Is it normal to be jealous of past relationships?

Sometimes my girlfriend makes a passing reference to a past relationship; most of the time it’s something bad they did, but I still feel uneasy knowing that she keeps referencing them. I dont ever mention a past relationship because I dont like hearing about others’ past relationship. I want to ask her to stop but I dont want to be irrational and come off as insecure/jealous/etc. This especially makes me upset if I knew that she was either really emotionally invested (like if she loved him) and/or physically.

I can’t get over my girlfriends past.?

I’ve been going out with this girl for almost 3 months now. Now myself, I’ve only had one girlfriend and one partner for about 2 and half years which I broke up before I met her. I only slept with one other person and dated one other person. On the other hand she has been in this dating scene since she was in 7th or 8th grade. She has had plenty of boyfriends and such. She has slept with too many guys (IMO) and performed sexual acts with plenty of other guys. Yes, she has told me stories of her doing this and such. She even brought me around a friend of hers she had a one night stand with and that guy proceeded to slap her ass that night behind my back. When I ask her why she did these things she just replies “What? Did You want me to be a prude or something?”

I just don’t understand it. It’s like when she does talk about it she seems like she loved doing it and has no regrets about any of it. And other times I feel inexperience due to her sexual history. I do get angry and jealous about this, as does she when my ex girlfriend of 2 1/2 years comes up. I’m very confused on what I should do. Am I in the wrong here? I do feel part of it is my fault but I just can’t help but to get angry about it. I feel like I’m just another guy on her list.

Girlfriends past?

My girlfriend told me that she has had sex with 9 guys before him. She only had sex when she was ina relationship. I have had sex wtih 3 different girls before her.
My sister told me that girls could always get more guys then guys gettng girls and plus if i brake up with her for this reason then I’m jealous of her getting laid more…
What should I do?
am i being stupied??

Please help me get over my girlfriends past hookup event with a friend of mine?

allright I won’t lie to you guys I am having little freak outs in my head because my mind can’t get over a “event ” my girlfriend had with a good friend of mine I know this sounds stupid but Its like the only way for me not to get jeualous about this I’s if I don’t care about her, my mind just races off in a jealous spiral because we both are each others first but even with that I am still bothered by the whole thing please if anyone could offer me advice I would really help
No my girlfriend and I dated and broke up and then we moved on and she was going threw a rough time in her life and lost her good morals and dident sleep with him but did things I almost think that he was a rebound but still me and her hadnet got that far and then later on like a few monuths after I went back our with her And we decided that we are ment to be together and so we gave each other our umm V-cards LOL but yeh this ” event still hanunts me

What do I do about my girlfriends past sexual experiences?

One night i did the most stupidest thing to EVER do, i don’t know how we got on the subject, but i asked my girlfriend what kind of things sexually has she done with her ex….to make a long story short she has done ALOT of sexual things already, these are the things i found out already, stuff like sex in public, sex in a pool, role playing, using lube, anal, oral & swallowing…well you know what , and even making a sex tape, which really bothers me b/c i can’t do anything about that…she’s tried to ask him to get rid of it but he won’t….moving along now i digress on that. So now this really bothers me b/c i really have fallen for this girl and its really getting serious between the two of us and she feels the same way too, its just that i really wish i didn’t find out all those things now b/c i guess in a way you can look at me as being jealous b/c those were things that i wanted to do/experience with her and at the sametime i’m thinking “ohh maan..DAM! she must of had great sex with her ex” She tells me over and over that things are much better when we have sex rather than how it was with her ex but still, i am still bothered by this and that i want to do something sexual with her as well, but what stuff can i bring to the table now since she has experienced pretty much everything???

Should my girlfriends past bother me enough to lead me to brake up with her?

She never had sex but did everything else, with about 5 guys. my past is cleaner than hers, although i have done stuff, but not 3rd. it used to never bother me, until our relationship got serious and we were talking about marriage. then all of a sudden her past started really bothering me and i couldnt stop thinking about it. it made me lose weight and i couldnt sleep, i think it made me feel really uncomfortable, maybe i was just jealous or it was an ego thing, i dont know, but i couldnt handle it, it was taking over, but before all this happened, we were in love and everything was amazing, so i was thinking i should wait it out until things go back to how they were, but its been 5 months and they havent gone back, what should i do?? thanks

Im always worried about my girlfriends past. Is this normal?

I have been with my GF for almost 2 years, But in the beginning of the relationship she told me how many people she was with and it really bothers me every day. To look at the girl I love and know that she was with other guys. Im extremly jealous and so is she.

Jealous of my Girlfriend’s Past?

I’ve been with my girlfriend since Sunday. We’ve been “together” for about 2 weeks, but I officially “asked her out” on Sunday.

I’m extremely jealous of her past boyfriend. I don’t get it. He cheated on her. They had a sexual relationship, and I can’t bear to think about it. I have talked to her about it, and she keeps convincing me that “I’m the one”, and that her ex is worth nothing to her. It makes it worse, that when we were next to each other in College, I looked over to her after working, and saw text on her screen saying “Sending… *Ex’s Name*”. She then immediately went into her Sent box, and deleted it straight away after realizing I noticed her sending this message to her ex. She said to me: “Just deleting my messages, run out of space.” Even though she has a 32GB mobile phone.

I trust her a lot. I trust the fact that she loves me now, and not her ex. I just can’t help but think about the fact she had a relationship, probably really good, before me. And, the other thing is, is that her past relationship was sexual. We haven’t had sex yet, but I can’t help but be jealous that some other guy has been “in” her before me. It’s tearing me apart, and will probably ruin this relationship if I don’t get over it fast.

We’re perfect for eachother, her, I, and MANY others believe. She’s extremely intelligent like myself, plays music, and lots lots more, exactly like me. We both do Maths, Physics and Further Maths in College. She’s perfect.

I need to get over this Jealously. How can I come about this? Please help. Thanks.

How can I get over my girlfriends past sex life?

I have been with this girl for a little over a year now. We met in our first year of college. We are both 19 years old now. Ever since we met things have been perfect. This girl is just about everything I want. She is smart, funny, trustworthy, loyal, a hard worker, a huge laker fan(like me) and on top of all that she is very attractive. I just cant seem to get over the fact that she had sex before we met. One day in casual conversation, we discussed the number of partners each of us had. Sometimes her past gets to me and sometimes I just dismiss it as normal for people our age. I will not say how many guys she has been with because I think that should remain between us, but I will say that you can count her number of partners on one hand. I have never been involved with a girl that was a virgin before(hell i never even met a girl that was a virgin). And out of all the girls that I have been with, it never bothered me that they had sex with other guys. It only bothers me with the girl I am involved with now. I know that the chances of meeting someone without a past is very slim. And I’m sure that things wouldn’t be different if I was involved with someone else instead of her. Its not fair for me to bring this problem in our relationship. I am really struggling with this. Im not jealous or anything, I just wish that I was her only one. Im confident that she wouldn’t cheat so it doesnt have anything to do with that. And im not worried about anyone else being better than me or whatever. Any advice would be much appreciated. Oh yea, and DONT PULL ANY PUNCHES with your answers. But please be respectful. Thank You

How do i get over my girlfriends past?

Me and my gf are happy together in almost every aspect. only, i cant get over her sexual past. shes had sex 3 times(2 times with one guy, 1 time with the other) before me all on hookups, and even though she regrets and has learned from it, it still drives me crazy. weve discussed it many times before but it seems nothing can help how i feel. shes only 15 and that makes it even worse, especially since i was a virgin before her. ive given it so much though, and i know i lvoe her and shouldnt be feeling this way, but i cant deny the way i feel, no matter how unjustified, i just wanna be able to A)not think bout it constantly, and B) not make me feel jealous, insecure, less attractive, less experienced, etc. Basically im at the point where i have a hard time even accepting it, i just want it out of my head and when it comes to my head on occasion, to not have it hurt me so much.
and a semi-important detail i forgot: the other two guys are “cool kids” i guess, not that i care about my rep or anything but it bothers me for some reason, she used to hang out with all the “cool kids” of our town, she hangs with me and all my friends now, but still, like since they got with her on a hook up and i actually had to go out with her just contributes to making me feel shitty-ishhh :/