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Your Questions About Boyfriend Checking Out Other Girls In Front Of Me

Mark asks…

I sometimes catch my boyfriend checking out other girls with me right next to him?

I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me. I know, guys are guys and they are gonna lookat girls. But does he need to do it right in front of me? I mean he doesn’t make it obvious. He does one of those im looking at something in that direction and then as he turns his head back my way he takes a look at another girl. idk it just makes me feel like im not good enough for him or he wouldn’t be needing to look at other girls. Should I just let it go or say something?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Yea, guys are guys and they are gonna keep looking at girls no matter how much they love their partner…
Us girls do it too…Don’t lie!!! Don’t you ever check out other boys???
Its nature…We have eyes to see what’s around us, even if it means other girls or boys, and so we do it, hahaha
But if it really bothers you, just talk to him…Let him know how you feel about it…
Looking is not a crime…When things get more physical or if he starts calling or hanging out with other girls then there’s a problem…
But if he just looks at them, then its not big deal…

^-^

Betty asks…

my boyfriend was checking out some chick in front of me ??

okay so after school i was right behind my bf and this girl was passing him and he turned around and checked her out and then he saw me look at him and i was mad . i dont know what to do ? should i be mad ? like i didnt like seeing that why would he check other girls out when hes with me ? what do i tell him ? we;ve talked after it and havent said anything about it should i bring it up ? hellp me plllz .

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Lol I assure you that you have nothing to worry about lots of people both girls and boys look at other people it doesn’t have to mean anything. Like for my self I tend to give a glance at people that walk by me all the time and My gf would joke around like “why you checking that guy out” lol and hey you don’t own the guy right he has the right of a free mind, its just the body you have to look out for ;P but yeah don’t worry about it when he makes physical contact with a girl that’s when you should be knocking heads :P

Thomas asks…

boyfriend keeps checking out girls?

ok, so i’ve been dating my boyfriend for over a year now, but can’t help to notice that he looks at other girls when we’re together, and it’s not always just a quick glance. now i understand he’s a guy…and i really don’t mind if he checks out other girls to an extent, when he’s not around me. but when he’s with me i expect him to be a bit more respectful. i’ve tried talking to him about it, but he denies it every time and says he doesn’t feel that way (sexual) about any other girl. Which i know must be completely untrue. how do i get the point across to him that i really don’t want him doing that in front of me next time without getting him mad?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

The only way to communicate about this subject, which is a subject where men and women do differ, is first to make him aware that he’s doing it (nicely) when he’s doing it. Then ask him what he’s thinking when he does that and then explain what that makes you feel.

William asks…

GUYS I need your advice. When you’re in love, do you still check out other girls in front of your gf ?

OR WHEN YOU’RE WITH HER?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now, before we dated we were best friends. Now that were together, we have a good relationship and he says he’s in love with me & everything. But usually when we go out, if he sees any cute girls around he would check them out head to toe – right in front of me, as if i wasn’t even there. It’s so obvious to the point were sometimes the girls notice. I usually let it go but last time we were together, I was talking to him trying to get his attention. He responded while he was checking out the girl across the street. He made sure to really check her out.The funny thing is that when i got mad, he didn’t have a clue why. It’s like he doesn’t even realize he’s doing it. Sometimes i don’t even want to hold his hand because it makes me feel bad. The fact that my boyfriend is too busy looking at other girls to even notice me. It’s like now i hope we don’t walk by pretty girls b/c of that. I mean i know guys look at girls , and i’m fine with that. But the fact that he does it when he’s with me & so bluntly like he didn’t give a crap bothers me. Like i notice it all the time, that’s how obvious it is. I called him out on it afterwards when we got home but he said he was sorry, he loves me & he didn’t realize he was doing it. This is the second time we argued about it b/c it pissed me off that much. I said we could take a break, b/c it seemed like he might want to talk to other ppl ,but he didn’t want to and said he loved me and saw me in his future.

Idk anymore, i mean i thought when guys were in love, they didn’t really care or even notice the people around them but i guess i was wrong ..?

& If i see a cute guy, it’s w.e. I wouldn’t do that to him cause i know it would bother him. So i don’t.
Someone please advice me. Are all men like this ? I mean like i said i know it’s natural but the fact that he can’t stop when he’s with me or at least be a little more discrete about it hurts me.

Stop Being Jealous answers:

I’m not a guy, but I definitely feel where you’re coming from. A lot of men check other women out, but I don’t feel that it’s right to blatantly check out another girl while you’re w/ your girl. I think that’s rude, &+I would be just as upset as you if my man was doing that.
Not all men are like that, but some are. It can definitely lower a girl’s self-esteem if she is constantly seeing her boyfriend check out other girls, by making her feel as if she can’t measure up to the other girls.
I would just sit down &+ have a talk w/ him about it. Tell him how much it hurts you &+ upsets you &+ tell him that you don’t mind if he does it, but just be more discreet about it.
I can’t tell you whether or not to leave him, if you feel like you should that’s up to you.
But I wish you the best of luck!

Sandy asks…

boyfriend and friend checking out good looking waitress on my birthday?

so i went to a restaurant/pub on my 21st birthday with my long term boyfriend and best guy friend, who also happens to be my guys closest friend. throughout our time there they continued to talk about how cute and good looking our waitress was. they kept saying she had amazing legs and body and cute face and such. i was ok with at first but they continunue to talk about her all night as they had more to drink. and then they talked about all of these other girls they thought were good looking that we know. i started to find it rude especially since they kept going on about it and completely ignored me. when i did tell them to stop they replied that i could check out all the guys i want.

was this rude? i guess i was slightly insecure about the leg comment as well since one time my boyfriend commented on my legs and said he wished they were more toned.

guys: why do you check out girls in front of your girlfriend? is whay my boyfriend did rude?

girls: how do YOU deal with it?
I would just like to add that my boyfriend is not a horrible person. He would never ever cheat on me, is the smartest person I know, and we have been together for over 2 years happily. I just wanted to clarify that he is not a “prick and this is unusal behavior for him. It was a result of drinking too much, which he raraly does. He gets talkative when he drinks, not horny (trust me).
As punishment that night when they were both alseep/passed out and I was wide awake, I make an awful lot of noice and woke them up rudely and laughed when they got mad for me.
and the comment he made about my legs was because i asked one thing he could change about me physically. so he wsan’t rude and just said it, i wanted an answer. but i got what i wanted and am not insecure about them, even though i’m in good shape.

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Looking is one thing and totally normal. Going on about how hot someone is (not a celebrity, I mean someone right in front of you) in front of your girl on her birthday is rude, inconsiderate, and inappropriate. Fortunately I have never dealt with this, but I would probably give him the silent treatment and act like a b to him as punishment!

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Your Questions About What To Do When Your Boyfriend Checks Out Other Girls

William asks…

What to think when your boyfriend checks out other girls?

I know its common for guys and girls to still check out the opposite sex in a relationship but come on, were not dumb and it could very well turn into them cheating on you or dumping you for a different/better girl… am i right? or am i wrong? what do you GIRLS and you GUYS think?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

If he wants to leave, he will. If he doesn’t want to commit, he won’t! Unless you were an absolute douche when you were together or something, don’t blame yourself for your partner leaving. It’s almost always because of faults that lie with THEM not you. Just sayin.

Anyway, there is a difference between “noticing” a girl and checking her out. Just because he thinks her hair is cute or something doesn’t automatically mean he’s ready to sleep with her. You should know your man, if something as simple as seeing another girl is liable to lead to attempts at infidelity….hes not worth the time or effort.

Nancy asks…

Is it right when your boyfriend checks out other girls?

My boyfriend and I were swimming and my SISTER was wearing these swim trunks with a bikini bottom under them, and my boyfriend said “Your sister needs new bathing suit bottoms. You can see through them”.
I know that he loves me, but I think that he needs to think before he talks.
Should I be concerned? What should I tell him next time he does something like this?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

He wasn’t checking her out

it’s not like he said “Your sister needs some see through bikini bottoms so i can see her fine ass”

he was saying she needed ones that were NOT see through…yeah he noticed it..wouldn’t you notice if a guy was wearing see through swim trunks? That doesn’t mean you’re checking him out.

Michael asks…

Is it normal to be hurt if your boyfriend checks out other girls?

We have been in a relationship for two years now and he cheated on me about 6 months ago.. Ever since then my self confidence level has gone down so bad. And I can’t help but think that I’m not pretty or good enough for him, or that he’s gonna find someone prettier and cheat on me again or this time leave me for her.. Even when he watches porn I makes me feel even less confident because he’s looking at hot sexy naked girls.. It’s fine when I’m watching it with him but I can’t stand it when he watches it alone.. I know that men are visual creatures and what not, I just can’t help but to feel hurt. I want to be the only girl he looks at, and thinks about sexually. What can I do to stop feeling this way?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Yes. It’s absolutely normal. He cheated on you once? If he does it again, he is NOT worth it. You’re pretty enough and good enough! When his actions start to make you question about yourself, he’s not worth it. Since you’re pretty down a lot, I would just maybe break up. Why do you persist to feel this way? Porn is bad or at least in relationships, it causes problems. Tell him to stop looking at that and you also. That right their easily brings up trust issues. Yeah, us guys are visual creatures, but not to the extent that we need porn when we’re dating someone? Maybe have a long talk with him about what’s bothering you. Tell him everything and if he continues to act the way he does, then leave him! I’m sorry but me personally, I’d just break up. If you refuse to do that, then do things that make you happy. Do things that get him off your mind for a bit.

Steven asks…

What’s with my Boyfriend checking other girls out?

Guys – what is with this?
Question Details: Hey jus wondered if anyone could shed any light on my situation because I feel quite confused, thanks.

I’m seeing a guy, he always comments on (when we are with each other, jus me and him and sometimes when we are with others) how hot other girls are, how he wants to go to strip clubs and how some girl checked him out and felt his thing. I pretended not to hear and he has repeated things in order so i can (well so it seems to me). I am quite annoyed at his behaviour but have always not reacted and kept calm when he has done this. I know that guys look at other girls but this seems a bit weird?
Am i justified in how I feel?
Why does he do this?
What should I do about it?

Thanks again for your comments

Stop Being Jealous answers:

If I was a girl, I wouldn’t put up with this! It’s up to you, but if you stay with him, you’ll have to get used to it because he’s not going to change and it will probably lead to an affair eventually.
I think you should respect yourself enough to get out of this relationship and find a more respectable guy.

Thomas asks…

Is it normal that my boyfriend always checks out other girls?

Hi guys – - I know this question all as to do with different points of views, But how normal is it? I am 21 and he is 21 as well, and we been together for 2 years, and he checks out girls all the time around me, does that seem weird or is that completely normal? Does it bother you when your man checks out girls? and if your a guy, why do you do it? what makes you do it? if that makes sense…. It bothers me sooo much, makes me feel like im not good enough in a way. But he does it anyways. Let me know what you think?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Hey ash, unfortunalty it’s a guys nature to do so!
Even if they are in love with someone they will check out other girls just for the sake of it. Guys are silly too they dont reliase that there girlfriends are actually really affected by this. I suggest maybe you speak to him about it if it is really affecting you.

Good luck :)

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Your Questions About My Boyfriend Hangs Out With Girls

Daniel asks…

My boyfriend hangs out with other girls?

He has 2 best guy friends and they always bring 2 girls when they hang out with and they stay out really late at night and if I didn’t tell him not to stayout too late he’d stay out later. They all live in the neighborhood and he says they’re just friends. I understand that. But what should I do to deal with it? I’m not used to having other girls hang out with him so much but now it’s becoming a routine. I don’t want to restrict him, I just want to get over it. What should I do?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Has your boyfriend invited you to go out with the group? The only red flag is that you TELL him not to stay out too late.

Lisa asks…

Whats the psychological reason I get so jealous when my boyfriend hangs out with other girls?

Anytime my boyfriend hangs out with other girls,particularly pretty girls,even if they’re clearly only platonic,I can’t help but feel a twinge of jealousy. How can I fix this?
I don’t call him constantly or talk to him about it,it’s just quietly festering inside.

Stop Being Jealous answers:

That’s because deep inside you feel insecure and also lack self confidence about yourself.

Helen asks…

My boyfriend hangs out with girls a lot…?

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year now, I trust him and everything, but not really these girls. He hangs out with one girl that I’ve never met all the time, I’ve told him it bothers me, he stops talking to her for a month but then he hangs out with her again later. It’s usually them two alone at his house. There’s also another girl he’s been hanging out with a lot recently, yesterday he was late to my house for my new years party because he was at her house, and he picked her up today to go buy movies. Is this strange? I don’t know what to think of it…he’s a great boyfriend, but he has this one downfall.
I don’t want to believe that he’s cheating…he’s just such a trustworthy guy.): Also, he deletes his texts.
I’m only 15 and he’s 17, so showing up at his house is out of the question. He always tells me when these girls are at his house. I’ve told him about it several times and it ends up in an argument about my lack of trust for him. Like I said, he ends contact with her for a while but then it picks up again after a few months.
Okay, thank you. I will wait it out for a week or two and if he continues to see these girls often I will talk to him about it one last time. I’ve asked him about it and he says he wouldn’t like it if I was hanging out with guys that often. I’ve question his loyalty a few times in the past ie:hot tubbing with girls in mexico…okay thank you so much for your help!

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Cheating…. He hangs out with with one girl at his house?? Alone??? Nah you better not let him get away with that…. You should just pop up at his house when they are alone…. I’m telling you he is cheating…. And you let him just have her in his home alone… Then he was at another girls house and he’s picking her up?? He’s cheating and you are just letting him get away with it…. You need to confront him but don’ tlet him down easy….. And check his phone when you get the chance… Call up those girls your self…. Wow i can’t believe he is cheating on you right up under your nose

EDIT: You might not want to believe it but that’s just the reality of the situation…. Trust me, I’m a guy… I know for a fact that if my girlfriend knew that i had a girl alone in my house but she didn’t really say anything about it, i would continue to do what i’m doing … He thinks your ok with it because you haven’t confronted him…. This is too strange….. How did you find out he was alone with the girl at his house??? If he told you, then he may be somewhat honest, but i’m sorry my honest opinion is is that he is cheating… Well check is calls if he deletes his texts….how old are you?? You can just show up at his house unexpextandly…. You should cal lhim now and tell him you don’t like the fact how he hangs around with girls at his house alone

EDIT 2: Ok, well he is honest… But c’mon he is 17 years old.. Do you honestly believe these girls are just at his house and they are just “hanging out”?? You have to believe something else is going on… I mean, maybe he isn’t doing anything but it does seem strange that a 17 year old who has a gf hangs out with other girls at his house… That should seem strange to you too… If he wants to just hang out, can’t he just call you? If you get into an argument again, ask him how it would feel if you just brought some of your guy friends over your house to hang out… I bet he wouldn’t like that… I honestly think you should give him an ultimatum, either you or them other girls…

EDIT 3: You are welcome… I’m surprised you didn’t get any other answers…. We had a good conversation lol…. Good luck… And tell me how it went.. And wow we have the same number of points

Mark asks…

To the girls, do you get jealous if your boyfriend hangs out with other girls?

Yes or no? Well I admit I sometimes get a little jealous. I don’t really like seeing my man with other girls, but he has so many female friends, there’s nothing I can do about it. I know this sounds stupid, but I even get jealous of his sisters sometimes. Since his sisters live with him and are always around him, I kind of get jealous of that.

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Heck ya!!! Well, i dnt have a bf now, but when i did, i got jealous even if he smiled at another girl!! It’s totally normal, so dnt feel bad. You feel that he’s urs and that every other girl he hangs out with is a threat, which is again totally normal!!!!

Maria asks…

My boyfriend hangs out with girls that are mean to me?

My boyfriend always talks to these girls who ALWAYS spread gossip and rumors about me! I don’t understand why he’d wanna hang out with them if they’re spreading stuff about me! And he hangs out with girls all the time, girls that like him. And he knows they like him. He always talks about other girls and says there hot and stuff to get me jealous. It doesn’t make me jealous it makes me angry and think he doesn’t like me. I might sound jealous or like a clingy girlfriend, but I can’t help it! It bugs me!

Stop Being Jealous answers:

No, you don’t sound gclingy. That’s a bogus thing to do, you should probably dump him. Or give him an ulitmatum: Tell him either to stop hanging out with them and talking about them because it makes u feel bad, or to get out. It’s his choice wether he wants to be a bad boyfriend or not. Also talk to him about it using I statements (I feel ___ when you ___) It’s a good method.
Good luck!

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Your Questions About My Boyfriend Thinks Other Girls Are Pretty

Michael asks…

Is it okay if your boyfriend thinks other girls are pretty?

So my boyfriend thinks Chachi, the girl from i.aM.mE is pretty. I got pissed and he nearly broke up with me. He thinks it’s ‘okay’ if i think other guys are handsome. Am i taking this the wrong way, or does he not care about me? he’s not cheating on me or anything, this is just, like, a summer romance.

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Yeesss, the only time you should get mad at your boyfriend is if he flirts/hugs other girls a lot.
Chachi is ”famous” you have nothing to worry about

Sandy asks…

is it ok that my boyfriend thinks other girls are pretty?

my bf just recently started school and i was reading his comments on myspace to one of his friends in another state and he was telling her about his first day and he stated “75% of the girls in my french class are are supermodels” should I be worried? or is that normal. i mean i go to school and think “oh wow hes hot” but idk is it the same thing? or is it something i should worry or ask about when I ask him about school

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Ok. Well it’s normal for him to think other girls are pretty. And it’s better he tells you than him keeping it to himself. But for him to post openly about it, is dis respectful towards you. At least thats how i think.

Mary asks…

My boyfriend thinks other girls are prettier than I am. Is that a problem.?

I admit it bothers me a lot. But I know he’s faithful. And I know I’m not the prettiest girl in the world. I’m not THAT naïve. But I would like to be the most beautiful for someone. Especially my boyfriend!!! Is this wrong of me to think? How do I deal with the fact that my boy think other girls are prettier?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Ally loved you, you would be the prettiest in the world to him. Even if not conventionally pretty, the man who loves you will think you are breath taking. You need to send him packing….There is someone out there in the world that will think there are no prettier women out there. I promise!

Daniel asks…

My boyfriend calls other girls pretty?

So… I have a boyfriend that I’ve been dating for over a year, but he calls other girls (a lot actually) pretty, and always says things like, “I see you around school a lot, you are pretty.”

Should I get angry about that? or do you think I’m just overreacting?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

I think it’s okay for someone to say that someone else looks pretty or cute while they’re dating someone else. I mean I bet you think the same things without realizing it. If it really bothers you just tell him in a nice way. But don’t act to crazy over it or he might think you’re being over protective. It all depends on your point of view. Good luck!

~Maryn

Steven asks…

How do I deal with the fact that my boyfriend thinks other girls are more beautiful?

I know I’m not the prettiest girl in the world. I’m not THAT naïve. But I would like to be the most beautiful for someone. Especially my boyfriend!!! Is this wrong of me to think? How do I deal with the fact that my boy think other girls are prettier?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Beauty fades.

And when it does, what is left will be far more important.

Make sure your boyfriend understands that and loves you not for what you look like, but for what you are.

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Your Questions About How To Stop Feeling Jealous Of Other Girls

Sandra asks…

Help me stop feeling jealous/intimidated by other pretty girls?

I’m a 19 female girl. There is one trait about myself that I really don’t like and that is the fact that I get jealous being around other pretty girls. Idk why. It’s just that whenever I see a girl that looks really nice and who’s face is pretty, I feel bad about myself or get this weird feeling come over me. I instantly feel like either 1) oh great a pretty chick. She’s gonna steal the attention from me from all the guys ONCE again (b/c I feel like this always tends to happen to me) or 2) I like her image/look. How come I don’t have a look that is similar to hers? I know it sounds crazy but I just feel uncomfortable. And the thing is, I’m friends with alot of pretty girls and people call me “very pretty” and “gorgeous” and all this crap alot..but I guess I don’t feel it. Or it seems like to me when I’m by myslf I get it alot-but as soon as someone decent looking comes along, I am quickly overshadowed or ignored.

But in all honesty, I do feel like I’m attactive…I just always feel like everywhere I turn theres a girl who has this more interesting or exotic look about herself than me. Also, a lot of them don’t really wear alot of makeup( I mean, I dont wear alot, but I wear foundation and stuff) and guys still hit on them. WHich makes me wonder if I’m really all that great looking wo/ makeup myself. WHich once again in turn, makes me feel about myself bc my face isn’t naturally ‘stunning’ or whatever. I guess maybe I feel this way b/c I was always cute wen I was younger but ppl never really broadcasted it alott. But my looks really grew in once I reached junior-high to high school. High school I discovered I was actually pretty (kids and even some teachers used to tell me…at first I was like really? Sadly, I didnt evem know, or think I was until h.s. I was just used to being ignored or being the ‘cute’ or decent looking girl with the frizzy pigtails. Anyways, I wanna get over this intimidation of other girls and/or feeling like I always want to be the best looking or stand out the most. What do you guys think I should? How can I overcome this? P.s should I change my image some more? I finally did that last summer and I gotta say, I didnt really feel as intimidated by other pretty girls if they were around-I felt like we both looked good and the attention from guys would be/should be equal. So should I just always dress up to hinder these feelings I get? Ugh, I just feel like i m too wrapped up in gettting guys’ attention and my looks for my age. Please let me know wat u guys think I should do.
* I usually use my personality to get guys. Ever since I was young. I’ve always had a funny cool crazy personality and alot of guys liked that and would end up liking me, So I use that to my advantage. But unfortunately with some guys, before they get to know a girl they go by her exterior. SO what ta do?
* I usually use my personality to get guys. Ever since I was young. I’ve always had a funny cool crazy personality and alot of guys liked that and would end up liking me, So I use that to my advantage. But unfortunately with some guys, before they get to know a girl they go by her exterior. SO what ta do?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

What they look like has nothing to do with you. The problem with you is not your looks, it is your personality.

John asks…

how to stop myself from getting jealous of other girls around my boyfriend?

my boyfriend loves me, i love him, but everytime another girl bear hugs him or flirts with him, i can’t help but feel jealous. Whenever guys try flirt with me i shut them down straight away so he won’t get upset. I know he’d never cheat on me but i just want to know how to stop feeling like this ><

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Whatever you do, don’t show your jealousy around him cuz it is a HUGE turn off for guys. Girls and guys will always flirt (except for you,i wish all girls were like u). I guess its in human nature but as long as he’s with you, you know they mean nothing to him and shouldn’t worry.

Laura asks…

how to stop feeling jealous?

i cant help but find myself staring at other girls or pictures of other girls feeling jealous about something.. their hair, their eyelashes, etc.

idk what to do but it wastes my time and i dnt like doing it =[

but idk how to not worry about but idk why i even do anywayy …

bc i have all i could ever want, meaning like the best boyfriend ever, who doesnt care what other ppl look like and.. well such as thatt, u dont need to know all the info but yeah!

helpp?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Accept yourself. Stop wanting what everyone else has and love what you have!

Xox Kat

Helen asks…

How normal is it to feel jealous of other girls?

I hate it when my boyfriend looks or flirts with other girls who are ‘his type’. How can I stop myself from feeling like this? Any tips? Otherwise I’m just going to push him away completely.

Stop Being Jealous answers:

I hate it when guys talk to my girl… But then I realized, I never think a thing about guys talking to girls I’m not with. They’re just talking to each other as chums. The same way a guy and girl have a conversation is the same way a guy and my gf are having a conversation.

So I realized I was being ridiculous. Sure they may be sharing a laugh, but she’s with me.

Steven asks…

how do i stop my self feeling jealous when she talk to other guys ???

i feel jealous every time i see this girl talking to other guys what should i do ?

i need some serious advice of not to feel jealous when she talks to other guys ? help me please ….

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Hmmm…good question. I remember feeling the same way with an ex-girlfriend. Unfortunately that did not end all too well. Now, I don’t actually mind if my girl were to talk to other guys, for the fact that if she were to ever do anything, then you should know that it is not the end of the world. There are many women out there my friend, and if she were to ever cheat or do anything to hurt you, then she isn’t worth a lick! Just try to stay calm, trust her and trust in yourself that whatever happens, you will come out ok…

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Your Questions About I Get Jealous When My Boyfriend Looks At Other Girls

William asks…

When your boyfriend look at other girls, do you get jealous?

I do. I think it’s just human nature to be jealous. But I get really jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls especially if I‘m with him. Because I know there are other prettier girls than me and he looks at those pretty girls.

What do you think?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

I think that the Internet should be redesigned to explicitly prevent people from posting this question. Seriously. I’ve seen it too many hundreds of times (usually in the form “Why oh why does my boyfriend look at other girls??? What is wrong with him? Oh, woe is me!”).

It is something that you REALLY have to get over. If it bothers you so much that you wind up going to the Internet and asking, you’ve gone way over into the deep end. Just sit back, calm down, and think about it a bit. It’s not a reflection on you, it’s not an imminent threat to your relationship, if you do lose your boyfriend, it was going to happen anyway, but if you obsess about this, you’re going to drive him away and label yourself a fruitcake. Just relax!

Thomas asks…

Why do I get so jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls?? :-/?

So everytime my boyfriend looks at other girls it bothers me. It bothers me when he looks at Girls that are on tv naked or girls on the street. What can I do to not me like this ..
Please help thanks

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Trust he’s not thinking of them in his heart.. Although there’s nothing wrong with being jealous about it. In reality he should be looking at you. When you love you forsake all else. All you want to do is gaze into your loves eyes, and see their eyes gazing back.

Robert asks…

Why do I get so jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls naked, topless, etc? :-/?

So I love my BF n I know he loves me. I never felt this way about anybody and for some reason I always get jealous when he looks at other girls. He doesn’t really look at girls when were together but when he see’s a naked girl on tv or something. it really bothers me. This might sound dumb but I really hate it. There’s always some hoe flashing her stuff on tv lol whether its her ass, breast etc. it’s so annoying. I feel like if he stares at it, its kind of disrespectful. I dont want to tell him how much it bothers me because he may think thats immature? What to do? Am I over reacting?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

The only way to stop this is to stop watching any TV or movies together. Is he supposed to turn his head away like a 6 year old boy? You are WAY over the line trying to control him here.

This question “Why do I get so…..” was originally asked on Yahoo Answers Insecurity.

Michael asks…

Why do I get jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls?

Last Saturday I was helping my boyfriend move into his new apartment and as we were loading stuff into the truck to take it to the new place this cute like, 20ish girl in short shorts and a sports bra walked by and I guess he saw her ot of the corner of his eye and he turned around and looked at her. I know it’s a natural thing for guys and it wasn’t like he ogled and drooled or wolf whistled or anything, but I still felt jealous and “why is he looking at her?”. Why do I still feel jealous?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Thats perfectly normal. To be honest, I feel the same exact way everytime my boyfriend does things like that. You probably feel jealous cause your a little insecure, which everybody is. You just have to realize that he is with you and he loves you, no one else.

Good luck

Mary asks…

I cant control my angry moods when i get jealous over my boyfriend looking at other girls. what can i do?

Lately, ive started to get really jealous whenever my boyfriend looks at another girl. Although i understand just because they are looking doesn’t mean that they want to be with them! but a few days ago, me and my boyfriend were invited to the pub to celebrate one of his mates finally getting a job, i got there and was the only girl there, some of his mates didn’t even say hello. there was a tall brunette with glasses and a short dress playing pool with her friend, every time she took a shot obviously bent over they were literally dribbling over her and he was making comments, not knowing i was stood behind him. it left me feeling very angry and even worse that i couldn’t even have a little moan to one of the other girls! His mate is a really bad influence though, he wants a bit of everything that moves! Also, it was out year anniversary on saturday, he took me out for a meal, when we arrived his mum, step dad and friend was there. i was plonked at the end of the table not involved in any conversation then it was my fault for not talking. His mum was also asking him how he felt when he had seen the ex love of his life the day before. i just wish she wouldn’t do it in front of me because i am starting to be a really jealous person and i don’t want to be, i feel really stupid because i know he loves me and my angry moods over these things are going to drive him away. when i get in these moods i don’t tell him why when he asks either because i feel stupid! Advice please!!

Stop Being Jealous answers:

It is normal to be upset by incidents like that. You need to talk to him about them, not being angry, but just telling him how they made you feel.

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Your Questions About Boyfriend Checking Out Other Girls Infront Of Me

Robert asks…

Why should i be ok with my boyfriend checking out other girls?

it bothers me. especially when he checks out my best friend or other people right infront of me. I think im only like bothered by this because a few months ago like a month or two after we started going out he looked up my best friends skirt. Please help

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Well, to be honest you can look but not touch.

But in my opinion, it is very poor etiquette of him to be checking out girls IN FRONT of you, let alone your friends. Very bad taste.

Donna asks…

is it normal for your boyfriend to check out girls infront of you?

I’m an observant person to begin with but my bf always feels the need to check out other girls in front of me
Like as we’re walking he won’t even pay attention to what I’m saying. I’ve told him to stop doing that
Infront of me but he goes back to his filthy habits. He will try to sneek a peak and I always catch him.
When he see’s a cute girl, he’ll try to make eye contact for a long time and that really irritates me.
He knows it annoys me. Are all men like this or does he pass his limit? Thx

Oh yeah and if I mention what he was doing infront of me he will NEVER admit it even it was in my face!!

Stop Being Jealous answers:

U need to put a stop to this behavior. First is long eye contact then its talking to them and getting their phone number in front of you. You need to speak to him clearly and say u don’t appreciate him to stop it. And if he’s not willing stop then he isn’t worth your time and you could look for another guy who gives you your place.

John asks…

How do i get my boyfriend to stop checking out other girls?

my boyfriend of six months constantly checks out other girls. everytime he sees a “hot” girl he starts checking them out and then stares at me for my reaction. then he says hes just joking. the other day i was on the computer listening to music and he comes by and says “omg they’re so skinny and tall and hot they make you look fat.” what the fck. i got sad/mad and left the room. then he comes by saying he was just joking. he always says things like that to me and i tell him it makes me feel so insecure and he says he’ll stop, but eventually continues doing it. one time he thought i was checking out a guy on tv but i was saying something else and he got sooooo sad/mad i couldnt believe it. i know he would never cheat on me but just him checking out every fcking thing infront of him is the only problem i have with him. besides that he’s great. sorry for the long explanation, but how do i get him to stop checking out other girls??????

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Dump his a*s. You deserve better than him. I mean, checking out other girls is one thing, but telling you that you’re fat and ugly compared to them isn’t right. Find a guy who treats you better :)

Mary asks…

MY BOYFRIEND CHECKS OUT OTHER GIRLS?

ok so i know that all guys check out girls but my boyfriend is starting to do it all the time now, and its not just a quick glance anymore!!! he looks them up and down and stares at their butt!!! my boyfriend and i have been together for over 4 years and this has never been a problem but recently i have put on a lot of weight (50 lbs) and im really afraid that he wants to be with other girls!!! also one tme when he was drunk he flirted with a girl right infront of me, at first i thought i was just being jelous but then his brother said something to me about him flirting.another one of my concerns is that he watches porn every single day any chace he gets…our sex life is still good though. PLEASE HELP ME!!! i love him sooo much!!! do you think my boyfriend is going to cheat on me or leave me????!!!!

Stop Being Jealous answers:

I’ve always been 100% faithful to my girl, i dont even look at other girls. You shouldn’t have to spice things up. You should tell him that it bothers you that he does it, if he continues then dump him. There is a guy out there that will say “DAMN girl” every time he sees you, even in sweats. He seems like a pig to me.

James asks…

My boyfriend checks out other girls?

So i know its human nature for teen guys to look at girls and what not. I hate that though, but whatever he says he doesnt intentially do it.. we go to two different schools but our towns are right next to eachother and we live 5 minutes away from one an other. but that doesnt matter. sooo back to my point. wev been going out for 5 months and before he ALWAYS used to check out my BEST friend right infront of me. likkkee really? and its really rude. and when i asked him about it like last night he said he admitts he checked her out but thats before he reallys loved me.. but i mean we were still dating? ugh idk. and i have a feeling he checks out girls in his school too. so when i asked him about that he said he doesnt at all and even if he does he doesnt do it intenially.. can i have your input on this please. and im not freaking out i just dont want it to get out of hand. i mean two different schools. and yes i do trust him its just i dont know hes my first serious boyfriend and ugh i just dont know what to do in this situation. thank you!

and sorry i posted this question in another(wrong) category by accident. so just letting you know

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Well I dunno how old you are but I’m guessing he’s not gonna be the one for ever and ever.
If he really loved you then you wouldnt even have to ask this. I know and fully trust my boyfriend wouldnt so much as want to look at another girl and I have no interest in anyone else but him. If you dont trust him maybe its time to move on.
Or maybe it doesnt matter so much but if its bugging you then it seems to be an issue

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Your Questions About Boyfriend Checks Out Other Girls In Front Of Me

James asks…

Why would a girl stay with her boyfriend if he checks out other girls in front of her?

This guy I was hanging out with would check me out in FRONT of his girlfriend!(I’m asexual I didn’t hit on him or flirt with him at all!!)

Why would you stay with a guy like that?
he checked me out constantly all night
Uhm i’m not the one being insecure who tells her boyfriend not to hang around other girls.

Stop Being Jealous answers:

She probably doesn’t care.

She’s clingy.

She’s too trusting.

She’s a pushover.

He’s really good in bed and she’s addicted to it.

She’s afraid she won’t find someone else.

All of the above.

David asks…

My boyfriend checks out other girls right in front of me . . . .?

i see him every 2 weeks for a few days and i recently noticed that he was checking out girls the whole time. I asked him not to check out girls in front of me. I feel like is he is shopping around why should we be together if he is looking for some one else. Am i right?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

You are totally right he shudnt do tht at all

Steven asks…

boyfriend checking other girls out in front of me?mad or not?

my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 years and i fully trust him but it bothers me that he checks out other girls in front of me cause i dont care if its when im not there but when he is with me i think he should be lookin at me not other girls, am i right or am i wrong?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Its what us guys like to call “Man Pride” basically we are telling you girlfreinds that we would love for the 3 of us to get it on someday.

Thomas asks…

My boyfriend checks out other girls in front of me, and even tells me they are hot, but he does not tell me?

but he does not tell me that i am hot, is this normal? or okay? should i just deal with it? do any of you other guys do this too?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Hey, do this. Next time you see a hot looking guy walk over and talk to him in front of your bf. She what he says about that.

Susan asks…

I think my boyfriend was checking out other girls in front of me?

When i was camping with my boyfriend i swear that he kept checking out other girls alott. It bothered me for weeks and then i finally told him, and he swore that he wasnt. Well now i really dont trust him at all around other girls! It looked alot like he wass. Do you think hes telling the truth? What should i do? How can i start to trust him?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Well since you came out with it rather late (which is good that you told hm though, absolutely), I do think that you should give him the benefit of the doubt this time and let him know you don’t appreciate noticing him checking out other girls. The truth is that guys and girls will find others to have attractive features….it’s like going into a museum and looking at a nice work of art and then moving on. You can’t change that. You proably do the same. Your bf just has to be a little bit more subtle about ti because you want him to make you feel comfortable like you are the only girl he is paying attention to and you should tell him right away that you see his eyes straying. I don’t think it’s a matter to not trust him….I mean after all what matters in the end is that he chooses you over any of these girls….he isn’t admiring the girls per se but a feature about the girl. In the end hon, he just wants you. The real problem (if you can call it that) is that he needs to take your prescence into consideration and not make you feel uncomfortable. You need to talk the moment you see him doing this….you could even bring it up jokingly. Remember the museum analogy, it might make you feel better. You probably do the same but you’re very subtle about it as to not hurt his feelings. I am glad you finally told him…always communicate with your bf when you feel uncomfrtable. Best wishes hon.

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Your Questions About How Do I Stop Being Jealous In My Relationship

Betty asks…

How can i stop being jealous in a relationship?

I HATE being jealous but its hard for me to control it. Sometimes when i don’t talk bout it, that helps since i tend to forget about it. But my boyfriend thinks if something bothers me i should always tell him, so sometimes i have to tell him. I just wana STOP feeling jealous altogether. Dunno how. Please help. And PS, i do trust him, im just still jealous.

Stop Being Jealous answers:

I feel exactly the same way, and there is nothing you can do about it (just dont let it show or its the beginning of the end)

James asks…

how do i stop being jealous in my relationship?

its so stupid i just cant get it through my head. please help me. everytime my boyfriend even talks to another girl i get upset :[ and when some other girl that like tries to flirt with him even tho he tries to get away, i still get upset and end up blaming him :( why do i do this? it sucks…please help?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

You will have to boost your self esteem and remember that he is on loan to you, he doesn’t belong to you. Understand that while other girls are looking at him other guys are looking at you if you are taking the time to be sure you have made the effort to put your best out there. Really, do you want something nobody else does? Remember, this jealousy could push him away. This jealousy could make him feel superior to you. Think of it this way, the girls are probably jealous of you being with him. Be determined to give the appearance of quiet dignity and self assurance.

John asks…

Teenage Relationship… How to stop being so jealous!?

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months. Before we started dating my friend Jasmine had a crush on him, and whenever I see that she wrote on his wall on facebook, or she flirts with him when we’re standing in a group, I get jealous. Also, sometimes when he talks about texting other girls or when girls flirt with him in front of me I get jealous. Our relationship is very good and he cares for me alot and doesn’t flirt back with girls but I still feel so insecure when this happens. How do I stop being so jealous? I know it’s a terrible thing!

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Jealousy is perfectly natural. The same thing happened to me when I started dating my current boyfriend (about 3 years ago).. Girls would always flirt with him and talk to him and I’d get jealous.
What you should do is talk to your boyfriend about it. I think he’d like to know how you’re feeling so next time it happens he can do something about it.
If nothing happens, then I would take matters into your own hands, but do it subtly. If you’re in a group and girls flirt with your bf, hold him tight to let them know he’s yours.. He’ll like how confident and unafraid you are around flirty girls. If they get really mean or flirty, say something. “I’m not sure if I feel comfortable talking like that to my boyfriend, especially when I’m here, thanks.” Make it polite but firm, so they’ll know you aren’t trying to be a bitch, but you mean business.

Paul asks…

how do you stop being jealous in a relationship?

I get really jealous if my boyfriend even looks at another girl. Deep down i know he won’t do anything but I‘m just so scared he will.

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Two things:

1. Self-esteem. He is with you and not other girls for a reason. Be happy about that. Work on your strengths and on what made him like you that much to begin with. You ARE worth it!

2. Trust. Unless he’s done something to make you distrust him, let it go. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Don’t make him have to earn your trust every second of every day. If you can’t trust each other, what type of relationship do you really have?

Richard asks…

How to stop feeling so jealous in a relationship?

I have just very recently entered into my first relationship in just over 16 months.
I am pretty young,and so far,have had bad luck with guys,because they treated me badly or messed with my mind.
My new boyfriend is really nice,but i‘m feeling insanely jealous when he talks to,and texts other girls. I know for a fact he wouldn’t cheat on me. I‘m aware it’s completely irrational,and pretty childish. how do I stop being jealous? :/

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Don’t listen to the first guy, he’s just effing with ya or he’s your typical insecure guy that is scared of being hurt so he hurts before he thinks he’ll be hurt. Just act as if you have never had bad luck with guys before. Cuz if you think about it, if you didn’t have problems with ex bf’s before you wouldn’t be the jealous type. So don’t let the guys in the past ruin your future for ya!

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Susan asks…

How can I stop being so jealous whenever other girls talk to him?

There’s this guy who I’ve liked for a while and we’re not going out or anything but I really like him…and there are some random girls who flirt with him and it just makes me sooo jealous. Whenever I see him talking to another girl/another girl talking to him I just get jealous. How can I stop myself from getting this way? I’m not going out with him so I feel like a freak for being jealous over that :/

Stop Being Jealous answers:

No, you’re being normal. Being jealous like that comes from not trusting him entirely. I know the feeling. I have had boyfriends that have had girls flirt with him infront of my face, but I don’t feel anyway because I know he loves me and I know I can trust him. They guys that we “talk” to are the problem.

Since we aren’t going out with them, they aren’t really ours, so when we see them flirt, it just makes our insecurities even worse…

Don’t worry. Talk to him about it LIGHTLY. Don’t go overbaord, he’ll get freaked and annoyed. After all, he is single.

Just let him know how much you like him.

Hope I helped(:
Good luck, and you are no freak(:

Ken asks…

How can you stop being jealous of other girls?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Well you can’t stop being jealous of other girls or other people, its a natural feeling just don’t let it discourage you or let it damage your confidence. Try to look at yourself one day and write down a list of good qualities you have about yourself, maybe talents that some girls do not have.

Nancy asks…

How can I stop other girls at my school from being jealous of me?

I know this sounds vain, but it is true. Everyone (boys mostly) says that I am the hottest girl at my school, and this makes the other girls mad. How do I stop them from being jealous of me?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

You cant accept who you are and move on. Screw them

Sandra asks…

How to stop being jealous of other girls?

Long story short, my guy friend started flirting with me a lot and now I love him. I have a feeling though he’s had a crush for the longest time on this girl who is way hotter and more popular than me and he comments on her slutty Facebook pics where she poses in a tight fitting shirt and compliments her saying she looks nice btw.
Or simply liking it. But usually commenting with compliments
GRRRRRRR!!!! >:(((((((((((((
I HATE HER SO MUCH.
SO MUCH!
I wish I could have asked “how do I kill her” but I guesss what I’m really asking now is how to stop hating the other girl he flirts with >:( I love him so much…she doesn’t even DESERVE him. I hate her with all my heart I can’t stop,, how do I stop being so jealous and get over it?

Stop Being Jealous answers:

You just have to have confidence in yourself! Talk to him and show him what a great person you are! (:

Chris asks…

how can i stop being jealous of other girls?

i can’t help but get jealous of girls around my age (i’m 14) that have big boobs (i’m 32 B). i also get jealous of shorter girls. i’m 5’5. i don’t think guys like tall girls. they always go for the shorter girls :p.
i try my hardest to just ignore it, but i end up failing :p
i mean, i can be at my happiest until i see a pretty girl walk by and then i’m at the point where i just want to go hide under a rock.
like yesterday there was this blonde girl who had like three guys just following her and i just wanted to go off and hide.

how can i stop being jealous. i hate it..

Stop Being Jealous answers:

Your not jealous, you have low self esteem.

You aren’t fully “developed” yet and soon all the guys will be taller than you, so right now is just an awkward time for you. I have always been taller than my friends (I’m 5’10) you just have to realize that not everyone is created equal. I would rather not have guys following me for the fact in this day in age, she might end up getting attacked (for reasons I won’t mention) Be who you are and don’t be a fake and soon when the guys realize that the girls with big boobs and perfect bodies aren’t all what they are cracked up to be. Make up your “faults” with a great attitude. I was heavy and had glasses in high school but I always had a smile and an optimistic attitude and I never had a problem having a boyfriend back then.

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