Comments on: How do you get your self esteem up so it doesn’t effect your marriage? http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/ You can Stop Jealousy Today Mon, 06 Feb 2012 21:41:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: sasmallworld http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-4373 sasmallworld Sat, 24 Jul 2010 05:29:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/#comment-4373 yeah... self esteem is a huge deal. and it really affects all aspects of ur life.. friends, family, job, etc etc.. it is a worthwhile thing to work on :). so good for you for acknowledging, and accepting something that u need to keep improving on~ my advice would be to take care of urself physically, mentally and emotionally: 1) Exercise - work out. the better you look , the better u feel, the more confidence u gain. i'm not kidding..when you feel you look pretty, you FEEL happier and more confident. it's a crazy phenomenon. 2) Study - if you are in school, study hard. learn as much as u can. keep an open mind. find out what u are good at, and what u are interested in. if you are working, then do ur BEST to learn all u can about the business. be a good worker. read more, follow the news, discuss w/ others. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to be Confident in your smarts. 3) Relationships - start with your immediate family. practice on ur friends, family, husband, kids. try to be more Open. speak more. listen more. let people know u are trying to expand your horizons, and constantly seek positive traits that you have, that others have, and what you want. u can learn a lot from people in your life. slowly, practice speaking w/ people outside of ur close circle.. friends of friends, strangers at the bus stop, parent/teacher day, etc. *REMEMBER: u are exercising, and learning more, so u have less to be "shy" about, and more to be Confident about! eventually you will realize that ur fears about yourself are getting smaller, and u will see how much Potential u have. remember to always keep an open mind and stay Positive..that way, no matter how Beautiful, Smart, and Friendly u get, u will never think urself better than others, and u will keep that humbleness that u have right now :). and you will be proud of yourself for changing for the Better and improving your lifestyle, which affects ur husband, and everyone around you!! good luck ~ :)<br><b>References : </b><br> yeah… self esteem is a huge deal. and it really affects all aspects of ur life.. friends, family, job, etc etc.. it is a worthwhile thing to work on :) . so good for you for acknowledging, and accepting something that u need to keep improving on~

my advice would be to take care of urself physically, mentally and emotionally:

1) Exercise – work out. the better you look , the better u feel, the more confidence u gain. i’m not kidding..when you feel you look pretty, you FEEL happier and more confident. it’s a crazy phenomenon.

2) Study – if you are in school, study hard. learn as much as u can. keep an open mind. find out what u are good at, and what u are interested in. if you are working, then do ur BEST to learn all u can about the business. be a good worker. read more, follow the news, discuss w/ others. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to be Confident in your smarts.

3) Relationships – start with your immediate family. practice on ur friends, family, husband, kids. try to be more Open. speak more. listen more. let people know u are trying to expand your horizons, and constantly seek positive traits that you have, that others have, and what you want. u can learn a lot from people in your life. slowly, practice speaking w/ people outside of ur close circle.. friends of friends, strangers at the bus stop, parent/teacher day, etc. *REMEMBER: u are exercising, and learning more, so u have less to be "shy" about, and more to be Confident about!

eventually you will realize that ur fears about yourself are getting smaller, and u will see how much Potential u have. remember to always keep an open mind and stay Positive..that way, no matter how Beautiful, Smart, and Friendly u get, u will never think urself better than others, and u will keep that humbleness that u have right now :) .

and you will be proud of yourself for changing for the Better and improving your lifestyle, which affects ur husband, and everyone around you!! good luck ~ :)
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]]> By: sweetie12315 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-4372 sweetie12315 Sat, 24 Jul 2010 04:58:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/#comment-4372 I can understand your insecurity. I have low self-esteem too. My husband on occasion comments on another woman and makes me feel really weird. The problem that I was having with my self esteem was looking for it through him. Meaning, I needed his attention and compliments to boost me up. He is not that way. I needed to find a way to boost myself up and love myself. The sad reality is there is always gonna be something better (i know this). Theres always something better whether it be food, clothes, better hair and what not. Dont put yourself in a place that you are not something special. Because you are and could be the reason why your husband married YOU. If you love your husband and you have trust in him dont leave any room for distrust. No room at all. You can boost your self-esteem by doing something for yourself and treating yourself...look for a new outfit or get your hair done and feel good. I urge you not to put your self-esteem through him because imagine if something bad (god forbid) were to happen really imagine how you would feel then. Always feel good for you trust me he will see your confidence. When you have great self-esteem and always holding your head up nothing can bring you down. NOTHING. Enjoy having fun with your husband and enjoy your life. Remember he married YOU. He saw a light in you. Keep shining it. Good luck :)<br><b>References : </b><br> I can understand your insecurity. I have low self-esteem too. My husband on occasion comments on another woman and makes me feel really weird. The problem that I was having with my self esteem was looking for it through him. Meaning, I needed his attention and compliments to boost me up. He is not that way. I needed to find a way to boost myself up and love myself. The sad reality is there is always gonna be something better (i know this). Theres always something better whether it be food, clothes, better hair and what not. Dont put yourself in a place that you are not something special. Because you are and could be the reason why your husband married YOU. If you love your husband and you have trust in him dont leave any room for distrust. No room at all. You can boost your self-esteem by doing something for yourself and treating yourself…look for a new outfit or get your hair done and feel good. I urge you not to put your self-esteem through him because imagine if something bad (god forbid) were to happen really imagine how you would feel then. Always feel good for you trust me he will see your confidence. When you have great self-esteem and always holding your head up nothing can bring you down. NOTHING. Enjoy having fun with your husband and enjoy your life. Remember he married YOU. He saw a light in you. Keep shining it. Good luck :)
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]]> By: centrline http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-4371 centrline Sat, 24 Jul 2010 04:28:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/#comment-4371 you mean your married and you STILL have self esteem?<br><b>References : </b><br> you mean your married and you STILL have self esteem?
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]]> By: damduckie http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-4370 damduckie Sat, 24 Jul 2010 04:11:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/#comment-4370 I would suggest seeking couseling that would help loads or even hypnotherapy.. I use to have a bad problem with self esteem as well, I started to see a hypnotherapist and it helps all kinds. Other than that i don't know what you could do...<br><b>References : </b><br> I would suggest seeking couseling that would help loads or even hypnotherapy..
I use to have a bad problem with self esteem as well, I started to see a hypnotherapist and it helps all kinds. Other than that i don’t know what you could do…
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]]> By: sweet granny 06 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-4369 sweet granny 06 Sat, 24 Jul 2010 03:33:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/#comment-4369 you need to trust your husband but if hes a flirting husband you got every right to be jealous i don't think a married man should stare at other women's hind ends like my husband use to he'd laugh then we would argue he would say i was accusing him<br><b>References : </b><br> you need to trust your husband but if hes a flirting husband you got every right to be jealous i don’t think a married man should stare at other women’s hind ends like my husband use to he’d laugh then we would argue he would say i was accusing him
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]]> By: banche http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-4368 banche Sat, 24 Jul 2010 03:08:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/#comment-4368 Therapy and Drugs. Seriously.<br><b>References : </b><br> Therapy and Drugs. Seriously.
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]]> By: Sadbuttrue http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-4367 Sadbuttrue Sat, 24 Jul 2010 02:51:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/#comment-4367 Flirt with other men. They will let you know just how "hot" you are. Since you don't believe your husband.<br><b>References : </b><br> Flirt with other men. They will let you know just how "hot" you are. Since you don’t believe your husband.
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]]> By: AMY A http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-4366 AMY A Sat, 24 Jul 2010 02:01:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/#comment-4366 If you trust him you shouldn't feel this way. Low self esteem is a major turn off to men. Have you ever met a not so attractive woman but all the guys seem to love her and you just don't see why? Well it's because she is confident in herself and that is very attractive. Just be happy with yourself and make a few changes if you feel it will help you. He should love you for who you are! Good luck!<br><b>References : </b><br> If you trust him you shouldn’t feel this way. Low self esteem is a major turn off to men. Have you ever met a not so attractive woman but all the guys seem to love her and you just don’t see why? Well it’s because she is confident in herself and that is very attractive. Just be happy with yourself and make a few changes if you feel it will help you. He should love you for who you are! Good luck!
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]]> By: Blunt http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-4365 Blunt Sat, 24 Jul 2010 01:35:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/#comment-4365 Lose weight and get a job. Good luck<br><b>References : </b><br> Lose weight and get a job.

Good luck
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]]> By: deezpumpkin http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-4364 deezpumpkin Sat, 24 Jul 2010 00:52:59 +0000 http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-get-your-self-esteem-up-so-it-doesnt-effect-your-marriage/#comment-4364 You need to see a counselor...it works...also if you husband tells you all the time that your beautiful and he loves you that will help too.<br><b>References : </b><br> You need to see a counselor…it works…also if you husband tells you all the time that your beautiful and he loves you that will help too.
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