Is my boyfriend jealous or am I just not seeing it?

People are saying he is jealous but I honestly don’t see it… he doesn’t tell me who to hang with or that I can’t do things.

I am in a relationship with my a Russian man. Things are OK. He likes to ask about my day and of course I will tell him. Last night he snuck away from work to call me and we were having an ok gentle conversation until he asked what I did today, and I said “I just got back. I went out for a bit.” he suddenly changes his voice to soft and gentle to this somewhat aggressive concerned voice, it was a dramatic change? he asked “With who?” I asked “what?” he said “with who? who did you go out with?” I told him I just spent time with my sisters shopping and eating. And then he said “Ok.”

He does this all the time. Any time I mention I was out or just got back he suddenly grows concerned and asks me who I was with and if men were there if so how Many and what were there names and if they had girlfriends or not. He asked me this especially when I went on a trip for 3 days. And when I got back he wanted to know if anyone flirted with me and what my response was to them. Can someone explain it? He doesn’t tell me what to do. So I don’t get why people are saying this is jealous behavior.

Why i am jealous of my sister’s boyfriend?

I am 20 years old guy.My sister and i am very close as we had only each other from start besided mom.She is 25 and she has got boyfriend and now i dont see her much.I am feeling very jealous and i sometime try to gain her attention.Like calling her too many times and she is really pissed off.
I dont know why i am acting like this.What should i do?

why am I so jealous of my sister?

my sisters boyfriend came to the house and asked my parents if he can marry my sister I don’t have a decent boyfriend what do I do to get over the jealousy that I am going through I am going through mixed emotions about my sister and everything that I have been going through.

why am i jealous of my sister?

ok so we went to turkey back in june and someone who worked in the hotel she got on well with. they kept in contact and things and she’s just got back from a trip to turkey to see him. yesterday he posted on Facebook “don’t leave me alone without you”

now i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 1 yr and almost a month. we are happy but he’s struggling with money and things and i have to sit down with him and go through things.

this doesn’t help me feel jealous of my sister and i don’t know why although at the time i thought he was cute i was taken and wouldn’t have done anything, besides he’s not my type

Why am I jealous of pregnant women?

I‘ve been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years and for the last 2 years every time i see a pregnant woman or a young baby i am so jealous, i get angry because they have a baby and i haven’t. In the first year of me being with my boyfriend his 2 sister in laws had babies but i wasn’t bothered but a year after my friend fell pregnant and i couldn’t talk to her and now we don’t speak but not just because of the baby and now my boyfriends sister in law is now pregnant and when he told me today i got angry again and now i am so jealous but i don’t understand why. I watch pregnancy, birth and baby programmes but i don’t get jealous over them but what ever i watch it doesn’t put me off having one. I just want one but my boyfriend doesn’t yet. Ever month i hope i dont come on my period. Is there something wrong with me? Please help!

Awkward questions to ask a guy?

Me and this guy are asking questions back and forth, I need some questions like how many times do you masturbate, but he’s a virgin so nothing like how many times have you had sex.

Should i ask my friends older brother to be like my “brother” and answer my guy questions?

I dont have an older brother and i am going through puberty, i have gone through it sense 10 and i am 12 now. My dad hasn’t talked to me about it and we unfortunately dont have a close relationship together…All my guy friends are to in mature about it if i ask them questions or i just haven’t found the right person to ask. My friends brother always calls me little bro and i asked him as kinda the beginning to me question the other day “do you consider us brothers?” and he said “hell yes!” and so now i am wondering should i go to him about my questions and concerns or one of my friends? I have always wanted an older brother too, and he thinks of me as his little brother…I really wish i had some guy to talk to, other than my dad, it is just awkward with him, anything really so i turned to my friends. I have asked my friends but they dont act mature and i think that they will tease me about it… should i go to him? He is like 16 and i am 12, we are both boys and all my friends i have asked are guys too.
What should I say to my friend that is the brother of the guy i wanna ask?
What should I say to my friend that is the brother of the guy i wanna ask?

I want to ask this guy I was seeing an awkward question. How do I word it?!?

I went on a couple dates with this guy who seemed really interested in me. He was asking me to hang out, initiating cuddling, texting me, asking me on dates and we kissed a few times.

Out of the blue he hasn’t texted/called me in a few days. I figured he’s not interested but I have one of his shirts and I wanted to return it. At the same time I want to ask him what happened. Can anyone give advice on what I should text him? Here’s my criteria:
I want to be straightforward about it but not weird or desperate sounding
I want him to know I thought we were heading down a dating path
I maybe want to joke around a little in the text so its not as awkward.

I was thinking of texting him in a day or two saying “I haven’t heard from you this week, I’m kind of surprised, I thought you liked me lol” or something along those lines. Any other suggestions? We’re in college if that helps any.

How do i get him to stop asking me such awkward questions?

Ok theres this guy and he said he loves me and i love him to and we talk all the time. And hes really nice but sometimes he starts to ask me questions like what colour underwear you wearing? and do u fingure? etc.. How do i get him 2 stop without sounding like an idiot?

Awkward Question I got asked (GUY AND GIRLS)?

Okay me and my boyfriend were talking and he said “so are you a B cup, right?” talking about a bra size…I am NOT a B cup. I take that as offensive. I don’t like talking about personal things. He replied after i didn’t reply and he said I don’t know why I asked that. I still haven’t replied. What would you say?

UPDATE:
he just sent me a message saying my name with a question mark behind it wondering if I was still there. I said sorry I was busy and acted like I never got the message but for in the future I want to know what to say.
After that update i have to add one thing. He said this:

You never answered my question.

He wants an answer and I need one…help! NO HE WILL NOT GET THE TRUTH! (not to sound rude that’s just WAY personal to me…I don’t even know what size I am. I have had the same hand me down bras for 3-4 years and they are too small.)
I told him this..I saw it on another answer:

slap slap… thats very offensive, you DO NOT ever ask a girl that question, of all the questions you ask, DEFINITELY NOT that one

Is it okay if your boyfriend thinks other girls are pretty?

So my boyfriend thinks Chachi, the girl from i.aM.mE is pretty. I got pissed and he nearly broke up with me. He thinks it’s ‘okay’ if i think other guys are handsome. Am i taking this the wrong way, or does he not care about me? he’s not cheating on me or anything, this is just, like, a summer romance.

is it ok that my boyfriend thinks other girls are pretty?

my bf just recently started school and i was reading his comments on myspace to one of his friends in another state and he was telling her about his first day and he stated “75% of the girls in my french class are are supermodels” should I be worried? or is that normal. i mean i go to school and think “oh wow hes hot” but idk is it the same thing? or is it something i should worry or ask about when I ask him about school

My boyfriend thinks other girls are prettier than I am. Is that a problem.?

I admit it bothers me a lot. But I know he’s faithful. And I know I’m not the prettiest girl in the world. I’m not THAT naïve. But I would like to be the most beautiful for someone. Especially my boyfriend!!! Is this wrong of me to think? How do I deal with the fact that my boy think other girls are prettier?

My boyfriend calls other girls pretty?

So… I have a boyfriend that I’ve been dating for over a year, but he calls other girls (a lot actually) pretty, and always says things like, “I see you around school a lot, you are pretty.”

Should I get angry about that? or do you think I’m just overreacting?

How do I deal with the fact that my boyfriend thinks other girls are more beautiful?

I know I’m not the prettiest girl in the world. I’m not THAT naïve. But I would like to be the most beautiful for someone. Especially my boyfriend!!! Is this wrong of me to think? How do I deal with the fact that my boy think other girls are prettier?

how do you stop jealousy?

i get jealous over my ex’s i think look how happy they are then i see a girl who’s pretty and im instantly jealous of her how do i stop being this way ?x

how to stop jealousy?

I get really jelous so fast
even if i don’t like the person who is making me jealous (not purposely) i just find him attractive

why do i get so jealous?
how can i stop it?

dont answer this unless you actually know HOW to stop it

How do you stop being clingy and jealous?

Well, I can be very clingy over my boyfriend (we have been dating a year). He says it gets very annoying and I understand and have been trying to give him some slack. Every time he chooses to hang with his friends I tell him to have a great time but… I feel very upset, almost jealous :/ How can I stop the jealousy and clingyness?!

How does jealousy work?

When I have money to buy or to pay my bills that is where my friend becomes jealous and says “you still have money to pay for it.” To me that is a jealousy words. He should be saying ‘it is good that you still have money to pay your bills and buy things.’

How does his jealousy affect my brain and its thinking. How do I stop his jealousy and its affect on my brain?

How can you stop your jealousy with your perfect bestfriend?

I have this friend….bestfriend and she’s perfect.
She’s pretty,[developed]
Good at sports, singing, dancing, break dancing, acting, chello, piano, violin, drums, drawling, ceramics.
She a good speaker, not shy, friendly, always trying new things and ends up being good at it without really trying, determined, courageous, very cool, has a lot friends. And the worst part is she’s a good friend and doesn’t have a good family so when your jealous your also guilty…my old friends even like her more than me now. I’m never able to be myself because she’s good at everything I do and like. And she always steals the spotlight, what should do? and I feel like I can’t tell her, because i’ve kinda told her in a way but she just starts yelling and says that I could have her life because she says my life is better becasue I actually have a family that loves me.

Help me stop feeling jealous/intimidated by other pretty girls?

I’m a 19 female girl. There is one trait about myself that I really don’t like and that is the fact that I get jealous being around other pretty girls. Idk why. It’s just that whenever I see a girl that looks really nice and who’s face is pretty, I feel bad about myself or get this weird feeling come over me. I instantly feel like either 1) oh great a pretty chick. She’s gonna steal the attention from me from all the guys ONCE again (b/c I feel like this always tends to happen to me) or 2) I like her image/look. How come I don’t have a look that is similar to hers? I know it sounds crazy but I just feel uncomfortable. And the thing is, I’m friends with alot of pretty girls and people call me “very pretty” and “gorgeous” and all this crap alot..but I guess I don’t feel it. Or it seems like to me when I’m by myslf I get it alot-but as soon as someone decent looking comes along, I am quickly overshadowed or ignored.

But in all honesty, I do feel like I’m attactive…I just always feel like everywhere I turn theres a girl who has this more interesting or exotic look about herself than me. Also, a lot of them don’t really wear alot of makeup( I mean, I dont wear alot, but I wear foundation and stuff) and guys still hit on them. WHich makes me wonder if I’m really all that great looking wo/ makeup myself. WHich once again in turn, makes me feel about myself bc my face isn’t naturally ‘stunning’ or whatever. I guess maybe I feel this way b/c I was always cute wen I was younger but ppl never really broadcasted it alott. But my looks really grew in once I reached junior-high to high school. High school I discovered I was actually pretty (kids and even some teachers used to tell me…at first I was like really? Sadly, I didnt evem know, or think I was until h.s. I was just used to being ignored or being the ‘cute’ or decent looking girl with the frizzy pigtails. Anyways, I wanna get over this intimidation of other girls and/or feeling like I always want to be the best looking or stand out the most. What do you guys think I should? How can I overcome this? P.s should I change my image some more? I finally did that last summer and I gotta say, I didnt really feel as intimidated by other pretty girls if they were around-I felt like we both looked good and the attention from guys would be/should be equal. So should I just always dress up to hinder these feelings I get? Ugh, I just feel like i m too wrapped up in gettting guys’ attention and my looks for my age. Please let me know wat u guys think I should do.
* I usually use my personality to get guys. Ever since I was young. I’ve always had a funny cool crazy personality and alot of guys liked that and would end up liking me, So I use that to my advantage. But unfortunately with some guys, before they get to know a girl they go by her exterior. SO what ta do?
* I usually use my personality to get guys. Ever since I was young. I’ve always had a funny cool crazy personality and alot of guys liked that and would end up liking me, So I use that to my advantage. But unfortunately with some guys, before they get to know a girl they go by her exterior. SO what ta do?

how to stop myself from getting jealous of other girls around my boyfriend?

my boyfriend loves me, i love him, but everytime another girl bear hugs him or flirts with him, i can’t help but feel jealous. Whenever guys try flirt with me i shut them down straight away so he won’t get upset. I know he’d never cheat on me but i just want to know how to stop feeling like this ><

how to stop feeling jealous?

i cant help but find myself staring at other girls or pictures of other girls feeling jealous about something.. their hair, their eyelashes, etc.

idk what to do but it wastes my time and i dnt like doing it =[

but idk how to not worry about but idk why i even do anywayy …

bc i have all i could ever want, meaning like the best boyfriend ever, who doesnt care what other ppl look like and.. well such as thatt, u dont need to know all the info but yeah!

helpp?

How normal is it to feel jealous of other girls?

I hate it when my boyfriend looks or flirts with other girls who are ‘his type’. How can I stop myself from feeling like this? Any tips? Otherwise I’m just going to push him away completely.

how do i stop my self feeling jealous when she talk to other guys ???

i feel jealous every time i see this girl talking to other guys what should i do ?

i need some serious advice of not to feel jealous when she talks to other guys ? help me please ….

Would you be mad if your boyfriend checked out another girl’s boobs?

Like right in front of you? My firend’s bf did that and I thought it was funny, he was doing it so obviously…the girl didn’t notice thought but it was obvious to us. My friend picked up a fight with him over it and I think she should chill…its what guys do…and he was just checking her out..like hellooooo its not a sin! My own bf is too sober to do something of the sort but even if he did I doubt I’d make a big deal over it, hes a guy, if he sees boobs…he’s gonna look…what the hell I wouldn’t really care, for my bf it would be a bit out of character since he is the shy/serious type..so maybe I’d be like…okkk whats gotten into him, but my friend’s bf is a goofball and he’s always telling us dirty jokes…so this is really expected of him…know what I mean?

Either way, I don’t really think its a big deal if your bf is checking out another woman, its totally natural, what do you think?

My boyfriend checks another girls in internet.. is that normal???

Last night, we were in the room, he didnt notice i was checking what he was doing, and he was watching like those quick videos, of girls in bikini, girls working out, etc… he was doing that with me in the room cuz he didnt find it bad.. but i fetl horrible, why does he need to see another girls… Please girls> your boyfriends or husbands do the same?.. have you find them with porn or sexy videos, what do you think??.. and guys do you do that about checking videos even when you have a girl besides thats your partner?? tell me please if is normal cuz i dont know how to react, last night i was so dissapointed!!

What would you do if you found your boyfriend glancing at another girl?

My boyfriend sort of glanced at another girl and that made me really mad. Am I right to be mad? Isn’t glancing considered “checking out” too?

What would you do if your sister told you that she saw your boyfriend with another girl in his car?

My sister called me and told me that the other day she saw my boyfriend in the car with another girl and that she looked right in his face. Normally, I would just ask and let him state his case, but this isnt the first time I had to question his trustworthiness. My sister is a lesbian and besides she’s my sister so I have no reason to doubt her. He has done a lot of things and I still took him back. From finding phone numbers, to checking his voicemail and finding a message from a girl saying that “I thought I could get up with you tonight, but I guess I can’t. His latest thing besides the car situation is that one day I called him from my oldest sisters phone and he didnt pick up on my voice, so I went on to ask him if he had a girlfriend just to see what he was going to say. He said he did and we ended the phone conversation. A couple days later he texted her phone and she played along with him and he was ready to take her out and get to know her and everything. I know you are probably wondering why I’m still with him. I do love him and each time he had some pretty believable answers, but now I’m just at the end of my rope. I know he is going to have an excuse or some type of lie about this car, but I really don’t want to hear it. What could he say to get out of this one. I was thinking that he will probably be like “I just gave her a ride” or something like that, but we already have a rocky relationship and I feel like if he was serious about the relationship he wouldnt do anything to jeopardize it. What should I do?

what does in mean when you dream that your boyfriend is with another girl?

I’VE HAD THREE DREAMS LATELY ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND BEING WITH ANOTHER GIRL THATS NOT ME. EVERYTIME I HAVE THE DREAM ITS ALWAYS THE SAME GIRL. IN MY DREAM I INVITE HIM TO GO PLACES BUT HE SAYS NO BECAUSE HE HAS SOMETHING ELSE TO DO BUT WHEN I GO TO THE PLACES I INVITE HIM I SEE HIM WITH THE GIRL KISSING HIM. I HAD ANOTHER DREAM THAT I CALLED HIM TO SEE HOW HE WAS DOING AND IT TURNED OUT THAT HIS COUSIN WAS CUSING ME OUT AND SO WAS MY BOYFRIEND I GUESS BECAUSE HE WAS DRUNK OR SOMETHING THEY WERE CUSING AT ME SAYING THAT I SHOULDNT CALL HIM SINCE HES NOT MY BOYFRIEND AND I SHOULDNT BE CHECKING UP ON HIM LIKE IF HES MY HUSBUND. TO GIVE SOME SPACE WHAT DOES THAT MEAN, THAT IM NOT GOOD FOR HIS FAMILY OR WHAT!

what are good questions for the “question game”?

playing the question game with a girl i like and were running out of questions

I’m making a boy vs girl trivia game, any ideas for questions?

I need some questions/answers to put in my trivia game, what kinds of questions should I put? I’m pretty much asking the boys questions that most girls know the answers to, and girls questions that most boys would know the answers to.

Why do people get pissed at girl gamer questions?

Why do people get pissed when you ask if there is any girls that play games on xbox live? It’s a pretty reasonable question since most of the time I go through a whole day playing MW2 and never see any girls playing or talking for that whole day.

What are some good questions for the game 20 questions with a girl?

good questions for the question game?

what r good questions for the question game, u know where u just ask random questions back and forth, im going back and forth with a girl, and im running out of good questions, all i can think of is perverted ones and i dont want to say them

My boyfriend spends WAY more time with his friends than he does with me?

We have been dating 7 months.

I see him every weekday at school,but we never hang out on weekends anymore. He is always busy with his friends I will ask if he wants to hang out and he will tell me he is hanging with his friends. Today, I asked if he could hang out today or tomorrow and he said he was hanging out with his friend Jake both today and tomorrow. It really bothers me that he spends more time with his friends than me. I have told him how I feel and nothing changes… What do I do???

Is it normal for me to feel jealous when my bf hangs out with his friends more than me?

We are both 18 and have recently graduated from high school. We have known each other for about 9 months but only officially dating for 3. His family moved 45 minutes away (which is also where he will be going to college in the fall) so we don’t get to see each other everyday like we were use to. When he comes here its usually just for the afternoon/ night. I get jealous when he splits the time between me and his guys. I will be leaving for college soon and I wont be seeing him as often. How can I make him understand how I feel? I get jealous when my time is up with him and he has to go home or go out with the guys. He spends soo much time with them.

Why do brothers hang out more with his friends than his sister?

now that his friend moved down here from gains ville he can go see him when ever. i feel like he doesnt want to play with me, but he‘d rather go and have fun with his friend. whenever he goes out with them he pays for their food and not mines he‘s in college and im in my senior yr. Can someone tell me why he‘s acting like this?

My friend thinks we are MORE THAN friends and won’t let me hang out with his friend because he is jealous.?

Well, I’m really good friends with this guy named Joe. His best friend
s name is John. John is into ALL the stuff I’m into and we r just like, game buds. But one day, I see Joe kicking, tripping, and just letting his jealousy and anger out on John. Joe thinks we John and I AND Joe and I are MORE than friends. John said, ” I want you two to figure this out and until you do, I can’t talk to either of you.” So, I practically lost my best friend and I tried to talk to Joe but he just got really mad. I don’t want things to be awkward between us but he is giving me no other choice. I’m sorry if this is long, but yeah. What should I do to get Joe and John not angry and things not awkward. P.S. Joe refuses to even look at me when I hang out with John.

How do i get my husband to stay home more often rather than hanging out with his friends all the time?

I have been married 6 years now and have been friends with my husband for over 11 years. For the first 4 years all he wanted to do was be with me. Then he started going out with his friend ocassionally, then often, then almost every night and day.I found out he was having an affair for over a year and confronted him. He just ignored me and allowed me to move out not caring what i did. He then went to be with her not wanting me to know. This happened in our house. I finally decide to let him go although wanting to save the marriage as we had a child now 3. He said he wanted to try and i moved back. I don’t know if i can forgive him. I think about them all the time. Now he still doesnt want to stay home. Even in a storm. I feel so alone.

Please help! Does he like me?

Alright I’m gonna give you names so this isn’t to complicated
My Crush- Hunter
His twin sister/my friend- Chandler
Chandler’s friend- Olivia
Hunter’s date/Chandlers good friend-Lauren
Hunter and I’s friend-Nick
Ok, I’ve like this guy hunter all year, and he is in all my classes, along with this guy Nick. Hunter and I are moderately flirty, and pretty good friends. People always tell us that we would make a really cute couple. over christmas break, he thought I liked Nick, and I told him that I didn’t. Then he started guessing, but he never guessed himself. Then, after my birthday party (ice skating) when we held hands around the rink, he wouldn’t text me for the longest time. Then, after about 2 weeks of him not talking to me, I got a text from his sister saying what do you think of hunter? and I said of he’s a nice kid why do you ask? she said well, I was wondering if you liked him? I said Idk why? then she told me that he was thinking of me, and I said ohh what does he think? She said I dont know, and I said oh haha I guess you can’t read his mind like most twins. Then, they called me, but I didnt answer. Then I got a text from her phone saying “Ayye Chandler and Olivia are lying”. Eventually I answered their call, and his sister had nothing to do with the stuff about hunter, just her friend. I really wanted to ask him to sadies, and I told some people that, Nick found out from someone else the day that hunter got asked by another girl. I decided to tell Nick everything, and I told him that I liked Hunter. Nick was brutally honest, and told me that it was best for me to get over him. I told Chandler that I was going to ask her brother to sadies (after he got asked) and she told me that she was sorry and she wished she knew, otherwise she would have stopped it. I asked another good friend of mine, while hunter was away, and when I texted him and told him that, he stopped replying to me after like a long conversation before then. I recently spent the night at their house, and Hunter and I were pretty flirty (We were wrestling! Naughty I know ). We text occassionally, and he always leans on my desk at school, and I can cheer him up pretty easily , and he texts me after his basketball games (the ones I can’t go to) to tell me the score, and how well he did. but I don’t know if he likes me, because sometimes he’ll kind of jokingly, but mean say stuff like Go away and shut up and stuff, when I’m not even talking. Does he like me? oh and sorry about the super long question!
oh, and hunter hates to dance, but at formal (when we had other dates) he danced with me, before his date.

Okay…long question but I need help!?

So here goes…
I have had a crush on a boy at school for a while.I went to see his band play at the art show.And since then my mom,who took me,has been teasing me about it.She knows for sure I like him because one of my friends told her so.And it’s getting really annoying.Whenever I tell here nothing’s going on,and that he’ll never like me back (we’re actually pretty good friends so there might be a small chance.But it’s very small.) and she doesn’t listen.I’m a pretty easy to read person.And whenever she mentions it I turn red.Because I’m special like that ;D.I’ve just barely been able to cope until Saturday.That was when we had a party and one of her friends who hasn’t seen me for the past 12 years came.I was kind of in charge of herding the little ones around,because I’m not old enough to get off of “baby-sitting duty”.But I could hear snippets of the adult’s conversation (tut tut you naughty girl,eavesdropping like that!Oh well…) and my mom kept mentioning my many “boyfriends” (I’ve only got,like,three or four GUY friends.) and once the other kids went home me and my little sis just chilled in our rooms.The guy who hadn’t seen me for 12 years was the last person at the party and my mom was telling him about everything.And she was exaggerating.And I haven’t talked to her about that because she’ll just tease me more.That’s what drove me over the edge.So now I’ve hatched up this little scheme to pull her thing she’s got going down once and for all.But I’m not sure it’ll work.I want to text the guy she’s talking about explaining the situation and ask him to tell her nothing’s going on and nothing’s going to happen.I just don’t know how,and I don’t know if it’ll work.Any parents out there or people who want to help who would give me your opinion?Thanks so much if you got this far reading my question and please answer!!!

We got in our first serious fight. Can someone please give me their opinion.?

I have been seeing this guy for 2.5 months now. We have agreed that we are dating each other and not sleeping with anyone else. We have a great time together and we spend a LOT of time together. He is not ready for a “label” like boyfriend. He was in a 6 yr realtionship and got out of it 7 months ago. That is fine with me, I don’t need a label yet. But we spend sometimes 5 days together. I am currently unemployed so I have a lot of time on my hands and he is always over at my place. Sometimes for a week straight. He has food at my place, shower gel, toothbrush etc. I love spending time with him we get a long great. Sometimes i get annoyed because I’m used to having time to myself, but all in all it is fun. We had a problem the other night though. He is kind of a jealous person, always who’s that texting you etc…which is fine, i kind of like it. Sometimes he gets my phone when a text goes off to see who it is, and i don’t care because i have nothing to hide. And he does it in front of me. So the other night we were drunk and he asked me to plug his phone in for him and i did, and i noticed he had a text message. So i checked it and read it out loud. Only to realize that is was from this girl that he used to work with. It was very flirty and sexual, and then i go and read and she had been texting him all night long. She sent him a picture as well.

Now in the beginning of our relationship he had asked me one night when he was drunk again, if i really liked him. I said yes, of course i do. And then he proceeded to tell me that this girl that used to be on his route for work (he delivers stuff) has been texting him hard core lately. She’s only 17, he’s 24, he would never hook up with her, but he doesn’t want to be mean to her and tell her to leave him alone. which is bullshit because he just should tell her that. I understand liking the feeling of being wanted, but if you are dating someone, you should have enough respect to stop it. Anyways, he wasn’t texting anything naughty back, but he was responding, she was saying she wanted to give him a blowjob etc. I have every reason to be angry! right? and he was like why were you looking through my phone anyways, and i was like you look through my phone, you alaways ask me who i’m talking to etc. except you’ll never find anything like that in my phone. He continued to lie in bed and then i got a wave of rage and threw his bag out of my room and told him to get out, he didn’t at first and finally after yelling enough he did. he told me to bring him to his car which was 1/2 hr away and i said no. he ended up sleeping on the couch. in the morning he said bring me to my car. i said we need to talk, he said there’s nothign to talk about. i said there is, pretty much all i got out of him was i don’t need a wife or girlfriend i don’t need to deal with this bullshit. i said if you don’t want to talk about this then obviously you don’t care about me at all. in the car i said so is this it? you want it to end just like this? its a simple question, yes or no? because i don’t, but whatever. He didn’t say anything the car ride was silent,when we got there he got his stuff out of my car and left without saying a word. that was around 1030am. Around 5 i got a text message saying “hello”. and he had poked me on facebook. at 6 i wrote back to him “hello” and he has not responded since.

We were supposed to go to a show together on tuesday and have been looking forward to it for a month. I know he really does like me, he just hates being wrong and is scared of admitting shit. He wanted me to meet his family, he came up to my alumni school with me and met all my friends. He has told me he is scared of the feelings he has. I want to make this work…….i don’t know if i should wait it out, or if i should respond to him? I still wanna go to the show with him….my friends think if i text him i’m being week. He already denied talking to me, i feel like he will wanna talk eventually…becaus ehe’ll realize he fucked up. I wanna text him ” let me know if you ever decide to grow up and wanna talk about this” or “meet me here at 800 tomorrow night, if you aren’t there by 815 im’ leaving and this is over“………….any ideas what i should do? should i wait, should i call, should i just do nothing..? what should i do about the show? mention it to him, or not?
what should i do? just wait for him, and if he doesn’t come through give up?
his ex girlfriend of 6 years is abroad for 3 more months. and she is seeing someone else. this other girl that was texting him is just some stupid little girl and i really don’t think they have hooked up.
i gave in and called at 6pm today he is usually done work..but not always.. he didn’t answer i didn’t leave a voice mail. i guess if i don’t hear from him that’s it……….whatever..

Make it or break it? We got in a fight, i don’t know what to do..?

We got in our first serious fight. Can someone please give me their opinion.?
I have been seeing this guy for 2.5 months now. We have agreed that we are dating each other and not sleeping with anyone else. We have a great time together and we spend a LOT of time together. He is not ready for a “label” like boyfriend. He was in a 6 yr realtionship and got out of it 7 months ago. That is fine with me, I don’t need a label yet. But we spend sometimes 5 days together. I am currently unemployed so I have a lot of time on my hands and he is always over at my place. Sometimes for a week straight. He has food at my place, shower gel, toothbrush etc. I love spending time with him we get a long great. Sometimes i get annoyed because I’m used to having time to myself, but all in all it is fun. We had a problem the other night though. He is kind of a jealous person, always who’s that texting you etc…which is fine, i kind of like it. Sometimes he gets my phone when a text goes off to see who it is, and i don’t care because i have nothing to hide. And he does it in front of me. So the other night we were drunk and he asked me to plug his phone in for him and i did, and i noticed he had a text message. So i checked it and read it out loud. Only to realize that is was from this girl that he used to work with. It was very flirty and sexual, and then i go and read and she had been texting him all night long. She sent him a picture as well.

Now in the beginning of our relationship he had asked me one night when he was drunk again, if i really liked him. I said yes, of course i do. And then he proceeded to tell me that this girl that used to be on his route for work (he delivers stuff) has been texting him hard core lately. She’s only 17, he’s 24, he would never hook up with her, but he doesn’t want to be mean to her and tell her to leave him alone. which is bullshit because he just should tell her that. I understand liking the feeling of being wanted, but if you are dating someone, you should have enough respect to stop it. Anyways, he wasn’t texting anything naughty back, but he was responding, she was saying she wanted to give him a ******* etc. I have every reason to be angry! right? and he was like why were you looking through my phone anyways, and i was like you look through my phone, you alaways ask me who i’m talking to etc. except you’ll never find anything like that in my phone. He continued to lie in bed and then i got a wave of rage and threw his bag out of my room and told him to get out, he didn’t at first and finally after yelling enough he did. he told me to bring him to his car which was 1/2 hr away and i said no. he ended up sleeping on the couch. in the morning he said bring me to my car. i said we need to talk, he said there’s nothign to talk about. i said there is, pretty much all i got out of him was i don’t need a wife or girlfriend i don’t need to deal with this bullshit. i said if you don’t want to talk about this then obviously you don’t care about me at all. in the car i said so is this it? you want it to end just like this? its a simple question, yes or no? because i don’t, but whatever. He didn’t say anything the car ride was silent,when we got there he got his stuff out of my car and left without saying a word. that was around 1030am. Around 5 i got a text message saying “hello”. and he had poked me on facebook. at 6 i wrote back to him “hello” and he has not responded since.

We were supposed to go to a show together on tuesday and have been looking forward to it for a month. I know he really does like me, he just hates being wrong and is scared of admitting ****. He wanted me to meet his family, he came up to my alumni school with me and met all my friends. He has told me he is scared of the feelings he has. I want to make this work…….i don’t know if i should wait it out, or if i should respond to him? I still wanna go to the show with him….my friends think if i text him i’m being weak. He didn’t want to talk this morninng, maybe because it was too soon…after a few days i’m sure he will……because he’ll realize he messed up. why did he text me hello and nothing else, probably wanted to see if i’d write more..

I wanna text him ” let me know if you ever decide to grow up and wanna talk about this” but he already knows the door is open for discussion…

or “meet me here at 800 tomorrow night, if you aren’t there by 815 im’ leaving and this is over“………….

any ideas what i should do?

should i wait, should i call, should i just do nothing..?
what should i do about the show? mention it to him, or not?

…just wait for him, and if he doesn’t come through give up? we both have facebook…and his status said he is feeling destructive. so i changed mine to saying feeling destructed. he hasn’t logged on since i changed it though. and he poked me.
if we do work things out should i lay some ground rules.?? and what?

his ex girlfriend of 6 years is abr
his ex gf of 6 years is abroad. for three more months. and in a relationship.. so i don’t have to worry about that, and we have already discussed that picture. he doesn’t even wanna talk to her, she cheated on him,

How do you protect someone from making bad decisions?

Ok, here’s the short version of the story. My wife and I are separated and will probably be getting a divorce, but as for now we are still legally married. Well a couple weeks back I caught my wife planning on meeting an “old friend” of hers at a hotel for sex. Things were discussed and according to her I ruined her plans for that to happen by discovering it, so it didn’t end up happening (I don’t totally believe her in this). Well, the other guy and her had apparently been talking and texting quite a bit, but then he started getting really mean and told her that she was getting too clingy. He then told her several times to leave her alone, using explicit language to try to make his point. Well, she admitted all this to me one night when she was obviously upset over him “dumping” her. The reason she was so upset is that she had sent him some naughty pics of herself and asked him to please delete them. He replied that he would, but then almost immediately after texting her that, he texted her again and said that he was keeping one so that if she ever tried to contact the girl he’s currently with he would plaster it all over the net. I ended up speaking to the guy and he assured me that he had already deleted the pics but told her he didn’t to try to protect his own a$$. Anyway, both of them were pissed at each other and vowed never to speak/text/e-mail/whatever each other again. Now here’s the thing. I’m pretty much over her and our relationship, but I do still care about her as a person and even a friend. I know quite a bit about this other guy and I know that if she tried to start a relationship with him it would end up pretty much how it just did. The problem is that it has been about 4 or 5 days since she stated that she didn’t want to ever have contact with him again, and that if he texted/called/etc her she would just ignore it. However, I am positive she is texting this guy again. The problem is that if she starts to let herself get involved again I am positive that she is going to end up hurt yet again, and this time more badly since it would be twice by the same P.O.S. I mean this guy has a criminal record, is unemployed, is an alcoholic, does drugs, has 2 kids from a previous girlfriend, and is “working things out” with his current girlfriend who he has a baby with. So like my question in the title states, How can I protect her from making another stupid mistake? It’s too soon for her to start a relationship (even her therapist has stated that), and she is going to just end up making herself miserable. What’s more is that she’s giving up on any possibility of repairing our marriage, which if I do say so myself isn’t completely horrible. Materially she has a beautiful home in a great neighborhood, a nice car to drive, and more nice clothes/jewelry/things than you could shake a stick at. Plus we have 2 beautiful children, a sweet little dog, and she has me, a husband that would’ve done anything to make a happy life for her. Anyway, I know this is long, but trust me it’s the short version. Any advice is much appreciated. Thank you.

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what should i do my friends boyfriend cheats on her but she ditches me to hang out with him?

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Is it ok to like my best friends boyfriend ?

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Should I choose hanging out with my boyfriend over my friends?

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