Comments on: I keep having bad thoughts of my boyfriend cheating…? http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-keep-having-bad-thoughts-of-my-boyfriend-cheating/ You can Stop Jealousy Today Mon, 06 Feb 2012 21:41:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Ali http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-keep-having-bad-thoughts-of-my-boyfriend-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-5078 Ali Sun, 03 Jul 2011 03:11:26 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-keep-having-bad-thoughts-of-my-boyfriend-cheating/#comment-5078 I am having the exact same problem except i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. He has never cheated on me but we have had alot of ups and downs which has lead me to stray do to a lack of communication and TLC. However i have been cheated on and been used by many guys in the past and my confidence and self-esteem is very low. My boyfriend had recently befriended this girl from college, shes very good looking and great to get along with. There quite good friends now and he's nearly always going to visit her and goes out socializing with her and stays over night in her place. He did assure me that he loves me and hasn't been doing anything with her but he also jokes and tells me that he would ''do her''. Am I over-reacting? should i put all my fears straight out to him? or i just ignore all these bad thoughts and feelings im getting. Any advice would help please.. x I am having the exact same problem except i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. He has never cheated on me but we have had alot of ups and downs which has lead me to stray do to a lack of communication and TLC. However i have been cheated on and been used by many guys in the past and my confidence and self-esteem is very low. My boyfriend had recently befriended this girl from college, shes very good looking and great to get along with. There quite good friends now and he’s nearly always going to visit her and goes out socializing with her and stays over night in her place. He did assure me that he loves me and hasn’t been doing anything with her but he also jokes and tells me that he would ”do her”. Am I over-reacting? should i put all my fears straight out to him? or i just ignore all these bad thoughts and feelings im getting.
Any advice would help please.. x

]]> By: claireeee. http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-keep-having-bad-thoughts-of-my-boyfriend-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-4599 claireeee. Wed, 28 Jul 2010 02:33:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-keep-having-bad-thoughts-of-my-boyfriend-cheating/#comment-4599 I am having the exact same problem as you. Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and everything you said is exactly how i feel. Except its gotten better. I realized it is more with my self confidence. I have always been a little insecure and having someone fall in love with me and care so much about me made it seem to good to be true. After realizing hey this guy really does love me i found it easier to get over the fear of him looking at other girls or liking someone else. It is a really hard thing to get over but i have faith youll get over it. It just takes time. Best of luck to you!<br><b>References : </b><br>Personal insight :) I am having the exact same problem as you. Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and everything you said is exactly how i feel. Except its gotten better. I realized it is more with my self confidence. I have always been a little insecure and having someone fall in love with me and care so much about me made it seem to good to be true. After realizing hey this guy really does love me i found it easier to get over the fear of him looking at other girls or liking someone else. It is a really hard thing to get over but i have faith youll get over it. It just takes time. Best of luck to you!
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]]> By: Karen B http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-keep-having-bad-thoughts-of-my-boyfriend-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-4598 Karen B Wed, 28 Jul 2010 01:50:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-keep-having-bad-thoughts-of-my-boyfriend-cheating/#comment-4598 Your BF sounds nice. Having a GF who is insecure, jealous, and clingy will drive any normal guy away. You probably need to talk to a counselor. Sorry! .<br><b>References : </b><br>http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhCx5baeRlS1CHIUHdK6ETPty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100718225748AArvIDu&show=7#profile-info-1DwtZtVWaa Your BF sounds nice.

Having a GF who is insecure, jealous, and clingy will drive any normal guy away. You probably need to talk to a counselor. Sorry!

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