You can overcome and stop your feelings of
jealousy
Jealousy can appear in many forms in life. From being slightly jealous
of your friends new car to the full blown green eyed monster when you
see a partner getting attention from a rival.
The chances are that if you are looking to overcome jealous feelings or
trying to find ways to stop it then you would have found this article.
As I myself have experienced jealous feelings throughout my life I have
always had difficulty in understanding why they were there in the first
place.
Unfortunately they were mixed in with a whole load of other dark
emotions.
Basically I guess I never thought I was worthy of having a relationship
and on that basis my internal voice would try to make me feel bad if a
girl came on the scene.
Although I cannot wave a magic wand to be able to stop jealousy in one
article, I hope that maybe you won’t feel as alone as I did sometimes
going through it.
If you realise that you do get jealous then you are already on the first
step of trying to reduce its power over you. Although it is difficult to
stop jealousy quickly, you can make changes.
I see many people who are extremely jealous but it doesn’t even register
in their thought process. This can result in losing one relationship
after another as they just push their partner away.
Another type of person may realise that they get jealous or insecure
feelings and try to avoid relationships all together.
If this is you, I can totally relate to that.
Through out my twenties I drifted from this one night stand to another.
The couple of times I tried to have a relationship, they ended in
complete disaster… all due to me.
I never realised but if you go into a relationship thinking that they will
run off with someone else or you are not good enough, it will cause
problems.
It will cause issues even if you do not accuse your partner of unfounded
affairs. This is because the infidelity has normally happened…
IN YOUR IMAGINATION
FIRST
I can’t count the times I have cried myself to sleep over thoughts of
things happening that were just not real. There is only so long you can
hide these feelings for before you have to cut yourself off emotionally
to protect yourself.
Unfortunately, this normally means that you are single again proving the
internal (but false) truth that you cannot have a relationship.
Well although I wouldn’t say that I am fully cured but I can get to
sleep at night even if my girlfriend is out with the girls.
How did I do this?
I read many books and listened to loads of tapes on how to stop jealousy.
However you do not have to do all the work that I did. I found these
fantastic, ebooks which will give you the boost that you have been
looking for.
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All the best