I trust him completely. But he is a really attractive guy, and he BMXs, so he’s at the skatepark a lot. And there are a lot of girls who try to get with guys there, and I worry a lot. I don’t trust other girls with him. And lastnight, he was texting a girl for several hours, catching up because they were old friends. It made me really uncomfortable, and even though I told him how it was making me feel, he was still talking to her constantly. We are completely devoted to eachother, and I know he would never do anything to hurt me. But whenever he talks to any girl, I get this heavy feeling in my stomach and I feel sick. The thought of another girl flirting with him, thinking she has a chance makes my stomach churn. I am extremely insecure, and I worry too much. I know couples get over jealousy issues eventually, but how can I stop feeling jealous now?
Honey, listen to your gut instinct about this….
You told him how it made you feel upset, and he CHOSE to continue conversation with this woman. That’s not right. You’re feeling jelous because his actions are communicating to you that he finds texting other women more important than really listening to what you said and doing what was right by you.
He should have talked with you about what he was texting her, texting is very secretive.