JEALOUSY- Why am I sometimes Jealous?
Why, and how, does jealousy exist? Jealousy is only able to exist, if you, within yourself, have the following attributes, as a mind consciousness system: inferiority, superiority, comparison, self judgment.. yeh… those four. Inferiority, superiority, self judgment, comparison.
This world supports jealousy. Jealousy is actually the “mate” of comparison. Jealousy stems from comparison, from the design of comparison. Thus, jealousy – as you might already know and be aware of – exist of the mind. So, why would jealousy exist, furthering the enslavement of separation? Now, this world supports jealousy in the following way: You have human beings looking different. And, the most fascinating… most fascinating, of jealousy and comparison, is that it is all about pictures.
Jealousy is the trap. Jealousy is the “spider”, the web of this mind consciousness reality, in which you get stuck and trapped if you allow yourself to compare, and from in that comparison, allow jealousy within you. Human beings who are jealous, are the most vulgar expressions I have seen in this world. It is the most ugliest, disgusting expression I have seen in this world. Because human beings who allow jealousy, are really, really the most nastiest, untrustworthy, deceitful, dishonest human beings I’ve seen in this existence. Now, if you allow comparison and jealousy within you – with anything, or anyone in this world – you’ve fallen. You’re in the trap, the “web” of this mind consciousness reality. Within that… within that one singular point of jealousy, you are supporting and allowing, and accepting and assisting separation of this world, and within yourself. Because, within oneness, as who we are, how on this and in this existence is jealousy able to exist?… is comparison able to exist?
Really, with self honesty, look within you. Look at how jealousy and comparison, in your mind, stem from pictures. Human beings, do not allow your eyes to deceive you. Because, it is in the eyes of this holographic, pictured reality, that you allow yourself to be trapped, and enslaved, and actually living separation within you, when you allow jealousy and comparison. And, it always stems from superiority or inferiority, self judgment and, as I’ve said, comparison is the big one… because that’s where it, it… it’s…it’s like a ladder… you have superiority, inferiority, self judgment, comparison, jealousy [makes "stepping" motions with hands and arms, making an invisible ladder, upwards, each "step" being created as as each point is mentioned]…the whole triangle system construct [forms triangle shape with hands], which manifest in your experience of jealousy. And really, have a look… it is so fascinating to what jealousy within you is able to drive you to do, to become.
And, it’s interesting, because human beings who are jealous, and who compare, think that they are, in some way, influencing or harming another, when actually, it’s them, themselves – those that allow themselves to be jealous, and compromise, and compare – that become the real beasts of this world. Of course, it is interesting, ‘cos that which you are jealous of and compare yourself to according to another, you will experience.
Understand, human beings, you’re responsible for your own self, and what’s going on within you. Look at it from this perspective: You’re going to have to live with yourself, infinitely. I would live in such a way that I would have no regret or shame before anyone or anything in this world, including myself. Take care of yourselves, human beings… it’s really enough. And, you do not want to see yourself in terms of what you have become, and allowed and accepted yourself to be, because of jealousy. It is a sickness. It is an illness. If you must, stop watching television, stop buying those goddam magazines, you know… when you watch the human beings on the television and in cinemas and in magazines, who always seem so “perfect” and “beautiful”… and there you go, on a roll…[rolls arms one over the other]… bam, bam, bam, bam, bam…comparison….jealousy traps you every time.
So, observe yourself when you’re in this world, human beings. Observe your thoughts, because the most active aspect of the mind is jealousy and comparison. Have a look.
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May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
@MayaHarelHere …
@MayaHarelHere Thanks!!! — I did but many of her videos are spiritual. This one wasn’t spiritual. Anyone (Atheists/Christians/Buddhists/Agnostics/etc) could relate to this video.
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
Hey.. there are …
Hey.. there are many other video by Desteni that you might consider watching..
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
Thank you very much …
Thank you very much! I like how serious you are about it. My mind really needed that! <3
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
Thanks for the …
Thanks for the invite, I will visit the forum.
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
Thebestower: cool …
Thebestower: cool about not engaging in it, this is what you are able to do with anything else that you might see pops up in your mind and realize that it isn’t supporting you or another such as these emotions and feelings.
If you´re interested in more, keep watching more videos and visit the Forum as well.
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
I have experienced …
I have experienced jealousy and the definition in this video is very accurate and I mean word for word. It is quite something to observe when you don’t engage in it and leave it some space to show it’s nature.
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
The human condition …
The human condition is currently built from people running false programs for happiness that will never work. Why won’t they work? They are built from problem/reaction/solution constructs. In order to participate, a problem must be constructed. A something wrong with someone somewhere and that leads to comparison. Which leads to jealous.
Take a look. All false emotional programs for happiness that won’t work are built from control. esteem or security. All illusions. Yet we still participate…
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
paul , why do you …
paul , why do you justify an abusive behaviour by saying it is “human nature”.
While it is in your possability to stop this abuse and be honest to yourself. Jealousy – wether it is a little or a lot – is always abusive, it comes from fear of loss and ego
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
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This …
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This world is a direct manifestation of what we allow – and as you have just demonstrated – humans will accept and allow our conditioned dishonesty as emotions/feelings, thoughts in the name of self interest to play out rather than stop and consider what we are doing and that we are responsible. Common sense – who is on this planet? Who is directly participating in the way that abuse and self deception exists? WE ARE. If we want things to change – we have to change – common sense
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
Jealousy is Human …
Jealousy is Human nature Evey body will experience jealousy at some point in their life, sometimes a bit of jealousy can be a good thing This girl thinks too much
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
thank you
thank you
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
damn well said haha …
well said haha im blazed
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
They don’t call it …
They don’t call it the ‘Green Eyed Monster’ for nothing! Beware of jealousy. Only one time in a hundred is it ever justified in the first place. Those that have it should really shake it off! It will eat you up! Those same people never pay attention though. It gets worse and worse! It will sure end a relationship.
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
Well you must be …
Well you must be the calmest person I have ever see! Such knowledge coming from someone so young is enlightening! Well done Peace Love and Light
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
love and global …
love and global kisses
CDmagz
Thanks Cheryl for this share x
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
You have it right …
You have it right dear .
Nice to have a way to enlighten people.
Wonderfull expression of information.
Love and Light
Cheryl Nichols
May 29th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
peace:)
peace:)
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