I fell in love with my best friend.I didn’t want to tell her,but in coversation it came out.At first she said she felt the same way,but after thinking about it, she said she could only love me as a friend.She said her heart is with another, a guy who is currently serving with the marines.Well, she has met a new guy to hang out with,and the time that used to be spent with me is now being spent with him.And to top it off, it seems she may have feelings for him.This is causing roller coaster emotions for me.We had it out a few days ago,and I told her to please understand but I had to end our friendship.I need to heal. Anyways, now I find myself jealous of her new guy.I was jealous of the marine as well.She used to spend almost every day with me.Now that our friendship ended,I don’t see herat all.I find myself wondering what she’s doing,if she’s hooking up, having a good time,etc.somuch that it’s affecting my life.I find myself having these obsessive thoughts.How do I stop these thoughts?
What you are going through is understandable especially when you are in love with someone…You should just let her go and move on, you will find someone better…Hang out with friends take on a new hobby anything so that you can keep your mind occupied and off of her…
