My best friend gets everything, how do I stop being jealous?
She’s way prettier than I am and all the guys like her, but she’s kind of shallow and wouldn’t consider to give them the time of day, she gets better grades and recognitions, is a varsity athlete, etc.
I feel bad being so jealous of her, but its hard to hear her talk about all these things when she doesn’t realize how lucky she is.
Friends should make us want to be better people. Thats why we want to be around them. Write down the things that you like about her… besides the things that make you jealous.
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July 21st, 2010 at 12:24 am
steal all the stuff she has.
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July 21st, 2010 at 12:34 am
easy just start banging more guys and feed her Poison so she gets sick and she can’t compete
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July 21st, 2010 at 12:43 am
Oh same here! High five! My best friend is like… Perfect! It’s so annoying! But she doesn’t get EVERYTHING! Cos nobody’s perfect… Everyone’s got something wrong with them… I bet she has like… Something proper wrong with her and stuff… I bet she does… and and and… SHE doesn’t get to talk to me and you do! =D… cos i’m sooo great (and modest!) that you can use it against her! =P
Have a nice day and don’t you worry your pretty little head about it! =]
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July 21st, 2010 at 1:08 am
Friends should make us want to be better people. Thats why we want to be around them. Write down the things that you like about her… besides the things that make you jealous.
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July 21st, 2010 at 1:49 am
You just have to find a way to be happy with what you got….and if that dosent work then find things that she would be jelous of…like a talent.
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July 21st, 2010 at 2:08 am
just try to better yourself!!
do new things to your hair or makeup
study more
and things will come for you!!
good luck
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July 21st, 2010 at 2:20 am
Get some new friends if she’s so shallow. If you hang with her that makes you pretty lame and shallow yourself. At least you recognize she’s lame and you can move on.
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July 21st, 2010 at 3:08 am
Find something you’re good at and work really hard to make yourself even better at it. Then you can be recognized for YOU and something YOUR good at. Let your friend be a good athlete, but that doesn’t mean you cant be a great…lets say ARTIST!
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July 21st, 2010 at 3:38 am
If you don’t like something in yourself – change it. You can increase your grades, you can influence your physical appearance. And, don’t forget – everyone have good and bad sides of his/her life. No one has everything.
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July 21st, 2010 at 4:19 am
I totally agree with you, its really frustrating when people don’t realize what they have, and take things for granted ..
And heey , who says that she’s way prettier than you?
I know this is gonna sound sappy and all that …
but when you get a guy, he’s gonna be worth a lot more than the ten or more that liked your friend,
… and i know that it makes it all the much harder with her being your best friend.
Depending on the way she responds to conflict and talking about her feelings and stuff, you could try to talk to her about it …
good luck !
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July 21st, 2010 at 4:49 am
Be yourself and love who you are. ther will always be someone in you circle who gets mor attention than you do. Try harder to become better at the things you like and don’t worrie about her. If she is all that shallow her fame won’t last long. As for the grades, study and work harder and your grades will get better. love who you are because someone looking up to you might feel the same way you do.
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July 21st, 2010 at 5:36 am
Maybe you’re shallow for being jealous of a shallow person. If you really are her friend then just be her friend. Why criticize her? If these things really bother you then you should learn from it. Don’t be shallow like her. Don’t go through life being ungrateful of what you have and who you are. Don’t be the kind of girl who turns down the good guys. BTW: if these guys are interested in her then they are shallow too so why should you want any of them? Becareful that you don’t turn out to be what you disslike.
>>It’s easy to criticise the things we hate in others until we realize that what we really want is to be like them. A friend should help their friends celebrate the accomplishments of their friends. Guys will like you better if you are confident in yourself and like yourself without other people having to like you. There will always be people who are prettier, smarter, more athletic, etc. but none of them are you.
Proverbs 17:17 A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
Proverbs 18:24 A man (or woman) that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.
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