How do I stop being jealous of my partner?????
I have been with my partner for only 7 months, he is the best man I have ever had in my life! He is very Special to me! Call me insecure but I have been hurt alot in previous relationships! I seem to get jealous at the slightest things! How can I overcome this? I worry that he knows how I feel and that he knows I get jealous, which he does, but nothing seems to bother him! Why am I like this and what can I do to prevent myself from being so jealous???
Of course you can get over it by yourself!! Think the best of all his intentions! KNOW that he loves you and wants to BE with YOU. Think about all of the good, and don’t look on the bad side of things.
It’s not that hard – you just need to WANT to see him in a good light.
You can do anything if you set your mind to it. You certainly don’t need therapists to run your life.
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August 9th, 2010 at 3:08 pm
Get therapy. You can’t get over it yourself if it’s been going on for years and years. If you don’t it’s eventually going to kill your good relationships
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August 9th, 2010 at 3:13 pm
well start hanging out with other people like guys just as friends and see how he feels. also open up to him tell him why your like this and tell him you want to change but its hard
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August 9th, 2010 at 4:02 pm
Of course you can get over it by yourself!! Think the best of all his intentions! KNOW that he loves you and wants to BE with YOU. Think about all of the good, and don’t look on the bad side of things.
It’s not that hard – you just need to WANT to see him in a good light.
You can do anything if you set your mind to it. You certainly don’t need therapists to run your life.
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August 9th, 2010 at 4:24 pm
I think the problem of being jealous generally is lack of ur confidence,,,Basically maybe ur bf has got that attitude he is easy going guy that the ppl(women like to chat with etc)and u get mad about it..#
If he loves u ,I think u just need to start believe in it and stop making histories in ur head cos believe u might cause by ur jealousy a big problem for u rrelationship.one day he might feel fed up..
I kknewwat im saying as my bf is jealous and ppossessivei cant even talk to any guy and he would ask me is it ur new bf..how silly is it?
So in my opinion try to just stop thinking that obsesive and just be urself enjoy meet up with the ppl and see how attetion that u get from the ppl make ur bf jealous;)
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August 9th, 2010 at 4:33 pm
Hello, I am no expert and I wish you the best whichever answer you take advice from.
I have been down the road that you are on. My biggest hang up was that I always thought that I wasn’t busty enough and it all came from my 1st husband implying that I wasn’t. So whenever we would go somewhere I would always think my bf was looking at other women, especially the ones with their boob just about hanging out of their shirts..
The man I am with now is 8 years younger than I am. I am 32 and he is 24, so occasionally I get to feeling a little down because of the age difference and think that maybe he is checking someone else out because they are closer to his age, less wrinkles, haven’t started the fight with gravity, etc… he he he
I would have to say that all of this points to the lack of self confidence. You have to have faith in yourself, and quit looking for something bad to happen (him to want to be with someone else). If it is going to happen, it is and all the worrying and making yourself miserable in the process isn’t going to change that. If he is genuine and reciprocal of your feelings then there is nothing to worry about. So either way, you should just try to be happy with yourself. Know that you don’t deserve to be with someone that is going to cheat and know that you are one hot mama! if he doesn’t see it that way, then it is his loss and the next man’s gain…
Cheers!
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