How can I stop being so jealous of other people’s lives?

It’s the last week before school starts. Everybody seems to be having the time of their lives except me. I really wanted to have an awesome holiday, but it didn’t work out that way and it sucked. Everybody else brags about how great theirs was. One of my friends is going to spend the night at my other friend’s house for two nights; this makes me so depressed I barely ate anything today. I am so scared of waking up one day and being disappointed at the life I lived, but I already messed up my whole adolescent era, b/c I just didn’t know what I had. I feel lonely and depressed. I tried having the whole positive attitude and trying to take opportunities, but everything turned out the same. And the things that I want to do include having fun with friends, but my friends are busy or have something else going on. Plus I don’t have nearly enough close friends; I have one, one friend who will do things with me. I can’t go out and make friends either b/c I suck at everything I do and I have bad anxiety. I don’t know what to do anymore, I just want to have fun, but I can’t measure up to everybody else b/c I am just sitting around all day doing nothing.

How to stop being jealous of people?

I‘m normally very friendly and pleasant around everyone and anyone, and I don’t judge people by appearances either, I‘ve had my fair share of struggles when I was younger and I‘ve learned from that, just as most people do. But certain times I notice that some people get treated like royalty, when in reality they are the worst! They act fake around people and use others and yet they are loved by everyone and are so popular just because they have good looks. Now I know that without a good personality being loved for looks is not genuine and its just superficial, but I can’t stop thinking about how unfair it is because they still soak up all the attention and glory, regardless of how horrible they are on the inside.
My sister is in high school and she was telling me about one of her classmates who gets so much attention and other students kiss up to her and act like they would jump off a cliff for her, just because she is hot and has an assertive personality so she can control anyone basically. I am no longer in high school, but I can’t help but think back to my high school days and wonder why are people so shallow? And unfortunately I can’t help but be a little jealous, I hate this feeling! I know everyone has went through a jealousy phase or felt jealous of someone who they feel inferior to, so I was wondering how to get past this?
And why can’t people treat everyone equally regardless of how they look?
I feel like I get jealous of people often, and it’s getting worse now that I‘m in university since I barely have time to hang out with my friends, I feel upset if I see them posting up pictures on facebook of them having fun and partying and all, I feel like its not fair and I should be having fun too..but I am aiming for medical school so I really have no time for fun, just always studying! So I can’t help but feel jealous of others who get so much love and attention, have so many friends, go out all the time, and are so free to live their life, while I am inside studying trying to get somewhere in life. I really wish I could just lose this emotion because its really starting to bug me and bring me down, and I‘m usually a very optimistic and happy person. How do you guys deal with jealousy?
Please help, thank you!

How to stop feeling inferior/jealous of friends(and other people)?

I‘m in my senior year of high school, and I‘ve “broken out of my shell” quite a bit since middle school. I am happy that I have my friends, decent grades, etc. But, every now and then I feel very inferior and jealous of my good friend ( and sometimes other people). It almost feels like some sort of animosity and I can’t stop it. I don’t want to feel like a fake person, but I do around quite a few people. Please excuse me if I sound like I‘m fishing for compliments or anything, I just really want to know how to be confident in myself and block out all of these negative feelings. I would appreciate any advice. Thank you!

How can I stop myself from being jealous?

I am jealous whenever my one friend gets more attention from our guy friend than I do. I am jealous about how my friends made many other friends when we had gone into high school but I didn’t. I am jealous that other people are having more fun than I am…I‘m not really jealous of material possessions. just relationships and things like that. (NO RELIGIOUS ADVICE PLEASE AND DON’T SAY THERAPY)…My jealousy is turning me into a mean spirited person…how can I change that?

How can I not feel jealous when my best friend hangs out with other people?

Alright, so my problem is, is that I always get jealous when my best friend hangs out with other people, because I always feel that somehow that I will get replaced. And the worst part is that im pretty much away for most of the summer so we wont get to hang out alot,and im afraid that by the time I get back, Ill be forgotten and we might not be as close. So how do I just stop being jealous?

what to do when parents hate boyfriend?

i know why my parents hate my boyfriend. we did stupid things when we first started dating and they blame him for all of it. we both have learned and grown from it. he is in college and treats me very well. i love him and i don’t want to be with out him in my life.
my parents on the other hand, will never forgive him and refuse to support me in my decision. while i know it is my life and i am on my own, it‘s still hard because i value my parents options. i just don’t know what is right.

Why does my boyfriend hate when I post things on his face book?

Whenever I make a comment on his face book he either writes “…” in response or he’ll write “get off my thread” in response, which really pisses me off! How come all his friends can post comments but I can’t? And some of you may be thinking I post bad things on his page, but I don’t! I write what anyone else would write normally in response to his things. Yet when he sees that “I” posted it, rather than a friend of his, he gets all nasty about it. WHY?????

What to do when parents hate boyfriend?

I am a 20 year old college student who never gets into trouble. I have been dating the msot wonderful man for almost a year now and I am sure I want to marry him. I know I am young, but I make my choices wisely. I am planning on going to graduate school starting fall 2012 and plan on going out of state. My parents want to move where I move and normally it would not stress me out but seeing as how they hate him, it does. The only reason the refuse to accept him is that he is of a different race. I have stopped caring because it really is a personal issue since he has done nothing to hurt me but only treats me like a queen. He is planning on moving where I go to graduate school or at least will be visiting me alot and vice versa. My issue is if they still continue to hate him, should I tell them they are more than free to not be a part of a big portion of my life? Help!

what should i do when my best friend and boyfriend hate each other?

It is affecting my relationship with my best friend because he is a jerk to her and he thinks that she is really annoying. I don’t know what to do because i love both of them dearly. And if i don’t break up with him i may lose her but i still love him a lot. HELP!!!!

Why does my boyfriend hate it when I hang out with his estranged family?

How can I stop being jealous?

When my boyfriend talks to other women that I know are not platonic friends and I don’t know them, I get jealous feelings. I don’t like how I act or what I say which sounds iinsecure and distrustful, and I wonder what he thinks about them. I think I do trust him but I don’t like that he is giving them attention and talking to them, and not introducing me. Is there something wrong with me? What can I do to stop these horrible feelings?

How do I stop my jealous feelings?

My best friend, who is a girl hangs out with all types of people like I do, but for some reason when I see her with other guys I just cant help but feel jealous. I do know that I might have feelings for her, but I can’t tell her anything about that yet. So until then please tell me a way to get over my jealousy long enough until im ready to tell her.
Im a guy. I forgot to say that, sorry. Plus, I try to hang around the same people she does ,guys or girls, but It makes me seem to desperate sometimes to talk to her

How do I stop these jealous feelings towards husband’s son?

I have been slated by people on here when mentioning this before… by those who have no understanding of the situation, & I am trying to change.

My husband & I have been married for a short time & I am 19weeks pregnant. My husband was thrilled when we found out. I am 40, he is 39. I have an 18yr old, he has a 19yr old.

My son moved in with my parents just before we married (for reasons too complex to go into). My stepson lives with us, but was due to live with his mum in June (NOT because I’m trying to get rid of him). My stepson loves his mum very much & she had been asking him to live with her for a while.

To start with I got on well with stepson. I made food I knew he liked, bought gifts etc. He goes to college 2 days a week & his dad decided that Connor should do the washing up on his days off as his chore. Now I do the washing up daily… when I mentioned this to hubby he said I was an adult, his son was a child so I should shut up. His son now ignores me… he comes into the room & asks “do you want anything dad” yet refuses to look at me. I’d always complimented my hubby on how polite his son is, now I mention how he ignores me, even if I talk to him, and my husband goes mad.

My husband calls my son “darling”, won’t have a bath unless his son is here, so he can go into the bathroom with him. talks about how we should raise our child, and names etc. Anytime I complain he tells me his son is his only family, his best friend and that he’d prefer it if I left so they could have fun like they used to before I came along.

We have a small 2 bed house & to start with, when his son was going to leave, this would have been OK. When I realised this was unlikely to happen I suggested getting a 3bed house, which my husband had been offered. My husband refused… saying that he’s not sure what he wants….

I really don’t want to live with a baby in this small house, with his Son who lives the toilet filthy, my husband running around wiping his son’s nose (his son can’t cook or do his washing at 19). I spend every night crying. I did ask if his son could stay with his mum when the baby is born to give us some bonding time with the baby. Husband refuses saying that it’s half-sibling & he wants his best friend to experience it with us…. while I can empathise I don’t agree. I’m happy for his son to see the baby… but I don’t agree that his son should be around 24/7 to share our experience (I know this is awful of me)… we’re a new family & of course his son will always be part of it… I’m not arguing that… I just want some time alone with the two of us & our new baby… who has two parents not three. I feel desperate as my feelings are not thought of. His mum would happily have him as his college would have finished for the year… I can’t bear the thought of my husband having baths with his son, cooking for his son, staying up till 3am with his son playing games, while I’m tending to a newborn.

We’ve also come to blows regarding guardians for the baby. My husband has disowned his family & his next of kin are his son & his ex-wifes sister. He wants his son or ex sis-in- law to be guardian… I don’t. I want my sister who is marred with a young child & has already said would encourage his son to visit. That way my son would also be involved. His son would take my child to a different part of the country to be with his mum… who I’ve never met. My husband is cool with this as I think he still loves his ex… as I’m feeling the baby move & will be the one pushing it our I don’t want it brought up by some kid who hates me & never seeing my family.

I’m also worried about the delivery as my husband has said I can’t have an epidural as his ex didn’t. I don’t want him to watch the head come out, he won;t be there if he’s not allowed, plus he says he’s not there for me but to watch his child be born… I rally want someone there who loves me & supports me… right now I feel like a surrogate or incubator as opposed to a wife… how to change how I feel?

I also want to add I love my son very, very much & we get on great now (there are reasons unrelated to my husband that he moved in with my parents). So I understand about kids coming first.. yet my hubby has an exclusive relationship with his son that excludes me
All good points that i have thought about… yet my husband REFUSES to have my son around & hates him… so I don’t feel like I should try to too hard with his son anymore… I do get annoyed when people way I should have realised before we married that he had a son… so do I .. who now wants to live with me. My stepson has a mum… my son only has me… so I’m sick of hearing how I should be nice to his son, while my poor baby is left out in the cold
Also surely staying with a husband who bad mouths my son will only teach the baby to its half-brother… why should i stay around & try to be nice to his son… when my own flesh & blood is bad mouthed & treated like crap?

How do you stop feeling jealous?

I recently started seeing this girl, we aren’t really a ‘couple’ yet but we go on dates and do stuff couples do. The thing is that she is a more gregarious person then I am and she is friendly with a lot of people and is always going out. Meanwhile I’m stuck at home studying or just sitting by myself.

I don’t mind this at all, she can have a social life or whatever, but whenever she tells me she is going to a party, I get extremely jealous because I know she’s going to be around other guys and don’t really know if she is going to be making out with them or something like that. I try to let these jealousy feelings go and trust her, but I have trust issues and I get uncontrollably angry. How can I stop these feelings from happening? It’s getting really bad and I don’t want them to somehow ruin any chances I have with this girl.

how to stop being jealous?

well you see i know your best friend can have other friends too. i now that because i have a lot of other friends besides my best friend. but why is it that whenever my BFF hangs with her other friends, that I get jealous? like a few days ago, she invited this other girl to the movie theatre instead of me, and i couldn’t help it but i got so mad inside!!! i really want to stop these feelings of jealousy!!! How???

Is there any way to get rid of a creep label?

Hey there, I’m a 17 year old male in my final year of high school. I had a crush on a really cute, nice, flirty, popular girl last year but unfortunately she thinks I’m a creep. I generally am a very nice, caring guy and I’m pretty sure everyone I know(including her before the situation) would agree with that. The reason I came off a creep was that I never knew how to cope with a crush and ask her out and I used to get shy when talking with her. (Btw, I was stiffed in the situation by a friend and the girl but it’s too long of an explanation). So anyways, she knew I liked her and started flirting with me but I was too shy to respond. I also started getting jealous because she’s a flirt and I saw her flirting with other guys. I started ending up wherever she was to try and get her to notice me. i also talked/argued really loud with others in class but i guess that only annoyed her. I only had 1 convo with her msn but later she blocked me. I msged her on fcbk so we could talk abt it but we couldn’t meet personally so it was an msn convo. she never told me i was a creep but i could tell she thinks i am. even now, i still sorta crush on her and i’ve been trying to get rid of it but i can’t. i don’t want her to think i’m a creep and i am nice to her but it’s just today i asked her a question and she answered and she misunderstood so i asked again she gave the same the answer and she was like “i thought i already answered your question”. i feel like she still thinks i’m a creep, she still has me blocked. i mean it’s almost as if every action i take will be thought of as creepy by her what must i do to get rid of the “creep” label? I feel like it’s me vs world which is rare because i’m usually happy-go-lucky..
thnx, i get that alot from friends. i really don’t have much time for a relationship but thing is, i want to get rid of the creep label.
if i tell her, won’t she just get more annoyed and besides, iunno if i can commit? It’s not like we ever went out.

Question of the day help?

Hey. My bff/crush have this little tradition where I ask him a “Question of the Day” everyday. One day was “If you were gay which celebrity would you date, and which would you do?”. Another was “If you were a girl which piece of laundraie would be your favorite to wear?” Stuff like that that’s kinda flirty and cute, and funny, too. But now I need help thinking of a couple more questions… Anyone got any good ones??

Teenage boy problems.?

[THIS ISN'T AS LONG AS IT LOOKS! Help is appreciated, thanks!]

This guy totally confuses me and I’m not sure if he “like-likes” me. Let’s call him Ken. So, last year he had a crush on my best friend. This year my friend rarely came on campus so he didn’t see her much. But he and i had a class together so we saw each other often. he started to talk to me slowly and then eventually started sitting next to me each class. We would smile and wave at each other every time we locked eyes on campus and some of my friends said he gave me “the look” but I have no idea what the “look” is so I never thought anything of it besides a smile. He bought me this little pin thing and i got him a slice of pizza since he did that for me.. long story. He showed me poems, stories, and drawings he made. He just shared stuff he liked with me. Once the class was playing a game and he went to go up and he wanted me to go with him and he locked arms with me and was like, “c’mon!” I didn’t even notice until i sat back down and my peer was like, “I think he has a crush on you.” So, another male peer of mine started to sit next to me, and when Ken came in he glared at him ‘cuz that’s his seat. And when my male peer went to the bathroom Ken switched seats with him and over the next 3 weeks or so they would kinda fight over who sat next to me. And my male peer was like, “Ken has a crush on you. I’ve been a boy all my life and I know these kinda things. When he doesn’t let a guy sit next to you it’s kinda like you’re his. Like this is my seat and only i can sit in it.” I kinda was like, “Woah.” I didn’t really like him like “that” during the first semester.. Despite what everyone said I would only believe it if he told me directly. We talked on Facebook a bit, we were Valentineless so we said cute little flirty things on vDay over FB. And one time there was a question on our assignment that said, “Whose your best friend?” And I said out loud, “Do I even have a best friend?” And he said, “You should put two years since that’s how long you’ve known me.” And another time the teacher was correcting a sentence of mine and I had my pencil in my hand so as she was talking to me he just held my hand and corrected the sentence as he held my hand, he like wrote with me. If you kinda know what i mean. I couldn’t say anything cause i was listening to the teacher.. but he could’ve used his own pencil, y’know? And we often I guess “get close” as we sat next to each other and lean over each other freely. But, two weeks after he did that hand thing he left class early he basically ditched me cause he didn’t want to do an assignment. But, my best friend decided to visit my class and he came back it was kinda obvious cause of her and just his overall posture and whatnot was obvious that he still had feelings for her. Well, now school is out and my best friend just made a facebook and she said every time she logs in he starts talking to her, and she asked him if he like-likes her and he said no basically. and I kinda asked him and he said he doesn’t have crushes on girls anymore cause it’s “pointless” and whatever. but he still talks to her a lot and he doesn’t start the convo with me, and I don’t with him. I’m not sure if he wants to talk to me so i don’t.I did develop a crush on him later on the school year but then i guess he didn’t have one on me anymore. So, what should i do? Should I start the convo’s more or…?

*I added my number on his phone when he wasn’t looking, i didn’t tell him and it’s been a month, no call, he never brought it up. I don’t have his digits either.
*We’re both shy and inexperienced when it comes to this stuff.

what should i do ??????? help please ?

well i have a huge crush on my friend, i have done for nearly 2 years and 5 months ago i got the courage to tell him, all he said was ok but since then he has been doing this really annoying thing, he does or says something really cute or flirty then the next thing he does or says is normal, its almost like he realised that he did something flirty and decided to stop. e.g staring at me in class, when we sit together always getting our legs to touch, being over friendly with me ect.

but my question is what can i do, i am not telling i like him again it would be pointless, i am also not going to ask him how he feels about me it will ruin our friendship if i just say that to him and he doesn’t feel the same. so i can either carry on being me and just be nice and friendly but a little flirty (if you pick this option can you please suggest some ways i can obviously flirt with him, i already get good eye contact when i catch him looking at me but no dirty suggestions)
or i can try and make him jealous, this would be a good idea if he doesn’t know how he feels about me and seeing me all over another guy will make him see that he does like me. but if he already knows how he feels he might end up going off me if he thinks i like another guy.

sorry its long but i need your help

thanks.

Guys and Girls: Relationship advice! 10 points!!?

Ok here we go this is so cliche but there’s this guy. and he’s 19 and I’m 15 and i don’t know if he likes me but he keeps inviting me to go out with him and i keep saying yes but were just never free at the same time and so we were playing words with friends and i was like AHH!! I haven’t talked to you in forever (because i love talking to him and I kinda have a crush on him) and he was like yeah you haven’t we need to hang out together!! and i was like yes soon please!! and he was like yeah text me and he gave me his number but we’ve been friends for about 4 or 5 months and we talked everyday for 2-2 1/2 months im not sure if he likes me but I’m POSITIVE that he has flirted with me… but that doesn’t always mean someone likes you
So my questions are
1. how do i find out if he likes me (other than asking him)
2. How long do i wait to text him (guys: if you gave a gil your number and said text me how long would you wait before thinking she’s not interested)
3. what do i say when i text him? ( hey it’s ____)
4. advice on how to be more flirty and cute(: )

THANKS SO much
anyone who responds with an answer will get ten points!!!!

what to do when your boyfriend hangs up the phone on you?

What to do when your boyfriend refuses to talk to you on the phone?

so i was talking to my boyfriends best friend and he handed the phone to my boyfriend…..you would think that he would want to talk to me because we havent seen each other for a very long time but instead as soon as he gets the phone he hangs up on me…idk wat to do about it…

Ladies, what would you do if your boyfriend hang up on you intentionally?

Called him probably 5 times. When I finally got hold of him, he texted me that he was sleeping and therefore was not able to answer the phone. When I called him again, he hang up on me! More than once then next thing he turned off his phone already!

What do when your friend makes rude noises around you and flirts with your boyfriend and denies it?

I just had a nervous breakdown on Sat Aug 2,2008. Because I just couldn’t take it anymore with this person. I tried to be patient with her around my guy and I didn’t see any improvements on her part.

This is what I would see every time she was with me and my boyfriend:

1. She would make very rude noises around just me and my boyfriend, But only when I’m around; She never made rude noises when it was just my boyfriend and her in the area. She would act normal he told me. And laugh and giggle at anything he said to her.

2. She would always flirt, play tussle with my boyfriend while I’m right there watching and it would get out of control. That she would be on top of him or vice versa.

3. She would block out what you say and ignore what concerns you have with her on boundaries on personal space with myself and her around my boyfriend.

4. Plus, she has a whole lot of mental and physical issues that she won’t face to grow up.

I talked with my boyfriend about this. He asked questions to his friends they told him that girl is messing with your relationship and she has to go. They also told my boyfriend that what he was allowing was flirting and cheating right in front of me and that is beyond insulting to your girlfriend and your future step daughter.

I told him that she always leaves messages on his phone and texts him too. Plus she has a myspace page and leaves messages almost all the time in a week. Yet she never really talks to me or gets to know me like a friend should. She is to interested in what my boyfriend likes and dislikes.

While every time he asks or I ask with him are you interested in my boyfriend she denies it all and acts like this is the way she is. She only behaves around her best friend cause I only told her about my complaints once about her leaving us hanging at a fun park to go see her best friend. I was weak from an accident too. I guess it was just to boring for her ego to know what is more important at that time.

She doesn’t like having people talk to others about her and she wants you to confront her and she said it won’t hurt her feelings too. But if she ignores your warnings and acts retarded like she doesn’t understand anything you say anything to confront the issue at hand and she blows it off and repeats this problem again.

I got confused about why she lies and acts so normal around my boyfriend and rude and pretends to be my friend around her best friend and my boyfriend. Then when I really wasn’t able to take it any more I was tired from a bike ride in a park. I was struggling with my balance and I was flushed. When my boyfriend was done teacher her martial arts I waited in the car.

She comes in my car and asks me what‘s wrong. I told her isn’t it obvious I’m tired. Then she says; “You don’t have to get mad about it, it is because of me”. I said it will be if you don’t let me breathe. She didn’t say anything else. Then my boyfriend invited her to come eat with us. She didn’t walk to her car she just sat in my car didn’t ask if I could give her a ride and I just waited to take off after my body cooled down and drove her to her car that was across the street.

Then as I drove her to her car she didn’t say thank you for the ride. But she slams my door. When we go to the location to eat I couldn’t leave me car. If I did someone would’ve stole my bike and I didn’t bring my lock. Anyway I stayed in my trying to calm down from this stress and I didn’t leave my car for 1hr 30 mins. I asked my boyfriend to get me some food and I told him that I wanted to go home. Because he was checking up on me when I let out a scream in my car.

As I waited for him to let her know that I don’t feel comfortable around her. All she said to my boyfriend was this: “I didn’t know when it all went sour” and told my boyfriend that she will see him next Sat weekend to practice martial arts.

You can’t help but go insane and wonder if this is worth the time to talk, think, act, or just dump her and find a new friend until she learns something from this mess. Plus I worry about my boyfriend if he continues to train her and if they have a falling out what if she claims assault or rape because of the contact training involved in martial arts. I don’t want it to mess up his life as well. All because I though bring my friend home and introducing her to my boyfriend would make us all friends together.

That was and still my stress currently today..

how do you know when its time to break up with your boyfriend?

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little longer then 4 months now. the first 3 months were great. He gave me a neckalce for our 3 months and then we went to six flags and he won me a giant stufed animal. about in the middle of 3 months we got into a very stupid argument. we made up but then once school ended we barley saw eachother. we didnt see eachother in 2 weeks. During those two weeks was my birthday. He gave me a 30 second phone call. He didnt even get me a present. I saw him 2 times since school ended . Ive been thinking about breaking up with him during those two weeks but then when i saw him i thought everything when back to normal, but 2 nights ago i was talking to one of his best friends who happens to be one of my bestfriend who is lookikng out for me and said his ex girlfriend sent him a photo. He lied to me and told me no girl sent him a photo but when i told him i know she did he admitted it and said it was just casual. when we hung out the night before that he wouldnt let me see his phone like he ussually does. We made up but really havent talked since the fight. we were supposed to hang today but he canceled on me yesterday becuase apperently he has hockey and it was 4 text messages. then today he said heyy i just got done with hockey and i said kool and that was it. My friends all tell me to break up with him because they think he uses me. Yes we have gone to third base. Im starting to think that two. He told me he loves me, but i dont believe that bullshit. yes, i love him..but i have no clue what to do in this sistuation. can anybody help me please?

My boyfriend hangs out with his friends more than me what can I do?

He usually lets his friends take him somewhere rather than me . even when I have absolutely nothing to do.
Then when he leaves it’s just me alone & bored.
I have told him how I feel about this, but I think after I tell him it only works for a little while (him staying home/going places with me)
I dont like to go out all that much, Im more of a “home-body” I guess.
anyway…what should I do?

My boyfriend hangs out with his friends more than me!?

Every friday night and saturday night he’s either with them or just at home. We go to different schools so the weekends are the only time we get to hangout.
And we haven’t hung out in two weeks before he’s been hangout with his friends. I’m starting to get really pissed off, because it’s almost like he’d rather be with them than me!

I ask him every week if we can hangout saturday night, but by the time its saturday he’s made other plans!
What should i do?
And don’t tell me to dump him, please. I’ve already been told by so many people to do that. And i’m considering it if he doesn’t change.

boyfriend hangs out with his friend more than his girlfriend?

The day before, my boyfriend and I got into an argument. In the end, he said he would make it up to me and spend time with me the following day(Yesterday). The next day came and he came over for lunch. I thought he was going to spend the whole day with me, but instead when we were eating he told me that he forgot that he was suppose to see a movie with his friends today. I told him that you know we just made a pact, and now you’re going to see a movie with your friends? He spent this past tuesday, wednesday, thursday, friday and sunday(today) with them. I only saw him on monday( 11 month anniversary) and christmas, because I drove to his house to talk and had to head back home. If I wasn’t going there. He probably wouldn’t have saw me yesterday.

I feel like he spends too much of his time with his friends, and not enough with me. I never say that he couldn’t hang out with his friends, but it annoys me alot. His friends doesn’t even like me, and actually persuaded my boyfriend to talk to this girl.. and he actually texted the girl with all these sweet talk. In the end, he said he was sorry and realized that this relationship is serious. How can it be serious if he always spends 4 days with his friends and 1 or 2 days with me. The winter break is about to be over and I really haven’t spend that much time with his, since it’s all about his friends.
Oh! his friends hangs out with him alot, because they don’t have a girlfriend and tells my boyfriend to break up with me or find someone else because I’m not good for him. However, when we get into an argument, he might agree. But when we are calm, he says he loves me and wouldn’t do that.

I read alot of people’s comment about boyfriend hanging out with his friends too much, and I’m not sure if it’s normal with this situation or is he just into his friends more than he is into me?

Is it wrong that my boyfriend hangs out with his girl friend more than me?

She lives really close to him and they have pre-calculus together, so they have lots of “study hang outs” and such. At first it was just her tutoring him, but now they hang out at each other’s houses, go places together, and he’s even spending Easter with her!

My parents hate him (that’s another story), so he obviously doesn’t want to come over. Even worse, I’m not allowed to go to his house so our time together is very limited.

I feel that she’s replacing me in some ways: doing things with him, even everyday things, that I don’t have to opportunity to do with him anymore. Watching TV, hanging out with each other’s families, etc.

We’ve been together for over a year and a half and I know he loves me. But because we fell in love as a result of becoming best friends first, I fear that he’ll end up falling for her the same way.

He says that I’m being jealous and insecure and that they are only friends. While I do believe him, I can’t get over my insecurities and our relationship is suffering as a result.

Are my feelings reasonable, or am I just completely paranoid? What should I do to keep our relationship from falling apart?
Thanks for the advice everybody. For the record though, our relationship isn’t long distance. We live in the same town and go to the same school, it’s just that the girl lives closer to him and I’m not allowed to go to his house.

And I would never ‘do something’ drastic, sorry if that was implied lol. I meant more like, talking about it with him and trying to compromise or something like that.

My boyfriend hangs out with his best friend more then he does with me. Is that weird? I need some help and adv?

All though I should be his best friend for ever he hangs out with this one guy more than me. What are your opinions? Thanks!

Need some serious feedback on this guy situation…people good w/ relationships, PLEASE ANSWER!?

I have had a crush on my best guy friend for over 3 years. During this course, we’ve only grown closer. I was utterly convinced he felt the same way, until 4 months ago, when he began dating a long time friend of his who lives back home. He has moved there now as he graduated college before myself. Unable to forget him, we’ve remained friends…and if anything, this friendship has only grown more. The last few weeks, he has been more open with his feelings than ever, saying he misses me and misses getting to see me whenever he wants to, etc. He even ordered a webcam last night so we can see each other when we want to. He’s been talking rather dirty, asking for naughty pics, which I blatantly refuse & he just laughs. I’m not sure if its a joke though. The last 2 nights, we’ve spent several hours playing this “question game” where we can ask whatever we want and the other MUST answer truthfully. Lets just say, he’s definitely taking advantage of this game. We know close to everything about each other now. As we finished playing this game last night, he suddenly told me he kind of wants to tell me something since he tells me everything, but knows I will hate to hear it. And I told him to tell me and its ok. So he proceeds to tell me his girlfriend has been hanging w/ a guy who apparantly likes her, and its been bugging him…she has dinner at his house and goes to movies with him. Then he said he can’t say anything to her about it, as she doesn’t say anything to him about me. Then he tells me she thinks I’m gorgeous. I’m so clueless…it seems like he likes me soooo much…but why is he dating this girl? I’m SO confused…HELP!

Really insane conversation I had with this guy the night before…does it mean anything??!!!!?

I have had a crush on my best guy friend for over 3 years. During this course, we’ve only grown closer. I was utterly convinced he felt the same way, until 4 months ago, when he began dating a long time friend of his who lives back home. He has moved there now as he graduated college before myself. Unable to forget him, we’ve remained friends…and if anything, this friendship has only grown more. The last few weeks, he has been more open with his feelings than ever, saying he misses me and misses getting to see me whenever he wants to, etc. He even ordered a webcam last night so we can see each other when we want to. He’s been talking rather dirty, asking for naughty pics, which I blatantly refuse & he just laughs. I’m not sure if its a joke though. The last 2 nights, we’ve spent several hours playing this “question game” where we can ask whatever we want and the other MUST answer truthfully. Lets just say, he’s definitely taking advantage of this game. We know close to everything about each other now. As we finished playing this game last night, he suddenly told me he kind of wants to tell me something since he tells me everything, but knows I will hate to hear it. And I told him to tell me and its ok. So he proceeds to tell me his girlfriend has been hanging w/ a guy who apparantly likes her, and its been bugging him…she has dinner at his house and goes to movies with him. Then he said he can’t say anything to her about it, as she doesn’t say anything to him about me. Then he tells me she thinks I’m gorgeous. I’m so clueless…it seems like he likes me soooo much…but why is he dating this girl? I’m SO confused…HELP!
I think its much more than a crush…

A lil long, but your input would be REALLY appreciated!! Boy problems…!?!?!??!?!!?!?

I have had a crush on my best guy friend for over 3 years. During this course, we’ve only grown closer. I was utterly convinced he felt the same way, until 4 months ago, when he began dating a long time friend of his who lives back home. He has moved there now as he graduated college before myself. Unable to forget him, we’ve remained friends…and if anything, this friendship has only grown more. The last few weeks, he has been more open with his feelings than ever, saying he misses me and misses getting to see me whenever he wants to, etc. He even ordered a webcam last night so we can see each other when we want to. He’s been talking rather dirty, asking for naughty pics, which I blatantly refuse & he just laughs. I’m not sure if its a joke though. The last 2 nights, we’ve spent several hours playing this “question game” where we can ask whatever we want and the other MUST answer truthfully. Lets just say, he’s definitely taking advantage of this game. We know close to everything about each other now. As we finished playing this game last night, he suddenly told me he kind of wants to tell me something since he tells me everything, but knows I will hate to hear it. And I told him to tell me and its ok. So he proceeds to tell me his girlfriend has been hanging w/ a guy who apparantly likes her, and its been bugging him…she has dinner at his house and goes to movies with him. Then he said he can’t say anything to her about it, as she doesn’t say anything to him about me. Then he tells me she thinks I’m gorgeous. I’m so clueless…it seems like he likes me soooo much…but why is he dating this girl? I’m SO confused…HELP!

Why am I ALWAYS “Just A Friend” type of girl?!?!?! Please, will you ALL NOT SKIP OVER THIS QUESTION, THANKS!!!?

Ok, I have liked this guy, let’s call him……Jared, yes Jared….for a while now. He’s a type of guy that every girl would want to date, tall, handsome, sweet, and funny. Jared has always know I’ve liked him….which made being around him awkward, because he has never really liked me more than his “Best Friend’s Sister/Friend”.

But lately, things turned in a different direction. (At least that is how I saw it….) Jared went on vacation with my “family” (things are weird at home) and my mom and her boyfriend, Dave, are VERY cheap people. So, they got two rooms, one for themselves, and one that I had to share with my brother AND Jared.
I swear no one could mistake Jared’s behavior for flirting. I mean, he was practically all over my bed during the day, and he would ALWAYS try and talk to me. And I had one bed, and Jared and my brother had the other, and every time my brother wold fart, Jared would sarcastically start yelling and get up and lay down in MY bed for ten minutes, then went back.
Now, another situation was yesterday…I was at home alone, my mother was out with Dave, and my brother was at the other side of the neighborhood at another friend’s house. I just got out of the shower, and it was around 8 o’clock at night. My hair was wet and tangled, I looked like absolute CRAP, AND all my clothes were dirty, so I had to resort to a pair of old Tinkerbell Wal-Mart Capris I got years ago, and a T-Shirt.
I got a knock on the door…so I go to open it. I pear only my head around the door, and there is Jared with one of his friends.
I explained my brother wasn’t home, and where he could find him, and Jared boldly says, “I don’t believe you.” and barges through the door to go to my brothers room where he is usually found. (My house is known to be “open to the public” it seems.) I back into MY room, because I am freaking out because of my out fit. And when he comes back to the front door I open my door to my room a crack and say to go to my brother’s friends house, but he like wouldn’t leave, and he kept asking me if I liked his friend who was hiding next to the door to scare me, so when he does, I literally kicked them both out of the house!
Then he yells to come play a game of man-hunt (yes we are childish) so when we did, he kept wanting me to switch to his team, and when we had a lemonade break he came and sat right next to me, and we were like an inch apart! My mom even noticed (which is a step up for her)!

So, I really thought at that point he liked me, and today he texted me that he was inviting me and my brother to go fishing. I mean really, hint hint!

But, when I’m around him I always act completely stupid. I’m sooo shy and self-conscious.(I mean, I am NOTHING like some of his past girl friend. She was pretty, tall and skinny. And let me just say I’m not any of the three…)

So just two hours ago I asked one of my best friends to text him and ask him if he likes me, and she has been texting him for awhile, and he has always been very open with her, and here is his response, “No, I don’t like her anymore than just a friend. Plus, I’m not dating anyone younger than me for awhile now!”

I mean, WOAH. WTF!!! First off, I’m only a YEAR yonger than he is, and what is with all the FLIRTING and doing stuff together! I mean come on, really??? Can someone explain what’s wrong with this picture, am I missing someone? Was he NOT flirting, and just being a guy-friend?

FOR 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER! SHOULD I KEEP THESE FRIENDS?

Friend Problems and making friends with boys problems?
Okay. If you guys have seen my other question about my anger problems, you will probably know some of the people I’m on about here. And you should know that I am currently trying to turn my life around from horrible dorky girl to nice, calm, popular girl. But there will be a lot of problems during this construction. i WILL loose friends but those are the ones that mean nothing to me, as you will see later on. I’ll probably gain much nicer, better ones that won’t fall out with me every two seconds. Here I have made a list for you guys so you can help me to decide whether to keep them or not and maybe help me with a few problems I have.

Alicia
This girl can’t decide whether she is my best friend or not. If you read my anger problems question you will see that she always goes off with a girl who bullies me, called Louise. Behind Alicia’s back, Louise pulls faces at me and bullies me.
Alicia never, EVER stands up for me when I’m being bullied. She’s scared she’ll get bullied herself.
She’s kind of dorky, too. She makes me cringe, but at least she’s more mature than Vicky and Adelle, who you’ll hear about in a minute.
We fall out at least twice a month over petty little things. It’s her who starts it, and when we’ve fallen out one day, the next day she stirres up an argument. People love to watch these arguments and always get involved and turn on me when I fall out with her. I’m thinking I should ditch her for some better friends but that’s going to be hard if people are going to be asking questions about it all the time.
Oh, and she only REALLY comforts me when I cry.

Vicky + Adelle
These two make me cringe with their childishness. They are two of my ‘friends.’ They’re just like twins. Adelle isn’t that bad, she’s really nice, I’m keeping her I think, but it’s only when she’s with Vicky that she starts to act stupid. They run after each other, clap hands, and just act … childish. We’re 13, for God’s sake!
When I try to give Vicky the least bit of advice she goes all quiet and p’d off and gets in a mood with me for days. I mean, I only say things like she should straighten her hair and all that! Also she has really lame comebacks such as: ‘you’re getting too big for your boots.’ (no offence to people who use that.)
Actually, I’m not so sure if I should keep Adelle as a friend. She’s quite dirty-minded, horrible about her religion, and one of the most un-popular in the year … but apart from that, she’s nice. I want to know what you guys think.

Lucy
This girl is the meanest, the toughest and the most two-faced person I know. One day she’s saying she’s my best friend, saying I’m amazing and that she loves me and she sticks up for me and all that, and the next day, she calls me every name under the sun to my face and saying that I think I know it all. I don’t! She also posts horrid things on my Facebook wall and hits me.
I don’t think I’m keeping her.

Amelia
This is yet ANOTHER one of my two-faced friends. She was my best friend at first because I felt sorry for her as she had no friends – but after about 4-5 months, when I told her my music interests, she thought she was a bigger and better fan than me and she started telling me I couldn’t change my opinion so quickly and after that, she didn’t want to know me. She’s started ignoring me. Now she thinks she can hang about with all the popular girls when in actual fact they don’t even like her!

Jack
Okay, this hasn’t got anything to do with me keeping him or not. Here’s my story, and what I want from him…

It was only yesterday during a ball game in class that I realised how unpopular I was. Absolutely no-one would pass the ball to me, because of Jack – he hates me. It was his ball. I realised I needed to stop being mean to the boys and start being nice – but I have no idea how to do that. I mean, since I started the school we’ve had to sit next to each other in almost every lesson as his name is right after mine in the register. I realise that I am quite mean to him and he is equally mean to me – but how do I get him to like me as a friend after all the arguing? Turn up all pretty? He IS one of the most popular boys in school after all – I’m thinking I should be friendly and flirt a bit here and there. Is that the right thing to do? Because if HE likes me, everyone will like me … so it is important for my reputation because I know the popular people will stick up for me. I’m not using him for popularity either, I actually DO want to be his friend.
So. What do I do?
I need your opinion on whether to keep or ditch these guys. Use names too as I get confused if you just say, ‘the one who…’
Oh, and please give me some advice about Jack
Thanks you guys! x

i hate when my best friend and my boyfriend hang out (his ex)?

so my best friend dated this guys eric over a year ago (who i am dating now) and she was really upset when she first heard. but now she invites him to things all the time, and he was over her house today with another friend before i came over.

if i wasn’t dating him, she wouldn’t even be talking to him. she would still be like “oh blah blah i‘m still in love with eric..”

i don’t know. maybe i‘m over reacting, but i just get jealous and i hate hanging out with them at the same time. it puts me in a really bad mood and i get annoyed with her easily.

any advice? =/
it’s highschool- honesly haha. everyone date’s everyone’s ex.

and he doesn’t have feelings for her. but i don’t know how she feels about him. it just frustrates me.
he actually broke up with HER over a year ago, and she was heartbroken.

and she actually doesn’t really ‘flirt’ with him but i just hate hanging out with them at the same time, i feel like i can’t be a girlfriend to him when she’s there and like everything she says to him annoys me. it’s hard to explain. my friend honestly isn’t a slut at all, and i really don’t think she would do anything to hurt me. i just don’t like that they are hanging out now

I get upset when my boyfriend goes out with his friends?

I‘ve been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years….and he’s 22. Ever since the beginning, I‘ve hated his friends! They act like they’re still in high school, all druggies, all alcoholics who do nothing but party 4 days out of the week. They’re an extremely bad influence on him…he smokes, blazes and drinks because of them. He apparently quit smoking a couple months ago all together for me, but my biggest fear when he goes out with them is that he’ll smoke again. I also hate that he blazes but I‘ve learned to accept it as a social thing. I trust him 100% not to cheat, but there’s one girl who he slept with the same week he asked me to be his gf and hid it from me for a year who is always there when they all party….I dont like that he sees her because I‘m afraid he’ll think about them having sex…and that just upsets me so much! I just want him to grow up and stop partying so much! Usually I go with him to make sure he doesn’t go crazy…but it’s exam week for me so I can’t go out…and I‘m at home going crazy wondering why he hasn’t textd me for the past 3 hours. I hate that when he goes out with them he typically gets shitfaced, etc… he tells me that his “friends” aren’t even his friends, they’re more like his drinking buddies from high school….he hangs out with ONE of the whole group on a weekly basis, his best friend Matt…other than that, he doesn’t see any of them apart from partying. He still, to this day has no idea this is how I feel…..and I don’t want to tell him…so how can I cope with this?

I hate it when my boyfriend hangs out with her?

I know its long, but PLEASE read, I really need help. I‘d appreciate any input.

There’s a girl that my boyfriend has been really good friends with for a few years. I want to respect my boyfriend‘s ability to choose his own friends but I feel so on edge whenever he is with her because she flirts with him a lot and they hang out until midnight or later, but never alone.

I feel like she thinks she knows my boyfriend better than I do or something by how she treats me. And I know she doesn’t. My boyfriend said that other than his closest circle of guy friends and family, I know him best. She is a friend to go out with and have fun. I do trust him. Its not that AT ALL. Nothing will happen, I know that. But I just feel like he’s doing me wrong by being friends with someone who flirts with him. How do I just let this go and not care?

He’s got dinner and hung out with her and another friend until midnight last night. If I lived closer, I know he’d invite me too, he has before, I‘ve met her, and their friendship is open to me-nothing to hide. I‘ve talked to my boyfriend about this before and he doesn’t understand why I‘m upset if he is only friends with this girl. I‘ve tried very hard to explain to him my reasoning, but he still doesn’t see why there is a problem if he is only friends and he has absolutely no intent to be anything else. My boyfriend is not trying to cheat me. I know that. Its not even that he values his relationship with this girl so much, its that he wants his freedom to choose for himself rather me do it for him. What do I do?

LOVE my boyfriend hate Hate HATE his friends!?

lol I will keep it as condensed as possible. We are both in 9th grade. We have been in the same school since 6th grade and we didn’t start liking each other until this year. I love him to death. However the problem is, he has a huge social circle. I don’t. In 6th and 7th grade I was kind of ugly because of my untidy hair and his friends made fun of me. It wasn’t until this year I became one of the prettier people. We had to do a dance routine last year for for our 8th grade play, and his friends giggled and gave thumbs up to the boy who was paired with me. I felt horrible. they Laughed at me when I answered a question wrong in class, and just make me feel plain self conscious and uncomfortable when I‘m around them.
And I just don’t get it because he’s SO sweet. And his ex-girlfriend is far from one of my favorite people. She talks to me like I‘m 2. I don’t talk much around people I hate so she has no idea I can be talked to like a 9th grader thankx you very much. Obviously, he likes his friends and I can’t be one of those annoying scolding girlfriends who tells them their friends are stupid and to stop hanging out with them. what do I do!? how are we supposed to find some 1 on 1 time without his horrible friends. how am I supposed to work around this?
Well it’s just his friends. It’s not him. He is sweet, kind, lends me a pencil in class, asked me numerous times if I needed help in spanish.

Why do I get mad when my BF hangs out with his friends?

Ok, so I have this thing that every time my boyfriend goes to hangout with his friends, I get beyond pissed. Well now he just stopped hangout with him so he didn’t have to hear me yell. I hate being like this & in my heart I want him to be able to hangout with his friends, but I just can’t seem to let him. But I found out yesterday that he gets mad when I go to hangout with my friends. But I don’t really care if I hangout with my friends, as long as I get to hangout with him . But like I said he told me he wouldn’t like it if I hung out with my friends. I don’t even hangout with my friends anymore anyways. So what’s going on?

I think I like him. Does he like me? Need Advice? PLEASE ANSER! NOBODY’S ANSWERING!?

So i think i might like my best guy friend (lets call him X)….

and i think that X might like me more than a friend… he’s been my best friend since the end of year 5. now we’re in middle school.

here are some reason why i think he likes me:
1. he talks to me more than his girlfriend (who is my other best friend.. codename, Z)
2. whenever i talk to him he listens and doesnt judge. X once listened to me go on and on about one of my problems and just listened, he didn’t say a word and i heard that if a guy does that, it means they like ur voice?? but idk

and btw, we used to go out but then i broke up with him cuz we never spoke cuz it was really awkward! (i mean, dating ur best friend is awkward)
after we broke up.. a while later we spoke to each other again and i asked him if he thought it was awkward when we went out and he said no.
4. I say, your the same height as me now . then X says back well im gonna be taller. cuz X knows that i like when guys are taller than me and he always says, after the holidays im gonna be taller that you. and stuff like that
5. he flirts with me a lot like, when i ask him questions, he asks me the same question back then i say.. can u just answer it. i asked u first. (but i say it in a serious voice) and then he says back to me, i asked you second. but in a flirty way.
6. he asked me to the movies with another one of his friends but he’s dating Z.
7. i once told him that i thought Z like another one of my best friends boyfriends (yes, life is very complicated) and he says that relationships still work when you like someone else (maybe he meant if he still likes me and Z??)

I not a guy expert so im not very sure if he likes me or not…

please dont say things like “he’s a pervert” or anything like that cuz he’s a pretty nice guy.

he does flirt with me but as u know he’s dating Z my best friend but i kinda had him first and she shouldnt have said yes without talking to me about it and stuff like that… it’s complicated and X shouldnt have asked my best friend out. he shouldve know it was wrong. and they do like each other, they’re not trying to make me jealous (atleast i dont think they are) cuz they both tell me to tell each other that they love each other like..

this is a text
X: hey you there
Me: yeah
then we would text bout stuff thats been going on. and he would usually start the conversations.
Me: I gtg now. night x
X: Night and can you tell Z that i love her
Then i would text Z
Me: hiii(: X wants me to tell u that he loves you<3
Z: Awwhh tell him i love him too x
Me: kk
Then i would text X
Me: she says awh and that she loves you too.
X: tell her i say Awwhh.
Me: I'm not an owl…
(as Hermione Granger would say.. hahaaa)
Then X would say something flirty.

Anyways.. does it sound like he likes me or is he just being friendly??
please tell me what you think and be honest, i dont care if its mean i just want to know

ps. i have asked this question twice before it’s just that only one person answers each time

Thanks for reading
(and, if u answer this, ill answer ur’s if can! like if ur question is like this one not like who was the third president of Azkaban or sumthin like that.. )

and also… please answer why other question! it’s about names:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al7vqnqqkH51eXvU1a8sUxLty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20111230064301AACeI9X

Thanks again

I think i like him. Does he like me? PLEASE ANSWER! Need Advice?

So i think i might like my best guy friend (lets call him X)….

and i think that X might like me more than a friend… he’s been my best friend since the end of year 5. now we’re in middle school.

here are some reason why i think he likes me:
1. he talks to me more than his girlfriend (who is my other best friend.. codename, Z)
2. whenever i talk to him he listens and doesnt judge. X once listened to me go on and on about one of my problems and just listened, he didn’t say a word and i heard that if a guy does that, it means they like ur voice?? but idk

and btw, we used to go out but then i broke up with him cuz we never spoke cuz it was really awkward! (i mean, dating ur best friend is awkward)
after we broke up.. a while later we spoke to each other again and i asked him if he thought it was awkward when we went out and he said no.
4. I say, your the same height as me now . then X says back well im gonna be taller. cuz X knows that i like when guys are taller than me and he always says, after the holidays im gonna be taller that you. and stuff like that
5. he flirts with me a lot like, when i ask him questions, he asks me the same question back then i say.. can u just answer it. i asked u first. (but i say it in a serious voice) and then he says back to me, i asked you second. but in a flirty way.
6. he asked me to the movies with another one of his friends but he’s dating Z.
7. i once told him that i thought Z like another one of my best friends boyfriends (yes, life is very complicated) and he says that relationships still work when you like someone else (maybe he meant if he still likes me and Z??)

I not a guy expert so im not very sure if he likes me or not…

please dont say things like “he’s a pervert” or anything like that cuz he’s a pretty nice guy.

he does flirt with me but as u know he’s dating Z my best friend but i kinda had him first and she shouldnt have said yes without talking to me about it and stuff like that… it’s complicated and X shouldnt have asked my best friend out. he shouldve know it was wrong. and they do like each other, they’re not trying to make me jealous (atleast i dont think they are) cuz they both tell me to tell each other that they love each other like..

this is a text
X: hey you there
Me: yeah
then we would text bout stuff thats been going on. and he would usually start the conversations.
Me: I gtg now. night x
X: Night and can you tell Z that i love her
Then i would text Z
Me: hiii(: X wants me to tell u that he loves you<3
Z: Awwhh tell him i love him too x
Me: kk
Then i would text X
Me: she says awh and that she loves you too.
X: tell her i say Awwhh.
Me: I'm not an owl…
(as Hermione Granger would say.. hahaaa)
Then X would say something flirty.

Anyways.. does it sound like he likes me or is he just being friendly??
please tell me what you think and be honest, i dont care if its mean i just want to know

ps. i have asked this question twice before it’s just that only one person answers each time

Thanks

Does my best friend like me? PLEASE ANSWER! Nobody’s answering!?

So my best guy friend (lets call him X)….

i think that X, likes me more than a friend… he’s been my best friend since the end of year 5. now im in middle school.

here are some reason why i think he likes me:
1. he talks to me more than his girlfriend (who is my other best friend.. codename, Z)
2. whenever i talk to him he listens and doesnt judge. X once listened to me go on and on about one of my problems and just listened, he didn’t say a word and i heard that if a guy does that, it means they like ur voice?? but idk

and btw, we used to go out but then i broke up with him cuz we never spoke cuz it was really awkward! (i mean, dating ur best friend is awkward)
after we broke up.. a while later we spoke to each other again and i asked him if he thought it was awkward when we went out and he said no.
4. I say, your the same height as me now . then X says back well im gonna be taller. cuz X knows that i like when guys are taller than me and he always says, after the holidays im gonna be taller that you. and stuff like that
5. he flirts with me a lot like, when i ask him questions, he asks me the same question back then i say.. can u just answer it. i asked u first. (but i say it in a serious voice) and then he says back to me, i asked you second. but in a flirty way.
6. he asked me to the movies with another one of his friends but he’s dating Z.
7. i once told him that i thought Z like another one of my best friends boyfriends (yes, life is very complicated) and he says that relationships still work when you like someone else (maybe he meant if he still likes me and Z??)

I not a guy expert so im not very sure if he likes me or not…

please dont say things like “he’s a pervert” or anything like that cuz he’s a pretty nice guy.

he does flirt with me but as u know he’s dating Z my best friend but i kinda had him first and she shouldnt have said yes without talking to me about it and stuff like that… it’s complicated and X shouldnt have asked my best friend out. he shouldve know it was wrong. and they do like each other, they’re not trying to make me jealous (atleast i dont think they are) cuz they both tell me to tell each other that they love each other like..

this is a text
X: hey you there
Me: yeah
then we would text bout stuff thats been going on. and he would usually start the conversations.
Me: I gtg now. night x
X: Night and can you tell Z that i love her
Then i would text Z
Me: hiii(: X wants me to tell u that he loves you<3
Z: Awwhh tell him i love him too x
Me: kk
Then i would text X
Me: she says awh and that she loves you too.
X: tell her i say Awwhh.
Me: I'm not an owl…
(as Hermione Granger would say.. hahaaa)
Then X would say something flirty.

Anyways.. does it sound like he likes me or is he just being friendly??
please tell me what you think and be honest, i dont care if its mean i just want to know

Thanks

Does my best friend like me?

So my best guy friend (lets call him X)….

i think that X, likes me more than a friend… he’s been my best friend since the end of year 5. now im in middle school.

here are some reason why i think he likes me:
1. he talks to me more than his girlfriend (who is my other best friend.. codename, Z)
2. whenever i talk to him he listens and doesnt judge. X once listened to me go on and on about one of my problems and just listened, he didn’t say a word and i heard that if a guy does that, it means they like ur voice?? but idk

and btw, we used to go out but then i broke up with him cuz we never spoke cuz it was really awkward! (i mean, dating ur best friend is awkward)
after we broke up.. a while later we spoke to each other again and i asked him if he thought it was awkward when we went out and he said no.
4. I say, your the same height as me now . then X says back well im gonna be taller. cuz X knows that i like when guys are taller than me and he always says, after the holidays im gonna be taller that you. and stuff like that
5. he flirts with me a lot like, when i ask him questions, he asks me the same question back then i say.. can u just answer it. i asked u first. (but i say it in a serious voice) and then he says back to me, i asked you second. but in a flirty way.
6. he asked me to the movies with another one of his friends but he’s dating Z.
7. i once told him that i thought Z like another one of my best friends boyfriends (yes, life is very complicated) and he says that relationships still work when you like someone else (maybe he meant if he still likes me and Z??)

I not a guy expert so im not very sure if he likes me or not…

please dont say things like “he’s a pervert” or anything like that cuz he’s a pretty nice guy.

he does flirt with me but as u know he’s dating Z my best friend but i kinda had him first and she shouldnt have said yes without talking to me about it and stuff like that… it’s complicated and X shouldnt have asked my best friend out. he shouldve know it was wrong. and they do like each other, they’re not trying to make me jealous (atleast i dont think they are) cuz they both tell me to tell each other that they love each other like..

this is a text
X: hey you there
Me: yeah
then we would text bout stuff thats been going on. and he would usually start the conversations.
Me: I gtg now. night x
X: Night and can you tell Z that i love her
Then i would text Z
Me: hiii(: X wants me to tell u that he loves you<3
Z: Awwhh tell him i love him too x
Me: kk
Then i would text X
Me: she says awh and that she loves you too.
X: tell her i say Awwhh.
Me: I'm not an owl…
(as Hermione Granger would say.. hahaaa)
Then X would say something flirty.

Anyways.. does it sound like he likes me or is he just being friendly??
please tell me what you think and be honest, i dont care if its mean i just want to know

Thanks

What do you think about him?

im 15 btw…
so basically, some of my friends were talking to this guy the friended on facebook.. so i added him just for the fun of it lol. long story short, we started talking, asked for each others number and now me and this guy have been talking for awhile now.. we text all the time, pretty much everyday. maybe a day or 2 in between, but you get it aha. we have only hung out about 3 times tho.

anywayy, we kinda just got to know each other.. “your turn, my turn” conversations lol. we just went back and forth asking questions. eventually, we ran out of things to ask, but we just kept talking.

a while ago we kinda told each other that we like each other.. it started when he asked me who were the top guys in my life right now, then i asked him. then a few days later he asked me if i liked anyone, and i said yes.. so did he. i asked who? he said it was between me and this other girl.. and i told him i liked him. and we left it at that.

a few weeks went by and i decided to ask him where he stood.. like what’s going on between us. he said.. and here are his exact words, “i like you, but I’m just not sure if I’m ready to start dating right now. i’ve been in a lot of unsuccessful relationships and i just want to be sure the next time around. plus, if it doesn’t work out.. it damages the relationship you previously had with the person, and i don’t want that to happen to us.”

i thought it was really sweet that he seemed do sensitive about it all but now its but quite awhile again.. and nothing has happened.

yes, when we text we are but cute and flirty. teasing each other, and lots of smiley faces {ex: : etc..). also he is very mindful of how im doing.. always asking “how are you?” and “how was your day?” DO YOU THINK H LIKES ME?

we have only hung out a few times. and it has always been with one of his friends and one of mine. he said he doesn’t want it to just be the two of us because he doesn’t want his parents to think its a date. so far, he has been the one to ask me to hang out.. and i feel awk asking him for some reason.. idk. DO YOU THINK I SHOULD?

another thing.. he kinda talks to a lot of girls tho : hes definitely not a player or anything.. he just has a lot of friends that are girls. there was a rumor going around that he was a player.. and he got really sad because of it.

i tried not to like him.. i tried to tell myself that i didnt like him.. but its not working : hes really sweet, and nice, and funny, and i really like him!

i want to make him fall for me.. and i want him to know that i wont hurt him, so he can be sure about having me for a girlfriend. WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO?! idk.. im stuck :

anyway, i need some major help! haha.. PLEASE READ ALL OF IT! lol kayy?

thanks!!

Why should i be ok with my boyfriend checking out other girls?

it bothers me. especially when he checks out my best friend or other people right infront of me. I think im only like bothered by this because a few months ago like a month or two after we started going out he looked up my best friends skirt. Please help

is it normal for your boyfriend to check out girls infront of you?

I’m an observant person to begin with but my bf always feels the need to check out other girls in front of me
Like as we’re walking he won’t even pay attention to what I’m saying. I’ve told him to stop doing that
Infront of me but he goes back to his filthy habits. He will try to sneek a peak and I always catch him.
When he see’s a cute girl, he’ll try to make eye contact for a long time and that really irritates me.
He knows it annoys me. Are all men like this or does he pass his limit? Thx

Oh yeah and if I mention what he was doing infront of me he will NEVER admit it even it was in my face!!

How do i get my boyfriend to stop checking out other girls?

my boyfriend of six months constantly checks out other girls. everytime he sees a “hot” girl he starts checking them out and then stares at me for my reaction. then he says hes just joking. the other day i was on the computer listening to music and he comes by and says “omg they’re so skinny and tall and hot they make you look fat.” what the fck. i got sad/mad and left the room. then he comes by saying he was just joking. he always says things like that to me and i tell him it makes me feel so insecure and he says he’ll stop, but eventually continues doing it. one time he thought i was checking out a guy on tv but i was saying something else and he got sooooo sad/mad i couldnt believe it. i know he would never cheat on me but just him checking out every fcking thing infront of him is the only problem i have with him. besides that he’s great. sorry for the long explanation, but how do i get him to stop checking out other girls??????

MY BOYFRIEND CHECKS OUT OTHER GIRLS?

ok so i know that all guys check out girls but my boyfriend is starting to do it all the time now, and its not just a quick glance anymore!!! he looks them up and down and stares at their butt!!! my boyfriend and i have been together for over 4 years and this has never been a problem but recently i have put on a lot of weight (50 lbs) and im really afraid that he wants to be with other girls!!! also one tme when he was drunk he flirted with a girl right infront of me, at first i thought i was just being jelous but then his brother said something to me about him flirting.another one of my concerns is that he watches porn every single day any chace he gets…our sex life is still good though. PLEASE HELP ME!!! i love him sooo much!!! do you think my boyfriend is going to cheat on me or leave me????!!!!

My boyfriend checks out other girls?

So i know its human nature for teen guys to look at girls and what not. I hate that though, but whatever he says he doesnt intentially do it.. we go to two different schools but our towns are right next to eachother and we live 5 minutes away from one an other. but that doesnt matter. sooo back to my point. wev been going out for 5 months and before he ALWAYS used to check out my BEST friend right infront of me. likkkee really? and its really rude. and when i asked him about it like last night he said he admitts he checked her out but thats before he reallys loved me.. but i mean we were still dating? ugh idk. and i have a feeling he checks out girls in his school too. so when i asked him about that he said he doesnt at all and even if he does he doesnt do it intenially.. can i have your input on this please. and im not freaking out i just dont want it to get out of hand. i mean two different schools. and yes i do trust him its just i dont know hes my first serious boyfriend and ugh i just dont know what to do in this situation. thank you!

and sorry i posted this question in another(wrong) category by accident. so just letting you know