Is my boyfriend jealous or am I just not seeing it?

People are saying he is jealous but I honestly don’t see it… he doesn’t tell me who to hang with or that I can’t do things.

I am in a relationship with my a Russian man. Things are OK. He likes to ask about my day and of course I will tell him. Last night he snuck away from work to call me and we were having an ok gentle conversation until he asked what I did today, and I said “I just got back. I went out for a bit.” he suddenly changes his voice to soft and gentle to this somewhat aggressive concerned voice, it was a dramatic change? he asked “With who?” I asked “what?” he said “with who? who did you go out with?” I told him I just spent time with my sisters shopping and eating. And then he said “Ok.”

He does this all the time. Any time I mention I was out or just got back he suddenly grows concerned and asks me who I was with and if men were there if so how Many and what were there names and if they had girlfriends or not. He asked me this especially when I went on a trip for 3 days. And when I got back he wanted to know if anyone flirted with me and what my response was to them. Can someone explain it? He doesn’t tell me what to do. So I don’t get why people are saying this is jealous behavior.

Why i am jealous of my sister’s boyfriend?

I am 20 years old guy.My sister and i am very close as we had only each other from start besided mom.She is 25 and she has got boyfriend and now i dont see her much.I am feeling very jealous and i sometime try to gain her attention.Like calling her too many times and she is really pissed off.
I dont know why i am acting like this.What should i do?

why am I so jealous of my sister?

my sisters boyfriend came to the house and asked my parents if he can marry my sister I don’t have a decent boyfriend what do I do to get over the jealousy that I am going through I am going through mixed emotions about my sister and everything that I have been going through.

why am i jealous of my sister?

ok so we went to turkey back in june and someone who worked in the hotel she got on well with. they kept in contact and things and she’s just got back from a trip to turkey to see him. yesterday he posted on Facebook “don’t leave me alone without you”

now i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 1 yr and almost a month. we are happy but he’s struggling with money and things and i have to sit down with him and go through things.

this doesn’t help me feel jealous of my sister and i don’t know why although at the time i thought he was cute i was taken and wouldn’t have done anything, besides he’s not my type

Why am I jealous of pregnant women?

I‘ve been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years and for the last 2 years every time i see a pregnant woman or a young baby i am so jealous, i get angry because they have a baby and i haven’t. In the first year of me being with my boyfriend his 2 sister in laws had babies but i wasn’t bothered but a year after my friend fell pregnant and i couldn’t talk to her and now we don’t speak but not just because of the baby and now my boyfriends sister in law is now pregnant and when he told me today i got angry again and now i am so jealous but i don’t understand why. I watch pregnancy, birth and baby programmes but i don’t get jealous over them but what ever i watch it doesn’t put me off having one. I just want one but my boyfriend doesn’t yet. Ever month i hope i dont come on my period. Is there something wrong with me? Please help!

Is it okay if your boyfriend thinks other girls are pretty?

So my boyfriend thinks Chachi, the girl from i.aM.mE is pretty. I got pissed and he nearly broke up with me. He thinks it’s ‘okay’ if i think other guys are handsome. Am i taking this the wrong way, or does he not care about me? he’s not cheating on me or anything, this is just, like, a summer romance.

is it ok that my boyfriend thinks other girls are pretty?

my bf just recently started school and i was reading his comments on myspace to one of his friends in another state and he was telling her about his first day and he stated “75% of the girls in my french class are are supermodels” should I be worried? or is that normal. i mean i go to school and think “oh wow hes hot” but idk is it the same thing? or is it something i should worry or ask about when I ask him about school

My boyfriend thinks other girls are prettier than I am. Is that a problem.?

I admit it bothers me a lot. But I know he’s faithful. And I know I’m not the prettiest girl in the world. I’m not THAT naïve. But I would like to be the most beautiful for someone. Especially my boyfriend!!! Is this wrong of me to think? How do I deal with the fact that my boy think other girls are prettier?

My boyfriend calls other girls pretty?

So… I have a boyfriend that I’ve been dating for over a year, but he calls other girls (a lot actually) pretty, and always says things like, “I see you around school a lot, you are pretty.”

Should I get angry about that? or do you think I’m just overreacting?

How do I deal with the fact that my boyfriend thinks other girls are more beautiful?

I know I’m not the prettiest girl in the world. I’m not THAT naïve. But I would like to be the most beautiful for someone. Especially my boyfriend!!! Is this wrong of me to think? How do I deal with the fact that my boy think other girls are prettier?

Would it be weird if I hung out with my ex boyfriend/friends brother?

Ok my ex got a new phone and gave his other phone to his brother, now his brother is texting me. So we text sometimes and he asked me to hang.. I asked my friend(that’s the ex) if he would be mad if his brother and I hung out and he said yea. Would it be weird or should I just leave it to texting.

what should i do my friends boyfriend cheats on her but she ditches me to hang out with him?

every time i ask to hang out with her she says no to hang out with her boyfriend who then ditches her and then she says she can hang out but then she hangs out with her public school friends.

hanging out with boyfriends friends…awkward?

Okay so tonight My boyfriend invited me to go to the beach and watch the fireworks with his best friend, his best friends girlfriend and his best friends parents. Im really worried about it being awkward. There all like 2 years older than me. And there “cool” What can I do so its not awkward. I really wished it was just going to be the two of us. help?!

Is it ok to like my best friends boyfriend ?

Is it ok to have a boyfriend that you love but still like one of your best friends boyfriends? Me nd my boyfriend have been going out for 4months. Ive had my best friend since kindergarden. Im 13 and i think i like my best friends boyfriend. I hang out with him everyday nd my boyfriend gets mad at me. Me nd my boyfriend hang out all the time. But is it okay to like my best friends b|f ?

Should I choose hanging out with my boyfriend over my friends?

Well I have not seen my boyfriend for 2 weeks, he races motocross and is gone almost every weekend, kinda far away so I cant always go with him. Also I dont hang out with my friends much anymore besides at school since I started dating him because I try to make all the time possible for him. Anyways, this weekend he was soppoused to not ride anywhere and my friend is having a birthday party so I was going to go to that on Friday and hang out with him Satruday all day. But today he tells me that he has to go race on Sunday and leave Saturday so I wont get to see him. Dont get me wrong Im not mad, I love the fact that he races but its just that I told my friends that I would go to the party but now the only day Ill get to see him without waiting a whole 2 weeks will be on Friday as well. So should I hang out with him since I wotn get to see him for possibly another 2 weeks or should I go to my friend’s party as planned?

My boyfriend wants me to hang out with him and his friends and I don’t want ?

Well he’s annoyed with people asking why he never hangs out with me but we do all the time, just not too much in school because I don’t too much like his friends but I don’t want to tell him that. We have such a good time hanging out alone, he’s the best boyfriend I’ve ever had. I am kind of a loner sometimes, cause I keep to myself a lot but that is how I like it. What should I do about all of this? By the way, I have suggested we compromise and all, I hope it works but I doubt it will. Also in afraid of him using me as a trophy. We have been together for a long time now and people are starting to think its weird that we don’t chill in school, but I don’t care what they think, but he does.

How to get over being jealous when boyfriend hangs out with his friends?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years, and we both are insecure individuals.
One of my insecurities stems from the fact that I have very little, to no friends at all. I’m not anti-social, but I’m not the life of the party, either. I’m very self-conscious and always feel judged by other people.

As a result, I do virtually all my clothes shopping online to avoid going out and getting them, I don’t hang out with my boyfriend and his friends whenever I get invited because I know I’ll feel like a loser just sitting there while they drink and play pool…before my boyfriend met me he told me he was seeing his friends every weekend and even sometimes on weekdays. Now for the past year and a half, he’s essentially turned down all their invites because he knows I don’t feel comfortable going. He tells me that it’s not a problem— that his friends are still his friends and they’re not going anywhere, but I still feel terrible.

It’s only been recently that he’s started telling me and showing me all of the texts his friends send him asking him to come hang out; he says he never did before because he didn’t want me to get hurt. I’m glad that he’s showing me how his friends still care, but at the same time it hurts a lot.

We’ve been talking, and I’ve been telling him how I want him to start going out with his friends again. Though he understands where I’m coming from and recognizes the fact that it makes me uncomfortable to be around his friends, he tells me that he’s still hesitant to go because he doesn’t want me to become mad or upset. In the past I’ve been very jealous when he’s gone out without me, even though I know he can’t (and shouldn’t) spend every waking hour with me.

How can I start being more secure with myself and happy for my boyfriend when he goes out without me?

**As an aside, I’ve asked him how it makes him feel to picture me going out with girlfriends/friends without him and he told me he would feel “alright” about it depending on where we were and what we were doing. And when I asked him the same question pertaining to my family he said he’d be okay with it and wait for me to come home or going with me.

He’s very protective of me when I’m not with him.

if i break up with my boyfriend, can i still hang out with his friends?

before we started dating, i didn’t really have any friends, but when i started dating him he introduced me to all of his friends and they thought i was pretty cool. i think they’re pretty cool, too. however, i’ve lost feelings for my boyfriend and i don’t like him anymore. if i break up with him, i wouldn’t really have any friends anymore, and if i don’t, i’ll have friends but will be unhappy doing things i don’t want to do with someone i don’t like. i know this is a really stupid question, but any advice is appreciated. if i break up with my boyfriend, would i not be able to hang out with their social group anymore, at all?

Am I right to be angry with my boyfriend who still hangs out with his friend who hit on me?

A while ago, when my boyfriend, his friend and I were hanging out, his friend hit on me. It started out with compliments and winking at me when my boyfriend wasn’t looking and then he put his hand on my thigh and rubbed up against me. It made me really uncomfortable and at the end of the night I told my boyfriend and he said he hadn’t noticed. My boyfriend told me he asked his friend about it and his friend denied it and then after some time his friend finally said he was sorry about it. I think he is a creep and it makes me angry that he still hangs out with this guy who felt me up. I would think that a normal guy would want to tell a thing or two to someone who did that to their girlfriend. My boyfriend just says that it’s not a big deal. Any guys have any opinions about this? Should I be angry that my boyfriend still hangs out with his creep or should I let it go?

My boyfriend never invites me to hang out with his friends?

We’ve hung out with my friends many times, but now that’s its summer we are able to hang out by ourselves more often. However, we have hung out with ONE of his friends, once. He never invites me to hang out with his friends. it’s not that I don’t want to, because if he invited me I would in a heart beat. We have been going out for six months. Sometimes it makes me feel like he is embarrased of me even though he tells me all the time that I am beautiful. We don’t hang out with my friends as much as we did in the school year, but we still do sometimes. I’ve never asked him about this, though. Should I? How would I bring it up?

I like my boyfriend a lot, but he hangs out with his friends too much?

So I’ve been dating my boyfriend for awhile now and we get alone time of course, but most of the time, it seems like we’re with his friends. He’s not afraid of P.D.A (public display of affection). Just how can I tell him I don’t want to be with his friends, I’d more rather be with him? Do I just tell him what I typed or would he think I’m being difficult?

boyfriend hangs with friends too much?

hey thanks for comments . Well here’s the story me and my bf have been together for 2 years and something.We were in separable in the beginning of the relationship we use to see each other daily, and as the relationship went on we would hang out on week days( barely now) and the whole weekend from friday to sunday . But lately my boyfriend as been wanting to hang out with his friends on sunday . No matter what i say or that i get mad he doesn’t make time for me on sundays . On sunday he doesn’t even call me a lot i get maybe like 2-3 calls which is strange because on a regular day he calls me a million times a day. Its fine that he hangs out with them on sometimes but not every week. So please help tell me what you think am i being to clingy ?? or how should i make him understand that hes being unfair?
p.s he even missed an anniversary because he was to busy hanging out with his friends , he never came to see me or even remembered

My boyfriend hangs out too much with his cheating friend?

We’ve been together for 3 years, we also live together.
I love him and our relationship for many reasons. If we have a problem with each other we’ll just come out and say it, even if it hurts.
Anyway, recently he’s been hanging out too much with this guy who I know sleeps with a bunch of girls all the time, even though he’s been in a relationship even longer than us. My boyfriend even sleeps over at his place sometimes. We live together and I know we both need our own space every once in a while so I don’t mind it when he stays over at his friends‘ place, just not THAT particular friend.
This friend of his always tells me when i’m around that I should let go of my boyfriend so he can finally be free and have fun with him. I just tell him to f*** off. My boyfriend always says he’s just joking but i don’t take it that way.
I would love to say that i trust my boyfriend, and i do. Just not around that particular friend. Just thinking of all the things I’ve seen his friend do make me sick to my stomach. I guess deep down i’m just afraid that after all this time he’ll end up like this friend of his
Anyway, i know i could just confront my boyfriend about it because we’re open to each other, but i dont think i can do it this time. I’ve recently been very paranoid and accused him of doing things he wasn’t. We talked about it and then i felt extremely guilty for not trusting him. He’s already told me that if i’m going to have any more trust issues then we shouldn’t be together anymore.
I really don;t want to lose him over something like this, but i just can’t stand how insecure i feel whenever he sleeps over, or even spends time with this friend of his.
I know that if i ask him once again he’ll probably just break up with me for not trusting him anymore.
Please help. I’m desperate and i dont know what to do anymore

My boyfriend has beeen hanging out with his guy friends way too much, is that weird?

He never drinks and this whole week that we have off he has been spending it with them, he is totally blowing me off, literally, he has been going to bars EVERY night for a week and we have’nt gone out, the last day i saw him was on x-mas. im pissed off, would you be? he says that its just a “phase” and that he’ll get over it, but i told him from the very begining of our now 4 year relationship that i did’nt want him to drink… i told him that i would’nt talk to him until he stoped his crap, but its almost newyears, should i still call him? im in houston for newyears and he’s back home, i wont see him until jan. 2nd.

35 year old boyfriend talk to his guy friend too much?

My boyfriend ‘s best friend calls him at LEAST 2 times a day; morning on his way to work 6 am, and when he leaves work around 4, sometimes also around lunch and after dinner. This guy hates his wife, doesn’t like his kids, is unhappy with his life and always puts my boyfriend down and tells him to “never get married”. At least once a day he tells him he’s making a mistake by dating me. When he calls, he talks anywhere from 3-15 minutes on a range of different topics. Now my boyfriend tells me when he takes me back to his hometown in May, he plans to hang out with this guy (in the “shop”, where they do welding projects and random “guy” things). His friend has expressed he doesn’t want me to go because he thinks I’ll drag him down, take up all of his time…etc. I have never met this guy, or any of my boyfriend‘s friends. So first, does he talk to this guy too much, and do I have the right to say something? and second, what am I supposed to say about the trip back to his hometown? Do I regulate beforehand the amount of time to be spent with his friend? And can i be angry that he doesn’t stick up for me or disagree with his friend when he goes on one of his girlfriend/wife/women-hating rants? What the heck? Is it my boyfriend, or his friend?

what to do when your boyfriend hangs up the phone on you?

What to do when your boyfriend refuses to talk to you on the phone?

so i was talking to my boyfriends best friend and he handed the phone to my boyfriend…..you would think that he would want to talk to me because we havent seen each other for a very long time but instead as soon as he gets the phone he hangs up on me…idk wat to do about it…

Ladies, what would you do if your boyfriend hang up on you intentionally?

Called him probably 5 times. When I finally got hold of him, he texted me that he was sleeping and therefore was not able to answer the phone. When I called him again, he hang up on me! More than once then next thing he turned off his phone already!

What do when your friend makes rude noises around you and flirts with your boyfriend and denies it?

I just had a nervous breakdown on Sat Aug 2,2008. Because I just couldn’t take it anymore with this person. I tried to be patient with her around my guy and I didn’t see any improvements on her part.

This is what I would see every time she was with me and my boyfriend:

1. She would make very rude noises around just me and my boyfriend, But only when I’m around; She never made rude noises when it was just my boyfriend and her in the area. She would act normal he told me. And laugh and giggle at anything he said to her.

2. She would always flirt, play tussle with my boyfriend while I’m right there watching and it would get out of control. That she would be on top of him or vice versa.

3. She would block out what you say and ignore what concerns you have with her on boundaries on personal space with myself and her around my boyfriend.

4. Plus, she has a whole lot of mental and physical issues that she won’t face to grow up.

I talked with my boyfriend about this. He asked questions to his friends they told him that girl is messing with your relationship and she has to go. They also told my boyfriend that what he was allowing was flirting and cheating right in front of me and that is beyond insulting to your girlfriend and your future step daughter.

I told him that she always leaves messages on his phone and texts him too. Plus she has a myspace page and leaves messages almost all the time in a week. Yet she never really talks to me or gets to know me like a friend should. She is to interested in what my boyfriend likes and dislikes.

While every time he asks or I ask with him are you interested in my boyfriend she denies it all and acts like this is the way she is. She only behaves around her best friend cause I only told her about my complaints once about her leaving us hanging at a fun park to go see her best friend. I was weak from an accident too. I guess it was just to boring for her ego to know what is more important at that time.

She doesn’t like having people talk to others about her and she wants you to confront her and she said it won’t hurt her feelings too. But if she ignores your warnings and acts retarded like she doesn’t understand anything you say anything to confront the issue at hand and she blows it off and repeats this problem again.

I got confused about why she lies and acts so normal around my boyfriend and rude and pretends to be my friend around her best friend and my boyfriend. Then when I really wasn’t able to take it any more I was tired from a bike ride in a park. I was struggling with my balance and I was flushed. When my boyfriend was done teacher her martial arts I waited in the car.

She comes in my car and asks me what‘s wrong. I told her isn’t it obvious I’m tired. Then she says; “You don’t have to get mad about it, it is because of me”. I said it will be if you don’t let me breathe. She didn’t say anything else. Then my boyfriend invited her to come eat with us. She didn’t walk to her car she just sat in my car didn’t ask if I could give her a ride and I just waited to take off after my body cooled down and drove her to her car that was across the street.

Then as I drove her to her car she didn’t say thank you for the ride. But she slams my door. When we go to the location to eat I couldn’t leave me car. If I did someone would’ve stole my bike and I didn’t bring my lock. Anyway I stayed in my trying to calm down from this stress and I didn’t leave my car for 1hr 30 mins. I asked my boyfriend to get me some food and I told him that I wanted to go home. Because he was checking up on me when I let out a scream in my car.

As I waited for him to let her know that I don’t feel comfortable around her. All she said to my boyfriend was this: “I didn’t know when it all went sour” and told my boyfriend that she will see him next Sat weekend to practice martial arts.

You can’t help but go insane and wonder if this is worth the time to talk, think, act, or just dump her and find a new friend until she learns something from this mess. Plus I worry about my boyfriend if he continues to train her and if they have a falling out what if she claims assault or rape because of the contact training involved in martial arts. I don’t want it to mess up his life as well. All because I though bring my friend home and introducing her to my boyfriend would make us all friends together.

That was and still my stress currently today..

how do you know when its time to break up with your boyfriend?

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little longer then 4 months now. the first 3 months were great. He gave me a neckalce for our 3 months and then we went to six flags and he won me a giant stufed animal. about in the middle of 3 months we got into a very stupid argument. we made up but then once school ended we barley saw eachother. we didnt see eachother in 2 weeks. During those two weeks was my birthday. He gave me a 30 second phone call. He didnt even get me a present. I saw him 2 times since school ended . Ive been thinking about breaking up with him during those two weeks but then when i saw him i thought everything when back to normal, but 2 nights ago i was talking to one of his best friends who happens to be one of my bestfriend who is lookikng out for me and said his ex girlfriend sent him a photo. He lied to me and told me no girl sent him a photo but when i told him i know she did he admitted it and said it was just casual. when we hung out the night before that he wouldnt let me see his phone like he ussually does. We made up but really havent talked since the fight. we were supposed to hang today but he canceled on me yesterday becuase apperently he has hockey and it was 4 text messages. then today he said heyy i just got done with hockey and i said kool and that was it. My friends all tell me to break up with him because they think he uses me. Yes we have gone to third base. Im starting to think that two. He told me he loves me, but i dont believe that bullshit. yes, i love him..but i have no clue what to do in this sistuation. can anybody help me please?

How would you feel? Going out 19 can’t drink… boyfriend / his friends can?

I’m 19 and my boyfriend, Craig, is 24. His friend and girlfriend are coming up for dinner. Here is the problem: I’m dreading going because I’m so shy, and I also feel embarressed of my age when everyone else can drink. It’s embarressing when everyone has to get IDed because there’s someone under 21 at the table.

Last time this sort of thing happened, the waitress made such a big deal over IDs and embarressed me. I just wanted to leave when Craig ordered shots for everyone.

I’d hate to ruin the good time, but I really don’t want to go. I’d drink to losen up before we go out, but just being my age and being shy is enough to make me not want to go. Not only that, but everyone always likes to go to bars after dinner, and I’d just ruin the fun because I can’t get in.

I’m going to talk with Craig later (he knows how I feel but not to this extent).

Similar situations? / How would you feel? / What would you do?
Guys, if you were in Craig’s situation would you understand?

what’s a good excuse for not going out with your boyfriend and his friends?

i was shopping all day yesterday and i’m fucking exchausted. my boyfriend just text me there asking if i wanted to go out. honest to god, my hair is greasy, i’m tired and the last thing i want to do is go out and have my boyfriend expecting us to kiss and hold hands. what excuse can i use, not like i’m sick/ doing something with my mam/ friends/ i don’t want to because then he’d be pissed. any ideas?

How can I convince my mom that I can go out with boyyzzz?

Sorry it’s kinda long but please read it’s like a not so fairly tail c:

So my mom is strict I was talking to her about bout boyfriends and im 13 btw and everyone of my friends have one but I’m like left out so she said “your too little for one” and she went on and on about growing up isnt fun but I really want to go out with him his my first boyfriend what can I say I love him…… I really need something to convince her pleasee well down below is the whole story if you wanna read it it’s about what happened today and alil yesterday (:

Otay so I reallyyy like this boy and we have been talkin for who knows how long we’ve been talkin but I like him a lot I say his just a friend but I like him waayyy more then just a friend and iknow he likes me too cause I asked him and yesterday I slept at my friends house and we were facetiming off the iPad and iPod and we were saying oh yeah let’s take the bikes out tmrow and he kept asking me if I can go on his four wheeler so I got on the back with him and we went btw this was today and it was funn we were chilling in my friends house cause we were waiting for my other friend and we just talked then my friend got there and we went on the four wheelers for like 20minutes it was pretty gay but I smashed my face into his helmet it hurt and then we went back to my friends and he had to drive back to his dads so he left and I asked if he wanted to come back later and he said yes we were all ganna spoon :p mpphh but then friend jus kept coming over and there was 5 of us so we kinda forgot about it and we ended up sliding down the stairs on a matress and it was fun then I got sooo close and we were messing with my friends blackberry(phone)and I was ganna snuggle but then he got up and I was like sh!tt then my friend had to leave so he was leaving and I was kinda sad I don’t know if he saw it in my face cause I was standing in the other room agenst the door then he turned around and we just hugged really close and we were whispering to each other and I turned my head a little and he fricken says “skype later” and I jus giggled and said “or FaceTime” and then we laughed alil and I was going to kiss him the moment was perfect but I jus regret it cause I didn’t then we let go and I was IM STILL in my fantasy and we are talk in about it right now and yehhh..c:

Going out with my boyfriend and his friends…?

When my boyfriend takes me out somewhere with his other guy friends I always feel like I don’t have any thing to say…and I also feel like I can’t talk about anything with my boyfriend when all his other friends are around….What should I do?

What should I do: found out my boyfriend & his friends were picking on my mentally handicapped brother?

I have 2 older brothers. The middle one is mentally handicapped with the mind of an 8-year-old (he’s 23) but I love him like crazy. I call him my giant teddy bear and we’ve always been close to each other.

For the past year I’ve been seeing a guy who’s like everything I ever wanted in a boyfriend. This is the first serious relationship I’ve ever had. We were even planning to go to the same college next year.

Anyway my BFF told me she and a girl from one of her classes saw my boyfriend and some of his friends picking on my brother last Friday after school at the shopping mall parking lot when my brother went to pick up something for my mom from the drug store.

She’s always liked my brother so she got upset and made them stop. Before she got along with my boyfriend, but now she thinks he’s a scumbag and that I should ask him about this. She also told my other oldest brother since they’re friends, and he’s very protective of my brother.

He said the next time he sees my boyfriend, he’s going to kick the *&@# out of him. My parents don’t know though.

I asked my middle brother if all this really happened and he said yes. I know he and my friend would never lie about something like this. Another guy I know at school was at the mall that day and said he saw the incident from his car while he was on his cellphone.

This is really killing me. I haven’t confronted my boyfriend about this yet (he’s out of town on a track meet and won’t be back until later this week) and I’m scared to. I always assumed he was cool with my brother and it makes me upset to hear all this.

Was my friend out of line for telling me and my other brother?

When your boyfriend look at other girls, do you get jealous?

I do. I think it’s just human nature to be jealous. But I get really jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls especially if I‘m with him. Because I know there are other prettier girls than me and he looks at those pretty girls.

What do you think?

Why do I get so jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls?? :-/?

So everytime my boyfriend looks at other girls it bothers me. It bothers me when he looks at Girls that are on tv naked or girls on the street. What can I do to not me like this ..
Please help thanks

Why do I get so jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls naked, topless, etc? :-/?

So I love my BF n I know he loves me. I never felt this way about anybody and for some reason I always get jealous when he looks at other girls. He doesn’t really look at girls when were together but when he see’s a naked girl on tv or something. it really bothers me. This might sound dumb but I really hate it. There’s always some hoe flashing her stuff on tv lol whether its her ass, breast etc. it’s so annoying. I feel like if he stares at it, its kind of disrespectful. I dont want to tell him how much it bothers me because he may think thats immature? What to do? Am I over reacting?

Why do I get jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls?

Last Saturday I was helping my boyfriend move into his new apartment and as we were loading stuff into the truck to take it to the new place this cute like, 20ish girl in short shorts and a sports bra walked by and I guess he saw her ot of the corner of his eye and he turned around and looked at her. I know it’s a natural thing for guys and it wasn’t like he ogled and drooled or wolf whistled or anything, but I still felt jealous and “why is he looking at her?”. Why do I still feel jealous?

I cant control my angry moods when i get jealous over my boyfriend looking at other girls. what can i do?

Lately, ive started to get really jealous whenever my boyfriend looks at another girl. Although i understand just because they are looking doesn’t mean that they want to be with them! but a few days ago, me and my boyfriend were invited to the pub to celebrate one of his mates finally getting a job, i got there and was the only girl there, some of his mates didn’t even say hello. there was a tall brunette with glasses and a short dress playing pool with her friend, every time she took a shot obviously bent over they were literally dribbling over her and he was making comments, not knowing i was stood behind him. it left me feeling very angry and even worse that i couldn’t even have a little moan to one of the other girls! His mate is a really bad influence though, he wants a bit of everything that moves! Also, it was out year anniversary on saturday, he took me out for a meal, when we arrived his mum, step dad and friend was there. i was plonked at the end of the table not involved in any conversation then it was my fault for not talking. His mum was also asking him how he felt when he had seen the ex love of his life the day before. i just wish she wouldn’t do it in front of me because i am starting to be a really jealous person and i don’t want to be, i feel really stupid because i know he loves me and my angry moods over these things are going to drive him away. when i get in these moods i don’t tell him why when he asks either because i feel stupid! Advice please!!

My boyfriend hangs out with his friends more than me what can I do?

He usually lets his friends take him somewhere rather than me . even when I have absolutely nothing to do.
Then when he leaves it’s just me alone & bored.
I have told him how I feel about this, but I think after I tell him it only works for a little while (him staying home/going places with me)
I dont like to go out all that much, Im more of a “home-body” I guess.
anyway…what should I do?

My boyfriend hangs out with his friends more than me!?

Every friday night and saturday night he’s either with them or just at home. We go to different schools so the weekends are the only time we get to hangout.
And we haven’t hung out in two weeks before he’s been hangout with his friends. I’m starting to get really pissed off, because it’s almost like he’d rather be with them than me!

I ask him every week if we can hangout saturday night, but by the time its saturday he’s made other plans!
What should i do?
And don’t tell me to dump him, please. I’ve already been told by so many people to do that. And i’m considering it if he doesn’t change.

boyfriend hangs out with his friend more than his girlfriend?

The day before, my boyfriend and I got into an argument. In the end, he said he would make it up to me and spend time with me the following day(Yesterday). The next day came and he came over for lunch. I thought he was going to spend the whole day with me, but instead when we were eating he told me that he forgot that he was suppose to see a movie with his friends today. I told him that you know we just made a pact, and now you’re going to see a movie with your friends? He spent this past tuesday, wednesday, thursday, friday and sunday(today) with them. I only saw him on monday( 11 month anniversary) and christmas, because I drove to his house to talk and had to head back home. If I wasn’t going there. He probably wouldn’t have saw me yesterday.

I feel like he spends too much of his time with his friends, and not enough with me. I never say that he couldn’t hang out with his friends, but it annoys me alot. His friends doesn’t even like me, and actually persuaded my boyfriend to talk to this girl.. and he actually texted the girl with all these sweet talk. In the end, he said he was sorry and realized that this relationship is serious. How can it be serious if he always spends 4 days with his friends and 1 or 2 days with me. The winter break is about to be over and I really haven’t spend that much time with his, since it’s all about his friends.
Oh! his friends hangs out with him alot, because they don’t have a girlfriend and tells my boyfriend to break up with me or find someone else because I’m not good for him. However, when we get into an argument, he might agree. But when we are calm, he says he loves me and wouldn’t do that.

I read alot of people’s comment about boyfriend hanging out with his friends too much, and I’m not sure if it’s normal with this situation or is he just into his friends more than he is into me?

Is it wrong that my boyfriend hangs out with his girl friend more than me?

She lives really close to him and they have pre-calculus together, so they have lots of “study hang outs” and such. At first it was just her tutoring him, but now they hang out at each other’s houses, go places together, and he’s even spending Easter with her!

My parents hate him (that’s another story), so he obviously doesn’t want to come over. Even worse, I’m not allowed to go to his house so our time together is very limited.

I feel that she’s replacing me in some ways: doing things with him, even everyday things, that I don’t have to opportunity to do with him anymore. Watching TV, hanging out with each other’s families, etc.

We’ve been together for over a year and a half and I know he loves me. But because we fell in love as a result of becoming best friends first, I fear that he’ll end up falling for her the same way.

He says that I’m being jealous and insecure and that they are only friends. While I do believe him, I can’t get over my insecurities and our relationship is suffering as a result.

Are my feelings reasonable, or am I just completely paranoid? What should I do to keep our relationship from falling apart?
Thanks for the advice everybody. For the record though, our relationship isn’t long distance. We live in the same town and go to the same school, it’s just that the girl lives closer to him and I’m not allowed to go to his house.

And I would never ‘do something’ drastic, sorry if that was implied lol. I meant more like, talking about it with him and trying to compromise or something like that.

My boyfriend hangs out with his best friend more then he does with me. Is that weird? I need some help and adv?

All though I should be his best friend for ever he hangs out with this one guy more than me. What are your opinions? Thanks!

What are some questions to ask during the question game?

I am fourteen, and texting my boyfriend. Here are some of the questions I’ve already asked, so you understand what types of questions we have been asking.
How far have you gone with a girl before?
If you had the opportunity to kiss me, would you?
What was your first impression of me?
What turns you on?
What is your favorite body part on a girl?
So, I was just in need of some new questions. Nothing TOO inappropriate, but mildly suggestive, maybe? Thanks in advance!

long post, but I promise I will answer your questions.?

It has been one month since I have last spoke to my ex boyfriend. It’s been a rocky road for me and my ex. This guy is 22 and he and I are expecting our baby in October.

He is happy that he is going to be a dad. Sometimes he says he is not excited. But, he tends to change his mind. 3 weeks ago he moved in with his parents again. We could not live together, All he took was his clothing. He left his most valuble stuff here. He left his gaming systems, and all sorts of sporting equiptments. During the time he was living to his moms. He was calling me to see how I was, and to ask me about my opinion on his life events. He would stop over to see how I was doing. The last time we spoke on civil terms was when out of the blue one day, he decides to ask if I would mind if my son (not his) could go to the park with him. He came and got him, showed off his new car to me and left. A few days went by and he was seen with a girl. I had this feeling that he was seeing her. Someone had told me that they were dating. So I got very angry and wrote him a letter, saying that I wanted him to come and move the rest of his stuff out, and we were done. We were never getting back together again. Then I notice he deletes me off his contacts everywhere. I called him to confront him. He was very angry, and said he deleted me because I wrote him a chapter book on his account. He also said that I was stupid. He tells me he would be here in a few days to get his things. And I told him that I wanted them out now. He then yells “well keep them, throw them out, sell them, I dont give a f**k what you do with them. Then hangs up on me. The next day his new women approaches my friend at work says “I am kind of seeing her ex, and I know about the pregnancy, I just dont want any trouble”. I got mad and wrote her. She claims he did not cheat on me. And says whoever I got my information from was wrong. Why would he tell me to sell stuff that means so much to him? Why would he not admit to the new girl? And why would he cut off all contact with me, if I am having his baby? Instead of just up and leaving us, he took my son out for some bonding time…why would he do this if he planned on leaving me for this other girl? I do admit that I have been hanging out with an ex, and he may have heard about it. It seriously bothers me that he has cut off all contact with me. I am having his baby! Also, that he would not even tell me about him dating another person. I know he is very angry why would he tell me to sell everything he owns? It has been a month since we have spoke, I have been seen by him and others just hanging out with another ex boyfriend I stayed friends with. Now, I am hearing that he doesn’t know for sure weither the baby is his, and is going to get a blood test when the baby is born.

Is there a chance she will leave him for me?

First of all, thanks for taking the time to answer questions on your own time.
I have been working with a girl for nearly a year. She is a great person and one of the few girls I have ever seen myself in the future with. I would really love to date her and get to know her even more but she has a boyfriend. She has little self confidence in the fact that she is good looking. She has told me her current boyfriend is her first and will be her “last”. I have been thinking that she says that because she may be afraid that no one else will like her. She says I’m her best friend and often makes physical contact with me. I am really willing to say to her I really really like her and risk our friendship’s current status to see what she’d say because as I’ve heard, what’s easy to get is probably not great. I really think she may be interested in me but I’m not sure. A new employee started a week ago and she was very jealous during the first days and still is at times. I am not sure if that is because of a friendship or something more. She has been with her boyfriend for five years, and she is 19. I don’t wish her to cheat but to realize who she would really want to be with, as I said she may just be afraid to let him go for reasons of self confidence. She often asks me if she is somehow unlikeable because people put her down sometimes and her boyfriend does not back her up. She says that her boyfriend‘s grandma is extremely rude to her and he does not help her feel better when mistreated by his grandma. I give her advice and she seems to be happy when around me. At work she is sad, she says, when I’m not around which is often. When I am at work she is constantly smiling and looking at me. At work when I wear cologne and am around her she says it smells delicious, not just good. I’m very confused and can usually tell if someone likes me but this is the toughest thing I’ve done in my short life. I’ve been happy all my life, never had problems with females, and now when I least expect it, in a way I least expected, a girl is my biggest problem. She often asks me out to places like the gym and says she’d love to come by and play some video games with me but never gets around to it. I think that the going out part is the biggest part about our relationship that says she doesn’t like me but the other reasons and actions say she does. Those positive reasons outweigh the negatives in my mind. She is a nice girl overall, but doesn’t get along with anyone else at work even close to how she gets along with me. I really don’t want to pressure her and I understand that not everyone I like will like me back. I am still young and have many girls to meet in my future and as much as I would love to be able to date her I wouldn’t want her hurt. I’d be happier knowing she is happy with her current boyfriend than to know she wouldn’t want to be with me in the long run and have lost her current boyfriend. Thanks again for your time, and I just hope the best comes to be for both of us.

How likely is she to like me?

First of all, thanks for taking the time to answer questions on your own time.
I have been working with a girl for nearly a year. She is a great person and one of the few girls I have ever seen myself in the future with. I would really love to date her and get to know her even more but she has a boyfriend. She has little self confidence in the fact that she is good looking. She has told me her current boyfriend is her first and will be her “last”. I have been thinking that she says that because she may be afraid that no one else will like her. She says I’m her best friend and often makes physical contact with me. I am really willing to say to her I really really like her and risk our friendship’s current status to see what she’d say because as I’ve heard, what’s easy to get is probably not great. I really think she may be interested in me but I’m not sure. A new employee started a week ago and she was very jealous during the first days and still is at times. I am not sure if that is because of a friendship or something more. She has been with her boyfriend for five years, and she is 19. I don’t wish her to cheat but to realize who she would really want to be with, as I said she may just be afraid to let him go for reasons of self confidence. She often asks me if she is somehow unlikeable because people put her down sometimes and her boyfriend does not back her up. She says that her boyfriend‘s grandma is extremely rude to her and he does not help her feel better when mistreated by his grandma. I give her advice and she seems to be happy when around me. At work she is sad, she says, when I’m not around which is often. When I am at work she is constantly smiling and looking at me. At work when I wear cologne and am around her she says it smells delicious, not just good. I’m very confused and can usually tell if someone likes me but this is the toughest thing I’ve done in my short life. I’ve been happy all my life, never had problems with females, and now when I least expect it, in a way I least expected, a girl is my biggest problem. She often asks me out to places like the gym and says she’d love to come by and play some video games with me but never gets around to it. I think that the going out part is the biggest part about our relationship that says she doesn’t like me but the other reasons and actions say she does. Those positive reasons outweigh the negatives in my mind. She is a nice girl overall, but doesn’t get along with anyone else at work even close to how she gets along with me. I really don’t want to pressure her and I understand that not everyone I like will like me back. I am still young and have many girls to meet in my future and as much as I would love to be able to date her I wouldn’t want her hurt. I’d be happier knowing she is happy with her current boyfriend than to know she wouldn’t want to be with me in the long run and have lost her current boyfriend. Thanks again for your time, and I just hope the best comes to be for both of us.

Would she end it for me?

First of all, thanks for taking the time to answer questions on your own time.
I have been working with a girl for nearly a year. She is a great person and one of the few girls I have ever seen myself in the future with. I would really love to date her and get to know her even more but she has a boyfriend. She has little self confidence in the fact that she is good looking. She has told me her current boyfriend is her first and will be her “last”. I have been thinking that she says that because she may be afraid that no one else will like her. She says I’m her best friend and often makes physical contact with me. I am really willing to say to her I really really like her and risk our friendship’s current status to see what she’d say because as I’ve heard, what’s easy to get is probably not great. I really think she may be interested in me but I’m not sure. A new employee started a week ago and she was very jealous during the first days and still is at times. I am not sure if that is because of a friendship or something more. She has been with her boyfriend for five years, and she is 19. I don’t wish her to cheat but to realize who she would really want to be with, as I said she may just be afraid to let him go for reasons of self confidence. She often asks me if she is somehow unlikeable because people put her down sometimes and her boyfriend does not back her up. She says that her boyfriend‘s grandma is extremely rude to her and he does not help her feel better when mistreated by his grandma. I give her advice and she seems to be happy when around me. At work she is sad, she says, when I’m not around which is often. When I am at work she is constantly smiling and looking at me. At work when I wear cologne and am around her she says it smells delicious, not just good. I’m very confused and can usually tell if someone likes me but this is the toughest thing I’ve done in my short life. I’ve been happy all my life, never had problems with females, and now when I least expect it, in a way I least expected, a girl is my biggest problem. She often asks me out to places like the gym and says she’d love to come by and play some video games with me but never gets around to it. I think that the going out part is the biggest part about our relationship that says she doesn’t like me but the other reasons and actions say she does. Those positive reasons outweigh the negatives in my mind. She is a nice girl overall, but doesn’t get along with anyone else at work even close to how she gets along with me. I really don’t want to pressure her and I understand that not everyone I like will like me back. I am still young and have many girls to meet in my future and as much as I would love to be able to date her I wouldn’t want her hurt. I’d be happier knowing she is happy with her current boyfriend than to know she wouldn’t want to be with me in the long run and have lost her current boyfriend. Thanks again for your time, and I just hope the best comes to be for both of us.