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Is Joe Jealous of Nick’s constant Attention?? (read the description)

Im NOT saying Joe is jealous, thats what somebody called it, and stop like saying stupid stuff like “omg why would u think joe is jealous of nick!” and that stupid wierdo down there, we can arange for sombody to choke you!

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I sometimes feel jealous about other people who are better than me?

for instance, people who have a better life than me, I always want to get want others have. Am I a bad hearted person? I know it but I just can’t stop thinking about it. When I see my friends having something new or expensive, I feel envy and wish I would afford to have those things. I even tell lies to my friends, even my very best friend who trust me with all his heart. I always think of myself as a failure. Also, I am always forced to do something I don’t like by my parents. They never understand me enough and I never tell them about my thoughts. I sometimes wish I had been put to an orphange and someone rich and nice might have adopted me and I wouldn’t had have to tell lies to anyone to get what I want or felt jelous about others.

you know what? bullshit!…you aren’t forced to tell lies…you tell them because you want to tell them. You don’t dislike these things about yourself either…if you did, you’d change them…getting jealous over something someone else has is just plain stupid!…if you want it…get off your ass and get out there..work for what you want…stop expecting things to be handed to you…this is life…get used to it…or go without..

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My jealousy is making me fight with him..I WANT TO STOP!!?

i don’t know how..i don’t know why these few days i’m getting jealous coz usually he pays me more attention and wants me around him always..but these few days it’s like he wants me as well but not as before..so i get jealous of whatever he’s doing and imagine he might be interested in someone else

so i automaticly get annoyed from him over simple things..
he gets jealous too but i know how to control it..but how do i stop my negative thoughts?!!

I love him i know he loves me and it hurts him when i fight with him (he even asked me today..y are u behaving like this? he thinks im making excuses to break up with him) and hurts me when i think of him being less caring..i’m confident so why is this happening?
jeez..the symptoms to it doesn’t match me whatso-ever..i sai it happened these few days only

Jealousy is caused by insecurity. It just sounds like he got comfortable with you is all. That’s actually a good thing. Don’t expect fireworks all the time like in the beginning. Give the poor guy a break. You’re being paranoid and insecure. Most men don’t like insecure women. Stop playing games with him and spend some time apart. Concentrate on everything else but him for a while. Spend time with your other friends and don’t constantly talk about him. Tell him you need some time to yourself to get yourself together. Absence will help your thoughts become clear. Agree to avoid contact for 2 weeks. Set a date at the end of that time and get together to see if you both want the same things. If not, move on. Life is too short to waste on someone who isn’t as willing as you are to work on the relationship.

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I hate being so jealous………..?

I’ve always been an extremely jealous girl when it comes to being in a relationship. I hate the way jealousy makes me feel and it always tends to ruin everything.
I can’t stop having bad thoughts, I’m continuously thinking that the guy I’m with is either a liar or a cheat. I’ve been this way with all of my boyfriends and it’s hurting me very much.
I’m a very insecure person and when I feel jealous my mind just goes crazy. I even have had nightmares about this.
I’ve tried to take control of this problem but I just feels like it’s a losing battle.
I was wondering if maybe someone else felt this way and was able to fix it somehow, if so please give me some advice. I don’t want jealousy to take over my life.

you sound like a women to me there all like that. but if you dont put your trust in the guy your with and you think hes going to lie about everything then is it really worth being in a relationship if theres no trust? but its your life and you only get one. so you decide is it better to be sad and alone or try trusting the man your with. and whats the worst that could happen you end up alone. but you would have been alone any ways if you never trusted him

sorry if i babbled if you can understand what i mean then i hope it helps good luck

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Brandy – Never Say Never + Lyrics

Never Say Never (1998)

Lyrics:

who would ever thought a guy
would want a girl like me
who would ever thought that i
would fall so easily
who would ever thought that we
would finally come to be
i guess they don’t know
how much you mean to me
who would ever thought that they
would have some words to say
we’ll go on anyway
It’s alright – it’s okay
take what ever comes our way
together we will stay
i got three words to say
never say never

i can’t believe they’d stop our happiness
by trying to pull us down with such a mess
why can’t they let us live just like the rest
and keep us out of all this crazy madness
now when they talk i think it’s just a shame
that all they do is sit and think my name
when all that i do is mainly
sit and think about my baby and me

now baby they can’t believe that
you and me are together
that’s why they should have never
never said never
there were times when we thought that
you and me could never be together
that’s why we should have never
never said never

now there’s a lot of talkin’ goin’ ’round
about the way me and you gettin’ down
what are they jealous are they hatin’ me
i guess they all have their own Ph.Ds
i wish that they would just stop sweatin’ me
stop tryin’ to get the best of me
no matter what they say baby
we gotta move on cause we’re gonna be happy

we didn’t let the thoughts that we had
we didn’t let the words that they said
keep us from the love we now have
never say never
simply for me to see when
never would’ve been never if allowed
now that we are together
never say never

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Question for all the guys do you get Mad or jealous if your girlfriend has alot of Male friends??

My Girlfriend Has alot of guy friends, more guy friends then Girlfriends actually, and to be honest I kinda don’t like it. I sometimes get Jealous or insecure about the matter or sometimes thoughts come in my head that probably shouldn’t, I was wondering is it natural to get mad and feel a little jealousy about that, and if it isn’t what can I do to stop feeling this way and stop with these thoughts?

ok let me give u my opinion as a girl who has a lot of male friends. the thing is you have nothing to worry about. i hang around with guys not because i like the attention or because they’re flirty, but because they are so much better than female friends. women are mean and judgmental. i can always count on my friends… they don’t gossip about me, don’t tell fake rumors (like some female friends did). and besides… they can kick serious a*s if somebody hurts me :P
nut think about this: there is a reason why she’s ur gf and not theirs. so don t be jealous cause you have no ground and it will make her angry. love her and be happy :D

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I think I need mental help for my jealous thoughts..?

My jealousy is getting out of control. I’ve always been a jealous person and it greatly impacts my relationships and I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE THIS ONE, because it’s the best I’ve ever had.

My bf is away on a study abroad trip and EVERYTHING makes me jealous — him being near a girl, seeing pictures of him with girls, girls trying to talk to him…then it goes from jealousy to automatically creating scenarios in my head where the girl tries to flirt with him and lead him to cheat on me. I hate it. I hate myself for thinking this way. PLEASE, how can I stop?? I don’t want to be like this anymore. it’s like a disease. It gets in the way of my real feelings for him. It makes me feel like I’m not in love anymore..

And fyi, this man is the most amazing man on the planet and when I think logically I know he would never cheat on me. He’s never given me a reason to distrust either.

You just need to think that your rights are the same as his rights, you need to put yourself in his shoes.

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I need advice on letting go.?

I have been in a relationship with my now wife for 2 years, doesn’t seem long but I fell hard for her. We got married about 4 months ago and now she tells me that she doesn’t love me the way I should be loved. She has told me this before we got married a couple of times, but I got so emotional that she just stuck it out. She also has a 4 year old daughter who I love as my own. She promises me that there is not another man involved. I pretty sure that I pushed her away because of my excessive jealousy. I would always be pestering her about the men at work and questioning her and that is what pushed her to the limits. What really broke the camels back is when I read some of her private facebook messages to her (girl) friends about how she was falling out of love with me and she thinks she made a mistake. I also checked her cell phone bill and questioned her about some numbers she had called, which turned out to be nothing. She also has commitment problems from her childhood and the way she was raised and me being the jealous person I am did not help that at all. Now she wants a divorce and I love her so much that I am having a hard time letting go. She has now moved out and has moved in with her grandmother, and all I do is think about who she’s talking to or who’s over there. I have asked her about counseling and she says she’s too far gone and a counselor can not make you love someone. I need help and advice on letting go and a way to stop these stupid jealous thoughts that I have, so I can have a normal relationship in the future. I knew there was nothing going on with her and anyone else, but in my head I would have the worst case scenero just keep playing over and over and it drove me to questioning her on everything she did. Thanks in advance.

You are too controlling and short of frisking her, all of this snooping was totally unwarranted. No one likes to be treated as a prisoner. You really need to learn to trust, calm down and give her some space. I think you may benefit from some individual counseling and let your wife know that you recognize that you have a problem you are willing to work on. Good luck.

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I keep having bad thoughts of my boyfriend cheating…?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months now, but we’ve been best friends for 4 years. He’s always been a good friend to me, the best friend I’ve ever had. We both love each other very much, and have plans to marry and stuff in the future. (Though we’re not engaged or anything, we just talk about it.)

I have pretty bad anxiety and lately I’ve been having these thoughts that hurt me so much. I trust him with all my heart, but I keep imagining him cheating or leaving me or looking at other women. I’ve become so obsessed with it that even when I’m watching a movie alone and see a female who I think looks better than me, I start feeling as self-conscious and bad as if he were there watching it with me. And when we do watch movies that focus sexually on a female, showing her topless and stuff, I get SO incredibly jealous and self-conscious and just feel terrible.

I have told him about this, as I tell him everything, and he assures me that he’s not looking at other women and that he loves me and only me, that he will never cheat on me and stuff like that. I believe him, but I can’t stop these thoughts! There’s this girl who gives him a ride home from work and it worries me so much but I know he won’t do anything with her. I just get so worried and self-conscious and I really don’t know what to do. I even have bad dreams of him cheating on me and leaving me.

Why am I obsessing over this so much? Everything was fine until the past month. He’s given me absolutely NO reason to believe he’d cheat or leave me or anything. So why am I thinking this way? He hates that I do. Could it be because I’ve been cheated on by a guy I used to love previously? It should be different because my boyfriend has been my best friend for years, always there for me, and I trust him. What advice can you give to ease my troubled mind?

Your BF sounds nice.

Having a GF who is insecure, jealous, and clingy will drive any normal guy away. You probably need to talk to a counselor. Sorry!

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Fall For You [Sequel to Don't Stop Believin'][Part 16]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOFcmaHtsuY&feature=channel_page

sorry it’s sooooo late. I kept deleting everything, cuz i hated my ideas. im going to bed at 12:00 am on a school night, you better be happy with this episode!
haha,
JOE AND EMILY WEREN’T BACK TOGETHER, EVEN THOUGH HE WAS KISSING HER AND CALLING HER BABY. THEY WERE LIKE FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS, YEAH, FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS, THAT’S GOOD ENOUGH.LOL. HENRIE IS GETTING A LITTLE JEALOUS. TONY, THAT LITTLE HORNDOG. JOE AND DEMI, WHAT WAS UP WITH THAT?? OH WELL, I’LL EXPLAIN LATER[yawn] GOODNIGHT(:
comment(:
pretty please(:
and enjoy(:

*i don’t own anything used

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