what to do when your boyfriend hangs up the phone on you?

What to do when your boyfriend refuses to talk to you on the phone?

so i was talking to my boyfriends best friend and he handed the phone to my boyfriend…..you would think that he would want to talk to me because we havent seen each other for a very long time but instead as soon as he gets the phone he hangs up on me…idk wat to do about it…

Ladies, what would you do if your boyfriend hang up on you intentionally?

Called him probably 5 times. When I finally got hold of him, he texted me that he was sleeping and therefore was not able to answer the phone. When I called him again, he hang up on me! More than once then next thing he turned off his phone already!

What do when your friend makes rude noises around you and flirts with your boyfriend and denies it?

I just had a nervous breakdown on Sat Aug 2,2008. Because I just couldn’t take it anymore with this person. I tried to be patient with her around my guy and I didn’t see any improvements on her part.

This is what I would see every time she was with me and my boyfriend:

1. She would make very rude noises around just me and my boyfriend, But only when I’m around; She never made rude noises when it was just my boyfriend and her in the area. She would act normal he told me. And laugh and giggle at anything he said to her.

2. She would always flirt, play tussle with my boyfriend while I’m right there watching and it would get out of control. That she would be on top of him or vice versa.

3. She would block out what you say and ignore what concerns you have with her on boundaries on personal space with myself and her around my boyfriend.

4. Plus, she has a whole lot of mental and physical issues that she won’t face to grow up.

I talked with my boyfriend about this. He asked questions to his friends they told him that girl is messing with your relationship and she has to go. They also told my boyfriend that what he was allowing was flirting and cheating right in front of me and that is beyond insulting to your girlfriend and your future step daughter.

I told him that she always leaves messages on his phone and texts him too. Plus she has a myspace page and leaves messages almost all the time in a week. Yet she never really talks to me or gets to know me like a friend should. She is to interested in what my boyfriend likes and dislikes.

While every time he asks or I ask with him are you interested in my boyfriend she denies it all and acts like this is the way she is. She only behaves around her best friend cause I only told her about my complaints once about her leaving us hanging at a fun park to go see her best friend. I was weak from an accident too. I guess it was just to boring for her ego to know what is more important at that time.

She doesn’t like having people talk to others about her and she wants you to confront her and she said it won’t hurt her feelings too. But if she ignores your warnings and acts retarded like she doesn’t understand anything you say anything to confront the issue at hand and she blows it off and repeats this problem again.

I got confused about why she lies and acts so normal around my boyfriend and rude and pretends to be my friend around her best friend and my boyfriend. Then when I really wasn’t able to take it any more I was tired from a bike ride in a park. I was struggling with my balance and I was flushed. When my boyfriend was done teacher her martial arts I waited in the car.

She comes in my car and asks me what‘s wrong. I told her isn’t it obvious I’m tired. Then she says; “You don’t have to get mad about it, it is because of me”. I said it will be if you don’t let me breathe. She didn’t say anything else. Then my boyfriend invited her to come eat with us. She didn’t walk to her car she just sat in my car didn’t ask if I could give her a ride and I just waited to take off after my body cooled down and drove her to her car that was across the street.

Then as I drove her to her car she didn’t say thank you for the ride. But she slams my door. When we go to the location to eat I couldn’t leave me car. If I did someone would’ve stole my bike and I didn’t bring my lock. Anyway I stayed in my trying to calm down from this stress and I didn’t leave my car for 1hr 30 mins. I asked my boyfriend to get me some food and I told him that I wanted to go home. Because he was checking up on me when I let out a scream in my car.

As I waited for him to let her know that I don’t feel comfortable around her. All she said to my boyfriend was this: “I didn’t know when it all went sour” and told my boyfriend that she will see him next Sat weekend to practice martial arts.

You can’t help but go insane and wonder if this is worth the time to talk, think, act, or just dump her and find a new friend until she learns something from this mess. Plus I worry about my boyfriend if he continues to train her and if they have a falling out what if she claims assault or rape because of the contact training involved in martial arts. I don’t want it to mess up his life as well. All because I though bring my friend home and introducing her to my boyfriend would make us all friends together.

That was and still my stress currently today..

how do you know when its time to break up with your boyfriend?

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little longer then 4 months now. the first 3 months were great. He gave me a neckalce for our 3 months and then we went to six flags and he won me a giant stufed animal. about in the middle of 3 months we got into a very stupid argument. we made up but then once school ended we barley saw eachother. we didnt see eachother in 2 weeks. During those two weeks was my birthday. He gave me a 30 second phone call. He didnt even get me a present. I saw him 2 times since school ended . Ive been thinking about breaking up with him during those two weeks but then when i saw him i thought everything when back to normal, but 2 nights ago i was talking to one of his best friends who happens to be one of my bestfriend who is lookikng out for me and said his ex girlfriend sent him a photo. He lied to me and told me no girl sent him a photo but when i told him i know she did he admitted it and said it was just casual. when we hung out the night before that he wouldnt let me see his phone like he ussually does. We made up but really havent talked since the fight. we were supposed to hang today but he canceled on me yesterday becuase apperently he has hockey and it was 4 text messages. then today he said heyy i just got done with hockey and i said kool and that was it. My friends all tell me to break up with him because they think he uses me. Yes we have gone to third base. Im starting to think that two. He told me he loves me, but i dont believe that bullshit. yes, i love him..but i have no clue what to do in this sistuation. can anybody help me please?

How would you feel? Going out 19 can’t drink… boyfriend / his friends can?

I’m 19 and my boyfriend, Craig, is 24. His friend and girlfriend are coming up for dinner. Here is the problem: I’m dreading going because I’m so shy, and I also feel embarressed of my age when everyone else can drink. It’s embarressing when everyone has to get IDed because there’s someone under 21 at the table.

Last time this sort of thing happened, the waitress made such a big deal over IDs and embarressed me. I just wanted to leave when Craig ordered shots for everyone.

I’d hate to ruin the good time, but I really don’t want to go. I’d drink to losen up before we go out, but just being my age and being shy is enough to make me not want to go. Not only that, but everyone always likes to go to bars after dinner, and I’d just ruin the fun because I can’t get in.

I’m going to talk with Craig later (he knows how I feel but not to this extent).

Similar situations? / How would you feel? / What would you do?
Guys, if you were in Craig’s situation would you understand?

what’s a good excuse for not going out with your boyfriend and his friends?

i was shopping all day yesterday and i’m fucking exchausted. my boyfriend just text me there asking if i wanted to go out. honest to god, my hair is greasy, i’m tired and the last thing i want to do is go out and have my boyfriend expecting us to kiss and hold hands. what excuse can i use, not like i’m sick/ doing something with my mam/ friends/ i don’t want to because then he’d be pissed. any ideas?

How can I convince my mom that I can go out with boyyzzz?

Sorry it’s kinda long but please read it’s like a not so fairly tail c:

So my mom is strict I was talking to her about bout boyfriends and im 13 btw and everyone of my friends have one but I’m like left out so she said “your too little for one” and she went on and on about growing up isnt fun but I really want to go out with him his my first boyfriend what can I say I love him…… I really need something to convince her pleasee well down below is the whole story if you wanna read it it’s about what happened today and alil yesterday (:

Otay so I reallyyy like this boy and we have been talkin for who knows how long we’ve been talkin but I like him a lot I say his just a friend but I like him waayyy more then just a friend and iknow he likes me too cause I asked him and yesterday I slept at my friends house and we were facetiming off the iPad and iPod and we were saying oh yeah let’s take the bikes out tmrow and he kept asking me if I can go on his four wheeler so I got on the back with him and we went btw this was today and it was funn we were chilling in my friends house cause we were waiting for my other friend and we just talked then my friend got there and we went on the four wheelers for like 20minutes it was pretty gay but I smashed my face into his helmet it hurt and then we went back to my friends and he had to drive back to his dads so he left and I asked if he wanted to come back later and he said yes we were all ganna spoon :p mpphh but then friend jus kept coming over and there was 5 of us so we kinda forgot about it and we ended up sliding down the stairs on a matress and it was fun then I got sooo close and we were messing with my friends blackberry(phone)and I was ganna snuggle but then he got up and I was like sh!tt then my friend had to leave so he was leaving and I was kinda sad I don’t know if he saw it in my face cause I was standing in the other room agenst the door then he turned around and we just hugged really close and we were whispering to each other and I turned my head a little and he fricken says “skype later” and I jus giggled and said “or FaceTime” and then we laughed alil and I was going to kiss him the moment was perfect but I jus regret it cause I didn’t then we let go and I was IM STILL in my fantasy and we are talk in about it right now and yehhh..c:

Going out with my boyfriend and his friends…?

When my boyfriend takes me out somewhere with his other guy friends I always feel like I don’t have any thing to say…and I also feel like I can’t talk about anything with my boyfriend when all his other friends are around….What should I do?

What should I do: found out my boyfriend & his friends were picking on my mentally handicapped brother?

I have 2 older brothers. The middle one is mentally handicapped with the mind of an 8-year-old (he’s 23) but I love him like crazy. I call him my giant teddy bear and we’ve always been close to each other.

For the past year I’ve been seeing a guy who’s like everything I ever wanted in a boyfriend. This is the first serious relationship I’ve ever had. We were even planning to go to the same college next year.

Anyway my BFF told me she and a girl from one of her classes saw my boyfriend and some of his friends picking on my brother last Friday after school at the shopping mall parking lot when my brother went to pick up something for my mom from the drug store.

She’s always liked my brother so she got upset and made them stop. Before she got along with my boyfriend, but now she thinks he’s a scumbag and that I should ask him about this. She also told my other oldest brother since they’re friends, and he’s very protective of my brother.

He said the next time he sees my boyfriend, he’s going to kick the *&@# out of him. My parents don’t know though.

I asked my middle brother if all this really happened and he said yes. I know he and my friend would never lie about something like this. Another guy I know at school was at the mall that day and said he saw the incident from his car while he was on his cellphone.

This is really killing me. I haven’t confronted my boyfriend about this yet (he’s out of town on a track meet and won’t be back until later this week) and I’m scared to. I always assumed he was cool with my brother and it makes me upset to hear all this.

Was my friend out of line for telling me and my other brother?

i hate when my best friend and my boyfriend hang out (his ex)?

so my best friend dated this guys eric over a year ago (who i am dating now) and she was really upset when she first heard. but now she invites him to things all the time, and he was over her house today with another friend before i came over.

if i wasn’t dating him, she wouldn’t even be talking to him. she would still be like “oh blah blah i‘m still in love with eric..”

i don’t know. maybe i‘m over reacting, but i just get jealous and i hate hanging out with them at the same time. it puts me in a really bad mood and i get annoyed with her easily.

any advice? =/
it’s highschool- honesly haha. everyone date’s everyone’s ex.

and he doesn’t have feelings for her. but i don’t know how she feels about him. it just frustrates me.
he actually broke up with HER over a year ago, and she was heartbroken.

and she actually doesn’t really ‘flirt’ with him but i just hate hanging out with them at the same time, i feel like i can’t be a girlfriend to him when she’s there and like everything she says to him annoys me. it’s hard to explain. my friend honestly isn’t a slut at all, and i really don’t think she would do anything to hurt me. i just don’t like that they are hanging out now

I get upset when my boyfriend goes out with his friends?

I‘ve been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years….and he’s 22. Ever since the beginning, I‘ve hated his friends! They act like they’re still in high school, all druggies, all alcoholics who do nothing but party 4 days out of the week. They’re an extremely bad influence on him…he smokes, blazes and drinks because of them. He apparently quit smoking a couple months ago all together for me, but my biggest fear when he goes out with them is that he’ll smoke again. I also hate that he blazes but I‘ve learned to accept it as a social thing. I trust him 100% not to cheat, but there’s one girl who he slept with the same week he asked me to be his gf and hid it from me for a year who is always there when they all party….I dont like that he sees her because I‘m afraid he’ll think about them having sex…and that just upsets me so much! I just want him to grow up and stop partying so much! Usually I go with him to make sure he doesn’t go crazy…but it’s exam week for me so I can’t go out…and I‘m at home going crazy wondering why he hasn’t textd me for the past 3 hours. I hate that when he goes out with them he typically gets shitfaced, etc… he tells me that his “friends” aren’t even his friends, they’re more like his drinking buddies from high school….he hangs out with ONE of the whole group on a weekly basis, his best friend Matt…other than that, he doesn’t see any of them apart from partying. He still, to this day has no idea this is how I feel…..and I don’t want to tell him…so how can I cope with this?

I hate it when my boyfriend hangs out with her?

I know its long, but PLEASE read, I really need help. I‘d appreciate any input.

There’s a girl that my boyfriend has been really good friends with for a few years. I want to respect my boyfriend‘s ability to choose his own friends but I feel so on edge whenever he is with her because she flirts with him a lot and they hang out until midnight or later, but never alone.

I feel like she thinks she knows my boyfriend better than I do or something by how she treats me. And I know she doesn’t. My boyfriend said that other than his closest circle of guy friends and family, I know him best. She is a friend to go out with and have fun. I do trust him. Its not that AT ALL. Nothing will happen, I know that. But I just feel like he’s doing me wrong by being friends with someone who flirts with him. How do I just let this go and not care?

He’s got dinner and hung out with her and another friend until midnight last night. If I lived closer, I know he’d invite me too, he has before, I‘ve met her, and their friendship is open to me-nothing to hide. I‘ve talked to my boyfriend about this before and he doesn’t understand why I‘m upset if he is only friends with this girl. I‘ve tried very hard to explain to him my reasoning, but he still doesn’t see why there is a problem if he is only friends and he has absolutely no intent to be anything else. My boyfriend is not trying to cheat me. I know that. Its not even that he values his relationship with this girl so much, its that he wants his freedom to choose for himself rather me do it for him. What do I do?

LOVE my boyfriend hate Hate HATE his friends!?

lol I will keep it as condensed as possible. We are both in 9th grade. We have been in the same school since 6th grade and we didn’t start liking each other until this year. I love him to death. However the problem is, he has a huge social circle. I don’t. In 6th and 7th grade I was kind of ugly because of my untidy hair and his friends made fun of me. It wasn’t until this year I became one of the prettier people. We had to do a dance routine last year for for our 8th grade play, and his friends giggled and gave thumbs up to the boy who was paired with me. I felt horrible. they Laughed at me when I answered a question wrong in class, and just make me feel plain self conscious and uncomfortable when I‘m around them.
And I just don’t get it because he’s SO sweet. And his ex-girlfriend is far from one of my favorite people. She talks to me like I‘m 2. I don’t talk much around people I hate so she has no idea I can be talked to like a 9th grader thankx you very much. Obviously, he likes his friends and I can’t be one of those annoying scolding girlfriends who tells them their friends are stupid and to stop hanging out with them. what do I do!? how are we supposed to find some 1 on 1 time without his horrible friends. how am I supposed to work around this?
Well it’s just his friends. It’s not him. He is sweet, kind, lends me a pencil in class, asked me numerous times if I needed help in spanish.

Why do I get mad when my BF hangs out with his friends?

Ok, so I have this thing that every time my boyfriend goes to hangout with his friends, I get beyond pissed. Well now he just stopped hangout with him so he didn’t have to hear me yell. I hate being like this & in my heart I want him to be able to hangout with his friends, but I just can’t seem to let him. But I found out yesterday that he gets mad when I go to hangout with my friends. But I don’t really care if I hangout with my friends, as long as I get to hangout with him . But like I said he told me he wouldn’t like it if I hung out with my friends. I don’t even hangout with my friends anymore anyways. So what’s going on?

I think I like him. Does he like me? Need Advice? PLEASE ANSER! NOBODY’S ANSWERING!?

So i think i might like my best guy friend (lets call him X)….

and i think that X might like me more than a friend… he’s been my best friend since the end of year 5. now we’re in middle school.

here are some reason why i think he likes me:
1. he talks to me more than his girlfriend (who is my other best friend.. codename, Z)
2. whenever i talk to him he listens and doesnt judge. X once listened to me go on and on about one of my problems and just listened, he didn’t say a word and i heard that if a guy does that, it means they like ur voice?? but idk

and btw, we used to go out but then i broke up with him cuz we never spoke cuz it was really awkward! (i mean, dating ur best friend is awkward)
after we broke up.. a while later we spoke to each other again and i asked him if he thought it was awkward when we went out and he said no.
4. I say, your the same height as me now . then X says back well im gonna be taller. cuz X knows that i like when guys are taller than me and he always says, after the holidays im gonna be taller that you. and stuff like that
5. he flirts with me a lot like, when i ask him questions, he asks me the same question back then i say.. can u just answer it. i asked u first. (but i say it in a serious voice) and then he says back to me, i asked you second. but in a flirty way.
6. he asked me to the movies with another one of his friends but he’s dating Z.
7. i once told him that i thought Z like another one of my best friends boyfriends (yes, life is very complicated) and he says that relationships still work when you like someone else (maybe he meant if he still likes me and Z??)

I not a guy expert so im not very sure if he likes me or not…

please dont say things like “he’s a pervert” or anything like that cuz he’s a pretty nice guy.

he does flirt with me but as u know he’s dating Z my best friend but i kinda had him first and she shouldnt have said yes without talking to me about it and stuff like that… it’s complicated and X shouldnt have asked my best friend out. he shouldve know it was wrong. and they do like each other, they’re not trying to make me jealous (atleast i dont think they are) cuz they both tell me to tell each other that they love each other like..

this is a text
X: hey you there
Me: yeah
then we would text bout stuff thats been going on. and he would usually start the conversations.
Me: I gtg now. night x
X: Night and can you tell Z that i love her
Then i would text Z
Me: hiii(: X wants me to tell u that he loves you<3
Z: Awwhh tell him i love him too x
Me: kk
Then i would text X
Me: she says awh and that she loves you too.
X: tell her i say Awwhh.
Me: I'm not an owl…
(as Hermione Granger would say.. hahaaa)
Then X would say something flirty.

Anyways.. does it sound like he likes me or is he just being friendly??
please tell me what you think and be honest, i dont care if its mean i just want to know

ps. i have asked this question twice before it’s just that only one person answers each time

Thanks for reading
(and, if u answer this, ill answer ur’s if can! like if ur question is like this one not like who was the third president of Azkaban or sumthin like that.. )

and also… please answer why other question! it’s about names:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al7vqnqqkH51eXvU1a8sUxLty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20111230064301AACeI9X

Thanks again

I think i like him. Does he like me? PLEASE ANSWER! Need Advice?

So i think i might like my best guy friend (lets call him X)….

and i think that X might like me more than a friend… he’s been my best friend since the end of year 5. now we’re in middle school.

here are some reason why i think he likes me:
1. he talks to me more than his girlfriend (who is my other best friend.. codename, Z)
2. whenever i talk to him he listens and doesnt judge. X once listened to me go on and on about one of my problems and just listened, he didn’t say a word and i heard that if a guy does that, it means they like ur voice?? but idk

and btw, we used to go out but then i broke up with him cuz we never spoke cuz it was really awkward! (i mean, dating ur best friend is awkward)
after we broke up.. a while later we spoke to each other again and i asked him if he thought it was awkward when we went out and he said no.
4. I say, your the same height as me now . then X says back well im gonna be taller. cuz X knows that i like when guys are taller than me and he always says, after the holidays im gonna be taller that you. and stuff like that
5. he flirts with me a lot like, when i ask him questions, he asks me the same question back then i say.. can u just answer it. i asked u first. (but i say it in a serious voice) and then he says back to me, i asked you second. but in a flirty way.
6. he asked me to the movies with another one of his friends but he’s dating Z.
7. i once told him that i thought Z like another one of my best friends boyfriends (yes, life is very complicated) and he says that relationships still work when you like someone else (maybe he meant if he still likes me and Z??)

I not a guy expert so im not very sure if he likes me or not…

please dont say things like “he’s a pervert” or anything like that cuz he’s a pretty nice guy.

he does flirt with me but as u know he’s dating Z my best friend but i kinda had him first and she shouldnt have said yes without talking to me about it and stuff like that… it’s complicated and X shouldnt have asked my best friend out. he shouldve know it was wrong. and they do like each other, they’re not trying to make me jealous (atleast i dont think they are) cuz they both tell me to tell each other that they love each other like..

this is a text
X: hey you there
Me: yeah
then we would text bout stuff thats been going on. and he would usually start the conversations.
Me: I gtg now. night x
X: Night and can you tell Z that i love her
Then i would text Z
Me: hiii(: X wants me to tell u that he loves you<3
Z: Awwhh tell him i love him too x
Me: kk
Then i would text X
Me: she says awh and that she loves you too.
X: tell her i say Awwhh.
Me: I'm not an owl…
(as Hermione Granger would say.. hahaaa)
Then X would say something flirty.

Anyways.. does it sound like he likes me or is he just being friendly??
please tell me what you think and be honest, i dont care if its mean i just want to know

ps. i have asked this question twice before it’s just that only one person answers each time

Thanks

Does my best friend like me? PLEASE ANSWER! Nobody’s answering!?

So my best guy friend (lets call him X)….

i think that X, likes me more than a friend… he’s been my best friend since the end of year 5. now im in middle school.

here are some reason why i think he likes me:
1. he talks to me more than his girlfriend (who is my other best friend.. codename, Z)
2. whenever i talk to him he listens and doesnt judge. X once listened to me go on and on about one of my problems and just listened, he didn’t say a word and i heard that if a guy does that, it means they like ur voice?? but idk

and btw, we used to go out but then i broke up with him cuz we never spoke cuz it was really awkward! (i mean, dating ur best friend is awkward)
after we broke up.. a while later we spoke to each other again and i asked him if he thought it was awkward when we went out and he said no.
4. I say, your the same height as me now . then X says back well im gonna be taller. cuz X knows that i like when guys are taller than me and he always says, after the holidays im gonna be taller that you. and stuff like that
5. he flirts with me a lot like, when i ask him questions, he asks me the same question back then i say.. can u just answer it. i asked u first. (but i say it in a serious voice) and then he says back to me, i asked you second. but in a flirty way.
6. he asked me to the movies with another one of his friends but he’s dating Z.
7. i once told him that i thought Z like another one of my best friends boyfriends (yes, life is very complicated) and he says that relationships still work when you like someone else (maybe he meant if he still likes me and Z??)

I not a guy expert so im not very sure if he likes me or not…

please dont say things like “he’s a pervert” or anything like that cuz he’s a pretty nice guy.

he does flirt with me but as u know he’s dating Z my best friend but i kinda had him first and she shouldnt have said yes without talking to me about it and stuff like that… it’s complicated and X shouldnt have asked my best friend out. he shouldve know it was wrong. and they do like each other, they’re not trying to make me jealous (atleast i dont think they are) cuz they both tell me to tell each other that they love each other like..

this is a text
X: hey you there
Me: yeah
then we would text bout stuff thats been going on. and he would usually start the conversations.
Me: I gtg now. night x
X: Night and can you tell Z that i love her
Then i would text Z
Me: hiii(: X wants me to tell u that he loves you<3
Z: Awwhh tell him i love him too x
Me: kk
Then i would text X
Me: she says awh and that she loves you too.
X: tell her i say Awwhh.
Me: I'm not an owl…
(as Hermione Granger would say.. hahaaa)
Then X would say something flirty.

Anyways.. does it sound like he likes me or is he just being friendly??
please tell me what you think and be honest, i dont care if its mean i just want to know

Thanks

Does my best friend like me?

So my best guy friend (lets call him X)….

i think that X, likes me more than a friend… he’s been my best friend since the end of year 5. now im in middle school.

here are some reason why i think he likes me:
1. he talks to me more than his girlfriend (who is my other best friend.. codename, Z)
2. whenever i talk to him he listens and doesnt judge. X once listened to me go on and on about one of my problems and just listened, he didn’t say a word and i heard that if a guy does that, it means they like ur voice?? but idk

and btw, we used to go out but then i broke up with him cuz we never spoke cuz it was really awkward! (i mean, dating ur best friend is awkward)
after we broke up.. a while later we spoke to each other again and i asked him if he thought it was awkward when we went out and he said no.
4. I say, your the same height as me now . then X says back well im gonna be taller. cuz X knows that i like when guys are taller than me and he always says, after the holidays im gonna be taller that you. and stuff like that
5. he flirts with me a lot like, when i ask him questions, he asks me the same question back then i say.. can u just answer it. i asked u first. (but i say it in a serious voice) and then he says back to me, i asked you second. but in a flirty way.
6. he asked me to the movies with another one of his friends but he’s dating Z.
7. i once told him that i thought Z like another one of my best friends boyfriends (yes, life is very complicated) and he says that relationships still work when you like someone else (maybe he meant if he still likes me and Z??)

I not a guy expert so im not very sure if he likes me or not…

please dont say things like “he’s a pervert” or anything like that cuz he’s a pretty nice guy.

he does flirt with me but as u know he’s dating Z my best friend but i kinda had him first and she shouldnt have said yes without talking to me about it and stuff like that… it’s complicated and X shouldnt have asked my best friend out. he shouldve know it was wrong. and they do like each other, they’re not trying to make me jealous (atleast i dont think they are) cuz they both tell me to tell each other that they love each other like..

this is a text
X: hey you there
Me: yeah
then we would text bout stuff thats been going on. and he would usually start the conversations.
Me: I gtg now. night x
X: Night and can you tell Z that i love her
Then i would text Z
Me: hiii(: X wants me to tell u that he loves you<3
Z: Awwhh tell him i love him too x
Me: kk
Then i would text X
Me: she says awh and that she loves you too.
X: tell her i say Awwhh.
Me: I'm not an owl…
(as Hermione Granger would say.. hahaaa)
Then X would say something flirty.

Anyways.. does it sound like he likes me or is he just being friendly??
please tell me what you think and be honest, i dont care if its mean i just want to know

Thanks

What do you think about him?

im 15 btw…
so basically, some of my friends were talking to this guy the friended on facebook.. so i added him just for the fun of it lol. long story short, we started talking, asked for each others number and now me and this guy have been talking for awhile now.. we text all the time, pretty much everyday. maybe a day or 2 in between, but you get it aha. we have only hung out about 3 times tho.

anywayy, we kinda just got to know each other.. “your turn, my turn” conversations lol. we just went back and forth asking questions. eventually, we ran out of things to ask, but we just kept talking.

a while ago we kinda told each other that we like each other.. it started when he asked me who were the top guys in my life right now, then i asked him. then a few days later he asked me if i liked anyone, and i said yes.. so did he. i asked who? he said it was between me and this other girl.. and i told him i liked him. and we left it at that.

a few weeks went by and i decided to ask him where he stood.. like what’s going on between us. he said.. and here are his exact words, “i like you, but I’m just not sure if I’m ready to start dating right now. i’ve been in a lot of unsuccessful relationships and i just want to be sure the next time around. plus, if it doesn’t work out.. it damages the relationship you previously had with the person, and i don’t want that to happen to us.”

i thought it was really sweet that he seemed do sensitive about it all but now its but quite awhile again.. and nothing has happened.

yes, when we text we are but cute and flirty. teasing each other, and lots of smiley faces {ex: : etc..). also he is very mindful of how im doing.. always asking “how are you?” and “how was your day?” DO YOU THINK H LIKES ME?

we have only hung out a few times. and it has always been with one of his friends and one of mine. he said he doesn’t want it to just be the two of us because he doesn’t want his parents to think its a date. so far, he has been the one to ask me to hang out.. and i feel awk asking him for some reason.. idk. DO YOU THINK I SHOULD?

another thing.. he kinda talks to a lot of girls tho : hes definitely not a player or anything.. he just has a lot of friends that are girls. there was a rumor going around that he was a player.. and he got really sad because of it.

i tried not to like him.. i tried to tell myself that i didnt like him.. but its not working : hes really sweet, and nice, and funny, and i really like him!

i want to make him fall for me.. and i want him to know that i wont hurt him, so he can be sure about having me for a girlfriend. WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO?! idk.. im stuck :

anyway, i need some major help! haha.. PLEASE READ ALL OF IT! lol kayy?

thanks!!

jealousy in friendship?

my best freind and i have been
having some problems.
in her eyes, guys are always
admiring me/checking me
out and saying how
hot i am. i guess i dont notice
this “attention” that i am getting.
idk.
but her jealousy has caused
problems, like her not talking to
me and such.
i need to know what to do.
i feel like if this dosnt stop,
our friendship wont last too much
longer.

XX alii

How can I stop this jealousy and (hopefully) win him back?

I was good friends with my ex for three years – best friends in fact – before we started going out. I’m an 18 year old guy, he’s 15. However during our relationship we saw each other far too much and while I didn’t mind this, commitment was a big issue for him in the first place and while he overcame it, he quickly became bored.

We split up and agreed to work on our friendship again, but within a week he was seeing someone else. However he still regularly tries to kiss me and we’ve got a little… intimate on occasions. I’d feel really guilty but when his new partner found out about me and him they tried to get him to choose between us, going as far as trying to set me up for spreading lies about him. I felt sorry for them at first but now I don’t care.

Addtionally, my ex wants to see me less than ever. While it makes sense, I’m used to seeing him 5 or 6 times a week and I hate the thought of him seeing other friends, however possessive it sounds. How can I move on from this?

How do I stop liking someone?

I like my best friend, and I have for a long time. He doesn’t like me back. I know because I have asked him and he has told me straight up. I don’t know how to just stop liking someone. I need to get over him because my jealousy is getting in the way of our friendship. I can’t just stop caring about him, but I need to stop liking him for the sake of our friendship.

Is it worth it to just completely stop being friends with him?

Jealousy in friendship. What do I do?

My best friend and I used to be really really close, like sisters. We used to sms each other all the time, call each other all the time when we weren’t together et al. Recently she relocated to another city due to studies. We were still just as close. Then, we had a bit of an issue which was my fault really, and she grew distant, and by that I mean all those calls and smses stopped or were at a bare minimum. In the meanwhile, we have another friend of ours, my best friend and her were good friends but not as close as she and I were. Not close at all infact. Now they’re closer, my best friend is texting her and calling her, at the time when we were distant, she was doing it all the time without even bothering to contact me that much. Whenever she came down to the city, she’d make plans to see that other friend more as opposed to me. Now she’s kind of back to normal in that she calls me more and is no longer as distant as she was. My problem here is even though things seem to be getting back to normal with us, I’m still jealous over the fact that they’re closer now, this jealousy is consuming me. I read all the messages she sent her and I cannot even begin to explain the rage I felt within me. That was MY best friend, the close friendship we shared is now being shared with another friend. I just can’t handle it. I know things are getting back to normal with my best friend and I, but I can’t handle the fact that she’s closer to that other friend. What do I do, and how do I go about handling it?
Thanks guys, some really helpful answers. Anyway her facebook status update goes like so, I’m not sure if she’s referring to me, but it sounds like it. I could be overreacting, anyway here it is- “If you’re enjoying the cure, you’re up for a relapse :/” recently she’s been very frequent with the calls and being herself (which is really all I want, the old her back) and it seems like she’s telling me indirectly that it’s all gonna stop ergo a relapse which I’ll suffer from. She could mean something else altogether but she usually does this to me- calls frequently and is herself and then it all stops for a while. Could she be referring to me? Your thoughts?

How do I get over this jealousy?

Ohkay, so I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half a few weeks ago. I had thought long and hard, and was ready to; it was the right choice because he made me so unhappy. We are still friends and he says he has changed, and I see it too. When we were together, he was angry all the time and really rude to me; now he is really sweet and nice… the person I fell in love with. But I still don’t really want to be with him, I want to be single and keep my options open, you know? I told him to move on, because I was done.. all I wanted was friendship.

But I get jealous when he tries to get over me… like there is this girl who he tried talking to when he tried to move on, but it didn’t work out. And I still don’t like her, even though she is so sweet to me! I’m just afraid that when he officially moves on that I won’t get over this jealous and then I won’t move on myself, when that is ALL I want to do.

So my question is: how do I stop this jealousy, when I didn’t even want him in the first place? Help

my best friend is making way more money than me and i cant help being jealous?

im 14 and i just hate myself for being so jealous of my best friend, she is Innocent and a great friend but i just keep thinking about all the money shes making because she all ready has a job and her family is rich and shes getting money from them and everything im trying to get a job myself but no matter how much i try i just can’t get one -_-

so now i just listen to her talk about how shes getting a new laptop and everything and how shes saving up all her money for a house when shes older and everything it’s just making me so depressed i cant make money myself because of so many reasons and i really want to be successful when im older but all my friends especially her, have their future planned out an they all have a lot of money in their bank and everything

and don’t have a penny what am i going to do im going to be a tramp and all my friends will be driving a limo or something past my cardboard box

please help me

Really jealous of my friend. She’s gorgeous?

when i compare myself to her i feel so ugly. she never wears makeup but she still looks so pretty. the only time she wore it was to a prom and thats the only time she has ever worn it in her life and she looked even more gorgeous. i probably sound like a lesbian even tho im not.. its just so unfair shes so pretty but im really boring looking. i have to wear tons of makeup to even just be below her league…i know its wrong for me to feel this way… and i can admit im jealous… but i cant help myself…..shes so nice too so i cant hate her! the thing is, she doesnt evne think shes pretty when she frikkin gorgeous and thats what really gets me because shes so pretty but doesnt even see it…. please help me its so unfair…

I hate being a guy, any help?

Please, first of all, I’m not sexist. Everyones equal.
And I don’t know why I feel this way. And I cant help it.
Ill get to it.
Im just so jealous of women…
I just hate getting up with a throbbing erection everyday…
I hate the constant thinking…
I hate blue balls.
I hate the fact that an orgasm only lasts 2 seconds.
I hate that sex is nothing for men compared to women.
Not to mention the after effect on your penis.
I hate that I have no way of being able to bare a child.
I hate that Im expected to pay for everything, I work at KFC!
I hate that im always hungry.
I hate that im somehow always wrong, whether I talk or not.
I hate that im not allowed to cry… in public.
I hate that i have to do all the dirty work.
I hate the sexual stereotypes.
I hate that I cant sleep…
I hate acne…
Theres a lot more. And yeah its a lot but theres way more good things about life. Just… I dont know. I cant help what I feel.
So… any good, non biased suggestions?

How do I stop being so jealous?

I have a friend and Ive known her ever sense I was little, well I moved and now Im 14. I found her on myspace and looked at her pics. I immediately became extremely jealous She died her hair, got to go to all my dream concerts and is so pretty!! I hate this feeling but I cant help it. Its not fair! Please help :s

i cant help but feel jealous of my boyfriends ex?

She is prettier and me, and smarter. He is obviously with me now but I cant help but feel jealous, and friends keep putting cosy photos of them together up on facebook and she looks so gorgeous and he looks so happy. It is making me hate myself. Help?