Everytime my husband and I go out I see a pretty girl dressed and looking better than me I get mad at my husband. I accuse him of looking at her and go off. He gets mad at me and we argue until I cry. Can this be that I am too jealous or have very low self-esteem? I feel I will loose him to a thinner and prettier girl than me, eventhough he says I am the only one he loves.Please help!!!!
You are just too insecure… Love yourself girl. 
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August 9th, 2010 at 3:25 pm
low self-esteem
ADD: don’t accuse! that will only push him farther away from you!
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August 9th, 2010 at 3:35 pm
You are just too insecure… Love yourself girl.
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August 9th, 2010 at 4:22 pm
That’s annoying…
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August 9th, 2010 at 4:46 pm
Sounds more like low self esteem than jealousy. You have to start thinking of yourself as a positive and beautiful thing in your own eyes and his.
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August 9th, 2010 at 4:52 pm
it could be a little bit of both.
you’re just afraid of losing your guy.
remember why he fell in love with you in the first place.
don’t even worry about it! xo
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August 9th, 2010 at 5:21 pm
i think it’s a combo of both. do you love yourself. do you think yoru pretty. if you don’t then c’mon of course you’re gonna get jealous at the pretty ones. you won’t loose him if he loves you. sometimes guye jsut can help but look at ther girls.
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August 9th, 2010 at 5:43 pm
both
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August 9th, 2010 at 6:12 pm
U have a bit of both of it. A little bit of low self esteem and a lot more of jealousy. Seems to me u are still insecure of ur marriage/
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August 9th, 2010 at 6:41 pm
you are low self esteem and you do not trust your husband. at seem like if you see a pretty woman walk by you think your man going to look at her and might get her number if you was not around. but if your man love you like he say he do then he not going to do anything. you need to stop for he really do something. because you can push a man to cheat on you.
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August 9th, 2010 at 7:04 pm
Sounds like low self esteem is making you jealous.
Look at it this way – out of all those girls out there – he chose YOU.
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August 9th, 2010 at 7:54 pm
if your husband has done nothing to give you the impression that he will leave you for another, then it definitely is low self-esteem. if your husband has been nothing but supportive and makes you feel special all the time, then it is an internal issue that only you can solve. no amount of support and love from your husband can solve your dilemma if you don’t commit to it yourself,, if you love yourself completely, then it wouldn’t even matter to you if he looks at other girls because you’d feel secure internally. his love and support will serve only as reinforcement not as a source of your self-esteem,,
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August 9th, 2010 at 8:30 pm
low self esteem, but don’t get worked up
but try to learn to deal with it
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August 9th, 2010 at 9:16 pm
abit insecure.. join a gym or wake up 30min early every day and go for a run, buy yourself a new pretty dress and surprise the hubby with a lovely cooked meal candles and that. he’ll only think about you and you’ll feel better about urself and forever on
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August 9th, 2010 at 9:32 pm
Depending on your and his track record. If you or him have ever cheated on one another then its pure jealousy. If you guys have been faithful then damn it girl bulk up and start to love yourself. There will always be prettier, thinner, and younger women. BUT… here is something to think about. There is always someone who wishes that they were you. Just like you probably wish you could look like someone else.
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August 9th, 2010 at 10:14 pm
Both. You are jealous of Prettygirl’s looks and have low self esteem about your own. If your husband wanted to nick off with some young thing, he would. Take the man at face value, if he says you’re the only one he loves, then you’re the only one he loves. Going on at him is only going to make you both angry and upset. So what if he looks? He’s going home with you. Miss Prettygirl is probably single and as jealous as all hell of all the married women.
Go find him, give him a big hug and tell him you’re over it.
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August 9th, 2010 at 10:57 pm
A man cannot control what he sees. You must be thankful that he is not cheating on you, for that is something many others cannot have. My dear, you do not truly trust your husband, and is that not what you vowed to do when you two were married? What you are doing is only destroying your relationship. And don’t degrade yourself, for your husband will not leave you simply out of looks. It is alright to be jealous, but do not openly show it, for all you know, your husband loves you for who you are regardless of looks.
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August 9th, 2010 at 11:35 pm
low self-esteem. look, your husband obviously saw something in you that he really loved, and obviously he wanted to be with you enough to want to marry you and spend the rest of his life with you. yes, there are alot of pretty girls out there, but that doesnt mean he’s gonna leave you for them. talk to him about your fears, maybe if he knows how you feel, you can work on your self-esteem together and it wont be so bad. oh and try not to bite his head off everytime a pretty girl walks past. you’ll only annoy him the fact that you fight so much could only mean trouble. try to relax
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August 9th, 2010 at 11:57 pm
You sound like a flippin psycho….grow up.
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August 10th, 2010 at 12:17 am
sorry to hear that, but its a self-esteem issue talk 2 someone you trust about it or if not maybe seek a lil help just to boost your confidence, every1′s self concious but when its affecting your relationship something needs to change
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August 10th, 2010 at 12:32 am
The root of your problem lays in your childhood.How was your 1st bf? Are you overweigth another sign of a low selfesteem and that always goes along with jealousy.Its all so harmful for yourself and your relationship.You ve to work really hard to love your self or better accept WHO you are you are doing yourself so short and your husband if you really think you are only likeable,loveable cause you are thin or pretty as you arer so much more so you have to become WHOLE not parts or bodyparts beauty for all human beings is confidence,feeling good about WHO we are, the things we experienced etc aging with grace etc you know even the tin pretty ones ve their insecurities……. try to deal with yours even with a counselor
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August 10th, 2010 at 12:39 am
definitely its low self-esteem…and over reacting..y r u not looking to other guys??u r just like that.simple
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August 10th, 2010 at 1:18 am
Low self esteem definitely. Learn to appreciate and love yourself, otherwise you will push him further and further away.He may not be able to put up with that for a long time you know.
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August 10th, 2010 at 1:31 am
Its just a small insecurity problem that can happen occasionally with all women, of course you would be intimidated by another attractive female thats normal!! but a majority of guys see insecurity as unnatrractive, so instead of accusing your partner of looking at her change the subject to something you are confident in talking about and it will lighten the mood and also make you feel like the attention is on you. Confidence is usually what attracts the opposit sex to eachother so work with what you got! hes with you because you are attractive to HIM, so keep that in mind girl!
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August 10th, 2010 at 1:54 am
After all who is he with….. YOU!!!!! He tells that to YOU!
We all need that time to time. Just don’t argue about it. Say u love hearing it over and over. Plus: treat yourself nicely so u feel good about yourself! I am sure he won’t see the difference but u ll.
You just need to hear that more often. That you r the only love, etc all those sweet things. To remind you that
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