I have been with my Boyfriend for 6 years & recently I am driving myself crazy thinking about his Ex, I knew about her before & it never bother me but lately it has, I also just had a Baby & was thinking it could be from Postpartum Depression??
My Boyfriend never cheated on me once, he has bought me a car, cellphone & is always with me. Hes the Best!
But he was with his Ex right before me & they were only together for about 3 months at most, but I keep thinking about it & comparing myself to her, even though I dont even know what she looked like, he tells me she wasnt pretty & he says she didnt even mean anything to him, he just wanted to get with her cause she was "known" for being easy & she was Bi & he wanted to do a 3-some. It makes me angry & I dwell on it cause she was no good, she had 3 kids with 2 different guys, her kids dont even live with her, she moved in with my Boyfriend after knowing him for only 1 day, she was Hoe & BiSexual who promised him a 3-some (never happened), she also got prego by my Boyfriend but he made her get an Abortion! It makes me Mad & I keep thinking about it cause if he knew she was "Easy" & only wanted her for a 3-some/sex then why let her move in? why take the chance of gettin her prego? i Dont understand it! He says he felt bad for her so he let her move in & he says he was young then (he was 24 then) & thought he was untouchable.
I know I shouldnt care cause it was like 6 1/2 years ago & its the past but it drives me crazyyyy! how can i STOP these thoughts?!
I keep thinking he thinks of her or wants to go back to her, Ive gained some weight since havin my baby & that plays a BIG part in this, she was Bi & would do allll kinds of sexual things & I wont cause Im chubbier & more reserved. It makes me jealous in a way I cant be like her & act like that. someone Help Please?!
Calm yourself down…She is an ex for a reason…remind yourself of that…You say he is great, so remind yourself of that as well. You are just feeling insecure because of the Postpartum depression… He comes home to you doesn’t he, he has a baby with YOU, he chose you! Feel happy about the life you have together and the fact that you have a wonderful family together. If your depression is really bothering you, talk to someone, exercise or even see your doctor.
