I think I need mental help for my jealous thoughts..?
My jealousy is getting out of control. I’ve always been a jealous person and it greatly impacts my relationships and I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE THIS ONE, because it’s the best I’ve ever had.
My bf is away on a study abroad trip and EVERYTHING makes me jealous — him being near a girl, seeing pictures of him with girls, girls trying to talk to him…then it goes from jealousy to automatically creating scenarios in my head where the girl tries to flirt with him and lead him to cheat on me. I hate it. I hate myself for thinking this way. PLEASE, how can I stop?? I don’t want to be like this anymore. it’s like a disease. It gets in the way of my real feelings for him. It makes me feel like I’m not in love anymore..
And fyi, this man is the most amazing man on the planet and when I think logically I know he would never cheat on me. He’s never given me a reason to distrust either.
You just need to think that your rights are the same as his rights, you need to put yourself in his shoes.
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July 30th, 2010 at 7:58 pm
tel them how you feel..
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July 30th, 2010 at 8:41 pm
You just need to think that your rights are the same as his rights, you need to put yourself in his shoes.
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July 30th, 2010 at 9:00 pm
You really can’t stop if girls are going to flirt with him or not. If he really cares about you he won’t leave ya. Let him have his friends, because sometimes we need are space to help us think things over. Sometimes the longer you are away from a loved one, the better things grow when ya guys are back hanging out with each other. He will miss ya even more. Things take time. Try to find something to do to keep your mind occupied and away from thinking negative. Maybe ya should go out and hang with some of your friends. If he really loves ya he will stick together with ya no matter what. Don’t give him a reason to think something is wrong. Goodluck
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