How do I stop feeling jealous about the girls in pornography?
it’s weird i know! but everytime i hear someone talk about a girl in porn, i get jealous! i dont even know why, it’s like im jealous that they can handle doing porn, and it makes me wonder if i could handle it too! im turned on by porn but i dont know if i’d ever have the guts to do a porn.
im very aware of how the women are treated in porn like an object. and they DO get paid a lot.
Strange question…
Porn is very miss guiding. People see porn and they dream of doing all shown there because basic need of doing it is genitals and everybody have it, so why can’t they do the same shown in porn. Porn creates more sexual desires and fantasies in people’s mind. People try to match their sexual life with porn life. But actually porn is totally a professional thing; those are same as Hollywood fiction movies. Real sex life of a normal person is not same as show in porn. People need to understand this. Porn is a business, same like Hollywood movies, well directed, planned, executed, well written story. When you think of a guy/girl in porn and dream to want to be like him/her, then it’s similar to as you dream of doing things that Tom Cruise does in his movies.
Yes, the fun level shown or attractiveness shown in porn is true for some people for not everybody. It is the same story that a normal person dreams of things he/she never had.
So just ignore it, don’t pay much attention. You know the level of your sexual life so work and think according to that.
