I fell in love with my best friend.I didn’t want to tell her,but in coversation it came out.At first she said she felt the same way,but after thinking about it, she said she could only love me as a friend.She said her heart is with another, a guy who is currently serving with the marines.Well, she has met a new guy to hang out with,and the time that used to be spent with me is now being spent with him.And to top it off, it seems she may have feelings for him.This is causing roller coaster emotions for me.We had it out a few days ago,and I told her to please understand but I had to end our friendship.I need to heal. Anyways, now I find myself jealous of her new guy.I was jealous of the marine as well.She used to spend almost every day with me.Now that our friendship ended,I don’t see herat all.I find myself wondering what she’s doing,if she’s hooking up, having a good time,etc.somuch that it’s affecting my life.I find myself having these obsessive thoughts.How do I stop these thoughts?
What you are going through is understandable especially when you are in love with someone…You should just let her go and move on, you will find someone better…Hang out with friends take on a new hobby anything so that you can keep your mind occupied and off of her…
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July 23rd, 2010 at 7:08 pm
Most women are like that. Fickle creatures, about as dependable as a compass in a magnet factory. You should see a psychiatrist and see if you can get prescription pills to control your moods, apart from completely throwing out anything that reminds you of your ex-girlfriend, interacting with other women, and keeping yourself busy with goals and activities. It’ll wear off in time.
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July 23rd, 2010 at 7:17 pm
well try finding some other girl..u deserve more =]
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July 23rd, 2010 at 7:35 pm
do you want to I’m press her or him always talk to him and always send him or her messages so she will be impressed
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July 23rd, 2010 at 7:50 pm
Do something you like or enjoy.
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July 23rd, 2010 at 8:05 pm
in friendship this is normal….just don’t break your head for all these..
its time you move on and make new friends..
if you really respect and love her …be happy for her….
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July 23rd, 2010 at 8:25 pm
Check this out…it is brilliant advice for someone in your shoes.
I am the same and this worked for me……
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/340
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July 23rd, 2010 at 9:05 pm
i know its hard, but time is a healer and you’ll soon find yourself forgetting about her and her new relationship! i understand if u have spent alot of time with this person u are going to miss them a huge ammount her friendship obviously meant a lot to u, wasn’t that worth keeping?. good luck
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July 23rd, 2010 at 9:27 pm
What you are going through is understandable especially when you are in love with someone…You should just let her go and move on, you will find someone better…Hang out with friends take on a new hobby anything so that you can keep your mind occupied and off of her…
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