this person for years afterwards thinking you will get over it but you just live in jealousy. you were never a jealous person before this & you dont like the monster this is turning you into.would you get out of the relationship (marriage) just for your own mental health? or would you stick it out longer? (no kids involved)

please help me, i hate being a jealous person?

im a very jealous person. i have a boyfriend and when he is not with me i think of things and get REALLY jealous!!! i know its normal to say something after someone asks you a question but when a girl ask a question to my boyfriend and he replays i get really jealous and feel like hitting the other girl(over a question how stupid is that!!!!) how can i stop i really dont want to be jealous i really hate it. is there anything i can do to make myself stop. no stupid answers please i need to stop being jealous.

Should every jealous person hate the prettier ones?

i have a friend who is really sweet and adoring. well, during spring break, a guy had asked her to the movies just as friends, since both of them were bored. so they went to the movies. Then he asked her,”if i didn’t have a girlfriend would you have dated me?” she said no and told his girlfriend about it. while telling it to his girlfriend, she starting yelling at her and then started fighting with her. now, my sweet friend is scared of talking to guys with girlfriends becuase of this. one thing about her is that she feels more comfortable with guys, because she grew up with only brothers. what should my friend and i do???

Don’t you hate it when you hate someone and the other person says your jealous?

I mean why would you be jealous of the person you hate? It’s like I’m not I just really hate them.

i am extremely jealous person, what should i do to change myself? i hate to being jealous…please help?

i really need some advice about being jealous, i really want to change myself completely and stop being such a stupid jealous person, my married doesnt seem happy because i am so jealous of my husband, i cant control my thoughts when my husband says somethings about girls or his friends, no matter what my thought will be automatic thinking that he would be cheating on me or likes another girls more than me..i know ..i am really sick, please help me..i dont want to get divorced because he cant stand my behavier.

How can i stop being jealous of his ex?

Ive been seeing this guy for about 2 months, things r good and i really like him. Only thing is he has this ex who he went out with for 4 years, they still talk, like every couple of days like phone or text but just for basic reasons he tells me like her mum owes him money or her brother needs something.

Anyway i have brought it up with him that i dnt like them talking all the time and phoning but he said the only reason is because they went through alot of things when they went out like family issues and because of this they cant just stop talking. They fell out in about november time last year so about 5 months ago.

Im just asking how do i stop feeling so threatened by her and jealous. He has told me there is no way there is anything going on between them but when i asked if he cud ever see them going out in the future he said, i doubt it but i cud never say never. which really annoyed me.

i just need advice like should i continue seeing him, is this a normal situation, how do i move on from this and stop being so jealous? wat would u do in my position.

p.s she is also seeing some1 new.
thanks 2 any1 who answers x

how do i stop being so jealous of girls my ex flirts with?

im still really really in love with my ex. and even as much as hes hurt me, i still drop everything for him. but i saw him flirting with some really unnattractive girl on facebook, and its really upset me. i just feel like i cant let go and i dont know what to do why is he flirting with so many girls?

How do I stop being jealous of my ex?

My ex and I decided to remain friends after we broke up. We were together for 4 years & had been through good & bad times together. I dumped him because he was talking to this one girl for a couple hours a day & was neglecting me. We’ve been boken up for a month now. He told me last week that the girl he’s been talking with is now more than a friend. I started asking questions because I was afraid that he cheated on me. He was open & honest & reassured me that this is all new. Last night, I was on the phone with him and he started talking about this new girl. Again, I started asking questions & as he talked about her I could feel myself getting jealous. I don’t want to be jealous! I really do want to be friends. Out of my jealousy, I told him that I met a guy, which isn’t true. He started questioning me & I could tell that he was getting jealous. Why would he be jealous? He has someone new. I really want a friendship to work between us. Is that possible at this point?

How can I stop being jealous about my EX?

I‘m 18 and was friends with this guy for one year and we dated for a few months too. I REALLY liked him. I‘m a virgin and he ended up cutting me off after about 3 weeks because I wouldn’t put out even though I did everything else. He was mad that I wouldn’t have sex with him and that I wanted to wait a little longer. I‘m really upset by this. I don’t want to give my virginity easily but I don’t want to wait a long time either.

After we broke up, I noticed that he was trying to go to as many college parties and night clubs as possible in obvious hopes of getting laid since I wouldn’t sleep with him just yet. I‘m jealous at the idea of another girl sleeping with him.

How can I stop being jealous?
I am crazy….crazy in love with a jerk

How do I stop being jealous of my fiance having contact with his ex when they have a child together?