Help me stop feeling jealous/intimidated by other pretty girls?

I’m a 19 female girl. There is one trait about myself that I really don’t like and that is the fact that I get jealous being around other pretty girls. Idk why. It’s just that whenever I see a girl that looks really nice and who’s face is pretty, I feel bad about myself or get this weird feeling come over me. I instantly feel like either 1) oh great a pretty chick. She’s gonna steal the attention from me from all the guys ONCE again (b/c I feel like this always tends to happen to me) or 2) I like her image/look. How come I don’t have a look that is similar to hers? I know it sounds crazy but I just feel uncomfortable. And the thing is, I’m friends with alot of pretty girls and people call me “very pretty” and “gorgeous” and all this crap alot..but I guess I don’t feel it. Or it seems like to me when I’m by myslf I get it alot-but as soon as someone decent looking comes along, I am quickly overshadowed or ignored.

But in all honesty, I do feel like I’m attactive…I just always feel like everywhere I turn theres a girl who has this more interesting or exotic look about herself than me. Also, a lot of them don’t really wear alot of makeup( I mean, I dont wear alot, but I wear foundation and stuff) and guys still hit on them. WHich makes me wonder if I’m really all that great looking wo/ makeup myself. WHich once again in turn, makes me feel about myself bc my face isn’t naturally ‘stunning’ or whatever. I guess maybe I feel this way b/c I was always cute wen I was younger but ppl never really broadcasted it alott. But my looks really grew in once I reached junior-high to high school. High school I discovered I was actually pretty (kids and even some teachers used to tell me…at first I was like really? Sadly, I didnt evem know, or think I was until h.s. I was just used to being ignored or being the ‘cute’ or decent looking girl with the frizzy pigtails. Anyways, I wanna get over this intimidation of other girls and/or feeling like I always want to be the best looking or stand out the most. What do you guys think I should? How can I overcome this? P.s should I change my image some more? I finally did that last summer and I gotta say, I didnt really feel as intimidated by other pretty girls if they were around-I felt like we both looked good and the attention from guys would be/should be equal. So should I just always dress up to hinder these feelings I get? Ugh, I just feel like i m too wrapped up in gettting guys’ attention and my looks for my age. Please let me know wat u guys think I should do.
* I usually use my personality to get guys. Ever since I was young. I’ve always had a funny cool crazy personality and alot of guys liked that and would end up liking me, So I use that to my advantage. But unfortunately with some guys, before they get to know a girl they go by her exterior. SO what ta do?
* I usually use my personality to get guys. Ever since I was young. I’ve always had a funny cool crazy personality and alot of guys liked that and would end up liking me, So I use that to my advantage. But unfortunately with some guys, before they get to know a girl they go by her exterior. SO what ta do?

how to stop myself from getting jealous of other girls around my boyfriend?

my boyfriend loves me, i love him, but everytime another girl bear hugs him or flirts with him, i can’t help but feel jealous. Whenever guys try flirt with me i shut them down straight away so he won’t get upset. I know he’d never cheat on me but i just want to know how to stop feeling like this ><

how to stop feeling jealous?

i cant help but find myself staring at other girls or pictures of other girls feeling jealous about something.. their hair, their eyelashes, etc.

idk what to do but it wastes my time and i dnt like doing it =[

but idk how to not worry about but idk why i even do anywayy …

bc i have all i could ever want, meaning like the best boyfriend ever, who doesnt care what other ppl look like and.. well such as thatt, u dont need to know all the info but yeah!

helpp?

How normal is it to feel jealous of other girls?

I hate it when my boyfriend looks or flirts with other girls who are ‘his type’. How can I stop myself from feeling like this? Any tips? Otherwise I’m just going to push him away completely.

how do i stop my self feeling jealous when she talk to other guys ???

i feel jealous every time i see this girl talking to other guys what should i do ?

i need some serious advice of not to feel jealous when she talks to other guys ? help me please ….

When your boyfriend look at other girls, do you get jealous?

I do. I think it’s just human nature to be jealous. But I get really jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls especially if I‘m with him. Because I know there are other prettier girls than me and he looks at those pretty girls.

What do you think?

Why do I get so jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls?? :-/?

So everytime my boyfriend looks at other girls it bothers me. It bothers me when he looks at Girls that are on tv naked or girls on the street. What can I do to not me like this ..
Please help thanks

Why do I get so jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls naked, topless, etc? :-/?

So I love my BF n I know he loves me. I never felt this way about anybody and for some reason I always get jealous when he looks at other girls. He doesn’t really look at girls when were together but when he see’s a naked girl on tv or something. it really bothers me. This might sound dumb but I really hate it. There’s always some hoe flashing her stuff on tv lol whether its her ass, breast etc. it’s so annoying. I feel like if he stares at it, its kind of disrespectful. I dont want to tell him how much it bothers me because he may think thats immature? What to do? Am I over reacting?

Why do I get jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls?

Last Saturday I was helping my boyfriend move into his new apartment and as we were loading stuff into the truck to take it to the new place this cute like, 20ish girl in short shorts and a sports bra walked by and I guess he saw her ot of the corner of his eye and he turned around and looked at her. I know it’s a natural thing for guys and it wasn’t like he ogled and drooled or wolf whistled or anything, but I still felt jealous and “why is he looking at her?”. Why do I still feel jealous?

I cant control my angry moods when i get jealous over my boyfriend looking at other girls. what can i do?

Lately, ive started to get really jealous whenever my boyfriend looks at another girl. Although i understand just because they are looking doesn’t mean that they want to be with them! but a few days ago, me and my boyfriend were invited to the pub to celebrate one of his mates finally getting a job, i got there and was the only girl there, some of his mates didn’t even say hello. there was a tall brunette with glasses and a short dress playing pool with her friend, every time she took a shot obviously bent over they were literally dribbling over her and he was making comments, not knowing i was stood behind him. it left me feeling very angry and even worse that i couldn’t even have a little moan to one of the other girls! His mate is a really bad influence though, he wants a bit of everything that moves! Also, it was out year anniversary on saturday, he took me out for a meal, when we arrived his mum, step dad and friend was there. i was plonked at the end of the table not involved in any conversation then it was my fault for not talking. His mum was also asking him how he felt when he had seen the ex love of his life the day before. i just wish she wouldn’t do it in front of me because i am starting to be a really jealous person and i don’t want to be, i feel really stupid because i know he loves me and my angry moods over these things are going to drive him away. when i get in these moods i don’t tell him why when he asks either because i feel stupid! Advice please!!

Why would a girl stay with her boyfriend if he checks out other girls in front of her?

This guy I was hanging out with would check me out in FRONT of his girlfriend!(I’m asexual I didn’t hit on him or flirt with him at all!!)

Why would you stay with a guy like that?
he checked me out constantly all night
Uhm i’m not the one being insecure who tells her boyfriend not to hang around other girls.

My boyfriend checks out other girls right in front of me . . . .?

i see him every 2 weeks for a few days and i recently noticed that he was checking out girls the whole time. I asked him not to check out girls in front of me. I feel like is he is shopping around why should we be together if he is looking for some one else. Am i right?

boyfriend checking other girls out in front of me?mad or not?

my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 years and i fully trust him but it bothers me that he checks out other girls in front of me cause i dont care if its when im not there but when he is with me i think he should be lookin at me not other girls, am i right or am i wrong?

My boyfriend checks out other girls in front of me, and even tells me they are hot, but he does not tell me?

but he does not tell me that i am hot, is this normal? or okay? should i just deal with it? do any of you other guys do this too?

I think my boyfriend was checking out other girls in front of me?

When i was camping with my boyfriend i swear that he kept checking out other girls alott. It bothered me for weeks and then i finally told him, and he swore that he wasnt. Well now i really dont trust him at all around other girls! It looked alot like he wass. Do you think hes telling the truth? What should i do? How can i start to trust him?

Is it normal to be jealous of past relationships?

Sometimes my girlfriend makes a passing reference to a past relationship; most of the time it’s something bad they did, but I still feel uneasy knowing that she keeps referencing them. I dont ever mention a past relationship because I dont like hearing about others’ past relationship. I want to ask her to stop but I dont want to be irrational and come off as insecure/jealous/etc. This especially makes me upset if I knew that she was either really emotionally invested (like if she loved him) and/or physically.

I can’t get over my girlfriends past.?

I’ve been going out with this girl for almost 3 months now. Now myself, I’ve only had one girlfriend and one partner for about 2 and half years which I broke up before I met her. I only slept with one other person and dated one other person. On the other hand she has been in this dating scene since she was in 7th or 8th grade. She has had plenty of boyfriends and such. She has slept with too many guys (IMO) and performed sexual acts with plenty of other guys. Yes, she has told me stories of her doing this and such. She even brought me around a friend of hers she had a one night stand with and that guy proceeded to slap her ass that night behind my back. When I ask her why she did these things she just replies “What? Did You want me to be a prude or something?”

I just don’t understand it. It’s like when she does talk about it she seems like she loved doing it and has no regrets about any of it. And other times I feel inexperience due to her sexual history. I do get angry and jealous about this, as does she when my ex girlfriend of 2 1/2 years comes up. I’m very confused on what I should do. Am I in the wrong here? I do feel part of it is my fault but I just can’t help but to get angry about it. I feel like I’m just another guy on her list.

Girlfriends past?

My girlfriend told me that she has had sex with 9 guys before him. She only had sex when she was ina relationship. I have had sex wtih 3 different girls before her.
My sister told me that girls could always get more guys then guys gettng girls and plus if i brake up with her for this reason then I’m jealous of her getting laid more…
What should I do?
am i being stupied??

Please help me get over my girlfriends past hookup event with a friend of mine?

allright I won’t lie to you guys I am having little freak outs in my head because my mind can’t get over a “event ” my girlfriend had with a good friend of mine I know this sounds stupid but Its like the only way for me not to get jeualous about this I’s if I don’t care about her, my mind just races off in a jealous spiral because we both are each others first but even with that I am still bothered by the whole thing please if anyone could offer me advice I would really help
No my girlfriend and I dated and broke up and then we moved on and she was going threw a rough time in her life and lost her good morals and dident sleep with him but did things I almost think that he was a rebound but still me and her hadnet got that far and then later on like a few monuths after I went back our with her And we decided that we are ment to be together and so we gave each other our umm V-cards LOL but yeh this ” event still hanunts me

What do I do about my girlfriends past sexual experiences?

One night i did the most stupidest thing to EVER do, i don’t know how we got on the subject, but i asked my girlfriend what kind of things sexually has she done with her ex….to make a long story short she has done ALOT of sexual things already, these are the things i found out already, stuff like sex in public, sex in a pool, role playing, using lube, anal, oral & swallowing…well you know what , and even making a sex tape, which really bothers me b/c i can’t do anything about that…she’s tried to ask him to get rid of it but he won’t….moving along now i digress on that. So now this really bothers me b/c i really have fallen for this girl and its really getting serious between the two of us and she feels the same way too, its just that i really wish i didn’t find out all those things now b/c i guess in a way you can look at me as being jealous b/c those were things that i wanted to do/experience with her and at the sametime i’m thinking “ohh maan..DAM! she must of had great sex with her ex” She tells me over and over that things are much better when we have sex rather than how it was with her ex but still, i am still bothered by this and that i want to do something sexual with her as well, but what stuff can i bring to the table now since she has experienced pretty much everything???

Should my girlfriends past bother me enough to lead me to brake up with her?

She never had sex but did everything else, with about 5 guys. my past is cleaner than hers, although i have done stuff, but not 3rd. it used to never bother me, until our relationship got serious and we were talking about marriage. then all of a sudden her past started really bothering me and i couldnt stop thinking about it. it made me lose weight and i couldnt sleep, i think it made me feel really uncomfortable, maybe i was just jealous or it was an ego thing, i dont know, but i couldnt handle it, it was taking over, but before all this happened, we were in love and everything was amazing, so i was thinking i should wait it out until things go back to how they were, but its been 5 months and they havent gone back, what should i do?? thanks

Im always worried about my girlfriends past. Is this normal?

I have been with my GF for almost 2 years, But in the beginning of the relationship she told me how many people she was with and it really bothers me every day. To look at the girl I love and know that she was with other guys. Im extremly jealous and so is she.

Jealous of my Girlfriend’s Past?

I’ve been with my girlfriend since Sunday. We’ve been “together” for about 2 weeks, but I officially “asked her out” on Sunday.

I’m extremely jealous of her past boyfriend. I don’t get it. He cheated on her. They had a sexual relationship, and I can’t bear to think about it. I have talked to her about it, and she keeps convincing me that “I’m the one”, and that her ex is worth nothing to her. It makes it worse, that when we were next to each other in College, I looked over to her after working, and saw text on her screen saying “Sending… *Ex’s Name*”. She then immediately went into her Sent box, and deleted it straight away after realizing I noticed her sending this message to her ex. She said to me: “Just deleting my messages, run out of space.” Even though she has a 32GB mobile phone.

I trust her a lot. I trust the fact that she loves me now, and not her ex. I just can’t help but think about the fact she had a relationship, probably really good, before me. And, the other thing is, is that her past relationship was sexual. We haven’t had sex yet, but I can’t help but be jealous that some other guy has been “in” her before me. It’s tearing me apart, and will probably ruin this relationship if I don’t get over it fast.

We’re perfect for eachother, her, I, and MANY others believe. She’s extremely intelligent like myself, plays music, and lots lots more, exactly like me. We both do Maths, Physics and Further Maths in College. She’s perfect.

I need to get over this Jealously. How can I come about this? Please help. Thanks.

How can I get over my girlfriends past sex life?

I have been with this girl for a little over a year now. We met in our first year of college. We are both 19 years old now. Ever since we met things have been perfect. This girl is just about everything I want. She is smart, funny, trustworthy, loyal, a hard worker, a huge laker fan(like me) and on top of all that she is very attractive. I just cant seem to get over the fact that she had sex before we met. One day in casual conversation, we discussed the number of partners each of us had. Sometimes her past gets to me and sometimes I just dismiss it as normal for people our age. I will not say how many guys she has been with because I think that should remain between us, but I will say that you can count her number of partners on one hand. I have never been involved with a girl that was a virgin before(hell i never even met a girl that was a virgin). And out of all the girls that I have been with, it never bothered me that they had sex with other guys. It only bothers me with the girl I am involved with now. I know that the chances of meeting someone without a past is very slim. And I’m sure that things wouldn’t be different if I was involved with someone else instead of her. Its not fair for me to bring this problem in our relationship. I am really struggling with this. Im not jealous or anything, I just wish that I was her only one. Im confident that she wouldn’t cheat so it doesnt have anything to do with that. And im not worried about anyone else being better than me or whatever. Any advice would be much appreciated. Oh yea, and DONT PULL ANY PUNCHES with your answers. But please be respectful. Thank You

How do i get over my girlfriends past?

Me and my gf are happy together in almost every aspect. only, i cant get over her sexual past. shes had sex 3 times(2 times with one guy, 1 time with the other) before me all on hookups, and even though she regrets and has learned from it, it still drives me crazy. weve discussed it many times before but it seems nothing can help how i feel. shes only 15 and that makes it even worse, especially since i was a virgin before her. ive given it so much though, and i know i lvoe her and shouldnt be feeling this way, but i cant deny the way i feel, no matter how unjustified, i just wanna be able to A)not think bout it constantly, and B) not make me feel jealous, insecure, less attractive, less experienced, etc. Basically im at the point where i have a hard time even accepting it, i just want it out of my head and when it comes to my head on occasion, to not have it hurt me so much.
and a semi-important detail i forgot: the other two guys are “cool kids” i guess, not that i care about my rep or anything but it bothers me for some reason, she used to hang out with all the “cool kids” of our town, she hangs with me and all my friends now, but still, like since they got with her on a hook up and i actually had to go out with her just contributes to making me feel shitty-ishhh :/

I really hate being jealous like this but it’s really strong?

I‘m jealous of a girl who wants my boyfriend.
And I don’t want to control him, he needs space and freedom and I know that.
But I just can’t seem to trust that girl and I WANT to but I CAN’T!
I‘m sure i‘m pushing him away by acting this way…
So any advice to push jealousy as far as you can from you?
yep she calls him, and I hate it.

Don’t you just hate jealous girls??

Why are there so many girls nowdays complain about other girls who wears make up?
Personally, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with make up. I wear it and proud. I sometimes hate how “fugly” girls will give me shit about wearing make up and for being thin after having a baby. I have style, I like make up needless to say I don’t hide in it but like it. And last but not least, I like to work out so don’t give me crap about that too.

Wh do you think some girls give other girls a hard time for taking care of themselves?
Carlyy–haha. I can tell you’re one of those girls. The jealous type. Feel sorry for you.

And right back at yea..if it bothers you so much that you would answer my question, then you need to re-check and re-evaluate because I can smell jealousy coming from inside my computer screen! Woot! haha.
Well, Chucky, that makes two of us–wasting our time. You wasted yours answering this question…haha.

Oh well!

I hate jealous women? do you?

I hate women who are jealous of women just because someone looks better them then. Its so irritating their’s always someone who will look better then you so get over it.

What do i do ( i hate jealous girls)?

today after school i was hanging out with this guy for like an hour as just friends.
and so when i was about to go home he hugged me and we both left and a bunch of girls saw us and there not exactly nice.
they were getting mad at me on msn and saying i‘m not allowed to talk to him because they like him.
and they threatened that they will get the whole school against me

what do i do i really started to like that guy aswel.

How do i treat my 2 year old daughter when she feels jealous or hate about her newborn brother?

As soon as i came out from the hospital i felt a big reproach from my 2 year old daughter. She don’t want to do the same activities as usuall with me. And me question is, if i wonder if she feels jealous,hate, or ect. about her newborn brother.When i ask my daughter about her lil’brother she responds me ” me, no lil’brother,and also she says, mommy ..ugly baby mom. Today it got to the point that she threw her bottle at him, and by a little bit she almost hit in the head with it.

How can I stop being so jealous whenever other girls talk to him?

There’s this guy who I’ve liked for a while and we’re not going out or anything but I really like him…and there are some random girls who flirt with him and it just makes me sooo jealous. Whenever I see him talking to another girl/another girl talking to him I just get jealous. How can I stop myself from getting this way? I’m not going out with him so I feel like a freak for being jealous over that :/

How can you stop being jealous of other girls?

How can I stop other girls at my school from being jealous of me?

I know this sounds vain, but it is true. Everyone (boys mostly) says that I am the hottest girl at my school, and this makes the other girls mad. How do I stop them from being jealous of me?

How to stop being jealous of other girls?

Long story short, my guy friend started flirting with me a lot and now I love him. I have a feeling though he’s had a crush for the longest time on this girl who is way hotter and more popular than me and he comments on her slutty Facebook pics where she poses in a tight fitting shirt and compliments her saying she looks nice btw.
Or simply liking it. But usually commenting with compliments
GRRRRRRR!!!! >:(((((((((((((
I HATE HER SO MUCH.
SO MUCH!
I wish I could have asked “how do I kill her” but I guesss what I’m really asking now is how to stop hating the other girl he flirts with >:( I love him so much…she doesn’t even DESERVE him. I hate her with all my heart I can’t stop,, how do I stop being so jealous and get over it?

how can i stop being jealous of other girls?

i can’t help but get jealous of girls around my age (i’m 14) that have big boobs (i’m 32 B). i also get jealous of shorter girls. i’m 5’5. i don’t think guys like tall girls. they always go for the shorter girls :p.
i try my hardest to just ignore it, but i end up failing :p
i mean, i can be at my happiest until i see a pretty girl walk by and then i’m at the point where i just want to go hide under a rock.
like yesterday there was this blonde girl who had like three guys just following her and i just wanted to go off and hide.

how can i stop being jealous. i hate it..

How can I stop being jealous and insecure?

The girl i love is lost to me how do I control to not be jealous and insecure i’m always on guard not to be hurt ends up being my down fall

How can i stop being jealous and insecure?

Its a freq. asked question but because my boyfriend has so many friends which are girls, i just get insecure. We were out tonight, and because a girl came up to him (who had a boyfriend anyway) and they were speaking i just walked off with my other boy mate. He says he gets jealous too but he never shows it and i want to stop feeling insecure and jealous. i felt so bad about it tonight i almost finsihed him but we’ve been together for 10 months and i dont want to lose him. Ive never had this kind of feeling for any prev. relationship, i care about hims o much im just scared. i know he wont cheat but i dnt likethe fact of other girls liking him or anything like that etc. its eating me alive.
no stupid or horrid answers pls im in such a shit state.
thanks

how can i stop being insecure and jealous?

I hate it, i know there is no need for it, yet these feelings still arise? How can i make the changes that i need in order to be more secure, confident and not jealous? i know it can ruin a good relationship. and i really want to cahnge….any advice?

how to stop being insecure depressed and jealous?

I have been feeling insecure about my hair. And I have been depressed too. I always find more negative things about me then positive. I try to stop that but I seem like I cant. And I don’t want to talk about it to my parents or anyone because they’ll think it’s being stupid but it’s starting to get unhealthy. I’m always being jealous of my friends by how easily they have their way. And if you think you might have a way to help me, I would really appreciate that.

how do i stop being insecure and jealous of other pretty girls?

a lot of people have told me i’m pretty but i still get jealous whenever i see prettier and skinnier girls. it bothers me when guys are giving them attention. i never used to be this way and i hate it. i know i’m insecure so please just give me any advice and please don’t just say become more confident i need to know how. thanks:)