Emotional Abuse
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Stop Emotional Abuse, You Deserve Better.
We all know about Sexual Abuse. We all know about Physical Abuse. But, we know very little about Emotional Abuse.
Emotional Abuse occurs when one person emotionally and psychologically abuses another person who is in need of sincere affection. This kind of abuse takes many forms…
Your partner Undermines your self-esteem. He/she delivers mixed messages: “I love you” (I hate you.)
It’s like pushing you through a cliff and running down to catch you.
Your partner can tell you the sweetest things and the most hurtful ones at the same time.
Your partner can also humilliate you by ignoring you.
He/she might contact you only when they are bored or have some spare time, or need something specific from you.
Your partner tells you that he “loves” you, or you are special, but he/she needs an open relationship.
Your partner bluffs making you believe he intends to spend time with you, even makes plans that will never happen.
Your partner tells you beautiful things he does not really mean at all, and will compensate your tolerance with small tender gifts.
Emotional abuse also occurs through financial dependency. One partner does not let the other be financially independent.
Or through intellectual and manipulative mind games. Abusers tend to play the victim or they take offense quickly.
They invariably put the blame on others, or on the world, or on their luck, or situation.
They acuse their partners of not understanding them, or not understanding their needs, creating a sense of lack of sensitivity on your part.
Abusers are extremely possessive and jealous. They need to control other people’s lives but will never show it.
They will pretend what you do with your life is non of their business.
Abusers often have several superficial relationships with other people. They escape reality and tend to live in fantasyland.
Abusers may be described as having a dual personality: they can be either charming or exceptionally cruel.
A major characteristic of abusers is their capacity to deceive others. They can be cool, calm, charming and convincing: a true con person.
Most of the time, they also deceive themselves. They are unable or choose not to see reality as is it.
Emotional Abusers do not acknowledge the harm they cause.
Some people abuse others emotionally because that’s what they learned.
They were victims of emotional abuse and neglect themselves.
These abusers can grow out of their abusive pattern and explore healthier ways to relate to others.
Some are aware of what they do and do not intend to change.
But the worse problem about emotional abuse is the fact that many people let others abuse them.
Stop.
Think.
Are you not worth of a healthy relationship?
Are you not worth of sincere love and affection?
Are you not worth of an honest partner?
Don’t let others abuse you.
Turn your back on abuse.
Walk away from abusers.
If you are a victim of emotional abuse, seek help.
You cannot change an abuser, but maybe a professional therapist can.
Quit the game.
Don’t let an emotional abuser put you down.
Some have a hurtful way to create emotional codependency just by telling you exactly the sweet words you need to hear.
Don’t believe their words. Believe their concrete actions.
Does your partner’s words and promises match his/her actions?
Does your partner tell you he/she loves you and you are special but goes on with his life, ignoring you and ignoring your feelings?
You don’t need an abuser in your life.
You deserve someone who will love you and respect you for who you are, not for what they can get from you.
Even if it’s just attention.
Don’t fall for empty promises.
Abusers commit abuse because they know you will always give them another chance.
Don’t do it.
Choose to Love Yourself First.
Duration : 0:6:50
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
Thank you so much …
Thank you so much for this video! Until now, I wasn’t sure if my thoughts and feelings were rational. But that’s what abusers do, isn’t it? They cause you to question yourself. It’s something that grows slowly so that you don’t even notice it.
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
This is a great …
This is a great video…..many of us may not even realize that we are in abusive relationships. We may sense that things are not going well but not really identify these behaviors as abuse. Very eye opening…thanks for posting it
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
I cant find words …
I cant find words for this video…
Choose to Love Yourself First…. so true..
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
I get emotionally …
I get emotionally abused everyday by family and old friends, I get sad all the time
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
Hi,We have …
Hi,We have organized a new meetup group in South Florida
(called South Florida Survivors of Sociopaths ) . We have had a similar
personal experience with misconduct by? a West Palm DCF child abuse investigator who? lied and helped the abuser..If you have have survived past abuse by a Narcissist Personality Disorder man (AKA Sociopath)Please check out our Meetup group .Good luck in your journey of healing!! God Bless You
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
my ex destroyed me, …
my ex destroyed me, made me out to be the abuser in the end, i started to believe it!!! i have lost family and friends, my life! the evil person destroyed me, i still dont know what is real and what isnt, i feel i cant move on!
never let anyone treat you this way! get out while you can!! if anyone is watching and feel this way, save yourself now, you deserve to be happy!
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
Excellent vid!… …
Excellent vid!…and in a nutshell, ” Choose to Love Yourself first”
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
Abusive caregivers/ …
Abusive caregivers/spouses are manipulators – see 3:20 – they isolate you, make you dependant, and abuse. And the relationships repeat themselves. You MUST break the cycle.
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
the key is to love …
the key is to love your self. you have to love yourself before anyone can love you.
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
I have been …
I have been emotionally abused my whole life so thats prpopaply the reason why i didnt reconize immediatly that my bf was abussing me too. i was up ti the point where i was cutting myself. god helped me get through the pain and i want to help people get through this so if anyone needs a listening ear im hear for them. god helped me get through this so now o want to help others. god can get you through any thing if you let him.
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
This video hit home …
This video hit home to me cause it was me. I cried and cried the first time watching it cause I felt the pain. After watching it a few times…well tomorrow the children and I are going to a shelter, the arrangements have been made. What got me was the end…it is what they learned, I don’t want my children to learn this as love.
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
This video hit home …
This video hit home to me cause it was me. I cried and cried the first time watching it cause I felt the pain. After watching it a few times…well tomorrow the children and I are going to a shelter, the arrangements have been made. What got me was the end…it is what they learned, I don’t want my children to learn this as love.
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
I was emotionally …
I was emotionally abused by adults when I was 14-15
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
This is my 2nd day …
This is my 2nd day coming out from the emotional abuseI had been thru for the past 15 months.
He always belittle me, such words like I’am a worthless human being, a PIG, a COW, kind of abuses that I never heard in my whole life.
This is not what I need in life. ENOUGH OF HIM.
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
this twitter …
this twitter channel is about abuse & self improvement:
twitter . com/ EmotionalAbuseC
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
@begood4000 Great …
@begood4000 Great reply and advice, thanks a lot!
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
@begood4000 Great …
@begood4000 Great reply and advice, thanks a lot!
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
The key is to learn …
The key is to learn the warning signs and not cut off friends and family. Speak to someone that will listen and care. This can be difficult as emotional abusers are great liars and skilled at turning your support systems against you. The con others into thinking they’re perfect. So when you cry out for help you won’t be believed. Keep your friends of family in the loop from day one so this won’t happen. men who are abused dott comm
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
The key is to learn …
The key is to learn the warning signs and not cut off friends and family. Speak to someone that will listen and care. This can be difficult as emotional abusers are great liars and skilled at turning your support systems against you. The con others into thinking they’re perfect. So when you cry out for help you won’t be believed. Keep your friends of family in the loop from day one so this won’t happen. men who are abused dott comm
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
For me, it was 10 …
For me, it was 10 years of abuse by my father. It’s difficult as a child having that exposure, especially at a young age. It really screws you up and your relationships, and destroys you emotionally. I went through this whole stage of repressing everything in middle and high school. During my teenage years, it caught on to me and I had horrific breakdowns. It’s still a healing process.
Till to this day, I cringe every time I see or hear parents yelling in front or at their children.
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
God thank you for …
God thank you for saved my life, getting close to you is healling all my wounds, all my pain. I know you have the right one for me somewhere and I will wait as you told me. God bless
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
I was 8 years in …
I was 8 years in pain, God knows how much I suffered, I was so close to end my life but God was there for me always, Ladys!!! no matter what happen he will be there for us, Pray with all your heart and find forgiveness for that person who really hurt you and walk away, we are princesses of God and we deserve better,.
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
Nice
Nice
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
@MiSsTiLa21 Psh you …
@MiSsTiLa21 Psh you sound like a TROLL.. and LEARN HOW TO SPELL please. “knowbody” “ima” “DNT” “your”
I got annoyed by your troll ass… later fool.
July 19th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
@NostalgicDays88
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@NostalgicDays88
no because what if your not lying, if ima be straight up with you all I have to say is “I DNT BELIEVE YOU”, man your dumb as hell…..dnt write back anymore because your getting anoying, knowbody cares and I dnt care.Bye.