How do you deal with envious/jealous people around you?
..especially when they are cynical and passing ridicule remarks about what you do or what you have almost. I tend to ignore them but some people just wont stop. What is the best way to deal with this issue without creating confrontations?
Please share your thoughts. Thanks.
How do you deal with difficult people in your life? I need to say. not well at all. Everything I do, I am or I have is open to negative criticism, it never stops, it has been going on for a very long time, and whatever feelings I have had are dead form being trampled on. I have learned that this is a illness, and know that I need to forgive, and I do, however any change that is to come needs to come from this difficult person. It may never come, however I need to go on with my life as best as I know how.
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July 9th, 2010 at 10:20 pm
these are the type of people that you define as haters! You do NOTHING about them, if you tried to fit in they would talk about you. If you tried to stick up for yourself they would talk about you. The only thing I can tell you to do is BE YOURSELF. People are going to talk about you until the day you die and some might still talk after you are dead. So walk in with a bad attitude as to say im the shit and you just jealous of me and you’ll get over it real quick. When they notice that you don’t give a damn what they say then they will leave you alone but they can talk but don’t let them put their hands on you. GOOD LUCK
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July 9th, 2010 at 10:51 pm
How do you deal with difficult people in your life? I need to say. not well at all. Everything I do, I am or I have is open to negative criticism, it never stops, it has been going on for a very long time, and whatever feelings I have had are dead form being trampled on. I have learned that this is a illness, and know that I need to forgive, and I do, however any change that is to come needs to come from this difficult person. It may never come, however I need to go on with my life as best as I know how.
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July 9th, 2010 at 11:35 pm
Maybe you can try to point out things about them you like. Compliment them on something you like about them, or something they have.
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December 19th, 2011 at 12:11 am
Suggest you read about Narcissistic Personality Disorder. You may have been brought up by a parent with it. You may be a “narc magnet” who needs to learn to avoid them better. Good luck x