Comments on: How do I stop being jealous of my boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend?

By: rosie

rosie — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 11:29:55 +0000

Just finished reading I Hate His Ex by Alex Cooper. Brilliant read for anyone having relationship troubles to do with past relationships xxxx

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By: Rick

Rick — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 15:10:59 +0000

it is hard when you are with someone that remains in contact with an ex, the feelings are hard to deal with. your significant other should cut ties out of respect to you, your feelings and your current relationship. hang in there, good luck.
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By: amoureuse

amoureuse — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 14:53:59 +0000

Although I am my boyfriend’s first girlfriend and there is no ex in the picture, I know what it’s like to be jealous.

Just know that no good AT ALL can come from being jealous. Your jealousy is irrational, and while I know that doesn’t make it easy to not have jealous feelings, it’s important to remember that it’s an irrational feeling. You KNOW your boyfriend loves you and he’s over his ex. If he wants to talk to her, there really isn’t much you can do – you really can’t tell him who he can/cannot talk to; it isn’t your place and you shouldn’t need to, because you trust him. I know it’s irritating but when he talks to his ex just know that’s all it is – TALKING. Remember he loves you, not her! He told you so… did he tell her that? No!

You might still feel a twinge of jealousy now and again but don’t act it out. Just be secure in yourself and trust that your man loves you.

Good luck.

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By: Halt

Halt — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 14:45:59 +0000

Its sounds to me like you’ve done the right thing all along and the fact that he is not talking to her as much is a great sign. I would say that you should be very proud of yourself.

Personally, I think that you have earned the right to share your exact feelings on this matter with your boyfriend. Whether you can expect him to never speak to her again is probably something that you shouldn’t ask of him, but at the bare minimum if you are able to talk about your anger, fear, and or jealousy, at least you will help ensure he continue to go down the road of speaking to her less and less… Clearly, you are much better for him then she was. Good Luck!
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By: sassy girl

sassy girl — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 14:32:59 +0000

Well like the first person said just tell yourself that you already have him and try to ask him if he could not talk to her often so you know that there not together.And your jealousy should stop.Try going on more dates like to the movies or a romantic dinner.Mabe your jealous beacuse they have been together for a long time and you guys havent.Anyways what im trying to say is your probably not jealous.You just dont like the thing they do.
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By: pegsny

pegsny — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 14:04:59 +0000

you dont have to push yourself for your boyfriend to like you more... if he does love you, he will stop talking to the ex voluntarily himself.. insecurities sometimes make your emotions explode.. if you plan on staying with him, you have to give it a little time for him to get over the ex and just stay with him since you are basically in a rebound relationship.. it will take time for you to get over the jealousy too as long as there is still communication with the two, make plans with your boyfriend somewhere fun and memorable, do it as often as possible so he can cherish these moments with you rather than the ex's. stay as close as possible to his family and friends, these will tighten up your relationship.. goodluck!
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By: Mandy W

Mandy W — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 13:17:59 +0000

it’s a long process and you may never get over her, but just constantly tell yourself, i have him, she doesn’t.

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