Stop Jealousy http://www.stopjealousy.com You can Stop Jealousy Today Fri, 13 Aug 2010 01:21:06 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 en hourly 1 Does jealousy tie in with low self esteem? http://www.stopjealousy.com/does-jealousy-tie-in-with-low-self-esteem/ http://www.stopjealousy.com/does-jealousy-tie-in-with-low-self-esteem/#comments Fri, 13 Aug 2010 01:21:06 +0000 admin http://www.stopjealousy.com/does-jealousy-tie-in-with-low-self-esteem/ Like, people who get jealous do they most likely suffer from low self esteem?

yes..people with low self esteem tend to look for others to entertain then and never try to do anything on their own. Set goals and achieve them.

]]> http://www.stopjealousy.com/does-jealousy-tie-in-with-low-self-esteem/feed/ 2 My friend has three girlfriends at the same time. How do I stop being jealous? http://www.stopjealousy.com/my-friend-has-three-girlfriends-at-the-same-time-how-do-i-stop-being-jealous/ http://www.stopjealousy.com/my-friend-has-three-girlfriends-at-the-same-time-how-do-i-stop-being-jealous/#comments Fri, 13 Aug 2010 01:14:55 +0000 admin http://www.stopjealousy.com/my-friend-has-three-girlfriends-at-the-same-time-how-do-i-stop-being-jealous/ My friend at work is incredible: he has three girlfriends at the same time and they are all stunning. Somehow he has managed to stop them finding out about each other. I asked him how he does it and he said ‘it’s magic’. However, I think he uses three separate phones as I’ve seen him using three different ones. I think he’s a total legend of a player for havin three girlfriends at the same time.

How do I stop being jealous? It has always been my dream to be a ladies man.

Why would you be jealous of a pig? Do you want to be the guy who is known as a player, cos one day you might fall for a special lady and she will throw it back in your face cos of your reputation. Ask yourself why you want to be that kind of person.. maybe the jealousy will stop! Ad if not, well you could start taking notes from him.

]]> http://www.stopjealousy.com/my-friend-has-three-girlfriends-at-the-same-time-how-do-i-stop-being-jealous/feed/ 5 how to stop jealousy with a flirty boyfriend? http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-to-stop-jealousy-with-a-flirty-boyfriend/ http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-to-stop-jealousy-with-a-flirty-boyfriend/#comments Fri, 13 Aug 2010 01:10:13 +0000 admin http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-to-stop-jealousy-with-a-flirty-boyfriend/ Okay, so my boyfriend is really flirty and I admit sometimes it gets to me! It gets to the point where girls think that he likes them, but he is just a really sweet/nice and flirty guy, what should I do? I’ve talked to him about it before and he just cant help it, thats how he has always been, and I don’t think he needs to change, but how do I stop it from getting to me? And the relationship is now long distance so I feel even worse because I have no idea what he is doing!

Long distance is even trickier and the rules of engagement change. Its easier in a long distance relationship to get jealous (like you are now) but its also easier to stray when you’re not getting enough physical fulfillment (which he may be doing) Note this does not necessarily mean sex or kissing, but the bodily responses of women flirting with him. Speak honestly about it to him, but if he can’t change or keeps on making excuses for it, then you deserve better. Relationships are about respect, and if his behavior is really making you feel uncomfortable or unhappy you should express it honestly and if he can’t accept that and stop leading other girls on (or whatever is going on there), then you need to find someone that will treat you with the respect you deserve.

Especially if its long distance, don’t waste your time on a guy that makes you anxious and worried without any of the added benefits of physical affection which comes with proximity.

]]> http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-to-stop-jealousy-with-a-flirty-boyfriend/feed/ 2 How can i stop being jealous of rich people? http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-can-i-stop-being-jealous-of-rich-people/ http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-can-i-stop-being-jealous-of-rich-people/#comments Wed, 11 Aug 2010 05:23:27 +0000 admin http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-can-i-stop-being-jealous-of-rich-people/ i live in a small town and i dont even have a bedroom i sleep in the living room. I have so much envy of rich people and sometimes wish i could be rich. literally they have huge mansions, luxury cars and live in the best safest communities every single day i dream of becoming rich and cant stop looking at pictures of mansions on the internet. Is it normal to be this way????

envy is part of human’s natural response when he/she sees things he/she doesn’t have; it is normal and good to have the drive to succeed and acquire things, but keep watch lest you are controlled by it. the best thing to do is work hard but still be content with what you have. don’t let envy be your motivation to succeed. remember that there is more to life than mansions and luxury cars.

]]> http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-can-i-stop-being-jealous-of-rich-people/feed/ 19 Is Joe Jealous of Nick’s constant Attention?? (read the description) http://www.stopjealousy.com/is-joe-jealous-of-nicks-constant-attention-read-the-description/ http://www.stopjealousy.com/is-joe-jealous-of-nicks-constant-attention-read-the-description/#comments Wed, 11 Aug 2010 03:14:56 +0000 admin http://www.stopjealousy.com/is-joe-jealous-of-nicks-constant-attention-read-the-description/ Im NOT saying Joe is jealous, thats what somebody called it, and stop like saying stupid stuff like “omg why would u think joe is jealous of nick!” and that stupid wierdo down there, we can arange for sombody to choke you!

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]]> http://www.stopjealousy.com/is-joe-jealous-of-nicks-constant-attention-read-the-description/feed/ 25 How To Control Sexual Jealousy http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-to-control-sexual-jealousy/ http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-to-control-sexual-jealousy/#comments Wed, 11 Aug 2010 03:12:19 +0000 admin http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-to-control-sexual-jealousy/ Expand the description and view the text of the steps for this how-to video.

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With a little self-awareness, you can learn to tame your green-eyed monster.

To complete this How-To you will need:

An honest assessment of your relationship
The courage to change things
Visualization

Step 1: Realize jealousy is normal

Realize that some jealousy in a relationship is perfectly normal. It only becomes destructive when it is an ongoing point of contention.

Step 2: Assess your relationship

Figure out the driving force behind your jealousy. Are you afraid you might lose your partner to someone else? Or are you angry at being disrespected when they flirt with others?

Step 3: Figure out the real problem

If fear of losing your partner is the problem, ask yourself if you’re insecure because you have low self-esteem, or because you feel your partner is not as committed to the relationship as you are.

Tip: If your partner is a flirt, consider that this simply may be their nature. The tipoff? They flirt with everyone — young, old, skinny, fat, attractive, and homely.

Step 4: Work on yourself

If low self-esteem is the problem, work on building yours by using self-help books or working with a therapist.

Tip: Try this visualization technique: The next time you’re feeling jealous, therapists recommend conjuring up a pleasant scene in your mind or recall a happy memory.

Step 5: Reevaluate your relationship

If you come to the conclusion that your anger and jealousy are well founded and rooted in your partner’s disrespect and possible philandering, consider ending your relationship. You deserve a partner that makes you feel loved and treasured, not angry and mistrustful.

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]]> http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-to-control-sexual-jealousy/feed/ 25 I sometimes feel jealous about other people who are better than me? http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-sometimes-feel-jealous-about-other-people-who-are-better-than-me/ http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-sometimes-feel-jealous-about-other-people-who-are-better-than-me/#comments Mon, 09 Aug 2010 14:36:13 +0000 admin http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-sometimes-feel-jealous-about-other-people-who-are-better-than-me/ for instance, people who have a better life than me, I always want to get want others have. Am I a bad hearted person? I know it but I just can’t stop thinking about it. When I see my friends having something new or expensive, I feel envy and wish I would afford to have those things. I even tell lies to my friends, even my very best friend who trust me with all his heart. I always think of myself as a failure. Also, I am always forced to do something I don’t like by my parents. They never understand me enough and I never tell them about my thoughts. I sometimes wish I had been put to an orphange and someone rich and nice might have adopted me and I wouldn’t had have to tell lies to anyone to get what I want or felt jelous about others.

you know what? bullshit!…you aren’t forced to tell lies…you tell them because you want to tell them. You don’t dislike these things about yourself either…if you did, you’d change them…getting jealous over something someone else has is just plain stupid!…if you want it…get off your ass and get out there..work for what you want…stop expecting things to be handed to you…this is life…get used to it…or go without..

]]> http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-sometimes-feel-jealous-about-other-people-who-are-better-than-me/feed/ 11 Is it jealousy or low self-esteem? http://www.stopjealousy.com/is-it-jealousy-or-low-self-esteem/ http://www.stopjealousy.com/is-it-jealousy-or-low-self-esteem/#comments Mon, 09 Aug 2010 14:31:28 +0000 admin http://www.stopjealousy.com/is-it-jealousy-or-low-self-esteem/ Everytime my husband and I go out I see a pretty girl dressed and looking better than me I get mad at my husband. I accuse him of looking at her and go off. He gets mad at me and we argue until I cry. Can this be that I am too jealous or have very low self-esteem? I feel I will loose him to a thinner and prettier girl than me, eventhough he says I am the only one he loves.Please help!!!!

You are just too insecure… Love yourself girl. :)

]]> http://www.stopjealousy.com/is-it-jealousy-or-low-self-esteem/feed/ 24 How do I stop being jealous of my partner????? http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-i-stop-being-jealous-of-my-partner/ http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-i-stop-being-jealous-of-my-partner/#comments Mon, 09 Aug 2010 14:26:49 +0000 admin http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-i-stop-being-jealous-of-my-partner/ I have been with my partner for only 7 months, he is the best man I have ever had in my life! He is very Special to me! Call me insecure but I have been hurt alot in previous relationships! I seem to get jealous at the slightest things! How can I overcome this? I worry that he knows how I feel and that he knows I get jealous, which he does, but nothing seems to bother him! Why am I like this and what can I do to prevent myself from being so jealous???

Of course you can get over it by yourself!! Think the best of all his intentions! KNOW that he loves you and wants to BE with YOU. Think about all of the good, and don’t look on the bad side of things.

It’s not that hard – you just need to WANT to see him in a good light.

You can do anything if you set your mind to it. You certainly don’t need therapists to run your life.

]]> http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-i-stop-being-jealous-of-my-partner/feed/ 5 how do you stop the jealousy? http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-stop-the-jealousy/ http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-stop-the-jealousy/#comments Mon, 09 Aug 2010 14:21:41 +0000 admin http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-you-stop-the-jealousy/ I don’t know how to stop my jealousy. My friend and I have become closer as time goes on but lately I notice that she and this other girl at work laugh and talk a lot. This morning she tells me that she called her earlier to remind her something. It really bothered me, and during break a few of the co-workers and her and the other girl went into the breakroom together. This really bothers me. I know I can’t control her and I don’t want to. but i feel like I’m not interesting anymore and she’s starting to like others instead. Even though she still asks me out for lunch or going other places. We still email each other all the time and talk. but it’s no longer playful flirting, it’s more serious talking like we don’t have to try anymore to impress. Are we getting closer or is she losing interest? How do I stop the jealousy? when I see her on the phone or talking with someone else, i get so jealous it drives me crazy. Help! I don’t want to ruin this friendship. (yes I’m attracted to her).

Jealousy is just an expression of insecurity. First and foremost you need to examine your feelings as they occur. Talk with your friend about it when you’re not in the throes of a full jealousy outbreak. You’ve made the most important step and realized it’s a problem in you and not others.

Look up some sites on polyamory. Jealousy is a big issue with polyamorous people, so they tend to write about how to deal with it. There are a number of good articles and resources on this.

I’ve listed a site that has a lot of good articles, some of them are about dealing with jealousy. If you can’t find any good articles about dealing with jealousy, email me and I’ll see if I can send you more.

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