How to overcome self-esteem jealousy?
Well I get jealous of other girls calling my husband sexy and him talking to them and telling them compliments. I need help to overcome this because it is make my marriage fall apart and me felling so self-esteem. Help me!
Dear Mary,
You know that your self-esteem jealousy is founded in the intensely low confidence levels. So you should make a step back from the situation and explore yourself, your feelings. Try to create a list of your positive accomplishments and abilities and any time you get jealous, try to imagine what way you are better that the girls you husband is talking with.
One of the main step you can do to overcome you jealousy is to talk your feelings out to somebody you trust a lot (your friend or even your husband). You’ll see it will helps and you’ll feel yourself much better, like you get free of the burden. After you will talk the situation out and overestimate it you can talk with your husband. Try to explain him how you are feeling and ask to find the compromise for you both. As you know the real families relationships are build on the compromise and mutual understanding.
Finally you should understand that you are unique person with many good features, so people should be jealous of you. Trust yourself, love yourself, and respect yourself!
|
July 19th, 2010 at 1:57 pm
You feel this way because your husband keeps flirting back with these women. He needs to smarten up, and you need to confront him about this. This is relationship insecurity, not personal insecurity.
Don’t blame yourself for what he is doing wrong.
References :
July 19th, 2010 at 2:32 pm
it all starts with you. you need to start acknowledging the great things about yourself. if there are somethings about yourself that you do not like then do something about it. truth is we can not help you it is something that has to begin in you. perhaps you may even need to talk to someone, because these feelings may date back to your childhood. this will eventually ruin your relationship and your life. get it under control or it will control you.
References :
July 19th, 2010 at 2:40 pm
Dear Mary,
You know that your self-esteem jealousy is founded in the intensely low confidence levels. So you should make a step back from the situation and explore yourself, your feelings. Try to create a list of your positive accomplishments and abilities and any time you get jealous, try to imagine what way you are better that the girls you husband is talking with.
One of the main step you can do to overcome you jealousy is to talk your feelings out to somebody you trust a lot (your friend or even your husband). You’ll see it will helps and you’ll feel yourself much better, like you get free of the burden. After you will talk the situation out and overestimate it you can talk with your husband. Try to explain him how you are feeling and ask to find the compromise for you both. As you know the real families relationships are build on the compromise and mutual understanding.
Finally you should understand that you are unique person with many good features, so people should be jealous of you. Trust yourself, love yourself, and respect yourself!
References :
http://www.stopjealousy.net/self-esteem-jealousy.php