how do i stop feeling jealous of the guy my best friend likes?
Ok, so, I’ve liked my best friend for a couple of months now (because she’s cute, sweet, funny and knows how to listen) and she knows i like her. She said she views me more like a brother, but she still plays around saying little (pervy) things that makes me think otherwise. Now there is a guy that she likes and he likes her, but they can’t be together because of an age difference. They still talk and i can’t help but to feel jealous when she tells me that ei. he wants to kiss her and such. I know i shouldn’t feel this way but it’s hard when i think about how when we first started talking and we went on a date but then became just friends. i know i probably sound really pathetic but i think I’m falling for her.
The point is i need some advice on how to stop feeling jealous?… more than jealousy it’s a sort of sadness…
Anyway i would really appreciate some help and please don’t remind me of how lame i am. =P
You need to look for romance somewhere else…she likes you like a brother and nothing else…she plays around with you because you are familiar and safe…like a brother. When a woman says the word "brother" look somewhere else for love she’s not into you and like you are, you’ll just be sad if you aren’t going anywhere!.
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July 23rd, 2010 at 6:57 pm
start to distant yourself, start liking another girl.
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i was that girl, i almost lost my best friend.
July 23rd, 2010 at 7:34 pm
just see who else you like
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July 23rd, 2010 at 8:12 pm
Dude, story of my life except i’m a girl and my best friend likes this other girl that is completely ignoring him *jealous* -.-
I guess that whenever she brings up the subject or you think about it just try and distract yourself. **** sucks man, sorry
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July 23rd, 2010 at 8:22 pm
OMG TOO EASY,, do this,,, borrow a Harley Davidson cycle and go crusin past her when you can and be singing a tune acting happy,… and you can also, become lost,, away,, not seen almoust like a missing party is missed that fast,, try that, but really your not gone or to lost.
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July 23rd, 2010 at 8:29 pm
You need to look for romance somewhere else…she likes you like a brother and nothing else…she plays around with you because you are familiar and safe…like a brother. When a woman says the word "brother" look somewhere else for love she’s not into you and like you are, you’ll just be sad if you aren’t going anywhere!.
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July 23rd, 2010 at 8:59 pm
wasy when your talkin g to her talk about sum gurl you both know and tell her how much you like that gurl you fake-like. she’ll be jealous tht=at you’re not sll her’s but other than that youjust gotta ride the storm until she’s available then ask her to be your gurlfriend. yur basically fu@#ed in the brother zone until you start actingmore sexual in general.
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i was in the same situation manonly my best friend had a boyfriend she was with for a year. we were gonna get together but i decided to tone down to just a brother sister thing.
July 23rd, 2010 at 9:11 pm
if she was interested in u she’d be with u as that’s not the case get over this she is not giving u thoughts that’s all in ur mind ..u fall 4 her and waste ur time chasing a dream stop deluding urself ur not pathetic ur human and we all make mistakes it’s how u deal with it that counts..shes not the only girl u’ll fall for u gotta long way to go think long term rather than short
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