I had a conversation about this topic this weekend. I myself am overweight for my height so I am not picking on anybody in particular. It just seems that whenever you hear a person say their husband/wife is jealous and controlling and always accusing them of cheating … it is because they are overweight or have very low self-esteem.
You don’t typically see or hear of women that look like Beyonce or Eva Longoria worrying that their man is straying. What are your thoughts?
Just for the record, I also have low self-esteem … I think.
ummm, have you checked out halle barry. a woman of all kind to be considered "fine"
and let’s see, her first husband beat her @$$, wesley snipes hit her in the ear and caused her to lose her hearing,
eric benet, cheated on her throughout their marriage.
and now finally she finds love with a man 10 years younger than her (hopefully it works)
in essence, i am saying being overweight and little self esteem does not cause you to be insecure. what makes you insecure is being constantly cheated on and not being valued as a woman in the relationship.
even if lost the weight you want which might lead some self esteem, he would have found a reason to cheat.
and you mentioned beyonce, wasn’t jayz accused of having a baby with free (from 106 and park).
as you can see looks has nothing to do with insecurity.