What kind of questions should I ask?

I’m playing a sort of 20 questions with this guy over text. He’s really obviously interested in me, but so far, all the questions I have asked have yielded pretty shallow answers.

I need to ask better questions in order to confirm whether or not he’s worth it (I would never date a guy who doesn’t enjoy thinking).

Ideas?

I need questions for the 20 questions game!?

Me & this guy are doing 20 questions over text. Im completely HORRIBLE at this. I can never think of anything to ask! What are some clever & good questions to ask? A list would be nice (: Please help me, NOW! Thank you!

A new guy, were playing a question gamee over text, HELP?

A just met this guy last night;
And hes asking me simple questions just like fav: band, animal color?

Well he saying its like 20 questions and its my turn, bahaha, well I DONT KNOW WHAT TO ASK?
Help?
PLEASEE.

Guy question?

What is up w/this guy. Ive started dating a younger guy he is 20 & im 29 and ive been w/him for over a month and he started working like 7 days a week and I asked him why doesn’t he text me back right away when I text him. And he doesn’t answer the phone when I call him. He said he is really busy. So I asked him if I should leave him alone he says no. And tells me that is why he doesn’t have girlfriends because he puts work before pleasure? I just sent him a text saying that I want him to be my boyfriend no matter how busy he is and to call me when he has time to see me. Is that wrong should i just leave him alone?

I can’t stop stressing and being depressed im loosing so much weight help please ?

Im constantly loosing weight because I stay depressed and stressed. It’s really taking a tole on my body I don’t know what to do with myself. I was 160 now im down to 110 I really need help I don’t want to loose anymore weight. Can someone please help me what can I do to stop myself from loosing so much weight? How do I make myself stop being depressed and stressed?

How can I stop being depressed over how fast time flies?

A few days ago I started to feel really depressed about how fast time flies by. I know we can‘t stop this but I‘ve been feeling strange about it. It feels like yesterday was the 26th and I barely remember what I did the last 3 days. I really want to stop thinking about this but I can‘t. Can anyone help me this is really makign me sad.

How can I stop being depressed about ONE guy not wanting to be with me?

I‘ve had guys ask me to be their girlfriend and show that they are interested in being in a relationship but ONE guy didn’t want to commit to me and I really liked him and now I‘m all depressed about it and feel like I‘m not good enough for him in some way. I spend all day thinking about what is it about me that made him think I‘m not good enough.

How can I stop being depressed over something so dumb?!

How do I stop being depressed?

I can‘t stand being a guy. I feel like a girl and it’s depressing waking up as a guy every morning. It’s gotten to the point of me crying. How do I stop being depressed about? it’s making me a total mess.

Question about sex. How many people is too many?

So I had a ex that slept with over 300 people and at the time I was a virgin. To be honest ever since she told me I lost a lot of respect and trust for her. As of now I’ve only been with two girls.. Her and a one night stand which I regret because I feel dirty about it.. ANYWAYS!
When you look for a boyfriend/girlfriend do you ask/want to know how many people they have been with?
How old are you and how many people have you slept with?
would you be bothered about a high number of sexual partners?
How long into a relationship is it fine to start having sex if you are a respectful, classy guy?
please share your experiences.
also have you ever cheated?
What are you talking about? I never said anything about breaking up with her over her sexuality.. I was with her for 5 years! read before you say something so stupid.

My friend just got dumped by her boyfriend (2 year relationship) what do I do?

I’m sorry to bother everyone with yet another petty girlfriend/ boyfriend issue.

My best friend, who I have known since kindergarten, just got dumped by her boyfriend. She has been going out with him for two and a half years and she was very convinced they would be together forever.

He broke up with her because at a party, she got very drunk and kissed another boy. Well she made out with him.

She is devastated now and doesn’t know what to do with herself. She is very sweet and tender and all around a darling girl but she made a mistake.
She says she is so used to seeing him and hearing his voice and knowing she’ll see him soon that now it feels very empty.

I want to help her, I know she did something wrong but she is my best friend after all. Does anyone know how I can help her?

Me and my friends have drawn her pictures and secretly stuck them in her locker. We take her out to distract her and when she needs to talk about it, we listen for hours and give our best advice.

Today she had cuts on her hands and wrists, and she told me when i questioned that she did it herself and intensionally. She also messaged our friend Syl yesterday saying she wanted to suicide.

People don’t be cruel about this. Don’t get mad at me for her mistakes or presume I will get mad at her, because I will not.

Do not post comments like She is a dirty hoe and doesn’t deserve him. I am not asking for your crude opinions only your help.

Thank you so much everyone
^^ Love Lara.

Girls – Would you be mad if..?

You asked your boyfriend a question “If it’s true that 95% of the time, guys think about somebody else other than their girlfriends when they j*ck off”, and he answered basically yes, and you said “I think it’s stupid that you’re thinking about somebody else while i’m the one talking dirty to you”, and he responds with “Well, not when you’re talking dirty and stuff, but when i’m alone and doing it” then he goes along with “Sometimes you just get bored of thinking the same thoughts” so I reply “So you get bored of thinking about me?” then he replies with an “oh god” and then says he thinks about threesomes involving me and another girl, usually he’s just “making out” with me, while the other girl actually does him. And that he also sometimes can’t help but think about it..

Am I in the wrong for being upset about this? What about you, girls?

Girls, would you be mad? (Guys can answer too)?

You asked your boyfriend a question “If it’s true that 95% of the time, guys think about somebody else other than their girlfriends when they j*ck off”, and he answered basically yes, and you said “I think it’s stupid that you’re thinking about somebody else while i’m the one talking dirty to you”, and he responds with “Well, not when you’re talking dirty and stuff, but when i’m alone and doing it” then he goes along with “Sometimes you just get bored of thinking the same thoughts” so I reply “So you get bored of thinking about me?” then he replies with an “oh god” and then says he thinks about threesomes involving me and another girl, usually he’s just “making out” with me, while the other girl actually does him. And that he also sometimes can’t help but think about it..

Am I in the wrong for being upset about this? What about you, girls?

Is it wrong for my girlfriend to dance with her guy friends or am I just over reacting?

I love dancing and my girlfriend loves it even more. We fell in love on the dance floor and have been dating seriously for 6 months and want to get married when we get out of college. I trust her with my heart and being and know how strong our relationship is and is not in question (event I wish not to describe). Now she is going to college and will be away from me for a year. When she is at parties she likes to dirty dance with her guy friends and this really hurts me, I find myself wishing to never dance with her again. We have talked about it and because she is an overachiever and puts too much work on her plate she uses the parties on the weekends to relax and enjoy herself while I’m not there. But she does this by grinding with other guys. When I asked if there was anything she could change so I didn’t hurt so much she says it is just dancing and she makes the guys understand she want to marry me and it is the way she has fun at parties. But it hurts and I can’t get over it.

question for the girls….about this guy that im friends wit?

okay so im friends with this guy and a few times he use to ask me if i would b interested in him and that he thinks im hot….but i told him that we can only be friends….so he said okay but each time we go out he is always trying to pull moves on me and each time he wants to talk on the fone wit me he always trys to talk dirty…but i dont give him a chance…so now i dont know wut to do….he is a good guy and i dont wanna lose him as a friend but he is juss way to interested in pulling moves on me n talking dirty…
oh and i do try to hook him up wit other girls like i went to a street fair and i told him to come cz there was lots of girls there that he can meet but he didnt end up coming got to busy…

what do i do about this guy?!?!?! 10 pts?

sorry if theirs some dirty parts in it- well…. we dated in the summer. then broke up/ then it was on/off for a while. hes dating another girl rite now. he used to hate me now were friends agian.we talk/flirt alot on facebook. but not @ school cuz well im a middle popular hes popular and i NEVER see him cuz we dont have any classes together. i asked him if he liked his gf for real-yes. i asked him if he liked me- not like that. he said he would maby date me after his gf tho. on facebook we talk and flirt ALOT! we talk about wat superpower we’d want or wat were most afriad of- or whose braver… i am!!! lol but then he’d also ask me pervy questions like would u be a stripper?would u give a guy a BJ? i asked him if he’d ever had a wet dream- he said ummm no. he asked me if i shaved me… u kno… my thing. i said yes after having him ask like 10x for it. then the next day he told me if he could tell me something. i said yes. he said its kinda wierd but… i had a wet dream about u and wat u told me about u shaving ur…. so yea… does he like me?? or is he just playing me? some people say he does… some say he dosent. idk and its driving me CRAZY!!!. and we were talking on fb and we talked about like if we were 2 marry someone rite now who would u pick and he said his gf ( but then said i prolly wont end up marrying her tho. then he asked me and i said him + this other guy. and he was like o ic. but me first rite? and i said yes and he was like o thats hot. so basicaly now were talking about how excited we r for friday and stuff! but im FREAKING out cuz wat if it dosent work out? wat if hes playing me? wat if this is all a joke 2 him??? he was gone in school today… wat if hes sick on friday??? then we cant have a sleepover! and wat if like @ school hes flirting w/ other girls! wat if hes doing something special w/ his gf??? idk ( i mean most of the time we talk about wat were gunna do on friday, how excited we r for it, me turning him on, and our day and just random stuff i guess but idk its like when i dont talk 2 him i feel soooo insecure and vulnerable and jelouse!!! but when i talk 2 him all that goes away and i feell happy and stuff so idk… UGH!!! also he said he dosent want 2 go all the way on friday yet he said he wanted 2 like spoon naked and makeout and touch and feel me up and stuff and i could do watever i wanted 2 do 2 him
o and when i asked him if he asked me it was like a week ago which was a LONG time ago cuz we’ve been talking about stuff and getting closer and we planned like 1 week ahead that id stayover @ his house w/ his older sister and stuff and then hes like o im going 2 have like 6 guy friends over. and then i asked him and he said idk maby… but u should still sleepover. and then i inboxed him on the night of it and he NEVER replied!!! ugh!! and now wat do i do?? when hes on fb should i talk 2 him??? or if he inboxes me 2 turn him on wat should i say??? UGH PLEASE help!!!

do you have any good questions??

me and my guy friend hav this game wear we ask one another dirty or revealing questions, but im running out of good ones. any suggestions???
ive coverd all the basics and gone in to details w/ him. i need some out of the ordinary stuff.

I want to ask this girl on a date but she has a boyfriend(complicated question)?

I like this girl who apparently as a boyfriend. Now I was ready to move on because as she said she has a boyfriend but then we spent a whole day together laughing, playing truth or dare and had a party rocking time.

Later we end up texting and what not. She has a boyfriend but she keeps giving me these weird mixed signals it is hard to explain. My question is ‘should I ask her on a date?’ or ‘should i ask her to hang out?’ because I don’t want to ruin a friendship over this crush.

Like I don’t know what the say to her without making it awkward I wanna hang out with her again. I see her boyfriend he literally left her to play video games and she started crying. She can do so much better, not saying I am the perfect guy for her but I know i could make her smile. I need help

how to ask a girl out (IN COLLEGE)? (Experienced people only)?

NOT A BOG COLLEGE…..A COMMUNITY COLLEGE so there’s no dorming…..

I don’t really talk to her that much. She sits all the way on the other side of the room and I’m facing her…..its how the desks are set up. First two classes, she sat a bit next to me and she suddenly moved to a seat all the way to the left…..I didnt want to seem weird and sit next to her….so I sat all the way on the right side…she’s really cool. I like her. But I mean, how do I ask her out? I make remarks and she laughs and I laugh at her stuff too sometimes, no biggie. She’s really cool and I like her.

I’m not some player. Never have been. Never will be. I have no game whatsoever but it’s not like Im awkward around girls Im the complete opposite rather so dont think Im shy. However, I should say that Im 20 and have never done anything with a girl…..ever. I have no experience.

Answers to these questions that would help me:

- HOW should I ask her out? After class while she’s walking away? This is the most important thing for me. I have no idea how to not seem like a creep and follow her.

- Should I ask for her number or ask her out?

- Should I say something like, “Hey, I think you’re a cool girl and I’d like to go out with you.” Sounds a bit CORNY.

- Ask her out on a lunch or a dinner?

I don’t want to do it in front of my classmates though. Yeah…..Can you help me out? lmao…

I WANT EXPERIENCED PEOPLE……

quiiiCK….HOW to ask a girl out in college??? (going to in an hour!!!!)?

NOT A BIG COLLEGE…..A COMMUNITY COLLEGE so there’s no dorming…..

I don’t really talk to her that much. She sits all the way on the other side of the room and I’m facing her…..its how the desks are set up. First two classes, she sat a bit next to me and she suddenly moved to a seat all the way to the left…..I didnt want to seem weird and sit next to her….so I sat all the way on the right side…she’s really cool. I like her. But I mean, how do I ask her out? I make remarks and she laughs and I laugh at her stuff too sometimes, no biggie. She’s really cool and I like her.

I’m not some player. Never have been. Never will be. I have no game whatsoever but it’s not like Im awkward around girls Im the complete opposite rather so dont think Im shy. However, I should say that Im 20 and have never done anything with a girl…..ever. I have no experience.

MY QUESTION TO YOU IS…..Im not shy on asking her out….but I dont know WHEN…WHEN…after class? When she’s walking away? I dont want to do it in front of my classmates….

When……should I ask her out….thats my main problem….I have my confidence..

I WANT EXPERIENCED PEOPLE……please!!

Does He Like Me? And Im Confused About Another Person?

So ima be talking about two guys. Care to help? . Im a beginner in love<3 .

Number 1;;
Okay, there's this guy in my class, I give him a nick name chubby, for no one can know who he is except me and my friend. Reason i nick named him chubby is because he we were talking about how fat i am, and he said i wasnt, and that i was “chubby” and he called himself chubby as well . so yeah c:. Anyways, for the pass week he’s been giving me some strange signals. and my friends get the feeling he likes me. Of course i do have a little crush on him as well. He’s nice, cute, and sweet . Im guessing he use his race as an excuse for kissing me on the cheek. Cuz he said “this is how spanish people greet other people.” and that only goes for some spanish people. He did that like twice, and i swore the second time i thought he was going for my lips cuz i was sitting down and he bended down to give me one, so it was awkward. In class he sometimes be staring at me,, and when i look back, he smiles at me. He gives me hugs that couples will do. 15 minutes before the bell rang for school to be over, he suddenly sat on my desk and his butt/back was in my face -_-. we were looking at a game that the teacher put on the board and he kept leaning back on me, for i dont see the board cuz i wanted to see wats going on and cuz he felt like laying back -_-. he took my arms and wrapped around him like we wear cuddling. :p. My friend told me in vietnamese (my language) that we looked cute together like that. and i yelled out “noo we dontt” laughingg, and i guess he figured what she told mee, lol. He’s been getting close to me ever since we start talking moree. Why’s that? My friends tell me that he probably likes me, but im not sure if he has a girlfriend:/. Oh well. Does he like me o_o? i would add more details but it means more reading cuz i have another one to ask. :/.

Number 2;;
There’s this guy i call Red . nicknames. lol. i call him red because he hass red shoes on at school. lmao xD. well, i HAD a crush on him at the beginning of the year, and he’s a player i guess but not really. he just switches the girl he has a crush on fast or something.:/. He liked one of my friends but suddenly dated some other chick after getting rejected. the reason she rejected him was cuz i liked him and that was last friday . So suddenly he gets a girlfriend, and i began to ignore him cuz i dont want s h i t to happen between me and his girl, so i just backed off. but its been only 3 days since they went out and they been getting in fights already? but still i ignore him. yesterday i was at the snack line with 2 of my friends and my friend told me Red waas behind me, and i turned around and looked for a second then turned back rolling my eyes outta habit. my friend told me he looked like he felt so played and upset. everytime i pass by him and he’s with his girl, he looks at me but i dont look back. i just see it in the corner of my eye. Today he came up to me when we were about to leave to go home. and asks me “are you mad at me?” and i was like “no why would i be mad?” and he was like “cuz it seems like it. i just get the feeling.” and i was like “i have no reason to” and he was like “ooh. then why dont yuh say hey to me no more?” and i was like “cuz yuh dont come to me and say hey,” and blah blah blah. all i was just thinking about was why was he worried if i was mad at him or not while he has a girl -_-. Why is he doing this to me? And just when i was gonna give up on him , he makes me get that happy feeling. ugh. whyy?????

okay im done C:.
DONT SAY, “Choose the first guy, the second one sounds like a player” THAT DOESNT SOLVE MY QUESTIONS -_____-. The questions are in the paragraph. So please answer it .

What product would you reccomend to get the “beach wave” look?

I know how to get them: you spray the product on your hair when it’s wet and crimp it with your fingers. But what product would you reccommend? I’ve seen anywhere from John Frieda to just water mixed with salt (I’d rather not do the latter).

What do you use?

I have dirty blonde hair, medium thickness (leaning on the thin side, but definately not thin). What would you reccommend for that/do they have availabe?

Answers to both questions would be great, thanks

Why would a parents rather lose all contact with her son then to see them happy?

Throw out my life every time I have tried to be happy my mom done every thing she could to stop it. From lying to my girlfriends (get them scared of me) to putting sugar in my gas tank just stop me from moving out. Well I have moved out was forced to walk to work because of her. And when I was on my own she would call me every day telling me all the problems that she was having because of me moving out. And because I have been raised in the good ole south I have been raised with “Southern Boy” ways I was raised that you should honer & respect your parents and of course causing my mom that much pain and problems is not respecting her. So I would when she would tell me how bad I hearting her I fault like a good for nothing low down dirty dog tell I would move back so she would happy. Giving up on my own happiness and life just to respect her.

Well being in the south are not it’s getting to the point that (I know I well regret saying this later.) But for now I hope she falls over dead. Just I can move with out with out her crying & bitching about the fucking problems I am causing her.

I can see that if I am ever going to be happy I am going have to lose all contact with my mom and in turn lose contact with my family because they well keep her informed of my location & contact info no mater what I tell them.

So my question is…
Why would a parents rather lose all contact with her son then to see them happy?

Honda Accord 07 2dr EX V6 shifter slides to D3 rather than stopping at D? Is there a fix or modification?

I just got a used Honda Accord 2dr EX V6..pretty much loaded – I just about love everything about the car except for the issue with when I put the car in gear. Like all cars, you have to hit the brake to release from park but after you can slide from reverse to drive without having to hold the button down *until* you want to pop it into 1,2, or 3. Unless I am staring at it and going one by one after taking the car out of park it just slides naturally almost like it’s design is intended to always be in D3 then I have to push it back up up to D – confusing for me and especially if anyone needs to borrow my car and burn my engine in D3…

So the dirty question.. Is there a way to make it stop at D and not slide to D3? Is this a design flaw or could there be something wrong that I need to get fixed or a modification that I can make to stop it at D and not go any further unless the unlock button is pressed? Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

question about court and drug tests?

Ok, this is going to be a rather long question, but every detail is important, so if you are not willing to read all the way through, please do not answer. Here are all the details i feel should be included to ensure that i get the most accurate answer possible.

So a few months ago, me and a buddy got arrested for possession of weed and drug paraphernalia. I’m not 100% sure about the amount we had on us but im pretty positive it was under a gram. I am 18, and was 18 at the time of the arrest. My buddy was 16, so he was a minor. He has already been to juvenile court, and was given 6 months unsupervised probation and 10 hours of community service. When all of this happened, my dad hired an $800 lawer for me, who i, myself, have yet to talk to or even meet. I have yet to be tried, but will be tried tomorrow. My court date has been pushed back twice (it was originally supposed to be april 11th). I don’t know why it got pushed back the first time, but i’m pretty sure the second time was because they had not prepared a police report (not completely sure if that’s exactly true, but it was something along those lines). Because of this, along with the lack of severity in the charges i’m facing, i’ve also been hearing from a lot of my friends that they’re most likely going to drop the charges. I have not really stopped smoking since it happened, but i can say i haven’t smoked since this past friday. So i have three questions: 1) Can/will they ask me to take a drug test at court, 2) If they do, what happens if i fail it, and 3) If they do not ask me to take the test, what is my punishment most likely going to be, based purely on the charges? I realize that i can say no to taking the test, but i feel like if i do, the judge will pretty much know i’m still dirty, and will likely be less lenient than he would if he felt that i had learned my lesson.

If you are going to say things like “well you should have stopped smoking sooner” or “you should have learned your lesson” or any other preachy criticisms, please do not answer, i just want a helpful, mature answer to my questions. I’m pretty sure i’ve covered all of the details, but i may remember something else after i’ve posted this question, and go back to edit it later. For those of you who will provide helpful answers, i thank you for your time, and i greatly appreciate your feedback.
Ah, i knew i was forgetting some details- quite a few, actually- we were caught while we were in said buddy’s basement. The sheriff came up, saying that he was looking for someone who used to live there, but moved out months before this happened, and when my buddy’s dad opened the front door, he said he could smell weed. My buddy’s dad knew that his son and all of his friends smoked, but didn’t know that we did it at his house. He also didn’t know that he could have turned the cop away, even if the cop did smell weed, so he let him in, and told him we were in the basement. The sheriff didn’t read us our rights when he arrested us (although i understand that he doesn’t have to until he questions us). He didn’t say anything at all to me, other than asking if i had anything i could “stick him” with, and to empty my pockets, but he did ask my buddy, once we got into the back of his car, what we were smoking out of, and my buddy said “pipes”, and then, when asked, proceeded to tell him wher

Whats the best thing to do when your boyfriend comes over to your house for the first time?

OK so my boyfriend is coming over to my house for the first time and my house is pretty big so we going to have some alone time. I already have an idea of what we are going to do but here are some questions I was hoping you might have the answer too….
1. What is the best scary movie (like curl up in his arms and hide) that we should watch?
2. What are some fun flirty moves I can do… like flirty flirty?
3. What are some ideas of stuff that is good to do when your boyfriend is over?

Hopeful for helpful input on this. I’ll answer your questions too, just post link.?

Hopefully short and sweet..
- Boyfriend and I are 20 yrs old and have been going for for about a year and a half.
-However things have been sort of rocky lately, I cant tell how long I’m going to stay with him…
He’s gotten a DUI and has no car currently, his attitude has also changed a lot in the past year, he’s pretty negative and I feel like sometimes he’s not interested in what I say. I like him as a person, but I think I used to like the person he WAS….I’m not sure how to bring it up though and Im nervous because we share the same group of friends.

Now I am kind of interested in this other guy and we have mutual friends. weve been talking for a few days in a row now, only on facebook for now since im away but i know we will hang out when i get back and we dont too often.. and since im not positive that i really like him, I dont wanna lead him on or anything however sometimes i feel like our speaking manner is quite flirty, but since i dont know him well, i cant tell if it is. We have talked about his past and my current relationship…but im just really not sure about anything and im trying to avoid hurting people in the process..
they have noticed, and they all think that I should probably talk to him about it, but I feel like it will just up in our break up…right now I kind of feel like we have nothing left.

What do you think about my situation i don’t know what is going on. I will answer your questions!!! ?

There is this girl that i really like. I approached her and i sat beside her, she gave me the biggest smile ever, i stayed there introduced myself we talked for a while, we clicked really well she was really friendly and flirty too. I flirted with her she giggled. We said good bye properly and everything went well. I wouldn’t change anything from that moment.

However next day when i met her again, she was different. When she saw me she didn’t say hello or anything, as the matter of fact i think she was avoiding me at that moment. I said hello to her and right at that time she hid her face from me, she was talking quietly, she was acting shy and stuff like that, it was difficult to keep the conversation going. Then at one point she just stopped talking to me and then turned her back on me, so i stopped talking to her. I think she was waiting for some guy, because when he came, she hugged him tightly and then left with him. It wasn’t all bad though one of the few times that i talked to her, i told her i went to the gym and then she flirty smile at me and then turned back to ignore me.

Next time it was similar, but this time she was much more friendly, not as friendly as the first time i met her though. This time she kept the conversation going, even though she was acting very serious and kept looking behind me like waiting for somebody me, even though she would look at me sometimes. She would also flirty smile at me a few times though, but still like i said she was acting very serious. Then the same guy came again, he kind of hugged her around her waist and left with her. She didn’t smile at him or anything. She told me to wait after they stopped talking.

I noticed something interesting, I stopped talking to her (we don’t talk at anymore) and sitting beside her and she looks like she is mad at me. I have seen her giving me bitchy looks or look down to the floor and close her arms like she was mad when i look at her. The few times that i have tried to talk to her, she has talked to me like she is mad at me, sometimes she ignores me completely. I have also caught her looking at me and once she approached me out of nowhere even though she didn’t say anything to me and i have seen her a few times blushing or acting shy too when she has passed in front of me.

What i am wondering though is that, does she like me? Was she playing hard to get and making me jealous? Why does she act like this?. Or does she have a boyfriend and what does she want with me if she does.

Please answer!! Would you care if your boyfriend was texting other girls?

I have a bf who I love 100%. We have been together 9 months and have talked about the future and a life together. He is attenttive, funny, takes me on trips, engages with my friends and family and I think we are really happy. However, I found out he has been texting his ex girlfriend about once a month during our entire relationship. He has been trying to see her for sex and sends her flirty stuff. she never says yes and I dont think he has cheated on me with her.

My question is…is he just being a “guy” and looking for a little excitement via texts but not worth dumping over or is the intenet just as bad. I truly think he loves me. I know I need to talk to him about it but I am scared.

What would you guys think? can he love me and still do this?

my boyfriend was checking out some chick in front of me ??

okay so after school i was right behind my bf and this girl was passing him and he turned around and checked her out and then he saw me look at him and i was mad . i dont know what to do ? should i be mad ? like i didnt like seeing that why would he check other girls out when hes with me ? what do i tell him ? we;ve talked after it and havent said anything about it should i bring it up ? hellp me plllz .

boyfriend keeps checking out girls?

ok, so i’ve been dating my boyfriend for over a year now, but can’t help to notice that he looks at other girls when we’re together, and it’s not always just a quick glance. now i understand he’s a guy…and i really don’t mind if he checks out other girls to an extent, when he’s not around me. but when he’s with me i expect him to be a bit more respectful. i’ve tried talking to him about it, but he denies it every time and says he doesn’t feel that way (sexual) about any other girl. Which i know must be completely untrue. how do i get the point across to him that i really don’t want him doing that in front of me next time without getting him mad?

GUYS I need your advice. When you’re in love, do you still check out other girls in front of your gf ?

OR WHEN YOU’RE WITH HER?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now, before we dated we were best friends. Now that were together, we have a good relationship and he says he’s in love with me & everything. But usually when we go out, if he sees any cute girls around he would check them out head to toe – right in front of me, as if i wasn’t even there. It’s so obvious to the point were sometimes the girls notice. I usually let it go but last time we were together, I was talking to him trying to get his attention. He responded while he was checking out the girl across the street. He made sure to really check her out.The funny thing is that when i got mad, he didn’t have a clue why. It’s like he doesn’t even realize he’s doing it. Sometimes i don’t even want to hold his hand because it makes me feel bad. The fact that my boyfriend is too busy looking at other girls to even notice me. It’s like now i hope we don’t walk by pretty girls b/c of that. I mean i know guys look at girls , and i’m fine with that. But the fact that he does it when he’s with me & so bluntly like he didn’t give a crap bothers me. Like i notice it all the time, that’s how obvious it is. I called him out on it afterwards when we got home but he said he was sorry, he loves me & he didn’t realize he was doing it. This is the second time we argued about it b/c it pissed me off that much. I said we could take a break, b/c it seemed like he might want to talk to other ppl ,but he didn’t want to and said he loved me and saw me in his future.

Idk anymore, i mean i thought when guys were in love, they didn’t really care or even notice the people around them but i guess i was wrong ..?

& If i see a cute guy, it’s w.e. I wouldn’t do that to him cause i know it would bother him. So i don’t.
Someone please advice me. Are all men like this ? I mean like i said i know it’s natural but the fact that he can’t stop when he’s with me or at least be a little more discrete about it hurts me.

boyfriend and friend checking out good looking waitress on my birthday?

so i went to a restaurant/pub on my 21st birthday with my long term boyfriend and best guy friend, who also happens to be my guys closest friend. throughout our time there they continued to talk about how cute and good looking our waitress was. they kept saying she had amazing legs and body and cute face and such. i was ok with at first but they continunue to talk about her all night as they had more to drink. and then they talked about all of these other girls they thought were good looking that we know. i started to find it rude especially since they kept going on about it and completely ignored me. when i did tell them to stop they replied that i could check out all the guys i want.

was this rude? i guess i was slightly insecure about the leg comment as well since one time my boyfriend commented on my legs and said he wished they were more toned.

guys: why do you check out girls in front of your girlfriend? is whay my boyfriend did rude?

girls: how do YOU deal with it?
I would just like to add that my boyfriend is not a horrible person. He would never ever cheat on me, is the smartest person I know, and we have been together for over 2 years happily. I just wanted to clarify that he is not a “prick and this is unusal behavior for him. It was a result of drinking too much, which he raraly does. He gets talkative when he drinks, not horny (trust me).
As punishment that night when they were both alseep/passed out and I was wide awake, I make an awful lot of noice and woke them up rudely and laughed when they got mad for me.
and the comment he made about my legs was because i asked one thing he could change about me physically. so he wsan’t rude and just said it, i wanted an answer. but i got what i wanted and am not insecure about them, even though i’m in good shape.

Why does my boyfriend seem jealous over this?

We’ve been going out for over a year and i have a really close gay friend(I‘m a girl so its not like I‘d go for him anyways) but anyways, my boyfriend seems to get really jealous when me and the other guy text or hang out. My boyfriend hangs out with us too so he knows everything that’s going on. I know he’s not like anti-gay for a fact so why does he not seem to like this one particular guy?
No, I don’t text him on dates or when we’re talking about things but i suppose I do talk to him about some things more. Since he’s “like a girl” it’s just easer to talk to him about some things other than a guy or my boyfriend. I don’t spend too much time with him so I still don’t quite get when he gets jealous.

When it comes to my boyfriend I’m so jealous why?!?!?

With everyone apart from my boyfriend i am thee most laid back person in the world. I do get grumpy, but that is rare and my bark is usually worse than my bite.

But when it comes to my boyfriend i can’t help but be insanely on edge and jealous. We used to live together but due to financial difficulties we had to move back in with our parents. now he has been chucked out and is living in a homeless unit and when i phoned him today he was in a room with a girl alone. my heart tells me nothing happened but my head is going mad and i got really angry at him…totally off the head.

the thing is he has done everything to make me trust him. more than he’s needed to but i can’t! i am truly in love with him and yet i still can’t think he won’t cheat on me. My self confidence is NEVER this low, so why is it with him? anyone help me!!! please!!!!!
i feel this way because of things his ex said. however she was a nasty piece of work and he denied it, but that seed of doubt has just grew.

she said he cheated on all of his girlfriends and was a compulsive liar

Why do I get so jealous when I see a picture of my boyfriend with his female friends?

My boyfriend sometimes goes out with his group of friends and they all take pictures together. He sometimes takes some with his female friends and I get extremely jealous when I see the pictures. Why do I feel this way? How could I stop feeling jealous about this?

Why do I get so jealous when my friends and boyfriend hang out with other people?

I have a best friend who I have known for more than 10 years. I am 18 and she is 16, but people always think we are the same age or she is older than me, so the age difference isn’t a big deal with us at all. She is a little more ‘popular’ then me. she is more sociable and I am more of an introvert and awkward in big social settings. I don’t like partying and drinking but she does party sometimes so she tends to have more friends too. Even when pictures are posted on fb of her and other people having a good time, I get a little bit jealous. Im not obsessed with her anything, but for some reason I feel like those people are more fun to hang out with or something.

My boyfriend also has a lot more friends than I do. He is 19 and I am 18. He went out to a pub with two of his best female friends who are a few years older than him. I got a little jealous about that with the same reason..that he may have more fun with them than he ever does with me. He gets stoned sometimes with his buddies and even that makes me feel that he would rather get high instead of seeing me.

ahhh it bothers me so much that I feel like this. I don’t nag them to always hang out with me or anything annoying like that.

How to stop my boyfriends snoring?

It drives me mad! I get so angry I then struggle to sleep even more.
I’ve make him try, breath easy strips, sprays, sleeping on his side with a pillow between the legs, on his back with his head elevated and of course a good old kick and shove!
He’s been sent to s GP and has no medical problems.
Please help!

what can i do to stop my boyfriend being so controlling and angry?

my boyfriend, who i have been faithful for the 7 years i have been with him, has started to ban me from talking to certain people. I am an indepandent woman, i make my own money, and have not even always lived in the same city as my bf, so am used to dealing with guys etc by myself. Now he wants to be with my on every occasion i could talk to another person, and accuses me of flirting. Firstly he tried to ban me from a girl i met and really like, because he confided in her he was planning on moving away with another girl, he says she broke his trust. He doesn’t want me to spend time with her, even though she is my only girlfriend in the new country we live in. This happened when i dumped him for arranging a meeting for sex with someone else. he has even banned me for talking to an 18 yr old (i am 26) and any other males really. I don’t understand why he is this way, when he is the only person who has strayed. how do i convince him i am to be trusted and hate being controlled so much?
i have tried talking to him, but he says thats just the way it is going to be, and flies of the handle if i go on. he says i have no loyalty to him. the 18 year old in question flirted with me a little whn he was drunk, then apologised profusley later, and i told my bf this.
can someone else please report the sickening ‘answer’ left by aryan sweet so it is removed? it takes 2 complaints to get it deleted.

how do i stop being angry each time my boyfriend falls asleep and doesn’t call me?

my boyfriend and i have been in a long distance relationship for 1.5 years and although its tough, we’re both very committed to each other. to stay connected, we call each other every morning and end the day with a phonecall before going to bed.

the problem is that every so often, he falls asleep and doesn’t call me. and each time he’s done this (happens every couple of months), it completely drives me bonkers. in most other aspects (namely the important stuff) he is a wonderful man, but this flakiness is something i can’t stand. i just feel like since he knows this is a problem and a sore point with me, he should figure out a way to not have it happen again.

but when it does happen, he will call the next day apologizing profusely and trying to cheer me up. when this first started happening, i would chew him out and he would try really hard not to do it again. but inevitably it would happen again. i’m now at the point where i act like a cold sullen b*tch to him the following day because i’m so upset by it. it takes me a day to get over it and we’re fine again…until the next time.

i know that he doesn’t mean to fall asleep (i’ve seen him dozing off accidently when i come visit and we lounge around) so it’s not like i think he’s cheating on me. but when it happens, i just can’t act like everything’s all good because i feel like i’m condoning his behavior.

this isn’t something i would leave him for but i just don’t know how to deal with the anger. i’m wondering if any of you out there have any practical advice for handling something like this. i’m sure your significant others forget to do things that drive you up the wall. how have you dealt with it?
thanks to those who are providing actual suggestions for my question. they are very helpful and i am honestly looking for ways to manage my annoyance and improve my relationship. i am moving to my bf’s state once my job is secured there so the falling asleep calling thing won’t be an issue. i’m just trying to figure out what to do in the meantime.

everyone else who made judgement calls on who i am and what my relationship is like either has no clue on what work is involved in keeping a long distance relationship strong or is in denial that they also have irrational things that annoy/anger them.

how do i stop being so angry when my boyfriend screws up?

i will start by saying that my boyfriend is the most loving, loyal, thoughful, and devoted man i know. the problem i’m having is that he’s not reliable. he says he’ll do things that he forgets 5 seconds later because he accidentally fell asleep or it just slipped his mind. he doesn’t pay attention to details (which is evident when he tells stories where the events are out of order or doesn’t remember what was said). sometimes unfortunate things will happen to him (like losing important things or sending gifts or bills late) and when he initially explains why, it sounds like he screwed things up. but after hounding him, he’ll finally share some detail that would shed light on the situation and would have made me less angry if i had known that detail from the beginning.

he recognizes that this is a problem and is working on paying more attention to detail. in the same vein, i recognize that i have a problem with being too harsh on him when these things happen. (luckily, we are very open in communicating, so we’ve discussed much of this)

the problem i have is that i’m starting to see him as a screw-up rather than see him as a man who occassionally makes honest mistakes. i don’t like that when something goes wrong, i automatically think it’s because he screwed up rather than giving him the benefit of the doubt.

i’m sure most of you out there have that one person (be it your mom, sibling, or significant other) whom when something bad happens, you just assume that it’s their fault rather than trying to understand the circumstances around the situation.

i hate feeling that way about my boyfriend but i don’t know how to change that. it’s not as easy as saying “don’t be mad” or “give him the benefit of the doubt” because if i could have done that on my own, i wouldn’t be dealing with this right now.

does anyone have any practical way of changing this perspective?