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i have an unhealthy jealousy?
ok please dont take this as a joke i am looking for serious answers.
i have a severe unhealthy jealousy about almost everything; big things like he is still not over his ex and hes mine all the way to the littlest things like she like blue and that’s my favorite color she can’t have it. that type of stuff goes through my brain like a possession issue and how its mine and nobody else’s. i dont know what i can do to stop this, see a therapist? or like are there any ideas you could tell me because literally if my friends are together without me i will be jealous that she can’t have my friend she is mine. i want to be a doctor and if i hear someone else does i will say no its mine you cant in my head &i want to stop these possessive jealous thoughts so how would i achieve this goal? please help thank you 
You need to do some inner soul-searching. The only thing you own is you. You’ve got to get over this possessiveness, no one likes it and it will push people away from you. It is unhealthy for you, but also unhealthy for your friends to be your friend if you are possessive of them. I think you should see a counselor. They could help you view things in a different light.
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How can i Stop thinking about my Boyfriends Ex?!?
I have been with my Boyfriend for 6 years & recently I am driving myself crazy thinking about his Ex, I knew about her before & it never bother me but lately it has, I also just had a Baby & was thinking it could be from Postpartum Depression??
My Boyfriend never cheated on me once, he has bought me a car, cellphone & is always with me. Hes the Best!
But he was with his Ex right before me & they were only together for about 3 months at most, but I keep thinking about it & comparing myself to her, even though I dont even know what she looked like, he tells me she wasnt pretty & he says she didnt even mean anything to him, he just wanted to get with her cause she was "known" for being easy & she was Bi & he wanted to do a 3-some. It makes me angry & I dwell on it cause she was no good, she had 3 kids with 2 different guys, her kids dont even live with her, she moved in with my Boyfriend after knowing him for only 1 day, she was Hoe & BiSexual who promised him a 3-some (never happened), she also got prego by my Boyfriend but he made her get an Abortion! It makes me Mad & I keep thinking about it cause if he knew she was "Easy" & only wanted her for a 3-some/sex then why let her move in? why take the chance of gettin her prego? i Dont understand it! He says he felt bad for her so he let her move in & he says he was young then (he was 24 then) & thought he was untouchable.
I know I shouldnt care cause it was like 6 1/2 years ago & its the past but it drives me crazyyyy! how can i STOP these thoughts?!
I keep thinking he thinks of her or wants to go back to her, Ive gained some weight since havin my baby & that plays a BIG part in this, she was Bi & would do allll kinds of sexual things & I wont cause Im chubbier & more reserved. It makes me jealous in a way I cant be like her & act like that. someone Help Please?!
Calm yourself down…She is an ex for a reason…remind yourself of that…You say he is great, so remind yourself of that as well. You are just feeling insecure because of the Postpartum depression… He comes home to you doesn’t he, he has a baby with YOU, he chose you! Feel happy about the life you have together and the fact that you have a wonderful family together. If your depression is really bothering you, talk to someone, exercise or even see your doctor.
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Stop hating on me ur just jealous
Ur just jealous because I’m all that and ur not so keep hating on me write u stupid worthless comments because u don’t phase me ur ur all losers so all the haters ur jealous because I’m perfect in every way peace out
Duration : 0:2:28
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How do I get over jealousy and obsessive thoughts?
I fell in love with my best friend.I didn’t want to tell her,but in coversation it came out.At first she said she felt the same way,but after thinking about it, she said she could only love me as a friend.She said her heart is with another, a guy who is currently serving with the marines.Well, she has met a new guy to hang out with,and the time that used to be spent with me is now being spent with him.And to top it off, it seems she may have feelings for him.This is causing roller coaster emotions for me.We had it out a few days ago,and I told her to please understand but I had to end our friendship.I need to heal. Anyways, now I find myself jealous of her new guy.I was jealous of the marine as well.She used to spend almost every day with me.Now that our friendship ended,I don’t see herat all.I find myself wondering what she’s doing,if she’s hooking up, having a good time,etc.somuch that it’s affecting my life.I find myself having these obsessive thoughts.How do I stop these thoughts?
What you are going through is understandable especially when you are in love with someone…You should just let her go and move on, you will find someone better…Hang out with friends take on a new hobby anything so that you can keep your mind occupied and off of her…
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sam brown- STOP – karaoke
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lyrics:
All that I have is all that you’ve given me
did you never worry that I’d come to depend on you
I gave you all the love I had in me
now I find you’ve lied and I can’t believe it’s true
Wrapped in her arms I see you across the street
and I can’t help but wonder if she knows what’s going on
you talk of love but you don’t know how it feels
when you realise that you’re not the only one
Oh you’d better stop before you tear me all apart
you’d better stop before you go and break my heart
ooh you’d better stop
Time after time I’ve tried to walk away
but it’s not that easy when your soul is torn in two
so I just resign myself to it every day
now all I can do is to leave it up to you
Oh you’d better stop before you tear me all apart
you’d better stop before you go and break my heart
ooh you’d better stop
Stop if love me
(you will remember)
now’s the time to be sorry
(that day forever)
I won’t believe that you’d walk out on me
Oh you’d better stop before you tear me all apart
you’d better stop before you go and break my heart
ooh you’d better stop
for other karaoke videos:
the beatles -And I love her
sam brown- STOP
WHITNEY HOUSTON saving all my love for you
SOUNDGARDEN- black hole sun
JHON LENNON – jealous guy
abba- thank you for the music
christina aguilera- beautiful
britney spears- oops i did it again
STEVIE wonder- sir duke
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nz_ryKVyzOw&feature=channel
Duration : 0:5:0
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I’m a lesbian, and I have a jealous obsession with this straight male?
I’m a high-school female, who is a lesbian as of current (I only say this because there is a possibility of transsexualism within me, and I’m very confused at this point).
There is this guy at my school, who is a few years older than I. I do not fantasize nor wish to be with him in any way, but he is a very good-looking young man, he’s smart, he’s about 16, he’s cool, he’s funny, he’s Caucasian, he’s athletic, he’s happy, he’s a junior, and he’s got a LOT of girls on his arm. Everyone likes him. He’s got tons of friends and he’s got a job at the coolest store at the mall, that I’ve always wanted.
On the other hand, I’m the complete opposite of him. I’m depressed as well as withholding a few other emotional/personality disorders, I’m falling behind, I’m gay, I’m ugly, I’m non-Caucasian, I’m a freshman (this year will never end), I’m a young kid, I have an odd and unattractive body type, I’m not athletic, I loathe my body (why did I have to be made a GIRL?), I’m bullied, I haven’t a friend in the world, I dread my home life as much as school, amongst many other issues.
I sit here and obsessively envy this male for everything he has. I don’t know. I just constantly sit here and think about him, think about how good his life must be, and how I would kill to have one-tenth of his attributes. I practically break down every time I see him in anger. Sometimes, I’ll dream of being in his body. At other times, I feel like maiming the boy.
I have no idea what to do about this. I feel this way about every straight, white, good-looking, well-off guy I see, but never as much as I do him. I hate how I’m always so JEALOUS.
Sometimes, I’ll think, "Well, he must have some bad aspects of his life; maybe I should be careful of what I wish for." But these thoughts are drowned out by my obsession.
I’ve been on break, and I’ve been laying here like a lump for the past two weeks. I’m terrified of going back to school for many reasons. I’ve been purposely depriving myself of nutrition and sunlight. I feel too ugly to go anywhere, and I refuse to leave the house, let alone my bed. I’d really prefer death at this point. These past two weeks have gone by so slowly; I feel as though time has stopped.
But I just want to know a good mindset one of you guys can expose to me so I stop being jealous of this guy, and so I stop thinking about him so much.
You need to remember things aren’t always what they seem. Everyone is messed up in one way or another, just because someone seems happy or has the "perfect life" from the outside does not mean its true. Everyone is unhappy in some way and everyone has some major thing wrong in there lives. I was friends with a guy for over a year and had no idea he had major depression and was suicidal alot of the time, one of my other friends was raped for years and we had no idea. Who knows maybe one of his parents is an alcoholic or he has an unstable household or maybe he’s secretly depressed himself. From my experience everyone is a little messed up, its horrible but its an equalizer.
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Relationship Advice : How to Stop Arguing
One way to stop arguing is by referring to something that both people enjoyed together or by asking questions. Discover how to stop arguing by forgetting compromise in favor of better memories with tips from the author of several dating books in this free video on relationship advice.
Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn
Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com
Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has been a nationwide talk show host on Sun Radio Network and IRN.com, and he has a Ph.D. in behavioral psychology.
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz
Duration : 0:1:47
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Feeling jealous of friend’s wedding because my partner’s ‘different’ and we do not ‘LOOK’ the ‘American dream?
I have found the love of my life. My best friend of many years has become my romantic partner and we are planning a future together.
He is everything I would want in a husband.
The ‘problem’ is that he suffered from restricted growth syndrome and basically stopped growing in his childhood. He had puberty and everything and is a normal adult male apart from his height which is Four foot something.
Now my friend had her ‘fairytale wedding’ with the merangue dress and looking lovely. Her husband is this tall prince charming looking guy. They make a lovely couple. I was happy for her but that was mixed with some jealousy. I know that you can not judge a relationship from the outside and just because they look great does not mean everything is perfect BUT am I a bad person for wanting that. When me & my guy are out together as a couple we get odd looks and pointing, and I know wedding photos will be something very different.
How can I get over this stupid thing? And how to stop being jealous of other people’s good fortune and how to focus on your own.
Before I get flamed, look I KNOW this is a shallow way to think, and in my rational thoughts I do not THINK like this but this is how I feel.
You cannot help feelings but can deal with your actions.
Diamonds do not come as big as paving stones
Nor does expensive perfume come in milk bottles.
0ne of my dearest friends stands at 4foot 4inches and she is a BIG person inside.
If some other people look at you askance well (in the immortal words of Compo. a UK Tv comedy character) "Chuff ‘em"
If you lived in the UK I would even conduct the wedding for you.
(Or have ny aforementioned friend do it!!)
Send me a slice of wediing cake!!
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How can I get my mother to stop playing favorites?
It has been going on for some time. She attended all of my brother’s extracurricular activities in high school. I don’t remember her going to all of mine. My brother got his braces, a car, and many of his college expenses paid for by my mom. I had to live at home, take on student loans, and work two jobs to earn my degree. My freaking teeth are still crooked now that I have student loans to pay. I see the same kind of treatment with our respective wives. She is best friends with his wife. Last year she threw a big party for her birthday, while my wife did not even get a card. My wife is not a bad person by any stretch of the imagination. Being with her has given me tons more confidence, has made me less selfish, and overall made me a nicer guy. I am worried that when we have kids, they will be ignored while my nieces get spoiled rotten by Grandma. Maybe I am just jealous. Any thoughts?
Hi Jshamel:
Congradulations on surviving your mom! And you paid your own way. I am happy for you.
I don’t think things are going to change. I don’t know why, but sometimes people identify with their children and favour them. Perhaps you are most like your mom and you are independent and she sees this and doesn’t baby you, spoil you. Actually I see that you came out ahead. You are open, thoughtful, and hurt too. Thats okay that you see this, and when you have a family you won’t be favouring anyone for sure.
She gave you two gifts. Independence, and insightfulness.
Move along and love the heck out of your honey. You are amazing to have come out so whole…..forgive, and forget, and love.
luv Ava
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my boyfriend suddenly jealous and doesnt believe what i say? i cant stop crying today, please can you help?
a couple of weeks ago, we were having a disscusion on gordon ramsy affair, and we mentioned past relationships.
after this conversation he went quiet and has had severe jelousy and paranoid thoughts ever since.
he keeps thinking i have someone else, and looks at every minor detail hoping to find some evidence that im cheating. last night he asked me why his bath towel smelt strange and that it wasnt his smell- he then kept asking me if i was cheating. we have been so happy up until this point, and we have been together one year and live together.
i have never cheated on him, and tell him i would never hurt him. i dont know how to show him he can trust me and that i am innocent.
please can you advice me? today i feel so low that i cant hardly speak. i dont want my boyfriend to think this about me. i dont want to leave, i want to work through it. but how? what do i say to him?
he loves me. its because he is afraid of being hurt.
you don’t need to prove that you are innocent. he should trust you or leave. why should you live like this. he’s the one with the problem.
someone said that women have a built in need to nurture their men the way they nurture their children. this causes them to take it on themselves to take guys with issues under their wings and suffering all their rubbish, instead of running for the hills and finding a guy who is going to support them and make them feel good about themselves.
So tell him. it’s his problem not yours.
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