I have found the love of my life. My best friend of many years has become my romantic partner and we are planning a future together.
He is everything I would want in a husband.
The ‘problem’ is that he suffered from restricted growth syndrome and basically stopped growing in his childhood. He had puberty and everything and is a normal adult male apart from his height which is Four foot something.
Now my friend had her ‘fairytale wedding’ with the merangue dress and looking lovely. Her husband is this tall prince charming looking guy. They make a lovely couple. I was happy for her but that was mixed with some jealousy. I know that you can not judge a relationship from the outside and just because they look great does not mean everything is perfect BUT am I a bad person for wanting that. When me & my guy are out together as a couple we get odd looks and pointing, and I know wedding photos will be something very different.
How can I get over this stupid thing? And how to stop being jealous of other people’s good fortune and how to focus on your own.
Before I get flamed, look I KNOW this is a shallow way to think, and in my rational thoughts I do not THINK like this but this is how I feel.
You cannot help feelings but can deal with your actions.
Diamonds do not come as big as paving stones
Nor does expensive perfume come in milk bottles.
0ne of my dearest friends stands at 4foot 4inches and she is a BIG person inside.
If some other people look at you askance well (in the immortal words of Compo. a UK Tv comedy character) "Chuff ‘em"
If you lived in the UK I would even conduct the wedding for you.
(Or have ny aforementioned friend do it!!)
Send me a slice of wediing cake!!